Who would've thought... 🙃

fim_de_semana · 2020-09-09T22:11:28+00:00

I like to say that, if guys are so inferior they can’t control themselves at the sight of a miniskirt, they shouldn’t be allowed outside without a minder.

Moonmask999 · 2020-09-09T21:42:33+00:00

Yeah, you don't see lesbians or bi people cat calling or hear stories about lesbians raping women. In fact, I hear from my bi friends that it's hard to know whether women are lesbian or bi because they're so subtle when flirting!

22leafclover · 2020-09-09T23:09:20+00:00

Pfft my fully covered headscarf and all muslim friends get hit on by muslim men all the time....It ain't the clothes. And even by non-muslim men....

Some comments my friends have told me:

"Oooo I wonder what you're hiding under there"

"Are you sexy under there?"

"Are you a virgin under there?"

EDIT: This comment is getting a lot of attention so here's more crap that has happened...

One of my fully covered muslim friends got her hijab yanked off by a man in public. Police report and everything. What some people don't know is that muslim women will use pins/a second wrap underneath to secure their headscarves in place, so yanking one off can be quite painful.

Another one was being emotionally manipulated online by her "boyfriend" who only wanted to date "muslim girls" because they were "purer" than non muslim girls...He was talking to 5 other girls...They were both 19. -_-

One girl was married only to so they could have sex, he divorced her after he took her virginity. She said she fell into what the muslim community call a "muta marriage", a thing created by creeps who only want to have sex with virgins, but still want to do it "under God" so they get married, so it's not sex outside of marriage, and divorce after. Some pickmes fall into this idea and even agree to it before hand, some don't even know what their potential husbands are thinking.

While speaking to the "lead sister" of the muslim sisters meet up, one was told "women have urges so get married as soon as you can". She felt pressured to and did. 3 months into it he wanted to take her back to Syria to live with his family and he would come back to america to work. Yeah, she dipped.

(This "lead sister" is well respected in their community. She is super kind and I even met her, she's not doing this to harm girls, she genuinely BELIEVES this.)

One was filmed during sex without her consent, she later found the video on her then shared laptop. He had covered the green light on his apple computer so she couldn't see it was recording. They were watching a movie so she didn't even think anything of it. She found it because she was looking for a picture of them together to put as their desktop background. The "marriage" carried on for 2 more years. The final straw for her was him cheating and recording the other girls (without them knowing illegal af and disgusting) in their bed while she was at work. I went with her to clear her things form their place and we burnt the laptop in the middle of a dirt road. He never even texted/called when he noticed she was gone.

This was told to me by 4 of my muslim girl friends. They have all since left the religion. (2 born into it, 2 converts)

Lesson from these stories: Just because someone is outwardly religious, doesn't mean they're moral. Just because someone is religious, doesn't mean they're moral. This applies to all religions!!! Just because you got married in a holy matrimony with both families present and you were showered in gifts and the wedding was amazing, doesn't mean he loves you. You only knows a person loves you when they consistently support you and encourage you to achieve your dreams, and you don't have a single red flag to second guess it.

PinkFurLookinLikeCam · 2020-09-10T00:40:44+00:00

As a bisexual woman, I laugh at the notion that males (especially young males in schools and teachers- looking at you school dress codes) cAnT cOnTrOL themselves. Yes the fuck they can.

And I specifically chose the gym I go to because it’s the only one in my area without a dress code, because yes, males should control themselves and I should wear comfortable workout clothes.

LemonCurdDonut · 2020-09-10T00:52:30+00:00

Why do guys think sexualization is optional on our part? They sexualize us as soon as they recognise us as women or potential women (i.e. prepubescent girls)

Youdidntfindthis · 2020-09-09T22:45:06+00:00

Period don’t tell us what to wear,learn how not to assault and harass women

NihilisticBuddhism · 2020-09-10T00:23:14+00:00

”BuT mEn ArE bIoLogIcAlLy WiReD dIfFeReNt” 😤

fulltwistinglayout · 2020-09-10T01:26:28+00:00

~bUt MeN aRe BaSiCaLLy aNiMaLs~

eloiselmao · 2020-09-10T09:53:17+00:00

men are like we can’t control our urges we are just ruled by our basic biology. And then claim to be the superior gender in terms of leadership roles....

ThatGirl60 · 2020-09-10T02:19:10+00:00

I would agree with this normally but I’ve been aggressively groped and hit on by many women. I wish more people would mind their own business!

MACMUA · 2020-09-09T22:51:38+00:00

Preach!!! every single lbgt female or trans male I have met(my son is trans)....have been nothing but respectful even when no one is looking.

It’s true men are the problem

shadymiss99 · 2020-09-10T16:24:41+00:00

I'm not your typical feminist but that will be always one of the dumbest excuses ever. How tf children get assaulted if the reveling clothes are what drives men to rape? I understand getting attention purposefully by dressing provocatively but men aren't dogs.

buffysummerrs · 2020-09-10T05:34:40+00:00

Bam! This!

soaring_potato · 2020-09-10T09:36:21+00:00

I've also never seen or heard a wlw say (also not anonymously online) that they liked changing with a bunch of girls during say PE.

Only that they did it in a stall afraid it would make others uncomfortable or that they literally didn't care and minded their own business like you should. Not looking at anyone. And if say passing deodorant just like face. Eventho then you have girls in their bras and thongs. Why the hell would a bra strap be too much for boys and men to control themselves? Or something that's more form fitting than a trash bag?

Sure there are shitty aggressive predatory women. (Not all are even LGBT, some are straight) but like. Doesn't come close to the amount of creepy predatory men

rinabean · 2020-09-10T21:36:55+00:00

It's also nothing to do with testosterone or whatever, because gay men don't do it either. It's fear of consequences.

That's why men prefer to catcall and grope schoolgirls in uniform than grown women, too. And why contrary to what some think they'd prefer to harass a very modestly dressed woman to one who was provocatively dressed but sober/healthy/aware - she looks less likely to cause a scene, more likely to be quiet out of shame.

reasom · 2020-09-10T16:48:16+00:00

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Title	Who would've thought... 🙃
Author	GreenApplesJuice
Upvotes	3321
Comments	59
Date	September 9, 2020 9:26 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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