Newbies - don't be this guy

Persaeus · 2017-08-17T11:55:09+00:00

treated worse than I have ever been treated in my life in any realm online or IRL

true I am sure for floppy; and a major problem with "society" today. for some steel is forged under the pressure of immense heat and the hammer.

I have definitely been treated worse IRL by other compared to this place. This place ain't shit. LOL

BluepillProfessor · 2017-08-17T15:36:56+00:00

How much worse do you think this victim is in real life?

You mean his wife? She sounds like the victim not him.

This is the prototype example of how we get into trouble. You don't get into trouble because of what you know. And you don't get into trouble for what you don't know. You get into trouble cuz of what you know that just aint so.

responses were so full of hatred and anger that it made me feel physically ill.

Can you imagine how badly this guys gets destroyed by common shit tests when it actually matters. These are anonymous guys on the internet for fucks sake!

Also if he thinks we "hate" he should try being a mod of a Red Pill forum for 24 hours. We "hate" with love and direction. They flail around emotionally and lash out like this guy. Interesting.

bogeyd6 · 2017-08-17T17:13:53+00:00

You can apply the same line of thinking to other people in your life. Spend a few weeks on the road with some real beta guys and you can get to know how their wives feel. Indecision, Hesitation, and Lack of preference and majorly unattractive to other men as well.

SteelToeShitKicker · 2017-08-17T14:09:50+00:00

Did no one tell floppylobster about hugs and cuddles Tuesdays?

88Will88 · 2017-08-18T02:20:37+00:00

This reminds me of Jerry from Rick and Morty. His wife says to him:

"Remember the time someone called you a dumbass on Facebook so you responded, No you're the dumbass!! Then you sat at the computer all night hitting refresh every two seconds and then went to bed crying."

Triadis3 · 2017-08-17T04:35:08+00:00

This is why step one is

Drop your fucking EGO.

You're here for a reason.

That reason is that there's something fucked up about your life.

Guess what? That's on you. You are doing something that got you here. It's all your fault.

To be able to admit that to yourself is a big jump. After all you've spent years with that little ego-protection hamster running at full speed. "Waaa. My wife won't fuck me! My life sucks! - it can't be me. It must be something else!"

Nope. It's you. You created it, you're living it, and chances are you're not changing anything to get out of the situation you're in.

What did Einstein say again...

"The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again, but expecting different results."

The reason we use plain language is twofold.

1 - You've been doing it wrong for years. Often people need to get a baseball bat in the teeth to "wake up" and realize their life truly is shitty. Your wife won't call you a pussy, even if yours is bigger and hairier than hers. Guys in this locker room who care about you will.

2 - A litmus test. If you continue to get butthurt, DEER all over the page, or adopt a holier-than-thou attitude when some guys on an anonomous forum hurt your sensitive little feelings, then you probably haven't/can't drop the one thing that got you in the shitty life in the first place.... Your EGO.

The way a jerkoff responds to me calling him a faggot tell me a lot about whether he's a lost cause or worth trying to help.

tacko276 · 2017-08-17T04:13:21+00:00

We don't come here to kiss each others asses. We come here for hard truth. It's like when your big brother has to beat the shit out of you a little bit for being stupid. He does it because he gives a shit. The truth hurts and you need be ok with that before you can start growing

donedreadpirate · 2017-08-17T13:59:02+00:00

I just OD'd on feelz

RPJMRP · 2017-08-17T05:15:52+00:00

Don't tell me what to do

The_Litz · 2017-08-17T07:35:46+00:00

I had such high hopes for the lad, he had a nice writing style on his OYS, a Cunning linguist that turned into a dick eater.

bigOlBeta · 2017-08-22T23:26:42+00:00

I love getting crucified because 80% of what's said is true or somewhat accurate, and the other 20% is just funny

Luckylancer96 · 2017-08-17T10:46:12+00:00

He is partialy right. Sidebar is not "it's best self". Sidebar can improve more than this beta dude. It would be great if mods improve it. TRP's side bar is so small for begginers. AskTRP bar is so long and full of outdated/dead links.

Sidebar says "lift". Thats seems easy, you go to gym and lift. But no, there is more details.

Sidebar should say "lift! Use this guide which we get from r/Fitness community. It is especialy good for begginers. And use these diets which we got from r/gainit and r/loseit. You can use these (insert some channels here) youtube channels to learn how to do exercises and prevent injuries."

Another example is Frame. There are helpfull stuff about it but it is not the best. There should be guide which even a idiot can understand.

It is ironic for self improvement community to have less improved, non optimal guide.

Note: i did not read book because they are too long. Maybe there are more info in them but guides are faster source of information than books. Red apples are more healty but harder to eat than red vitamin pills :)

Title	Newbies - don't be this guy
Author	weakandsensitive
Upvotes	49
Comments	72
Date	August 17, 2017 3:51 AM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MarriedRedPill
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