Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢

FastCardiologist6128 · 2021-02-03T02:09:52+00:00

Hi welcome to planet pickme how can we help you today? Oh he cheated on you twice and said he never loved you and used you for sex? No problem, here's 5 texts that will make him want to marry you

__kamikaze__ · 2021-02-03T01:58:17+00:00

How come advice targeted at women always involves us changing ourselves or catering to a man?! Nah, scrotes should be the ones instructed on how to be desirable.

greenteaapplepie69 · 2021-02-03T02:00:47+00:00

It reeks of pickme energy. Literally begging for love or forcing someone to pick you.

Like maybe it’s not your fault he didn’t pick you. And you don’t need to beg or play mind games to get a LVM to love you back. If you’re searching this kind of stuff, it mean you need to dump his ass.

Saitschik · 2021-02-03T02:12:03+00:00

Preying on women's insecurities pays off financially. The beauty industry knows that and in dating there is probably even more money since many women are love starved. That love has neither the same meaning nor priority in life for men as it has for many women is something they don't get.

Also, that women have to pander to WhAt MeN wAnT is spoon-feed to us since childhood.

Then_Advertising_773 · 2021-02-03T03:02:12+00:00

Say this out loud: I'm good enough as I am and I don't need to prove it to anyone else, whoever doesn't see my value isn't worth staying in my life.

Maingurl · 2021-02-03T03:04:32+00:00

A pick-me dating coach said, "Women need to leave their masculine energy at work + use their feminine energy at home. But men get to stay in their masculine energy because they need feminine energy to unwind." So basically we do all the work without getting anything in return.

applemartin · 2021-02-03T03:11:04+00:00

Seems like a lot of hoops to jump through, with the grand prize being unappreciated indentured servitude. I'll skip.

plummyjellyfish · 2021-02-03T06:39:06+00:00

Dating advice for women: "How to get a man to notice you!" "How to make a man respect you!" "How not to come off as too clingy!" "How to prove you are worthy of his respect!"

'Dating' advice for men: "How to seduce hot women!" "How to fuck perfect 10s!" "How to make any woman want you!"

Clearly, there seems to be a lack of self-respect and dignity across the board here...

Twolipz_78 · 2021-02-03T02:28:24+00:00

To keep us brainwashed, distracted compliant.

frogchickenhorse · 2021-02-03T06:42:48+00:00

How to perform like a dancing monkey

weekend111 · 2021-02-03T10:15:34+00:00

If you want people in general, not just men, swooning at you, work on your self confidence.

Beware of vultures (usually men) who will feel threatened by it and believe you need to be “knocked down a peg.”

luvmyvulvaxoxo · 2021-02-03T02:56:23+00:00

This is just the layman’s version of cosmo.

c_a_t_lady · 2021-02-03T06:04:15+00:00

I can't believe I used to LOVE watching videos like that. And only to be prepared if I happen to "find a guy I like". 🤢😩

perkypancakes · 2021-02-03T10:08:47+00:00

Maybe you just aren’t compatible with a turd for a human? Nope according to these articles you have to change into a toilet to gain his momentary attention.

_RustInPiece_ · 2021-02-03T03:40:05+00:00

The world is full of LVM and LVW. Those ads are preying on their insecurity, hope and hunger for control of the other sex to fill their inner void.

It sounds edgy because it is.

AwkwardDisaster4150 · 2021-02-03T14:30:59+00:00

You can’t make anyone love you or treat you well. The advice should be how to walk away from situations and people if they aren’t giving you what you want. That is the only power you have.

Angeli_33 · 2021-02-03T10:45:40+00:00

I used to binge these videos but it's just terrible. It makes you second-guess yourself constantly. The best advice is to work on yourself and your growth as a person. Level up. If you find someone that's great and if not that's no problem either. Be self-sufficient.

Meepnit · 2021-02-03T11:41:34+00:00

6 ways that guys test you- "How some guys decide if they are going to respect you" says it all...

The audacity of this "content creator" is off the charts, I think that's the worst out of them all 😒

Edit: just saw the (F-) in the thumbnail it actually makes it so much worse!!

EffectiveHoneydew422 · 2021-02-03T15:44:16+00:00

omg the youtube ads that are like some dork "expert" advising women in this "OnE SEnTANcE To MaKe AnY MaN FAll InLovE WiTh YoU" and its just a really long advertisement to buy their content and they never answer the question- anyway i googled it because I HAD to know, and it was like "I really appreciate you" or something. Like this fucking guy thinks hes some relationship love guru for coming up with that.

Connect-Ad-9361 · 2021-02-03T06:52:56+00:00

I always wonder who the target audience is for these? Like I looked up a few of these videos when I was an extremely insecure preteen fawning over a dudebro with no interest in me but I cant imagine the kind of adult woman that thinks these are a good idea

Title	Why is mainstream dating advice like this?? 🤢🤢🤢
Author	greenteaapplepie69
Upvotes	323
Comments	36
Date	February 3, 2021 1:53 AM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
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