Tinder Game Field Report

moho_mine · 2014-05-19T16:32:06+00:00

in a what!?!? IN A WHAT?????

YOU CANT LEAVE ME HANGING LIKE THIS

retroshark · 2014-05-19T11:36:32+00:00

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stillnoturday · 2014-05-19T10:10:13+00:00

a man after my own heart, move your plans I'm better I like your style.

necron33 · 2014-05-19T11:55:08+00:00

Is there some place where one can find more stuff like this?

throwaway_0001a · 2014-05-19T11:58:56+00:00

The "working up the courage" line doesn't feel like a push to me. Still, valuable example for me, thank you!

INomYou · 2014-05-19T11:45:15+00:00

That is some locked-down shit. Grats. FRs like these are how we get to see what happens when theory meets the real world. Solid.

DrakeSaint · 2014-05-19T11:57:41+00:00

I would've made very similar moves in this chat. Still, some of your concepts were new to me. Very interesting, sir. Keep more logs coming, Tinder is one hell of a tool if you know how to use it.

2014-05-19T20:57:15+00:00

"Making sure the girl knows whats up" is like 50% of online dating. The rest is how you market yourself in your profile. This really shows the first 50% excellently - the key is to make sure the girl knows which category you are in. Most guys hide their intentions because most girls will say like "not looking for hookups!" or some hamster shit.

That is completely wrong, she has to know where you are going to take it, that is what will get her to meetup for drinks and leave after 5 mins. Nice job, I was really expecting this to be some nonsense that belongs in seddit, but this is solid. Newbies take note, he's not entertaining her with stories or even trying to "attract her" with charisma or anything. That is very important, your lines need to look like you just thought of them on the fly, not sat and composed some art.

ohhaio · 2014-05-19T17:05:34+00:00

worthless without profile pix of you and the girl, assuming of course that this is a m/f hookup

rugbytitsandmedicine · 2014-05-19T16:14:52+00:00

Goddamn son

Chet_Manly0987 · 2014-05-19T17:10:41+00:00

does anyone else get a high from having won the duel (and the girl) of who is the superior male? I swear its better than any drug

Doomsday_ · 2014-05-19T17:46:46+00:00

Since you met her & got the bang, good job.

That said, it seems like some of your text game could use work. You come off as somewhat try-hard in that you are typing a lot more than she is and using a great deal of punctuation. I would suggest trying to be more breezy and laconic.

Critical commentary follows:

Just wondering how much tinder crush is up to this fine Sunday ;)

Calling her your "crush" seems too admiring. The smileyface is rapport-seeking and should be removed. "Sunday" should be "sun."

I'm a bit hungry, other than that it's pretty fantastic.

Have you eaten already?

Double text is not usually a good play. Could have done: "I'm hungry, let's get dinner." If she's already eaten she'll tell you, you don't need to ask her.

I'm working up the courage to invite you out to dinner.

Indirect and pegs you as unconfident. You should assume the sale and frame it so that she is chasing you. So, possible alternative: "so when r u gonna buy me dinner/sushi?" (feel free to omit the question mark)

Lame. I'm way more fun than 9 o'clock guy.

Once again it seems you're trying too hard to convince her. Less is more. You could simply text "gay" or ". . ." and if she's into you, she'll reply.

You know so. You seem like a smart girl. Just reschedule Mr 9pm. He will understand

Too much pleading/convincing. You're using logic when you should be setting a firm boundary or playing to her emotions. Two options here. Go direct: "Meet me at X at Y time." Or, go for the witty sexual banter, "woah, you're thinking of coming already? Let's not get ahead of ourselves"

Haha forget that. I'm not going to feed you, show you a great time, have you have the must fun you've had all month, then send you off to another guy. That's crazy

Too elaborate. Less is more. ". . ." would work here if you didn't do it earlier. Could also do something like "Nope, I'm not your warm-up date/guy." Or, more aggressively, simply assume the sale, "Not enough time to get back to my place for bedroom acrobatics."

We finally agree on something ;)

Too rapport-seeking. Lose the emoticon for sure. You could probably even skip texting her back at this point, since you've already established the fun bet frame where she's to text you back when she's board.

kingofpoplives · 2014-05-19T11:50:50+00:00

This girl was DTF the first decent guy she could find, and your SMV came in a couple notches higher than Mr. 9:00.

You just got used for sex.

OKJaded · 2014-05-19T15:48:07+00:00

I've heard about emoticons before, not to use them. These seem fine, and to actually help. What do others think?

rpdoom · 2014-05-19T18:37:22+00:00

It's refreshing to see actual photo evidence on this sub. Sometimes it's hard to tell if people are telling the truth or embellishing. Kudos to you man, good to see it's working. I like the quick and to the point philosophy. I'll have to try that out sometime soon.

Uedukai · 2014-05-20T03:52:16+00:00

Wow you fucked an ugly girl from tinder? TRP really is magic

averagecycle · 2014-05-19T12:17:47+00:00

any reason why you didn't get her number and move over to text?

Boom5hot · 2014-05-19T18:31:37+00:00

I had to look up some (all) of those words you used to describe what you were doing.

Thank you urban dictionary but what is an "AFBB" ?

I'm still not sure I understand what the red pill employs. Can you link a resource or specific story that explains these tools.

I don't really want a why explanation but a what & how.

2014-05-20T06:26:05+00:00

Wow. Slow clapping Very nice.

lepies_pegao · 2014-05-19T16:31:40+00:00

so after 3 months working out(mentally and physically), I decided to give it a try. gonna post soon!

Thanks for the FR!

trophyboyfriend · 2014-05-19T16:55:31+00:00

Congrats on the bang.

But I do hate you a bit. That's far and away the most depressing thing I've read all weekend.... it just highlights how far my game needs to come before I can even think of pulling that shit off.

Kernes · 2014-05-21T14:35:38+00:00

Seems that you mixed ideas of red pill and pick up

umbrobrobro · 2014-09-28T03:09:58+00:00

How did you get her to agree to go to your place? Back at home how did you escalate to sex

mast0rz · 2014-05-19T09:55:33+00:00

~~Uhm, no link...~~

Thanks! You nailed that.

pxsalmers · 2014-05-19T13:23:00+00:00

good FR and thank you for adding the side comments, you definitely locked this down effortlessly.

RobertPauleson · 2014-05-19T16:21:30+00:00

Game is strong with this one. Good work out there.

Drafapula · 2014-05-19T22:04:42+00:00

this is so retarded.

you were clearly better looking and she picked you to fuck.... hypergamy.... tinder..... why there was NO game here

BadgerBurger · 2014-05-19T11:16:34+00:00

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duurrrrr · 2014-05-19T11:58:10+00:00

Nice work squire!

rothkochapel · 2014-05-19T15:22:32+00:00

well played my friend, well played.

DarkSayed · 2014-05-19T16:21:07+00:00

naice.

greatest_mistake · 2014-05-19T16:32:40+00:00

Masterful

SadFace959 · 2014-05-19T16:38:05+00:00

You had me at cognitive dissonance. Well played.

Zanford · 2014-05-19T17:03:06+00:00

Your first messages were on 18 may asking what she's doing today (sunday).

19 may she talks about that sunda night you had sex.

UHh, what? did I read something wrong?

schwingaling · 2014-05-19T17:03:22+00:00

Haha great lines. Personally I'd say you came on a bit needy/too into her (the "working up the courage" line especially) but maybe that's just personality differences, it clearly worked so keep doing what you're doing.

hamstercide · 2014-05-19T17:42:23+00:00

What did you blank out at the end where she said "in a ____ even"? In a latrine?

boydeer · 2014-05-19T17:58:35+00:00

quality. i have struggled with how to engage chicks on tinder unless they're very very forthcoming, so this helps.

out of the blue, my roommate got a match yesterday and within 3 hours was plowing her. he's got some sort of magical power over asian women, that son of a bitch. so proud.

JohnNashoba · 2014-05-19T19:07:57+00:00

I'm always hesitant of Tinder unless I'm only looking for a hookup. Girls I meet through it do not ever seem to be dateable though.

2014-05-19T19:37:55+00:00

failed the jumbotron test with your second text, bro.

2014-05-19T22:13:35+00:00

That was laddish!

P.S. was she hot?

Karmatsocheff · 2014-05-19T22:23:50+00:00

This is great and all, but it's tinder. It's not like you bumped into her while waiting in line at the DMV. It's like getting a winning bid on eBay.

ADarkerNight · 2014-05-19T22:23:54+00:00

Sneakyninjapants tinder game all the way. That thread inspired my tinder shenanigans. I like OPs twist to go for the meetup, I usually push for a number. Might have to try this version.

2014-05-19T23:36:22+00:00

We need more posts like this from pro's.

adamlikesprettygirls · 2014-05-20T03:24:42+00:00

gold

2014-05-20T04:46:01+00:00

Well done bro, exactly how I treat my girls. My friends shit on me for texting playfully like you but it's worked well for me this semester with a bodycount of 9.

Raggos · 2014-05-19T13:55:49+00:00

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th3f3tt · 2014-05-19T15:07:43+00:00

Now do you ever talk to this girl again, or was that it for you two? Great post, I like the annotations and the content.

pcadrian · 2014-05-19T19:32:20+00:00

Pretty much textbook man. Nice work.

todascuentas · 2014-05-19T19:42:12+00:00

Listen, this is going to be a forgettable, uninteresting moment, one of thousands of self-same every day everywhere. *Unless* you send her this annotated log and then post her reaction. Break the cycle, focus on lolz. Bang her first or whatever it's about though.

SlenderWoman1979 · 2014-05-19T12:44:58+00:00

I don't really understand the whole concept of the red pill, please explain. I mean, I get that this is all about not respecting women unless they earn your respect. Why wouldn't you just respect women and lose respect for them if they do something that you feel should make them have lesser respect then you have given them?

OKJaded · 2014-05-19T17:34:45+00:00

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Title	Tinder Game Field Report
Author	OKJaded
Upvotes	415
Comments	174
Date	May 19, 2014 9:33 AM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/25xh53/tinder_game_field_report/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/TheRedPill/tinder-game-field-report.15560 https://theredarchive.com/post/15560

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