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[–]fim_de_semanaFDS Apprentice415 points416 points417 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
I like to say that, if guys are so inferior they can’t control themselves at the sight of a miniskirt, they shouldn’t be allowed outside without a minder.
[–]NovemberinthechairFDS Apprentice173 points174 points175 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
They need a curfew.
[–]DJSparksalotPickmeisha™️92 points93 points94 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link
Has anyone called the humane society to see if they can set up a T.N.R. program in areas densely populated with feral colonies? Such as frat houses, or neighborhoods with a high number of reports of cat calling and harassment.
[–]metal_cloudsFDS Apprentice15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😂😂😂
[–]IWannaBeAnArchitectFDS Newbie1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
This is the future feminists want!
[–]DJSparksalotPickmeisha™️1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's better for the overall health of the colony. If you simply put down the pack leaders more will take their place. This keeping the packss intact helps the colony degrade slowly enough to avoid a major disruption to the ecosystem.
[–]Littlebunny080FDS Newbie11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Lmaooo I’m loving all these ideas! But really that’s interesting and need to be done ASAP
[–]mshourglasssFDS Disciple84 points85 points86 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Omg is it just me but when I’m out alone in public and I see a man, I look to see if he’s walking with a woman. and if he is, I’m instantly more relaxed because I know the chances of him harassing me if he’s with a woman is like 0%.
When they are alone or in packs of themselves they are rabid. A woman’s presence is enough to keep their depravity in check enough for me to quickly pass without fear of harassment.
[–]ms_monquisFDS Disciple16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Just wanna throw some cold water in here and remind that there’s a long list of serial perpetrators who use a female partner to lower the defenses of targeted women.
Rare, definitely rare, but the presence of a woman or even children isn’t entirely protective.
[–]mshourglasssFDS Disciple6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Well said and valid point!
[–]Moonmask999FDS Newbie271 points272 points273 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Yeah, you don't see lesbians or bi people cat calling or hear stories about lesbians raping women. In fact, I hear from my bi friends that it's hard to know whether women are lesbian or bi because they're so subtle when flirting!
[–]onemoredaydreamFDS Newbie107 points108 points109 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Hahahaha, it's true.
It's also why having gay spaces is important, and why having gay events are important. It's hard enough getting up the courage to hit on a woman... it feels even harder to do that, knowing that most people aren't even gay to begin with.
[–]soaring_potatoFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's also because some straight women can be pretty touchy and huggy etc. So it's subtle flirting combined with "is she just being nice." Makes it so it is literally a stereotype.
Combine that with not wanting to blatantly flirt as much as men do, because that shit can feel really creepy and aggressive. And finding someone gets difficult for girls.
[–]22leafcloverFDS Newbie243 points244 points245 points 5 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link
Pfft my fully covered headscarf and all muslim friends get hit on by muslim men all the time....It ain't the clothes. And even by non-muslim men....
Some comments my friends have told me:
"Oooo I wonder what you're hiding under there"
"Are you sexy under there?"
"Are you a virgin under there?"
EDIT: This comment is getting a lot of attention so here's more crap that has happened...
One of my fully covered muslim friends got her hijab yanked off by a man in public. Police report and everything. What some people don't know is that muslim women will use pins/a second wrap underneath to secure their headscarves in place, so yanking one off can be quite painful.
Another one was being emotionally manipulated online by her "boyfriend" who only wanted to date "muslim girls" because they were "purer" than non muslim girls...He was talking to 5 other girls...They were both 19. -_-
One girl was married only to so they could have sex, he divorced her after he took her virginity. She said she fell into what the muslim community call a "muta marriage", a thing created by creeps who only want to have sex with virgins, but still want to do it "under God" so they get married, so it's not sex outside of marriage, and divorce after. Some pickmes fall into this idea and even agree to it before hand, some don't even know what their potential husbands are thinking.
While speaking to the "lead sister" of the muslim sisters meet up, one was told "women have urges so get married as soon as you can". She felt pressured to and did. 3 months into it he wanted to take her back to Syria to live with his family and he would come back to america to work. Yeah, she dipped.
(This "lead sister" is well respected in their community. She is super kind and I even met her, she's not doing this to harm girls, she genuinely BELIEVES this.)
One was filmed during sex without her consent, she later found the video on her then shared laptop. He had covered the green light on his apple computer so she couldn't see it was recording. They were watching a movie so she didn't even think anything of it. She found it because she was looking for a picture of them together to put as their desktop background. The "marriage" carried on for 2 more years. The final straw for her was him cheating and recording the other girls (without them knowing illegal af and disgusting) in their bed while she was at work. I went with her to clear her things form their place and we burnt the laptop in the middle of a dirt road. He never even texted/called when he noticed she was gone.
This was told to me by 4 of my muslim girl friends. They have all since left the religion. (2 born into it, 2 converts)
Lesson from these stories: Just because someone is outwardly religious, doesn't mean they're moral. Just because someone is religious, doesn't mean they're moral. This applies to all religions!!! Just because you got married in a holy matrimony with both families present and you were showered in gifts and the wedding was amazing, doesn't mean he loves you. You only knows a person loves you when they consistently support you and encourage you to achieve your dreams, and you don't have a single red flag to second guess it.
[–]hellau1234FDS Newbie113 points114 points115 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
That’s disgusting
[–]sharpbehindFDS Newbie57 points58 points59 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Barf.
[–]redviolettaFDS Newbie59 points60 points61 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link
This is so relatable. I was fully covered and some guys had the audacity to say, "I bet you have nice rack." "A girl is sexier when they try to cover themselves." "I can't sleep thinking how you would look like when you're naked." Screw you, screw you.
[–]laserkatzeFDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
So sad to think about, that men made it a tradition to victim-blame women into covering themselves and hiding from men - and by hiding I mean when you’re not in your home or have a male person with you, you‘re not hiding properly and invite men to sexualize you and judge you because they see your existence as too sexual.
The mere existence of a female person makes some men lose their mind.
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie110 points111 points112 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link
As a bisexual woman, I laugh at the notion that males (especially young males in schools and teachers- looking at you school dress codes) cAnT cOnTrOL themselves. Yes the fuck they can.
And I specifically chose the gym I go to because it’s the only one in my area without a dress code, because yes, males should control themselves and I should wear comfortable workout clothes.
[–]littleredpartydress_FDS Newbie63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I wore shorts on a school trip to Europe and was pulled aside by the female teachers and told the way I was dressing was creating an uncomfortable time for the male chaperones. Like sorry are you saying that me as a 15 year old girl is responsible because some of those 45 year old men can’t control their boners.
Also the shorts were literally appropriate and I’m not even sugarcoating it my ass wasn’t even close to showing
[–]microfatcat10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
My friend worked at a holiday centre and was told that her provocative dress sense was causing issues. (Were talking skirts, makeup. Wtf)
[–]flowers4uFDS Newbie35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link
Umm excuse me, most gyms have a dress code? Say what?
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie52 points53 points54 points 5 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link
Girl omg it’s so crazy - in my area which is in the stupid ass Bible Belt, most gyms around here have a dress code of no crop tops, no bras showing, no short shorts. Like no, I have a specific need for my clothing to be body-conforming when I workout and males can just go jerk eachother off.
So I usually hide out in the empty yoga room and/or the dark and empty gym theater 🙂
[–]CloacaDiddlerFDS Newbie37 points38 points39 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Do men get to take their shirts off and wear those tiny loose sport shorts or low armpit tank tops while women just bake in their own sweat under the ugliest, heaviest, loosest clothes they can find? (Or not find, as stores probably don’t sell workout clothes in the shape of a blanket because it’s counter productive to the act of working out tf)
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Oh you KNOW it
[–]avakadavaFDS Newbie12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Omg your gym has a theatre?
Also happy cake day!
[–]PinkFurLookinLikeCamFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
😌🍰
I love it! It’s a legit big screen, Dolby surround theater with all the workout equipment I need. It’s literally so relaxing and I stay longer so I get a better sweat 😍
[–]cyborgbunny01FDS Newbie7 points8 points9 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Yup I was wearing a tank top at the gym and an employee came up to me and handed me a t-shirt because "there's a lot of men in here, it's distracting".
[–]flowers4uFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
What the fucckkkkkk. It’s crazy how I would have more culture shock from that than going to some foreign countries.
[–]LemonCurdDonutFDS Newbie145 points146 points147 points 5 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link
Why do guys think sexualization is optional on our part? They sexualize us as soon as they recognise us as women or potential women (i.e. prepubescent girls)
[–]Silverpool2018FDS Newbie60 points61 points62 points 5 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link
Yup. I was catcalled and groped the most when I was 12-13.
[–]littleredpartydress_FDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
This fact makes me so sad 😞
[–]stankyhoseFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I second this! I used to wear uniform which consisted of a ratty jumper and trousers, still was catcalled by grown men CONSTANTLY, even more so than now.
I think it's because now they get the sense I would literally rip their eyes out of their skulls if they dared, despite me wearing more revealing and typically "sexy" outfits. Goes to show it's not about clothes, it's about power.
[–]ayhtdws1989FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I think it's because now they get the sense I would literally rip their eyes out of their skulls if they dared
sis pls give me some tips to be like this
[–]stankyhoseFDS Newbie6 points7 points8 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I wish I could teach you but it has way more to do with the men than it is to do with us. I think walking with confidence and assertiveness (even if it's 'fake it till you make it') really helps because you automatically don't look weak and vulnerable, and that's what predators are looking for.
Saying that, for a lot of men it's all about the power behind it. I have a great example: I was riding my bike down a hill, a man in a van pulls out of a junction without looking, I almost crash into him but because I'd preempted his dumbassery I came to stop just before hitting him. I stared daggers at him and he had the audacity to say "Smile love!" as if he hadn't just nearly murdered me. He knew he was in the wrong, but because he had no inclination to empathy he decided the best way to handle the situation would be to assert his power over me.
[–]goblinwiseauFDS Newbie90 points91 points92 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
men sexualize ANYTHING AND ANYONE!!! feet, children, goats, hell they even sexualize a fucking mcchicken!!! they fuck exhaust-pipes, golf holes..fk men.
[–]hgd29FDS Newbie22 points23 points24 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
Ah the hole-in-one....aka finishing the act in one stroke. Only the best of men are capable!! 🙄😂
[–]XiekoFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
I saw red when I read your comment. I had to check myself before downvoting. Shitty, selfish sex is unacceptable and an immediate deal-breaker for me.
[–]hgd29FDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I completely agree.
It was just a lame golf joke, but it’s also the reality for so many sexual encounters. Most men think their orgasm is the end of sex and are perfectly happy leaving their partner unsatisfied. Sex education needs to include the importance of sex being a mutually pleasurable experience, not just a reproductive act finishing with male ejaculation (that’s literally how it was taught to me).
[–]UnstrirringCoffeeFDS Newbie13 points14 points15 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Yup, I started getting weird comments from guys in their 30s and 40s when I was only 10. I didn't understand them at the time, but made me very uncomfortable. However, that could also be due to the smirks accompanying these comments. I just knew they were inappropriate.
[–]YoudidntfindthisFDS Newbie38 points39 points40 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Period don’t tell us what to wear,learn how not to assault and harass women
[–]NihilisticBuddhismFDS Newbie105 points106 points107 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link
”BuT mEn ArE bIoLogIcAlLy WiReD dIfFeReNt” 😤
[–]littleredpartydress_FDS Newbie63 points64 points65 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I love how this sentence is just in complete opposition to their other claim of being the “rational” sex , like y’all can’t even use human rationality to control your “biological urges” as if most of their perversion isn’t fuelled by the culture surrounding it and not their horomones.
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
If they didn’t have double standards, they wouldn’t have any standards at all.
[–]43rdaccountFDS Newbie2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
🤣🤣 omg love this
[–]fulltwistinglayoutFDS Newbie34 points35 points36 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
~bUt MeN aRe BaSiCaLLy aNiMaLs~
[–]eloiselmaoFDS Newbie19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
men are like we can’t control our urges we are just ruled by our basic biology. And then claim to be the superior gender in terms of leadership roles....
[–]TheTower_14FDS Newbie9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
"we are the lOgicAl gender" proceeds to act like cavemen ooga booga - men.
[–]eloiselmaoFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
oooga booga
[–]ThatGirl60FDS Newbie27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link
I would agree with this normally but I’ve been aggressively groped and hit on by many women. I wish more people would mind their own business!
[–]huevos_and_whiskeyFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link
Were they straight white boomer women? They can be such creeps! It’s like they have some toxic, outdated views on body positivity that don’t respect others’ bodily autonomy, coupled with the inherently homophobic notion that “it’s ok, we’re both girls” 🤢
[–]ThatGirl60FDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Some are young some are old. People act up when they’re drunk
[–]MACMUAFDS Apprentice24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Preach!!! every single lbgt female or trans male I have met(my son is trans)....have been nothing but respectful even when no one is looking.
It’s true men are the problem
[–]shadymiss99Pickmeisha™️4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I'm not your typical feminist but that will be always one of the dumbest excuses ever. How tf children get assaulted if the reveling clothes are what drives men to rape? I understand getting attention purposefully by dressing provocatively but men aren't dogs.
[–]buffysummerrsFDS Newbie4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
Bam! This!
[–]soaring_potatoFDS Newbie3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
I've also never seen or heard a wlw say (also not anonymously online) that they liked changing with a bunch of girls during say PE.
Only that they did it in a stall afraid it would make others uncomfortable or that they literally didn't care and minded their own business like you should. Not looking at anyone. And if say passing deodorant just like face. Eventho then you have girls in their bras and thongs. Why the hell would a bra strap be too much for boys and men to control themselves? Or something that's more form fitting than a trash bag?
Sure there are shitty aggressive predatory women. (Not all are even LGBT, some are straight) but like. Doesn't come close to the amount of creepy predatory men
[–]rinabeanFDS Disciple2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link
It's also nothing to do with testosterone or whatever, because gay men don't do it either. It's fear of consequences.
That's why men prefer to catcall and grope schoolgirls in uniform than grown women, too. And why contrary to what some think they'd prefer to harass a very modestly dressed woman to one who was provocatively dressed but sober/healthy/aware - she looks less likely to cause a scene, more likely to be quiet out of shame.
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