I’ve heard that it you’re not attractive looks wise, you will attract low quality people. But if you are attractive, you will get better quality people.

I think this can be true. There are people out there who assume unattractive people are insecure, and will be with them because they think they’re easier to get. I unfortunately witnessed similar. There was a guy who I used to talk to that used me to cheat on his girlfriend that had a facial difference. I’m not saying she was ugly, but it can’t be easy when dating with a facial difference in this superficial world that believes only perfection is beauty. People consider me to be generally attractive. I dance, hit the gym, and I got large breasts which attract attention.

But yet he was still awful to me. He used me, wanted me to put in all the effort. He did some very manipulative things to me to get me jealous as he knew I was insecure. So I think the idea that being attractive will get you a better person can be false. There people there who will use you because you’re attractive to boost your ego.

I’m curious what your experiences are. Does being attractive get you better partners or not?