How do you reconcile being politically left but aware of the misandry and double standards that men face that the left ignores and perpetuate?

I was recently banned from my provincial / state sub for commenting on a post saying work from home is a woman's issue because they do more housework. I brought up that men work more hours and commute longer so it's not a woman's issue it's in everyone's issue.  I was banned for hateful content.... But these are 2 sides of the same coin of sexist gender expectations that everyone is effected by. 

It reminds me of other times with leftist people bringing up male suicide is because they want to die more, and the massive pushback and refusal to consider that I got for saying that. It makes me reconsider bbringing up these issues now.

When bringing up the male experience is considered hateful and unthinkable how do you even have these conversations with people on the left.  I feel like we're an odd group of people where we actually do have a lot of empathy for men and boys and that makes our worldview very uncomfortable for them.