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True gender equality!

wawwawawawawaw

April 30, 2020
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Title True gender equality!
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wawwawawawawaw

Upvotes 22641
Comments 444
Date April 30, 2020 2:44 PM UTC
(6 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/PussyPassDenied
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/pussypassdenied/comments/gawyjt/true_gender_equality/
Archive Link https://theredarchive.com/r/PussyPassDenied/true-gender-equality.1068675
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Ok... but why would it matter tf

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I... uh he's not wrong...

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Obese sister gets denied by brother

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Gah the AGONYYY

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Yes - That's sexist.

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Repost but this is comedy gold.

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Shaming men while supporting women? Yay!

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Or maybe people just like good movies?

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Comments

[–]paxdudd 2635 points2636 points2637 points 6 years ago (337 children) | Copy Link

I know what he means. When I travel I only offer it to people who need to sit, disabled or pregnant or old people or anyone I think could use a seat.

[–]SoggyHoneyWaffles[🍰] 1848 points1849 points1850 points 6 years ago (234 children) | Copy Link

ah yes, be a gentleman not a simp

[–]Notcreativeatall1 724 points725 points726 points 6 years ago* (231 children) | Copy Link

Okay I’ve been seeing that word thrown around lately. Wtf is a simp?

Edit: r/simps did NOT answer this question.. but it did answer a different one. It’s nsfw btw

[–]fawkks 651 points652 points653 points 6 years ago (60 children) | Copy Link

Someone who demeans themselves to satisfy a woman

[–]SsoulBlade 295 points296 points297 points 6 years ago (54 children) | Copy Link

White knights?

[–]pieandpadthai 425 points426 points427 points 6 years ago (47 children) | Copy Link

White knights at least have some moral belief they’re acting on, simps are just chameleons, doing anything for the pusi

[–]Melvar_10 157 points158 points159 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Gimme da pusi baws

[–]Danny_lazers 59 points60 points61 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Feed my children

[–]Fuck___You___12 points 6 years ago [recovered] (4 children) | Copy Link

Please M'Lady can I have some pussy crumbs

[–]Tmack523 27 points28 points29 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Just a speck of pussy m'lady

[–]TotallyNotanOfficer 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You can only have this

[–]Cky_vick 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You want some fuk?

https://youtu.be/-TcLxlkc2pA

[–]YerMothersDuckEggs 55 points56 points57 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't glorify white knights, they're worse. A white knight will jump into a situation to jab your head off to save m'lady. The only thing a simp hurts is his own wallet, by paying E girls for nothing or overspending on dates to be friend zoned etc.

As the great Snoop Dogg once said, "we don't love these hoes", a great mantra to live by back then, and a great mantra to live by now.

[–]dangerouspeyote 39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

They put the pussy on the pedestal.

[–]StampedeJonesPS4 29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

But do they put the pussy on the chainwax?

[–]TheHighestHobo 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

man that is not a saying

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

But it has been said

[–]BootyWarrior4501 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

r/KendrickLamar

[–]FancyTickleNips 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

r/KeyandPeele

[–]J3sush8sm3 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But its still a white knights holy grail

[–]RaidenDark 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

A white knight is simply someone who aggressively defends others with zero regard as to whether or not they need, want, or deserve any defending. The subject can be anything from a woman to a corporation. Motivations can range anywhere from morals to sex drive and even the second deadliest mental disease known to man: fanboyism.

[–]Moldybeef 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Not arguing, I've just never seen the term used outside of blindly defending women.

[–]SsoulBlade 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Fair enough. You are correct. However, the white knight most people know of is the one defending females. This is what it devolved into. Here is even a wiki entry. https://en.m.wiktionary.org/wiki/white_knight

[–]Goem 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

The bad poosie?

[–]Truan 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No, that's white knights, too. White knights is like Social justice warrior--the term was coined as sarcasm. A white knight is just defending a girl to get laid.

[–]SsoulBlade 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Misguided sexist moral belief? They tend to act on behalf of women, not realising their actions imply that the woman cannot stand up for themself, hence defending her.

But I understand what you are saying.

[–]pieandpadthai 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Misguided belief is a hell of a lot easier to correct than lack of belief.

[–]UnnamedPlayer 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It's complete opposite in fact. Someone with a misguided belief is hell of a lot more difficult to "correct" than someone with no belief at all. Think of the groups woven around radical interpretations of religious beliefs around the world and it's painfully obvious.

[–]pieandpadthai 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

If you didn’t reason yourself into a position you can’t be reasoned out of that position.

[–]too_many_skin_tags 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Bunk Moreland has entered the chat.

[–]xNOOBinTRAINING 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Honestly white knights are basically simps too. The word wasn't widely used before and they were just called white knights but simp might be more fitting.

[–]Bacon_is_a_condiment 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of white knights are also just bullies on the look out for some one else to demean, while not getting in trouble for it.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hey, Chameleons are a proud species. They simp for no one.

[–]Mr_Chimpzz 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Isn't that a fucc boi?

[–][deleted] 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Simps are a more potent version of White Knights

[–]SsoulBlade 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly

They are not the same but from the same book.

[–]DigitalZ13 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

White knights do what they do because they believe someone needs defending, or there is something “wrong” being done.

Simps do what they do because they want e-girl bath water.

[–]SsoulBlade 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

White knights do what they do because they believe someone needs defending, or there is something “wrong” being done.

Fair enough, you are the best answer so far.

[–][deleted] 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

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[–]SsoulBlade 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Mc'Aunty?

[–]thehunter699 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ah I see they've met my ex girlfriend too

[–]HallucinateZ 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We all have by now. It's been what, like 6 days?

[–]tuiznew 71 points72 points73 points 6 years ago (52 children) | Copy Link

Simp: A submissive male that usually sucks up to a female to win her favour in hope of sleeping with her.

[–]StuJayBee 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

So those guys I know who purposefully put a photo of themselves hugging a puppy on their Tinder profile...

Both of them are sleazy pickup artists.

Are they also simps?

[–]tuiznew 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you're talking to a girl and your friend joins the conversation and then decides to throw you under the bus he's "simpin" and he is a "simp" for that, it's like accusing someone of being disloyal a sort of snitch. It's above and beyond hugging a puppy on tinder. Although people throw around simp casually on the net imo calling someone a simp is more disrespectful than calling someone a bitch.

[–]youhavebeenwobbled 75 points76 points77 points 6 years ago (21 children) | Copy Link

sucker into mediocre pussy

[–]Sandpaper_Dreams 43 points44 points45 points 6 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

I've heard someone idolizing mediocre pussy

[–]cantgetenoughbots 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

TIL simp does NOT stand for simpleton.

[–]HallucinateZ 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A simp is a simpleton but a simpleton is not a simp.

[–]OverlordWaffles 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I thought it meant they were just kinda dumb or basic

[–]SoggyHoneyWaffles[🍰] 54 points55 points56 points 6 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

a hoes before bros kind of guy

[–]LeakyThoughts 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Now please excuse my language here:

This is what guys used to call fags or gays, right?

So is Simp just the non (LGBT) word for this now?

Is that the correct use of Simp?

Can I call people simps for exhibiting classic ye old time Gaylord behaviour?

This is a good word

[–]Azisovski 13 points14 points15 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I May not have been round the block enough but pretty sure that’s not true, I’ve seen fag and gay used more to demean an action that isn’t necessarily “manly” (but in reality it’s just used of someone likes something you don’t) whereas simp tends to be used to mock a person having little to no integrity when interacting with the opposite sex in the hopes for pussy (kinda like how cuck was used early on when it became a meme)

[–]daiceman6 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A cuck and simp typicaly end up acting the same way, but the cuck enjoys it while the simp does not.

[–]Bigdaddy_J 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Before simp it was more akin to "chump" or "sucker"

[–]Baldrick_Balldick 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Short for simpleton I believe.

[–]Preform_Perform 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

The other guy is offended, but you are sort of right.

People use simp as a general insult just like how they used cuck last year and gay before that. What an actual simp is, is a man who defends a woman just for being a woman.

Of course, once a new insult comes out people use it for everything. People call each other simps despite a woman not being around for a dozen miles.

[–]LeakyThoughts 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Had just seen the word used a bunch of times and never knew what it meant

[–]money_loo 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

It’s exactly like when white people discovered skeet all over again.

Simp was a street word way back in the day and now all the kids want to act like it’s brand new.

[–]HallucinateZ 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I thought I was crazy for knowing of this word 15 years ago. The meaning is just bent all over the place now.

[–]ChairOFLamp1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah... I'm just really confused. It's being used for a lot of things. I dont know what it was used for 15 years ago and I still dont now.

[–]Miggle-B 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

People are using simp as a general insult regarding defending women. I've never seen anyone use it in the same way as gay.

[–]Miggle-B 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not really, people use it generally about defending women not just genreaaly.

They lump white knights and sumps together for example.

White knight: defender of the vag

Simmp: pays the vag to hear it say its name

[–]Firefuego12 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A simp is someone willing to give up essential resources (either be money, respect) in the context they are in with the objective of having someone they are attracted towards develop an interest to them.

From my other comment I made.

[–]thesmoothest18 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ah great find. I shall further this research.

[–]VapeBlowCatipiller 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I hate the word but let me give you an example. Right here on reddit there is about 40 or so gone wild type subs...just for obese woman. For every nude posted, there is at least 10-20 of these chaps, begging for any little piece of that fat ass. Literally willing to degrade themselves as pond scum for a thought of having one of these....uhmm ladies. Things like 'i would lick the sweat off the bottom of your feet, drive 500 miles, rub those corns, rub lotion on those chapped inner thighs... etc etc etc...for a chance to have coffee with you princess'. It's sickening to call them men. Not only that, they are feeding this problem of the out-of-control inflation of the perceived female sexual value. They are giving these... ladies...the egos that are driving this war between the sexes. I call them chumps. Because that's what we used to call them back in my day. Of course they did this to solid nines and tens, these chicks are 2s,3s,4,s and 5s.

[–]SeanHearnden 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

This is confusing. I have used simp for 20 years. Used for simpleton.

[–][deleted] 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

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[–]SeanHearnden 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Chill sailor. I was just saying it was confusing. Also simp was and is pretty popular with me. I'm only 33. It's not that old a word.

[–]Chardlz 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I think it's supposed to be Sucker Idolizing Mediocre Pussy but that might be a backronym or straight up wrong. It's basically beta cucks plus white knights rolled into one.

[–]NohoTwoPointOh 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Backronym. Correct.

[–]PORTMANTEAU-BOT 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Backrorrect.


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[–]irishking44 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Subject Impressed by Mediocre Pussy

[–]SodiumChloryde 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If seen this on so many comment threads, enough of the r/simps, JUST GOOGLE IT!

[–]SavvySillybug 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You are my kind of person :)

[–]R3dark 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks.

[–]BrandonOR 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Snu-Snu

[–]arkham1010 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

you may want to note that that sub is very much NSFW.

[–]DougieGilmoursCat 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's someone who overuses slang they just learned.

[–]ChipChipington 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The subreddit one is based on Homer Simpson’s mouth

[–]BigBadWolfe13 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This edit is sooooo under-appreciated

[–]CIoverload 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Basically anyone who thinks women > men

[–]Notynerted 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

100% not what I expected.

[–]ProShitMan 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What the hell

[–]Ioatanaut 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

NSFW lol

[–]Game_of_Jobrones 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s a word people use to justify being obnoxious to women and deman those who aren’t.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy.

[–]rooneyliamp 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao that sub is hilarious! Also I’ve heard that simp is an acronym that stands for sucka idolizing mediocre pussy.

[–]JakeHodgson 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It really means just someone who will do anything to sleep with someone.

But what it’s been made in to is a way for people who hate women to shit on any male who acts nicely toward a woman lol.

[–]Prince_pepe 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Simp short for simpering.

[–]crackpipeclay 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Someone Idolizing Mediocre Pussy. Anybody who is willing to do something they wouldn’t normally do for some sub par sex.

[–]MvK0 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Tf is "homer-simpson lookin vagina"

[–]Notcreativeatall1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

His mouth I assume

[–]fatogato 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Suckas Idolizing Mediocre Pussy.

People who put women on a pedestal.

[–]Woonachan 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SIMPs are pre-evolution Nice Guys.

[–]formershitpeasant 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It means sucker idolizing mediocre pussy but then everyone started calling everyone a simp that does anything not totally “alpha”

[–]Glorious_Jo 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Suckas Idolizing Mediocre Pussy

[–]leboeazy 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

SIMP = Suckaz Idolizing Mediocre Pussy.

[–]Mike12344321 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Suckers Idolizing Mediocre Pussy

[–]EXistential_EX 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

To nearly quote Urban Dictionary: A man whom puts himself in a lower position to get a girl, without the girl doing jack shit in return

[–]nathanielsnider 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that was...

not what I was expecting

[–]divyaaaaaaaaaam 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

sucker idolizing mediocre pussy

[–]mambome 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It stands for Sucka Idolizing Mediocre Pussy.

[–]IIHotelYorba 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A mangina, a bitch, a white knight, a pussy beggar, a beta orbiter, a pay piggie

[–]Th3NXTGEN 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sucka Idolizing Mediocre Pussy

[–]Sadi_Reddit 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Simp is short for simpleton and as of recent encompasses men who are so starved for pussy they do everything m'lady asks. Giving up all self respect, moral and any "self" that is left. They are the final form of the yes sayer, the white knight or the slave husband....

[–]8bitbebop 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A simpleton, someone with no grasp of value or worth and will give away personal worth in promise of perspective value

[–]SirLagzAlot32 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok I didnt expect that when I clicked on the sub...

[–]MindkontrolTV 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly! Why would I give my seat up to some random chick in perfect shape if she would DEFINITELY not even do the same for me, you know?

[–][deleted] 83 points84 points85 points 6 years ago (37 children) | Copy Link

Doesn't stop entitled bitches from asking for my seat though.

[–]paxdudd 47 points48 points49 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Yup. They can try.

[–]mrcrazy_monkey 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They joy of headphones, you can just ignore them. Even if you arent listening to music.

[–]B0BNELS0NUSA 26 points27 points28 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

If a bitch wants a favor, they can do me a favor first. You know what I'm talking about, fellas.

[–]paxdudd 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

That's why I always carry a jacket.

[–]burbod01 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Like, in addition to the one you are wearing?

[–]paxdudd 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just one.

[–]SquarelyCubed 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Doing your taxes?

[–]Regs2 33 points34 points35 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

Interesting. At least where I am (Pacific NW), I've never once had an able bodied women ask or even imply they want my seat. And I've been a regular mass transit rider for 20+ years.

[–]eskamobob1 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Ive had it happen once. Once. She was such a cunt about it too I just laughed. Other than that ive never even been asked by the pregnant or elderly

[–]VapeBlowCatipiller 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"Oh I'm sorry Ms. I didn't really notice you there and now just realize that you're pregnant. Here have my seat, for the baby."

That will trigger sumpin.

[–]AdventurousSkirt9 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

It sounds made-up because these guys are all just jacking each other off.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

You know that the world is a lot bigger than your tiny little corner right?

[–]Gg_Messy 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Dont call it out man, I was so close!

[–]StatlerByrd 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

I've never seen an able bodied woman ask for someone's seat before.

[–][deleted] 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago* (12 children) | Copy Link

I've had fat women ask for a seat in a train twice. Once directed towards me, and another time the bitch started complaining to everyone around her that men weren't decent enough to give women their seats.

The woman who asked me individually (and then other people around till another woman gave up her seat) was fat all around. She didn't claim to be pregnant and I never thought she was.

But had she been obviously pregnant, old or seemed to be sick, I would have given my seat.

Oh, also fatness is not a disability IMO. I was, and to a certain extent am fat myself.

Both times it happened in a long distance train that was almost jam packed.

[–]556or7622 points 6 years ago [recovered] (10 children) | Copy Link

Fatness is absolutely a disability, in that a fat person is less abled than a non fat person. It isn't permanent, can be corrected pretty simply, and is self induced, but is is a disability the same way drug addiction or alcoholism can be.

I don't think they should get special treatment, since they can stop being fat, conpared to a guy with no legs who can't just grow new legs.

[–]SkippedTheSaladBar 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You are mostly wrong. It's not a disability if it's easily correctable. It's called being lazy or not caring.

Here's why: stick a truly disabled person (without use of their legs), a cancer patient and an obese person in a desert island. Give them enough supplies to keep them alive and then come back in two months. You'll end up with a disabled person (in the wheelchair), a cancer patient and a relatively healthy ex-obese person.

Obesity is not a disease. Stop giving fatties a reason to be lazy. With very few exceptions, fat is a choice.

[–]BeardsuptheWazoo 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wrong. You'd have a now cannibalized fatty, an empty wheelchair, and the impending sense that you are being hunted

[–]AdventurousSkirt9 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Sounds made up. I rode public transportation for ~20 years and no woman ever asked me for my seat.

[–]ak47revolver9 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hell, I haven't even had a disabled person ask me for a seat, male or female. Any person who is able-bodied and doesn't state a clearly extraneous situation, can fuck off asking me for my seat. Who does that? Especially if you say no, they're gonna go to the news?? Why not just try someone else if you're that determined? Why not try every single person on the bus? Its such a weird and odd situation as a whole.

[–]tupacsnoducket 25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Wait, people still give up their seat just cause boobies?

[–]db214 25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah for real? Never in my life have I experienced this.

[–]robizzle89 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Only works for women boobs.

[–]db214 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Aw shucks

[–]fithworldruler 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Everyone is having a fictional time today

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You don't have a really good set of boobies, so no, you would not have experienced it.

[–]fellate-o-fish 34 points35 points36 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I live in SF but sometimes I must leave the city around rush hour. I usually take BART (our regional transit system).

Everybody knows the trick where you ride further into the city a few stops to board an outbound train so you can get a seat. So....I always have a seat. Leaving the city though, the last four stops really fill up the trains and I always - always - end up with women looking at me expectantly, like I'm supposed to just surrender my seat. I've had them ask me for my seat on several occasions and the answer is always no.

If you're not smart enough to do the inbound train stop trick its not my problem. You're not getting my seat.

[–]Bbenet31 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Not sure why super liberal SF women would even think they should be able to do that

[–]fellate-o-fish 11 points12 points13 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I probably look like an easy mark, I guess. But really I'm a huge asshole when it comes to stuff like this.

Whenever I see some toolbox give up his seat to a woman who would never in a million years do the same for him, I try and make sure he sees me giving him a look of utter disgust.

[–]IIHotelYorba 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because feminism is a ruse for men to give up more shit. It’s not equality if it’s always one side that compromises

[–]paxdudd1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (2 children) | Copy Link

I have seen people do this at busy stops. Tedious but smart.

[–]fellate-o-fish 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yep. It only adds a few minutes to the trip and is absolutely worth it if you're heading further out into the system. When I must leave, my destination is one of the furthest-out stops in the East bay so it is a no-brainer for me vs standing for about an hour in a sardine can.

[–]Abeneezer 16 points17 points18 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Children too. Not annoying ass pre-teens, but you know, those out with mom or pops.

[–]paxdudd 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Its more for the parents than the little shits but yes I would do that.

[–]FluffyCheeseStick 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I offer my seat to pregnant, and the elderly

[–]cest_nul 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Pregnant? You never see men getting a free seat for being pregnant. You are a sexist.

[–]chaynes 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you see a guy who obviously just ate way too many chicken wings, be a gentleman and give him and his food baby your seat.

[–]TheMasterSword60 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've seen men countless times give up a seat because of a female. She wasn't pregnant or elderly or anything. I was standing this one time. I said, hey, why didn't you give it up to me? I was standing right here. He said he was "being nice". I said you could have been nice offering me the seat. The woman looked uncomfortable and said she'll give it to me if I wanted to, or something like that (I forget). There was an education I gave and some more talk, but that's it.

[–][deleted] 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

Pregnant woman don’t deserve to take another ones seat next time they should fuck someone with a car

[–]number8inline 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol Ive heard this joke before many times but, since you're riding the bus doesnt that mean logically you don't deserve to be fucked either because you dont have a car?

[–]darnkow1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Hope you're being sarcastic lol

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's a well known joke. If he was been serious, we'll never know

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pregnant bitches should have fucked someone with a car.

Unless you're in NYC or in a major public transit city.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disabled or old, ok. Pregnant? Not my fault you got spunked in.

[–]Accidental_Edge 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll get up for a disabled person, but not a pregnant chick. It isn't my job to accommodate your bad decisions.

[–]AlicornGamer 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

similar here, i also give it to children also because a child sitting down is less annoying than a child runing up and down a buss like it's a playground. But if youre a woamn, with no disabilities, pregnancy etc on show, hell i'll also include tiredness not being on show either, stnad up like anybody else who's able to do so.

[–]Wubalubadubdubbiatch 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i don't do it for anyone, i'm a true advocate for being an asshole

[–]Necrolet 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disabled and old people: ok. Pregnant women: hell no. Her choice, her consequences.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That’s literally what you are supposed to do

[–]living_sunshine 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You give up your seat for pregnant women HA simp /s

[–]33333_others 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yes, i don't know where he lives that someone is asking him to give it to a random woman just because she's a woman, that's sexist or you're a simp.

[–]ZealotKarrde 1041 points1042 points1043 points 6 years ago (211 children) | Copy Link

Pregnant, disabled (male or female), or elderly (male or female), that's it. Rest can stand like all of us.

[–]Tepa_Tassuliini 367 points368 points369 points 6 years ago (87 children) | Copy Link

What if a pregnant woman comes to you and demands your seat? (Just curious about peoples opinions, not against you by any means)

[–]zombiehitler_ 1278 points1279 points1280 points 6 years ago (41 children) | Copy Link

"Should have fucked a guy with a car"

[–]hhhhhhhhhhhjf 250 points251 points252 points 6 years ago (14 children) | Copy Link

This is the only correct response

[–]Ezra_Pound_ 203 points204 points205 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

“Sh... should ha... erm..”

“Sorry what?”

“nothing, sorry...”

“Oh okay”

Whispers “Ha ha got em dumb bitch”

[–]lizard776 45 points46 points47 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol nice

[–]LightMeUpPapi 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah big doubt regulars of this subreddit would whip that out lmao.

[–]SemperFidelisHoorah 28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

r/murderedbywords

[–]jakonr43 61 points62 points63 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I think you mean r/clevercomebacks

r/murderedbywords is all politics

[–]lookatmeimwhiteand a flmng homosexual, not that theres anything wrong with that 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

lol you weren't kidding.

[–]mattiejj 39 points40 points41 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

-tweet-

"Orange man bad"

🏆🌟🥇

[–][deleted] 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not political enough for that sub.

[–]number8inline 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Well I mean... you're on the bus too. Doesn't following that logic mean a woman should never fuck you?

[–]_Last_Man_Standing_ 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

no...
it means that I should not be so stupid to make a bitch pregnant if I'm so poor to be riding in a bus...

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I thought there was video, but all a quick Google gives me is memes. I swear there's video of that image though.

[–]i_hate_mayonnaise 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A man of wisdom

[–]tripsteady 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

"why should i suffer because you let someone cum inside you"

although i always feel like a dick for thinking that

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Holy shit, I want to ride the subway now waiting for the opportunity to use this line.

[–]UnfilteredRedditor 240 points241 points242 points 6 years ago* (8 children) | Copy Link

If she demands then she can piss off. If she ask kindly then absolutely.

[–]Mick_Donalds 144 points145 points146 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Exactly. If she's honest and is humble about asking me KINDLY and POLITELY, then I'll be glad to hop up. If bitch catches an attitude, then her feet can continue to hurt.

Never reward bad behavior.

[–]Drunken_Traveler 28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Even if another dude asked me kindly and politely, I'd most likely give up my seat. Only an asshole returns kindness and politeness with rudeness.

[–]jacob22c 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Always love the reply of "bitch that ain't my baby i don't give a fuck how you feel" if they have an entitled attitude. Otherwise yeah of course you can have my seat no problem.

[–]Doomsayer189 14 points15 points16 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Personally I apply that to just about everyone. If anyone- man, woman, young, old, whatever- asks for a seat nicely I'll generally assume they have a reason and let them sit. If an elderly, disabled, or pregnant person shows up then I'm likely to just offer them the seat.

[–]LeakyThoughts 42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Oh no, if it's demanded in a Karen way.. then yeah, she should have fucked someone with a car

But if she's polite about it then sure she can have a seat, she needs it more than I do

Then again, I don't know if we should automatically offer it to her?

She might only be going 1 stop, 5 minutes down the line and doesn't want to sit down (idk)

Let's all just be nice to eachother and then maybe we can work these things out at the time

[–]QuinZ33 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Then again, I don't know if we should automatically offer it to her?

It's the law in some areas.

[–]LeakyThoughts 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Like, maybe she's a strong independent breeder who don't need no seat

[–]Daewoo40 23 points24 points25 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

If they're at the point where it's obvious they're pregnant, I don't think I'd take offense how I was asked/demanded to give up a seat.

Elderly/disabled is very much the same as above..

Just ask otherwise, I'm pretty thick skulled when it comes to this sort of thing, and would probably be happier standing up or sat on the floor anyway..

[–]Lurker3340 40 points41 points42 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I would give my seat to a pregnant woman, but only if asked politely. If she is rude/pushy she can fuck off

[–]Jay_Hardy 25 points26 points27 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, this.
I don’t care about you, if you’re a jerk, fuck you.
If I see a parent with a child or a pregnant woman, I’ll try to offer her or the child the seat.
If they act like a Karen about it, then no.

[–]Daewoo40 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I have no qualms with surrendering my seat to anyone, ask and you shall receive.

I will begrudgingly do it if you're a little bit of a cunt about it. But I find standing/sitting on my luggage or the floor is more comfortable than most seats.

[–]Jimmy-McBawbag 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'd offer my seat to the elderly or disabled way before I offer it to someone who is pregnant, no one choses to get old or disabled, while you can assume 99.999% of pregnant women chose to fuck.

[–]Make001001001 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

You would sit on the floor of public transportation??? What the fuck is wrong with you?

[–]Daewoo40 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Indifference to sitting on the floor of public transport? I like to think the cleaners who hop on/off the trains at either end to clean actually do clean.

Then again, having seen some of the crap that comes out of the seat if you were to hit it gently...

Better the devil you know?

[–]ZealotKarrde 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I said pregnant above. If she's visibly pregnant, sure, for the sake of the baby. If she's not pregnant enough for me to tell, she can stand, I'm not going to just take her word.

[–]MrSaturnboink 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If she came up to me and demanded my seat I would tell her no. If I were more confrontational I would tell her to go die in a fire.

[–]johnfbw 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

She should be courteous - but frankly I think they should ask and not expect - they have a mouth and can ask politely - I'm not always scouting for pregnant women so I can stand up. (and yes my partner agrees and asks)

[–]feedandslumber 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Demands, no. Asks, absolutely.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

That right there is a case of a pregnant person transcending into entitled territory. Of course, if there are seats specifically dedicated to those who have trouble standing and someone currently able-bodied is just sitting there, that's shitty of them. It does get complicated with invisible disabilities of course.

Basically, there's no winning when entitled people feel entitled!

[–]dirtyviking1337 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You keyboard enthusiasts are weird

[–]FrankSavage420 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What if a pregnant man comes aboard?

[–]TheCrimsonCloak 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then I'm jumping off

[–]DarkStar0129 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If they're being obnoxious and demanding, hell no. Listen here lady, you haven't paid for my fare, you haven't taken my cum hostage, I don't owe you my seat.

If they politely ask, or just stand, I'd offer the seat, and ask if they need help with the baby.

I've made it an effort to help a parent alone with a baby whenever I see them struggling. I was traveling alone on a flight once when I was 13, and while heading for the exit, I saw a lady with 2 or 3 luggage bags and a baby struggling. To this day, I don't know why I didn't stop and hello her, but I'm still guilty about it. 'Twas probably my social anxiety getting to me.

[–]UserNombresBeHard 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In my country there are four or five seats reserved for pregnant, disabled or elderly people in every bus. You can sit there, but you MUST give your seat to any of those people. The regular seats, however, you do it if you wish. If I'm not tired I'd gladly offer my seat to anyone in need, but if they demand it... Oh boy, you can just fuck off.

[–]Arxzos 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not who you asked but anyone who acts entitled enough to demand anything can fuck off. Asking nicely would be another story.

[–]Qapiojg 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, I'm of the same stance as him with one exception. If a person thinks they're entitled to my kindness then they lose all access to my kindness.

It's like trans people with their pronouns. If you ask me nicely, I'll call you whatever you want within reason. If you act like a dickhole and demand I call you something, then I'm not.

[–]-FuckMeInTheAsshole- 48 points49 points50 points 6 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Why is pregnant not (male or female), you sexist

[–]IDonnu4Real 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lmao

[–]Nersius 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

A pregnant man was on Oprah once.

[–]chaynes 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If it wasn't Arnold Schwarzenegger then it was a woman.

[–]thegreattrun 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

A dude walked on the train I take almost daily and was holding a sleeping child (maybe 4 years of age). The train was packed. I gave him my seat.

There's a few instances other than someone being pregnant, disabled, and/or elderly when it comes to giving up your seat.

[–]BachgenMawr 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Reminds me of the advice my sister gave me when I moved down to London like her: “I’d rather be the cause of a fat woman sat down crying than a pregnant woman standing”. If in doubt..

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Fat woman sat down crying

Is her idea that you should say something like "I always give up my seat to the pregnant" when you stand up?

[–]BachgenMawr 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

No, the ideas is that the person realises you think they’re pregnant? Because they’re large...

[–]Fukallthis 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (43 children) | Copy Link

Meh pregnant is their choice. The others I agree with

[–]TheMeanestPenis 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (35 children) | Copy Link

Sure, but pregnant women should still get a seat.

[–]Fukallthis 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

I mean i feel much less obligation to give me seat to someone who made a choice vs someone who is disabled or elderly

[–]RightToBaerArms 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What if the disability was due to an entirely avoidable mistake?

Like if someone needed crutches because of a skateboarding accident, would you give up your seat? Would you ask them to justify their disability first?

[–]chaynes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Being elderly is a choice too. They could have killed themselves.

[–]Fukallthis 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oof

[–]Sailans 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Depends if they ask or demand.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Disabled pregnant elderly men

[–]notjustforperiods 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

how about really really fat

[–]chaynes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You'll have to convince the person beside you to give their seat up as well.

[–]SuperWhiteAss 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (44 children) | Copy Link

Why do people reward women for getting creampied?

[–]Zap__Dannigan 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

For the same reason I'd hold the door open for someone carrying a bunch of books: I'm doing something nice to someone doing some extra physical labour.

I don't say "Haha, fuck this guy and his choice to carry some books, anyone can read"

[–]StatlerByrd 19 points20 points21 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

hahaha do you think people give up their seats to pregnant women to reward them?? It's probably because it's more uncomfortable for the pregnant woman to stand.

[–]santawartooth 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Same reason I'd give my seat to someone carrying a large box or something. She's got a heavy load and needs the rest.

[–]Regs2 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

"Here's a medal for doing what any healthy person can do!!!"

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“Some of them achieve it by sheer accident!”

[–]Arnoux 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Because they make kids so you can have a pension and live comfortably?

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What about pregames males. You can’t exclude a whole group of people

[–]Lord_Twigger 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What if there's a pregnant male?

[–]chaynes 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Then we give them a seat in the train car with Big Foot and the jackalopes.

[–]king-of-new_york 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If they have young kids too I’ll generally let them take my seat too.

[–]33333_others 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've even given my sit to a man with a child in his arms, that's common sense and courtesy.

[–]thedragonturtle 153 points154 points155 points 6 years ago (15 children) | Copy Link

I normally would give up my site to pregnant or elderly people, but one time I was on the bus and my sciatica was absolutely killing me - I'd managed to find a comfortable way to sit where the pain didn't make me scream out loud.

At one of the stops, I got asked by a young healthy woman with no children in tow to give up my seat and I told her no, I can't, my back is killing me. There were tuts all round. Men are expected to endure the pain I guess.

Only the old lady next to me had my back cos she'd heard me groaning when the bus hit potholes and when she'd asked about it earlier I'd said 'sciatica' through gritted teeth. If it wasn't for her I seriously think a few of the others would have pulled me out of my seat.

[–]MamaDog4812 52 points53 points54 points 6 years ago* (13 children) | Copy Link

That is ridiculous to me even if you weren't having problems. Healthy man to healthy women should be first come first served. Our leg muscles are fully capable of supporting our weight for a few stops until a seat opens up. Women shouldn't feel like it's ok to ask a man to give up his seat unless she's with kids, pregnant, elderly, or disabled. Hopefully there's a volunteer at that point though. Plus, I, more than many, know how emotionally uncomfortable it can be to stand next to a nasty minded touchy feeler man on the bus and subway, but that's not the fault of all the other men in the world so other than that there's no reason they should be asking. Also, carry a lipstick taser or something and file a police report if you have to use it ladies, they're great self defense tools.

[–]DarkStar0129 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

Imo reading about this situation makes me want to travel in random buses around my city throughout the day trying to find such Karens and arguing with them.

[–]MamaDog4812 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago* (11 children) | Copy Link

Dude same. Then I'd like to go around lightly tasing all the guys that think it's fun to inappropriately touch and grope women on crowded public transit. We should do that, we should team up going around serving our vigilante Justice. I could also deal with the Karens when they get out of hand so our bias justice system doesn't single you out as the aggressor in the situations. We'll have to think of some Snappy public transit vigilante names.

[–]DarkStar0129 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

The problem now being finding buses with people...

Cries

[–]MamaDog4812 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

No no no, don't cry. It's okay. That just means we have time to plan it all out. In my best movie trailer voice, "Then... When the lockdown ends... the crime-fighting, or rather the Karen fighting... begins."

[–]DarkStar0129 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

I was actually crying about being stuck in lockdown.

Gives a sad look

[–]MamaDog4812 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

I know, I was trying to say that we can get through lockdown time by planning it out, like that is some kind of Silver Lining but really it wouldn't take that long and there is no Silver Lining to the lockdown. We just have to wait until it's all over. Hopefully soonish. :'(

[–]DarkStar0129 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

Except it's not really gonna be over ever. The pandemic will bring summer permanent changes, and we won't go back to how we were in 2019. The pandemic has definately showed us how unprepared we are for global disasters, and there will be global efforts working on this.

The active state of the pandemic will probably stay for the next two years if we're being reasonable. Then, the smaller details and impacts it'll have will stay for another 2-3 years in my opinion.

[–]MamaDog4812 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

I'm still holding out hope for a vaccine that can make it go away like polio... or some kind of other revolutionary technological advancement, but maybe we'll just have to wear face masks forever and then it'll be harder for us to be recognized because everybody will be wearing masks!!!!!

[–]UserNombresBeHard 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Where do you live? I don't think there's an expectation for women to get the "right" to take a seat over anyone else. The exceptions are pregnant, disabled or elderly people and for those people there are reserved seats on the bus and trains already.

If a woman or man asks me for the seat, if I don't feel like it I just say no, there's no need to give any excuses, you're in your right to take a seat on public transportations.

[–]mcSibiss 287 points288 points289 points 6 years ago (23 children) | Copy Link

Being a woman is NOT is disability. Fuck you for implying it is, lady.

[–]Ewaninho 30 points31 points32 points 6 years ago (19 children) | Copy Link

What lady?

[–]YouJustReadBullShit 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

The lady who wanted the seat that was not given up.

[–]UserNombresBeHard 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I think the user above means that this woman is no lady, a lady is someone who doesn't act like a degenerate to say the least.

[–]mcSibiss 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Any woman expecting a man to give up his seat for her.

[–]lbj18 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I know plenty who treat being female as one

[–][deleted] 38 points39 points40 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I would give my seat to a pregnant woman. Or elderly person man or woman. Otherwise you are perfectly capable of standing

[–]headshotbitchhhh 174 points175 points176 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The rosa parks of our generation

[–]finger_milk 295 points296 points297 points 6 years ago* (48 children) | Copy Link

Offer it to pregnant or disabled women. When asked by a woman who clearly has no visible signs of a disability , I think it's within our right to ask why we should give our seat up. We have as much of a right to know why we are being asked, as much as we do a right to ask her to disclose her illness in a public train.

Edit: Yes and of course offer it to disabled men too. It was implied because of the sub we are on.

[–]asaasa19831 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (8 children) | Copy Link

Offer it to pregnant women or disable people. Being disabled has nothing to do with your gender and a disabled man should get the same treatment as a disable women.

[–]Lokimonoxide 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah, the Seoul Subway has reserved pink seats for pregnant women. Part of a "raise the birth rate" initiative, which is ridiculous...... That's not going to make people have children. Regardless.....

It's busy. People sit in them. A lot of people talk about women who don't LOOK pregnant, and them being too shy to ask for the seat. So no one should ever sit in the seat.

Look, if you're too shy to ask, you don't get a seat. Plain and simple. Shy people don't get what they want, that's on them, you know? Shy people don't get the music they want played at parties, shy people don't get women's phone numbers. I don't like that fact, but what the fuck else are you supposed to do. Ask women on the train if they're pregnant?

Yeah, good luck with that one.

[–]Mick_Donalds 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (17 children) | Copy Link

Or just tell the woman with no visible signs of physical disability "No". To her face.

[–]kulayeb 42 points43 points44 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

As a person with a non visible disability I politely ask to consider that not all disabilities are visible and asking is ok.

[–]kjh- 28 points29 points30 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Yeah. It’s frustrating that people in this thread aren’t acknowledging that some disabilities, MANY disabilities, are non-visible.

Obviously if someone does have a disability, regardless of visibility, they should be polite when asking and others should be understanding. I’m also someone with non-visible disabilities and sometimes I do need to ask to sit. Sometimes I also get dirty looks when I don’t immediately vacate my seat for someone who is visibly disabled.

How about we all just treat each other with kindness and respect?

[–]kulayeb 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Yeah I get dirty looks all the time. I do give my chair for seniors etc without them asking but sometimes it's very difficult for me especially on the metro with 8+ stops

[–]thcricketfan 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

Whats a non visible disability that needs one to sit?

[–]kjh- 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

For me it’s joint pain due to ulcerative colitis. I don’t have actual arthritis but the inflammation in my body causes issues with my large joints. I am totally medication free because I don’t have a large intestine anymore and therefore no “active” disease but I still have hip and knee pain that make it difficult to stand for long periods or the movements of transit is painful.

I don’t need to sit every day as I am not always in debilitating pain. Regardless of my pain level though, I’m lucky that I get on early in my bus’s journey so I am able to sit almost 100% of the time. I am a 30 year old woman and I look super fit and healthy but I have 7 autoimmune diseases and an ileostomy. I am considered disabled by the (Canadian) government.

[–]thcricketfan 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Sry for your predicament. Knowing that there are diseases/conditions like this will help me be less of a jerk.

[–]kjh- 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m glad sharing my life experiences with you will help you to be a better person. :)

This is why I think it’s very important to be open about my health! It helps other people understand lives that are different than their own.

[–]kulayeb 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm sure there are plenty, in my case it's MS. Others have mentioned arthritis.

Some days I am fine others not so much. Looking at me you'll never be able to tell. I'm in my mid 30s and look fit but you just wouldn't be able to tell that some days I can barely keep myself standing up.

[–]greencheeseplz 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

My wife has a genetic condition which causes her joints to be weak and makes it painful to stand and make the micro-balancing muscle movements required when standing on a train. You would never be able to tell this by looking at her.

[–]DooberSnoober 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Does she happen to have EDS? I have the same problem when standing and I lose my balance a lot just walking around. You wouldn’t be able to tell by looking at me though, I look like a perfectly healthy 6’ 4” 19 year old male, I dont think anybody would be too happy if I asked them to give up their seat.

[–]Wannabkate 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Just sign that i have vertigo

[–]PatriotPantz 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Hope you like the view of my colostomy bag since you need to k know.

[–]TheThankUMan99 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just get up for a pregnant woman or disable person.

[–]Wilza_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What about pregnant men? /s

[–]adonoman 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

As someone who is physically able to stand for my entire trip, I'll give up my seat to anyone who asks - male or female. I don't know what conditions they may have. I do know that if I was in some sort of state where I was willing to humiliate myself and actually ask for a seat, I'd hope someone would reciprocate.

[–]CrumbledCookieDreams 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A lot of disorders or injuries considered disabilities may not be visible.

[–][deleted] 50 points51 points52 points 6 years ago (28 children) | Copy Link

Wait what? Are men expected to give their seats up to women? Even when they're not pregnant? ....why?

[–]bythog 15 points16 points17 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's sort of "tradition" that's on its way out. It used to be expected, then suggested, now fewer and fewer do it. It's one of the old behaviors that a lot of women want to hang on to, but is generally being accepted as not necessary.

I wouldn't even give up a seat to a pregnant woman, though. Unless it's a "pregnant preferred" seat I don't see the reason to.

[–]Zap__Dannigan 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not anymore. It definitely used to be a thing, and there are probably some that still think it should be that way...but not anymore

[–][deleted] 17 points18 points19 points 6 years ago (24 children) | Copy Link

they aren't. this is some fake outrage bs

[–]RoseEsque 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

they aren't.

Depends on where you were brought up. It can be expected in some cultures.

[–]Quatroking1 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (21 children) | Copy Link

statistically women work less hours than men so why the hell should men give up their seat

[–]uberduger 71 points72 points73 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And also, they live longer. More time for sitting when they're old and grey and I'm dead.

[–]UserNombresBeHard 8 points9 points10 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My female former coworker worked as many hours as I did, didn't work as hard and fucked up our work as a team for a couple of years, but yeha, worked as many hours daily.

[–]animekingof2004 54 points55 points56 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

Did this make the news?

[–]_linusthecat_ 31 points32 points33 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

What a stupid thing to write an article about.

[–]Gualdrapo 21 points22 points23 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Welcome to Lad Bible

[–]henrytapdatassdanny 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This guy get it

[–]Autism_Speaks_irl 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's news in 2020

[–]tothecatmobile 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That man is a journalist, and this is from a segment in a morning TV show.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

No it didn’t. Because 99.9999% of humanity doesn’t give a shit. But shitty web publications know they can tap into the internet’s hatred of women and SJW’s to post a lie to get clicks.

[–]MasonTaylor22 29 points30 points31 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I never looked at that way: we are paying the same fare, neither of us deserve to be treated any different.

[–]Killjoys13 50 points51 points52 points 6 years ago (22 children) | Copy Link

"I have a dick and it needs to rest unlike you who got nothing in b/w yo legs!"

...Men, if they used logic like feminists

[–]Beautiful-Musk-Ox 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (18 children) | Copy Link

Feminists don't want women to get preferential treatment on buses. In fact, feminists are the ones who pushed to show that women are just people and not delicate little flowers that need to be coddled and given seats on the bus, as every man believed 100 years ago.

[–]Stopbeingwhinycunts 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (13 children) | Copy Link

In fact, feminists are the ones who pushed to show that women are just people and not delicate little flowers that need to be coddled and given seats on the bus, as every man believed 100 years ago.

Correct, that's what first wave, and for the most part second wave, feminism was about. Fourth wave feminism, however, is just about shaming men, and selling cheap garbage with cutesy slogans.

[–]Justathrowawayoh4 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (12 children) | Copy Link

no, feminism was always just manhating

first wave feminists wanted rights but rejected responsibility and it's what they fought for buttressed by antimale bigotry

getting rights without responsibility is in no way trying to be treated equally to men at all

[–]YouJustReadBullShit 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This was true 40 years ago, not today. This wave of feminism is extremely anti-male and very pro female perks and extras.

You say this wave is saying they are not delicate little flowers... hard to swallow that from the movement who calls anything and everything rape, says they feel violated being checked out, and complains about men sitting in a comfortable way for a male is "offensive". Hard to be a not so delicate little flower when you are offended so easily.

Things like male tears, man up, only men can rape, guilty automatically if a woman accuses, man spreading, mansplaining and so on are not a thing at all with out vitriol and hate.

[–]nathanielsnider 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

that's first wave feminism

where they actually fought for real things, like voting rights or actual sexism

[–]Unhappy-Technician 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Feminism pushed for gender quotas for woman in universities, affirmative action for women in companies, and in many countries, feminist have forced companies to make 40% of their CEOs female, so to refute your point it's looks like feminist do treat women like delicate little flowers who need to given positions rather than earning them

[–]Killjoys13 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What you are taking about is the real feminism whose aim is to end patriarchy, but I am talking about the modern third wave feminism which is stupid and sexist af...

[–]Minimal_Editing 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What is b/w?

[–]YouJustReadBullShit 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

between

[–]Killjoys13 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

between*

[–]AllG0nePeteT0ng 20 points21 points22 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Who offers their seat on public transportation these days to a woman purely because she's woman? Maybe that's still a thing in a way more patriarchal society than the one I live in (the US)? Because I can't remember ever doing that or ever seeing anyone else do that.

Oh and for the record, I'm male and I have had a woman get up and offer me her seat in the past. I was injured and clearly having a hard time and she was a decent human being.

Seems like the main purpose of this pic is to make bigots feel good about themselves.

[–]DarkStar0129 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Simps do.

[–]MamaDog4812 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've seen many teenage boys and young men do this obviously because they're trying to get brownie points. Holding the door open too while looking all expectant like they're trying to force a conversation, recognition, or at least a thank you out of a woman. When they don't get the attention they call them a bitch, then again some women walk around treating every guy who opens the door for them like shit or like that's how it should be. So. many. people. just suck, sucky people are everywhere and we have to live around them. ugh.

[–][deleted] 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why does he need to make this argument? Give up seats for the elderly, pregnant and disabled but not to healthy women.

[–]Jimmy-McBawbag 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can have equality or you can have chivalry.

They are mutually exclusive.

Pick one.

[–]-_MaxWell_- 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

For real tho, why do people think that you have to give your seat because of gender? The only times is right to give your seat is to people that carry too much stuff, pregnant women and old people

[–]mycatisafatcunt 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

or disabled

[–]BonerballsMcGee 61 points62 points63 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Petty but accurate. The whole "gentlemanly behaviour" thing is counterintuitive to the idea of real equality

[–]exotic-tofu 22 points23 points24 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

How is not giving up your seat to some random person who happens to be a woman petty?

[–]Lanky_Double 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Not simping for random women is evil.

[–][deleted] 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well why would he stand up? Was the woman pregnant?

[–]Kaynxrhaast[🍰] 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The Rosa Parks of our generation

[–]D-DC 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Literally women can stand up easier than men, they weigh less per pound of leg muscle that they contain. Men are strong but men weigh alot more and only have 30% more leg muscle.

This isn't even gender equality, women should be volunteering their seats to men. The girl accountant needs to give her seat to the girl nurse, and the girl nurse needs to give it up for the male gardener.

[–]twhelpwithmath 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I honestly would feel I was being patronizing if I gave my seat up for someone just because they are female. Is this really a societal norm at all? Pregnant, disabled, elderly yes. Otherwise no.

[–]PeWaRaW 3 points4 points5 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Why would anyone give up their seat just because someone is a woman ? If you aren’t: -Very young -Old -Disabled -Pregnant -Carrying a lot of stuff I don’t see why I should give my seat to you.

[–]Callmemrcrabs 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Kazuma

[–]BurningOrangeHeaven 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I love this guy. A few years back i had been working all day and my mom asked me to pick up a pizza for us on the way home. So here I am in this bus that i got on at the 2nd or third stop on the route with an XL pizza in my hands and it's getting packed. Woman who is probably 40 or 50 gets on acting like she can't walk or stand - like bitch at least hold the pole - and people started talking shit that young people like me don't get up. Why the fuck would I get up with a pizza box and take up even more space, and she isn't even a senior.

I didn't get up.

Edit to add: Many of these kind of women either dont pay or dont pay the full fare when they get on in NYC. Then there's the ones that mob the back door and don't pay shit but dive into the seats.

[–]HillBridgeRd 9 points10 points11 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

What I hate about today's feminism, it isn't about being equal, its about the matriarch.

[–]LaTanche 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I get what he means but i don't really see it like that. Imo gender equality in that case is more like, "if I don't want to give up my seat, I won't do it" no matter what your gender is. I don't give a shit if you're a girl, i just don't feel like i want to give you my seat.

[–]SharqPhinFtw 12 points13 points14 points 6 years ago (10 children) | Copy Link

Well I don't see a lot of healthy men going around demanding people relinquish their seats.

[–]Ewaninho 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (9 children) | Copy Link

I don't see anyone going around demanding that people relinquish their seats.

[–]SharqPhinFtw 6 points7 points8 points 6 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

Lucky guy you are.

[–]Tschabottem 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

'Oh, how couldn't I see it, you're pregnant!' then stare at belly.

[–]Rad0555 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I will usually ask anyone older than me if they want to sit or if they have young children, I’m in my mid 20’s so it doesn’t bother me to stand. But I wouldn’t let someone have my seat because they think they are entitled to have it because of their gender or race or whatever. I treat people equal for the most part.

[–]fithworldruler 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

ITT: people who don't use public transportation.

[–]OutsideSpring 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

When I take mass transit, I only give up my seat to elderly people who look like they’re struggling.

[–]lebonisang 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm a woman and he's absolutely right. We asked for equality, we are getting it. True feminist this one.

[–]HNutz 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's not wrong.

[–]Bruxae 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've heard that because mens center of gravity is higher then womens their backs tend to be under more strain which consequently makes them more tired, that's why men tend to slouch/sink down while they sit.

..So, if anything women (who's center of gravity is around the hip area) should be giving up their seats to men.

[–]melonangie 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I do it, for any one with kids, elder folks and people who looks tired

[–][deleted] 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

As a rule I’ll always give up my seat for women and old people.

That’s only because I know I’m superior to them and don’t need to rest like they do.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I've always given people my seat. But who knows. I may be literally too tired to stand one day, though I'd feel bad, there'd be nothing I could do about it.

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[–]La_vert 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (4 children) | Copy Link

I see no reason not to give somebody my seat if he asks politely (male or female). If somebody is tired enough to ask or has a reason he/she wouldn't want to disclose it's fine. Of course offering it to people you see need it is common courtesy.

[–]asaasa19831 points 6 years ago* [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

You just don't get it, they have shorter legs therefore they pay more per inch of leg, this is sexism against women!

Also men weights more, they use more gas, they should be charged more!

But my baby should not pay when I have it in my arms because... logic???

[–]TroomersAreGroomers3 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Also men weights more

not the females around here

[–]Mcstringflow 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Hai, Kazuma desu

[–]ninety2wo 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This came up on all and I'm confused, I don't know how I'd react if someone offered me their seat for no reason. It certainly isn't a thing in London (UK). We only offer up our seats for the elderly, disabled, and/or pregnant.

[–]FluffyCheeseStick 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don’t give up your seat to anyone unless you actually want to

[–]sweatyvaginalips 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

So confused, don't women also work all day? Shouldn't it just be whoever the fuck needs a seat regardless of gender?

[–]C0-des 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And why is there an article about someone not giving up their seat?

[–]HalfSoul30 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This may be an unpopular opinion, but personally I have no problem giving up my seat to a woman. It would mainly be me offering though. If I was asked, I might question it.

That being said I have a car and don't see myself in that situation anytime soon.

[–]KrombopulosPhillip 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You better being pushing 70 or be handicapped if you want my spot , i don't care how entitled you feel that day lady

[–]Magical_Maxx 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Ok that’s cool and all but why is there a whole god damn news story about this

[–]Napalmeon 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

What makes her so much worthy to sit down than him?

[–]snail_enthusiast 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I never hear about women wanting to get in on the draft. Maybe fight that battle and I'll give a shit about your fair wage. I'm out here on a jobsite in a hardhat as we speak. Maybe 10 women on this 1800 man site. Every woman out here makes the same wage as a man her equal but there are hardly any women out here working.

Tired of this talk. Ladies if you want equality, fucking earn it, and I don't mean blog about it. I mean put on some boots and prove your worth.

[–]kaolin224 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I thought it was only elderly and disabled, regardless of gender.

Since when did you start having to give up your seat for a young, healthy woman?

[–]ironworkerjames 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I sit my ass down on the subway... woke up at 4am, been working outside in 90 degree heat about to have a heat stroke and subway AC is the first cool place I’ve been able to sit down in for 10 hours and in waddles the 300 pound Karen that woke up about 2 hours ago shooting daggers at me lol.

[–]you_wouldnt_get_it_ 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I like how the give up your seat on public transport has gone from “ah you’re disabled, old, pregnant and actually have a need to sit down” to “give up your seat to a woman or you’re sexist”.

[–]TheGhettoKidAtSchool 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Love the Kazuma subtitles you put.

[–]nuclear_blender 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You know what interests me? I'm sure there's someone out there that thinks this deserves to be put one/imapieceofshit and the idea that something can be good and bad to different people trips me out. It makes me question everything I think to be moral/immoral. I personally, agree with this man. But what if I was on the other end? I would believe to my heart that this man is a piece of shit. But knowing many people would agree with his position. Now take something that you personally think is an awful thing. Stalin murdering millions of people. The Armenian genocide. Now try to question yourself as being possibly wrong.

[–]TacobellSauce1 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Imagine getting stabbed by a woman, that's equality.

[–]le_plouc 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

why the hell would they even turn that into a press article

[–]Obese_Chungus 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

What anime is this

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Konosuba

[–]Obese_Chungus 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Thanks

[–]vicsj 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

In my country it's frowned upon to exercise traditional etiquette. It's seen as outdated. If you did that to a Norwegian woman (and you're a Norwegian man), she would most likely interpret it as you see her as weaker than you. Anything you wouldn't also do for a fellow man is seen as discrimination. If you hold the door for a woman, it's socially expected that you also hold the door for another man, and same goes for women, vica versa.

We tend to be more tolerant towards foreigners because we understand there's cultural differences obviously.

I've been dating a British guy for the past 3 years and I have to say what annoys me the most is the etiquette things he does. Like on our first date, I insisted on splitting the bill while he insisted on paying for both of us. It ended up in an unnecessary argument (which he won because I ended up backing down because he started to get worked up). Although he did it because he thought it was right, it contradicted my values strongly. I wanted our very first date to be based on equal terms, so it upset me more than it should have.

I wish etiquette could just disappeared from every culture. I understand it's meant to be a form of politeness, but it pretty much only favours women and that's irrational and unfair. Don't be polite based on people's gender, be polite based on the fact that they're your fellow humans. Men shouldn't always be the ones who have to give, they deserve to receive too.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Don't be polite based on people's gender, be polite based on the fact that they're your fellow humans.

Bless you, wholesome person of the internet.

[–]Latin-Danzig 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Good on him 👍

[–]Chupbluearrow 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (7 children) | Copy Link

Is this really what women complain about. Some dude not standing up is a worthy article to write. Not like there are people dying from some virus we no jack dick about and your president thinks Lysol will cure it but go off

[–]DrSanjizant1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Wait a moment.... THAT'S LORD HUGH MONGUS!

[–]PorkSoda1999 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

HUGHMONGOUS WHAT??!! x24

[–]TheHopesedge 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Anime is KonoSuba for anyone interested.

[–]Mujokan 2 points3 points4 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I'm probably missing something but I see young women giving up their seat for old people all the time.

I never thought there was any obligation to give up your seat for a woman just because she's female. Is that a thing? I thought it was if you think it will be more difficult for the person to stand than you.

If I'm sat down because I'm tired, it never even occured to me for one second to stand up for a young fit woman.

Sounds like one of those insane paranoid things some insecure men have fun freaking themselves out about.

[–]melodypowers 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Nope. I'm a woman and it's not a thing. I give my seat to elderly or people with a cane of all genders.

I will give my seat to a heavily pregnant woman as well, but that's the only way I gender differentiate.

[–]Party-Potential 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

What, you mean all these years I could have been stealing chairs from dudes? /s

Literally never have I seen a woman expect a seat from a man. The article was about chivalry, because some men, having old-fashioned values, will offer their seat to a woman- which I as a young, not-pregnant, able-bodied and reasonable woman would politely refuse. Some women like chivalry, some women don't, it's almost like we're all different people, weird right?

LET THE DOWNVOTING COMMENCE

[–]iKnoJopro 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (6 children) | Copy Link

I almost always offer my seat to women on public transportation, but I don’t think you should be required to do so. And if some able bodied woman rudely asked me to get up, there’s no way in hell I’d get up.

[–]UnderivedNickname 10 points11 points12 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

yeah but why only women tho.Tbh I don't really care giving my seat to whoever it is, I much prefer standing up, helps my posture.

[–]iKnoJopro 5 points6 points7 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Well I’m from the South, Idk just something I was taught from a young age. Obviously an old or disabled man would get the same treatment.

[–]bertcox 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just think its fun. Tourist not a comuter though.

[–]tripsteady 4 points5 points6 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I almost always offer my seat to women on public transportation

why? that's pretty sexist

[–]qwertybo_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yeah because your a simp

[–]mule_roany_mare 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It’s funny that some people only experience giving their seat to someone & others only experience being given a seat.

I’ve given up my seat at least 1,000 times & even though I used to work 80 hour weeks & sometimes 30 hour days I don’t recall anyone ever offering me a seat.

Kindness is it’s own reward, but it would be nice to see what it’s like lol.

[–]casemodz1 points 6 years ago [recovered] (1 child) | Copy Link

Women just want to be treated special. Most women think they are special and unique. I'm tired of it.

[–]ezgamer97 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Disabled, or old. Pregnant people should have fucked someone with a car.

[–]TroomersAreGroomers3 7 points8 points9 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

kept their legs shut until they could afford a child

[–]Jugrnot8 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

true hero

[–]T4mvv1lc0xx 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

After all the shaming women give men yet you’re expected to be a “gentleman”

[–]dirtyviking1337 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

“We’re at it? Haha.

[–]Radikost 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What series is this from?

[–]ExFavillaResurgemos 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Konosuba. Can't recommend it enough. Join us in the long wait for season 3

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I don't mind standing on transportation but if you want my bomb-ass parking spot in front of the store you better not have legs or something like that.

[–]Super_Scorplane 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

A true hero!!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Repost.

[–]robizzle89 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

You stand up for old people and that's it. No idea why anyone would offer women a seat. When they are pregnant for sure but otherwise...

[–]Aido121 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Chivalry is dead.

And women killed it.

[–]SgtSunnyBunny 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kazuma!

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I do the same.

It's not equality if society constantly makes your life easier than mine, biiiiiitch!

[–]LogicalGoat11 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

This wasn’t actually a gender issue. The conversation wasn’t about feminism at all.

[–]DudeCalledTom 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kazuma is ultimate anti simp

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

Are you fucking kidding me reposting this, its literally like 5 or 6 top post of all time

[–]hasibrock 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You did it right!!!

[–]Queef-Elizabeth 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Women always complain about man's pressing when they're always the one hogging seats with their purses on my busses.

[–]InDaZoo 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i would never give up my seat to a woman! only cool dudes

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Plot twist: she was heavily pregnant or elderly

[–]LittleRagins 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Whose pussy pass is being denied here?

[–]ToastedSkoops 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True chads don’t expect that!

[–]jakethedumbmistake 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True, in a world of social isolation?

[–]TheInactiveWall 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why is the top text supposed to be the middle text?

[–]subhuman_soycuck 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Based and seatpilled.

[–]-Listening 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Based and bootpilled but come on man

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’m glad you can get justice by doing nothing and sitting there while seething in your head.

[–]LimpWibbler_ 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I give up for everyone, I don't see the big deal in standing.

[–]NukaWorldOverboss 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I am too. I fuck both men and women.

[–]Capcuck 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Giving up public transport seats for women (that is, not pregnant, or disabled, or anything like that) is a thing in your country? Why?

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Pregenant, old, or have a child under 4 should be able to sit. The rest cna stop acting entitled and setting back our progress as women in society

[–]ExpiredPilot 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you ask for my seat I’ll probably give it to you, but unless you’re pregnant or disabled I’m not gonna give it up without you asking.

[–]Shantotto11 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Must’ve been a slow news day...

[–]lol_camis 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'll totally get out of my seat for a disabled or elderly person... But not an able-bodied person of any gender. First come first serve.

[–]Norn_Queen_Yurei 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Paul Tassi the author looks like he could milk a bull with just his lips

[–]6969minus420420 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Wasnt ład bible just like a shitty meme page? How is it news?

[–]Terrarialord9013 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

just binged seasons 1 and 2 of konosuba (apart from episode 11 of season 2 and the movie)

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I'm pretty happy this expectation seems to be slowly going away. Most times I've taken a bus, people want so little to do with each other they won't even ask for the seat lol. In general, I hate people interacting with me when I'm going about my day more than a passing "Morning". I get freaked out that their normalcy is only skin deep and the second I reject them, they'll snap. Nope, nope, nope. I actively look as unfriendly as possible just so people will leave me alone.

[–]Lefty_22 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Kazuma is savage af tho. What a great show.

[–]flananagirl 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Agreed but if someone is really old, disabled, or pregnant, you really have to do the right thing and hive them your seat, if you’re more than able bodied.

[–]Celug28 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Alright but... why the fuck is this news in the first place, like its uncommon or something

[–]TroomersAreGroomers3 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Females should be forced to walk everywhere. They are privileged and need to experience actual oppression.

[–]mostintuitively 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why the fuck is this news?

[–]number8inline 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree lol. Although this doesn't really happen in the U.S., it happens in a lot of other cultures. I give up my seat for men quite a lot but they also refuse to take it. When I go with my boyfriend in a crowded bus I always make sure he gets the window seat so women can't glare at him and guilt him into standing up. It's ridiculous. Only pregnant, disabled and elderly should have the seats given up for them.

Oh and side note: Your five year old child doesn't need their own seat either imo. The bus is extremely crowded, and that kid didn't pay a fare. Put him on your lap.

[–]them_orangebritches 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

And this was a news story...

[–]LonktheDonk 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Off topic what is the anime.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

gods blessing upon this world.

[–]ToastedSkoops 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Oh no! not the equality age!

[–]darby-dev 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True he’s gonna check?

[–]alanmooreisrasput1 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Why is this news?

[–]biggunsg0b00m 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

It's this an American thing? I've never seen it in Australia - having to give up a seat for women. We do have special seats near the entry for elderly or pregnant though..

[–]jakethedumbmistake 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True, also hard to be funny

[–]DennyMilk 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

True life. I’m 200% nigga**

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I offer my seat to the elderly, disabled, or people with babies. Other than that, nope.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

He's a real one

[–]jarious 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I only give my seat if to he lady is older or pregnant or has a baby on her arms or carrying something heavy or if I feel like, which is always , I was taught that, I see sometimes it's not practical like when I'm in the window seat , because I'd have to bother the person next to me to give up my seat.

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

*hand noises intensify

[–][deleted] 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

In español it’s “dame poosy “

[–]DamonF7 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

What anime is that?

[–]BombsRainDown 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Konosuba

[–]Killerko 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Since when you do give up seats to women?

I thought you supposed to give up seat for old people or mums with small children..

[–]TheShingle 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

If you are a true gentleman (and I say that unironically) you would give up your seat for a woman.

It’s a completely different story if the woman asks you to stand. People can ask for a seat, that’s fine, but you can’t get upset if they refuse to give it to you, man or woman.

But as a man, if you have the ability stand, and you are not sore from manual labor, then you should be expected to willingly offer up your seat. Not because you want sex in return, but because that is what supreme gentlemen do. That is how a civilized society functions. “Rights” are not the same thing as social norms.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I agree. I give up my seat anyway, but I don't think people should get mad if someone says no cause they're tired from a long days work.

[–]Turningsnake 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

hey, i’ve seen this one!

[–]Unsealedwheat11 0 points1 point2 points 6 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

i mean it's true

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