There's our answer ladies.

anxious-american · 2021-09-19T02:42:58+00:00

THE TRUTH BEHIND THIS ONE

Once when I was a teenager, for my mother's birthday, I asked a bunch of people who knew her to give me a couple of compliments about her, so I could compile them on a word document and give it to her (her love language is words of affirmation). Everyone said such kind words except for my dad, who only complimented her on what she did for him... Coincidentally, he's also a LVM and overall bad husband.

My ex once told me he didn't have female friends... Coincidentally, he was also an abusive NVM.

"Coincidentally."

tomaito_tomarto · 2021-09-19T04:14:49+00:00

I'm sad that up to half of the world's population sees me as a tool to be used and not as a person. That unless I can offer them some kind of purpose, that they think I am of no use and should be treated with hostility.

I'm also sad that this belief isn't wrong... because if the guy quoted above was just a minority... then men everywhere would be replying to him and calling out his misogynistic views about women.. but they never do.

It's nOt aLl MeN except where are the men confronting the men with these views? They don't. Where are the men highlighting womens' contributions to society beyond what their vagina can provide? There are none, or very few. If the good men just don't like to be vocal about it, where are the womens' stories about men in their life who stood up to others facing blatant hostility and discrimination? They barely exist.

So come on, scrotes. If it's really NoT aLl MeN then it's time you guys start replying to guys like the above about why it's not okay to say and feel things like that. Show us how it's not all men. Else maybe it really is all men.

Julia374 · 2021-09-19T02:05:31+00:00

Maybe it’s just me but I really don’t feel like we’re missing out on anything with the “can’t be friends with women” crowd.

ussr_ftw · 2021-09-19T08:12:25+00:00

I wish men were misogynistic they way women are misandrist:

Dislike the opposite sex because of solid evidence and experiences, and try to stay away from them as much as possible. If men were misogynist like that, it would be acceptable.

CrazyPaine · 2021-09-19T09:30:52+00:00

Wow, I gotten messages on how this is sexist, derailing the whole conversation, how this is man hating garage, I got a message from Reddit Care Message. Y'all that bothered by this image but you won't address your own issues. By the way, to the lurkers die fucking mad, ladies report these lurking scrotes. Hit scrotes will holler and boy are they are hollering right now.

ComprehensiveAmoeba9 · 2021-09-19T02:36:33+00:00

I’ve met men who don’t have female friends or invite any women in the friend group out to hang with them unless they are attracted to them and want to sleep with them. Have you noticed it’s almost always women who make the plans in the group inviting everybody? These men will make plans with their boys in a heartbeat but if you reject their sexual advances they don’t even see you as a friend or human to them anymore. All they do is take from women with nothing to give in return. Vet male friends like you vet dates, don’t allow them your time or energy if they are LV.

FDS-GFY · 2021-09-19T02:08:06+00:00

When they say the quiet part out loud.

PicoPicoMio · 2021-09-19T02:19:02+00:00

Men barely see women as human. They show more love,care and affection to their male friends.

misandryisnotreal · 2021-09-19T02:54:46+00:00

This is one of the best explanations that I’ve ever seen.

Cynscretic · 2021-09-19T05:40:09+00:00

And if you like them and are loyal to them, it's seen as another pathetic display of oestrogen and biologically inferior testosterone production. Your weakness is that you care. And they cannot abide any weakness.

shutup201 · 2021-09-19T05:10:52+00:00

Truth!!!

Mcccy · 2021-09-19T07:48:50+00:00

He literally compared us to ketchup huh.

Hhjjuuy · 2021-09-19T06:34:56+00:00

The only lie is these misogynists saying they like sex.

Sallou9 · 2021-09-19T18:34:28+00:00

I say it all the time. Men dont like women.

I keep playing this experiment with myself because its so interesting.

Take a random man in your life, strike up a conversation.

Ask him to list his favourite authors. They will all be men.

Ask him to name his favourite fimmakers. Same.Ask him about his favourite music. Will be mostly men.

Etc. Its so fascinating. By and large they dont like or respect women. It sucks but its true. I only read books by women these days. Conscious deliberate choice. A male friend seemed shocked, and implyed that would seriously limit what I could read. I got him to list what he reads and it was all male authors or male stories.I said "you only read men but dont feel you are limiting yourself. But im limiting myself by only reading women? You are positioning men as human and women as niche special interest."

(By the way, try this ladies. Go for 3 months only consuming media made by or about women. No Nolan movies with 95% male casts and 1 female love interest for example.

Your brain starts seeing things different. Female becomes the default and male the other. Its WONDERFUL.

Ironsculpture · 2021-09-19T15:47:52+00:00

Men act like this when they are unlovable but are also useless. Men need us regardless of their financial situation, because they're inherently incomplete creatures.

Women don't need men once they're financially independent and emotionally healed, they barely desire them.

bubblegumsparkles · 2021-09-19T18:15:58+00:00

I love it when men tell on themselves, keep the obvious depravity coming so I know the kind of man to avoid at all costs and call out.

ALysistrataType · 2021-09-19T22:16:03+00:00

Girl this thread just popped up on my feed and someone screen shorted a quote by Marilyn Frye. And sure enough they did what she said they'd do.

Title	There's our answer ladies.
Author	CrazyPaine
Upvotes	1561
Comments	41
Date	September 19, 2021 1:56 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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