If you're new to TRP (as I am) and are still working through these concepts, you'd be doing yourself a disservice if you didn't read this thread and take in the literally thousands of examples that should, beyond any reasonable doubt, instill in your mind that everything espoused in TRP philosophy is 100% real and true in nearly every case.
Because of the cross-linking policy I can't link directly to the AskReddit thread, but you're already on TRP so I know you're smart enough to find it on your own.
As you read this thread, keep in your mind the context and the typical reddit user base and see how many times you see the following happen:
- Female, young. Medium/high partner count. Wants to "experience life" and "have fun"
- Female, Pre-Wall. Medium/high partner count. Partying is "behind her" and is now looking for "something more"
- Female, Wall. High partner count. Currently "settled down" and with a "great guy" whom she "loves so much"
- Male, young. Virgin, beta tendencies or hobbies.
- Male, young. Low partner count. Serial LTR and beta tendencies. Dating a great girl
- Male, mature. Low partner count. Serial LTR into marriage.
- Male, young OR mature. High partner count. Few LTRs, alpha tendencies
Did you notice the remarkably high number of no-to-low partner count beta males? Did you notice a conspicuous absence of no-to-low partner count females? Did you notice how nearly all females had higher partner counts than nearly all males? Did you notice the conspicuously low number of high partner count alpha males?
You don't need to go much further than our own proverbial front door to get confirmation that, indeed, ALL WOMEN ARE LIKE THAT
If you're just starting your BP deconversion, say it again with me - out loud if you're able. All. Women. Are. Like. That.
You know that 6 from work that you found out is on reddit? Oh c'mon you know the one - with the pixie cut and triforce tattoo. I know right? she's totally cool and into the stuff you like too, serious girlfriend material right there! There's no way she'd suck off Swole Steve from accounting in the fire escape and then go home to get another load sprayed across her tits by her FWB/roommate, she's not that kind of girl.
How about the brunette with glasses - you know, Jamie's friend? She was there for board game night at the pub. Sure she's a 5 and a little chubby, but hey she was fun to hang around and really seemed to respond positively to you when you helped her win in Settlers of Catan! There's no way she'd let somebody she met two hours ago pump a load of cum into her asshole unprotected, she's not that kind of girl.
To any new BPers who have just discovered TRP philosophy, please take this as a lesson that All Women Are Like That. All of them - Your wife, girlfriend, the nice ones, the sweet ones, the nerdy ones, the cool ones. AWALT. I've included a few choice excerpts below - classic AF/BB, straight from the horse's mouth. No matter who the girl or her situation, if she gets enough tingles, she WILL fuck.
Improve your physique. Improve your Life. Improve your value. Improve your social skills. Be the one that generates the tingles. Be the one she fucks, because you can't beat the system any other way.
Below are just a handful of literally hundreds of excerpts just like them, and I assure you, every single one of them is not that kind of girl
Edit: Thanks for the positive responses TRP! There's some valid critiques in regards to the accuracy of any data obtained from this thread, all of which I completely agree with. I mention early on in the post to keep in mind the context of reddit when evaluating these replies - I don't think anyone would disagree that there is likely to be a higher propensity for beta males as well as "queen bee" females that keep a hive of low-SMV beta male orbiters. This was more intended to be an exploration of the common TRP archetypes within the context of a social construct that we all more or less understand. It's also interesting to get a rough comparison on how things like the 80/20 rule hold up with the sample selection of redditors that would bother replying to that sort of thread. It's only a case study in the context that this is the type of data that a real case study funded by real grant money would try to collect with all the appropriate controls that one would expect from that kind of study. We now return to your regularly scheduled sloot quootes:
Female, 20. I'm at 16-19. It probably wouldn't be so bad if I wasn't at 2 two months ago.
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Throw away because my boyfriend knows my username. I'm a 23 year old female and I estimate 40 men? I stopped counting. I had a rough couple years with tying my self worth directly to sex. I used drugs pretty heavily. I have been monogamous for 11 months now and it's awesome. I can't say I'm proud of my number, by any means, but I am disease free and child free. I learned valuable things and am stronger for it.
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Similar to you. I think my count was 16. Maybe 17. I always feel like I'm missing a couple of dudes in there somewhere and just assume they must not have been that good/interesting. I've been with the same guy for almost 10 years; the number is so insignificant in the grand scheme.
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As a female in my 30's, I'd have to guess my number is around 120. I was hyper sexual for most of my twenties and tried to figure out what I really enjoyed about sex. I think as I've gotten older, the quality of sex has gotten better.
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It's nice to see this. I'm 26 and I've had sex with probably around 70 people now. Some good, some meh, but it's all been an experience I wouldn't go back on. Since I've gotten married the quality of sex has improved dramatically, partly because he's awesome in bed, and partly because he has a say in my other partners now, so sex outside of our relationship is better too. I love that I've had so many experiences because I've tried tons of stuff and was really into kink for a bit. Now I know what I like and have amazing sex consistently.
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I'm in the same boat - probably not quite at 100 and about to turn 30 (female). I've had stints of singledom where I've happily explored different sexual options and had a great time doing so. I've no concern over my numbers. Sex is what you make it and I make it fun.
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female, 33 years old. 5 women, ~150 men Gangbangs are fun. Don't judge me.
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Uhhhhh... I'm a 25-year-old girl and I think it's about 30. It's been fun. I definitely want more partners.
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When I was 25, I had been with 33 people. (It hasn't changed since) I don't feel bad about it, but I look at my new baby girl and don't really want her following in mom's footsteps
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throwaway because my dude Reddits and this conversation doesn't usually end well. Female, 21, stopped counting at 25. Personally- I couldn't fucking care less, I'm enjoying myself, always practice safe sex and I'm not hurting anyone in the process. edit:misused an idiom. Also, I used a throw away to avoid a conversation that doesn't need to be had. Just because I would prefer that information be private, doesn't mean it bothers me.
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Virgin until 20. Now 24 years old. 16 men. Shame at first because I grew up catholic and was told I was going to hell for even thinking about sex. As well as looking to fulfill a need for love through sex.
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Fifteen. All guys (I am a lady). I feel pretty happy about it, all good interactions. I'm glad I took advantage of being young and seeing what was out there. It makes me feel very settled and secure in my marriage because I know what I have is really excellent.
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Somewhere around thirty, seems appropriate for my thirty years of age. I'm getting married this year so no more. I'm happy I learnt what I like and what guys like and that I kept myself satisfied in my horny twenties. But what I can honestly say is that not a single fuck holds a candle to making love to the man I'm going to marry. Only now have I learnt that the best sex is an emotional act not just a physical one.
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F/28, been with 70-80 men but I haven't counted recently. I'm surprised how many people with more partners seem... defensive? It's ok if you've been with 1 person, or 100 people.
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Around 40. I tried to write everyone down and really couldn't remember. I really was a ho in college. I'm lucky I'm STD free now as a 30 year old woman.
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