Why girls get over guys quicker

30303030303030 · 2014-01-03T15:20:37+00:00

Because all she has to do to get fucked or another bf is go to the club and snap her fingers. It's not that easy for men.

"How to get over a man?. Get under another". There was a topic on either askmen or askwomen and women said it indeed works well.

boydeer · 2014-01-03T15:30:05+00:00

Not really an instance that proves male disposability. More like ammo for dispelling the "everyone is special" feel-good bullshit peddled by Hollywood. That and hypergamy.

Women have a hard time getting over someone / takes a long time to do so only if there are no other higher value prospects on their horizon (this situation is the cause of the alpha widow).

If she's got a shot with another man that she perceives of higher value than you, she'll gloss over you like 2.5 years together were nothing but a phase. This is thanks in part to the rationalization hamster, and evolution (survival) . She may have made your relationship to seem like a stepping stone in her quest to finding her true love - the new guy. Or some other dramatized ego-petting.

Understanding the pragmatic nature of female sexual (and social) strategy is one of the first red pill lessons that needs to be internalized.

For a woman, every relationship is artifically inflated with substance and illusions of depth, by idealizing every mundane aspect and piling oxytocin-fueled emotional fluff they retroactively lie to themselves. This way, it all seems less shallow and result-oriented - if they romaticize pragmatic notions like social value, looks, potential for success etc, it totally becomes more than just getting the best that they can get to make their life better, it's love and fate and it was always totally meant to be.

Women need this pseudo-romantic facade. That's why you can always count on a woman being interested in finding new things about herself (the cube comes to mind). They need for things to be more than they seem. Why? because most of the time they seem awfully self-serving and cutthroat, and not at all innocent, ethereal and romantic. In fact, their sexual instincts are as down to earth as they can be, evolution made sure of that.

Never count on a woman to take things for what they are. At this point you can't be surprised at how easily they rationalize even the least morally ambiguous aspects - women being attracted to serial killers, violent criminals, psychopaths, sociopaths, war criminals. None of those women ever aknowledged that they were drawn to a monster, every one of them had rationalized their attraction into a fantasy where he's misunderstood/broken/innocent or just needs someone special to show him the way.

http://www.theguardian.com/film/2004/jan/23/1

"According to Buisson, who is director of French TV’s History Channel, the city was a hotbed of sex. Wherever there was darkness, or cheap hotels, it was possible to find German soldiers consorting with French women."

http://uncoy.com/2006/01/russian_women_n.html

"In light of the above, it is not surprising that so many Russian and Ukrainian women found themselves pregnant. As long as they entertained the notion that their invaders' intentions were ultimately benevolent they would happily give themeselves up to fate (fatalism is endemic in Russian philosophical and even in practical ethical thought) and see what happens with their new admirers."

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/05/15/dzhokhar-tsarnaev-fan-club-teen-girl-following_n_3275653.html

If a woman can tell herself that "a guy is too cute to be a terrorist" and completely put reason aside once the hormones take over, how hard do you think it would be to forget a 2.5 years relationship?

If there's enough incentive (or lack of negative incentive) all bets are off, morals, shame, virtue, gone. Man's immoral sexual impulses will never even get close to a woman's potential for ruthlessness. Accept it, live with the knowledge that a woman's loyalty is a glass wall, that there is no such thing as relationship equity (the resources and time you put in do not matter), and plan your actions accordingly.

EDIT: This was not meant to scare the newer members. I pointed out with credible sources that women have the potential to behave like this. When it comes to the occurence of it, it's relative to context, some women will never reach a point where they have exhibit said behaviour, and some will multiple times. It's more of a warning than anything else more drastic.

OccamsUsername · 2014-01-03T15:43:46+00:00

You decide how devastated to be.

Within 72 hours of my last LTR breakup (also 2.5 years), I had my first date. I allowed myself 24 hours to grieve and then it was time to make plans. I buckled down, redoubled my stoicism. There is no reason for hesitation or excess negative emotion in the face of pursuing your desires. Resting on your laurels or feeling sorry for yourself is masturbatory and should be minimized to the point of extinguishment.

Do more and be more every day. If you allow the injury she has given you to change or significantly slow your pursuits of self improvement or goal achievement, then you deserve the hole you dig for yourself.

Get angry if you must, but do not despair. Anger is at least useful motivation. Discard what is not useful.

emptyform · 2014-01-03T14:49:00+00:00

This is why it's important to never put your base strength in your woman. Reconnect with your inner circle of male friends and get lost in your work, in your mission.

fodosho · 2014-01-03T16:09:31+00:00

I've never in my life seen a girl break up with a guy without already having another guy ready. Women are like monkeys, they never let go of one branch until they have a firm grip on another (substitute monkey with girl and branch with dick.)

slcjosh · 2014-01-03T16:28:47+00:00

This is also why i will never live with a girl again. I lived with an ex, we broke up, and i knew we couldnt live together. She tried to pretend we could until the lease was up, FUCK THAT. I flat told her shed be moving out because all the furniture, bedding, silverware, appliances, etc were fucking mine. I bought that shit. She didnt make enough money to cover all her expenses if I left.

Somehow, logic and constant reminders, from me, that she was fucked if she didnt move back to her parents prevailed.

Never again man.

secularist42 · 2014-01-03T17:20:18+00:00

Women don't love YOU. They love what you are to them. After a breakup it's relatively easy for her to find some guy who's at least a version of what you were.

As I've been quoting a lot lately: "men are romantics pretending to be realists, women vice versa"...stop expecting her to have loyalty or remorse in the same way we do. It's just not in their individual or collective best interest.

gordonthrows · 2014-01-03T14:35:57+00:00

It's the War Bride Dynamic: http://therationalmale.com/2011/10/03/war-brides/

Cavewomen (and even recent "dark era" women) that have a propensity to overcome mental traumas (like being slaved by a conqueror) ended up with better chances to survival and offspring.

JimmyTheIntern · 2014-01-03T16:17:20+00:00

After your edit, it's clear that the lesson here is "Never move in with a girlfriend."

You wouldn't know nor care about any of this if you had your own place.

2014-01-03T16:45:46+00:00

Yes, this disposability is part of the reason women initiate the vast majority of divorces. Men very rarely initiate a divorce on their own, it's almost always jointly filed or more likely filed exclusively by the woman without his full support in the decision. This is why men's suicide risk and risk of turning to drug and alcohol abuse goes way up after a divorce. Women on the other hand are incredibly resilient after a divorce, and are no more likely to fall prey to such negative outcomes (but if they were, you can be sure you'd be hearing about it as a problem). There's nothing quite like that slap in the face by reality to wake you up to your disposable nature as a man.

Xein · 2014-01-03T15:33:14+00:00

I think also, when a man loses a woman it's HIS fault (became incapacitated, dominated by another male, failed to acquire something, etc).

I think this only applies to relatively young women though. I'd be interested to see how it is for women ~ age 35. Is it more traumatic for women to lose a man when they are hitting their reproductive end?

cagethepepper · 2014-01-03T14:35:05+00:00

Yeah, you're right.

We are all just worker bees.

Nemester · 2014-01-03T16:08:37+00:00

I think it is easy for women to get over relationships because it is relatively easy for an attractive women (lets face it, you weren't dating a fat and/or old woman) to enter a new relationship. It takes very little effort for a woman with high SMV. For men who are good at game, they would similarly get over the old relationship quickly.

apackofwankers · 2014-01-03T16:01:15+00:00

I had an Israeli ex-gf who's mother taught her that the best way to fall out of love with someone is this: whenever you think of them, you have to think of them as being on the toilet.

This might have worked for a prissy hasidic housewife, but in this day and age you need to do better.

My technique for getting over women: whenever you think of her, picture a spider and empty your mind as you stare into its baleful soulless eyes. When you are done starring into the abyss, bring a boot down on it, crushing it, and terminating that thought.

You can substitute snakes, cockroaches, poisonous caterpillars, sharks, anything you have a deep seated monkey brain primitive aversion to or disgust for. If you cant remember what a nasty ass spider looks like, go to the zoo and press your face against the glass of the thing they keep spiders in - get up close.

AceroInoxidable · 2014-01-03T16:57:59+00:00

I like your edit more than the original post.

I don't care how much you think you have your shit together, if you have this shit literally in your face, it fucks with you

So many guys get so depressed thinking there's something wrong with them, when there's not. The problem is that when you feel like a beta, you act like a beta. And when you act like something you become that something.

The trick is to maintain your alpha frame. Whatever happens, fucking maintain your frame. If you were to remember only one think to do when everything seems chaotic, it's that: maintain your frame over hers.

GoryWizard · 2014-01-03T15:32:54+00:00

The older you get the easier breaking up is in general. It's nice, actually.

Glenbert · 2014-01-03T15:32:56+00:00

How old are you? From what I've seen, amongst couples who break up in their 30s or later, it's always the guy who moves on more quickly. Present company included.

2014-01-03T20:04:32+00:00

Well, in the interest of fairness she's probably going against her instincts and not wearing her feelings on her sleeves. There is such a thing as ending a relationship you think is perfectly solid for the reason that it's for your own good. It can be the hardest damn thing you ever do, but you know in the back of your head that if you cave, its all over.

Modern society calls this, "Crawling back" as though admitting in a relationship you fucked up is something bad. Never mind that every good relationship is rooted in a lot of this give and take. The fact that we took this for granted and threw it out explains the modern situation.

Women don't necessarily get over men quicker because there's a broader selection of men in the barn, so to speak. Human nature can never be reduced to single binary responses. I mean, does it help? Yes. It helps like my friends Jack and Henry and the company of a bar full of strangers will help me get over a bad anything.

That being said? You gotta remember that you're not special. Finding good dating material is like applying for a job. You spend months sending out hundreds of applications and resumes, you're lucky to get a response from one in fifty, and when you do, you have no right to be surprised when they tell you they found someone with more experience, or was more qualified, and when you do find a job on average you won't last 5 years in it, or with the same company. If they can't find someone who'll do it cheaper, they'll find someone who can do it better, or do it and something else. You have to either constantly build your portfolio of skills so that you're constantly relevant and needed by the company, or you're gone.

The fact that you spent two and a half years with her is not important. I'd argue that the problem was that you couldn't drive a compelling narrative in those 2.5 years. She got bored. Maybe, I don't know. You dated her, not me. It's just kind of like throwing darts blindfolded here, but a lot of relationships implode for no reason other than that the building had no supports. Or the king had no clothes. The fact that you stayed together for over 2 years didn't indicate a strong foundation, you just never got hit by anything hard, and eventually the land lord decided the value of the land was greater than the property, ergo she cleared the structure to lay a foundation for someone else's business.

You're nothing special, but this is both diminishing you and empowering you. Focus on yourself. Improve yourself. Spend time doing whatever the fuck it is you like doing. We're not telling you to "man up." We're saying that you owe it to yourself to stop pumping your veins with battery acid and venom over the fact that she's not giving you an ounce of remorse. Of course she won't. She's far to invested in a narrative where she got out of a stagnant relationship to improve herself and her standing. All you're doing is feeding her fire. You want to do that?

Sometimes I think the saying that Ignorance is Bliss had much less to do with being blindly naive and ignorant, and much more the ability to ignore.

leamdav · 2014-01-03T17:04:14+00:00

I thought I had read some research somewhere that stated the reason women get over this quicker is because they handle it better than guys. Women talk through these things with their friends and therefore, basically find closure and deal with the emotions much more productively. Where guys tend to hold it in and seal themselves off from the world, more or less, and basically just do not deal with the emotion of this event.

the_low_s · 2014-01-03T16:02:27+00:00

I don't think that's true. I would rather say, the one who wanted to end the relationship, is the one who gets quicker over it. Its the same with guys and girls, she can go and get knocked up by some other douche, as much as you. It's helps, of course, but it the end, i believe, that the one that gets over quicker, is the one who finds a replacement faster, thats better that your ex, or maybe you just believe that he/she is better and that can be enough for your head, to make you believe you're over it.

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puaSenator · 2014-01-03T18:43:09+00:00

Of course... Women ALWAYS have other guys they are talking with. Always. If they have any decent SMV, they are at least casually chatting to some guy they know from somewhere. So when they do break up, they have a gaggle of men they can go to for comfort and branch swinging.

For the most part men aren't like this. The average guy doesn't have a bunch of chicks fleeing to him once they hear about the break. Mainly because during the relationship, he doesn't care for texting other chicks, and pinging them to maintain the relationship. This is why TRP advocates plate spinning. So if the relationship does go south, you too can swing over to the next woman.

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2014-01-04T20:39:57+00:00

i know it sucks bro. you were together for 2 1/2 years and she found someone else almost immediately. it's like it didn't even matter to her that you and her were together for so long. i know cuz i've felt this pain before. but i promise you it will get better. and it starts by getting rid of this mindset that you are "disposable" in a womens eyes.

humor me for just a minute. now wouldn't the best way to "get back at her" be to find someone, be genuinely happy and hold nothing against her? that would truly pull at the fibers of her insecurities and make her question her self-worth. but you cannot do this by bringing the pain of past loves into new relationships. it sucks, and it might take a long time to get over. this is what the Gods created drinking and rock n roll for. but it will get better if you can forget about her.

peace and good luck.

Gorgonzola54 · 2014-01-03T16:48:38+00:00

Women are just as disposable mate. Chin up, you've got a lot of fucking ahead of you.

trudatness · 2014-01-03T15:31:22+00:00

You know how you get over it? BY GIVING ZERO FUCKS.

Go out, insert your cock into some strange pussy, pump and bust a nut.

Rinse ~ repeat.

SpaceChris · 2014-01-03T16:15:03+00:00

it's constant attention, simple as that

thoumyvision · 2014-01-03T18:11:12+00:00

I have to disagree, I think whoever is more invested in the relationship is going to have a harder time recovering. My last two girlfriends were pretty devastated when I broke up with them, because I was less invested than they were. You're going through this because you became more invested than she, which is why spinning plates is advised, it's hard to be the more invested one when you're investing in multiple girls.

2014-01-03T18:22:54+00:00

"Once the love is gone, it's like they never knew you."

otiswild · 2014-01-03T22:36:47+00:00

"This is simply a tougher situation. All I want to do is get out of here and forget she exists, like what normal people do."

You will know you have achieved red-pill Mastery when you don't have to forget she exists, because frankly, you don't give a damn.

TRPinitiate · 2014-01-05T15:14:28+00:00

Why do girls get over guys quicker?
They get under a new one the day after.

Pretty much echoed by a lot of other posts in this thread.

vengefully_yours · 2014-01-03T18:24:37+00:00

I'm divorced twice now. When the first one left it was a relief because of the hell she put me through. I fucked a cute Asian chick the same day and never looked back. Good riddance.

I actually cared about the second one, but she pulled some shit a few years ago and I knew she would do it again. Sure as shit, she did last May. It is all my fault, I did everything wrong, I was abusive, I was controlling and jealous of her 'friend'that was fucking her. She expected me to support both of them, get no pussy from her, and be happy about it. She tells everyone I need to get over her when all I am doing is living my life and fucking women I like. Her dad knows she fucked up, because her new guy is a loser that nobody can stand, and he wants me to take her back. Isn't happening. Her boyfriend set me up, her mother and her have been trying to drive me out of the state, and the guy can't keep a job due to profound incompetence.

Who wants to have a loser back that left for a loser? They are made for each other, both equally worthless.

I have been more inclined to go my own way than start fucking everything that draws my eye, because I have had enough of the bullshit. Women are parasites, they want what I have earned and think pussy and head is an acceptable payment. It isn't. Every fucking woman I have been involved with has cheated and left for the smallest things, and most often went to guys less alpha, less accomplished, and they never stay with them. Hence, I don't trust women and never will again.

It isn't worth the effort and bullshit. I live for me, if I get laid great, if not I have other shit to do.

2014-01-03T17:59:56+00:00

Honour and most importantly LOYALTY are not traits women can concieve of. Her tingles make it ok because she is devoid of these qualities. Thats why they bounce from cock to cock even after a LTR. Best of luck man. Use this time to reflect and work on YOU. YOU ARE BETTER THAN WOMEN!!!

Edit: Dokkodo or The Way of Walking Alone - Miyamoto Musashi

I can relate to being a Ronin I have been one unknowingly my whole life.

mrpoopistan · 2014-01-04T01:52:01+00:00

I disagree.

Women get over average guys quicker than guys get over average girls.

Women have a much harder time ever forgetting that "once in lifetime" guy than guys do that "once in a lifetime" girl. Women will carry the memory of that one alpha stud to their fuckin graves, whereas guys can find a nice wife and settle down and forget that hot chick they once had.

drrtyfrrnr · 2014-01-03T17:14:46+00:00

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cero · 2014-01-03T14:42:37+00:00

It's never too late to adopt it though.

dcanosa60 · 2014-01-03T17:56:46+00:00

Get involved with real social dynamics mate. Google it for more info. It'll literally change the way you see relationships and self development. Good luck m8

2014-01-03T18:21:45+00:00

Because there are always other guys drooling at her.

5iveApples · 2014-01-03T18:46:20+00:00

Slow down everyone, there has been a lot of talk about "male disposability" but that does not give the full picture. Have we all forgotten about the crazy type of girl who becomes bat shit loco when you break up with her? As a real example, a friend of mine introduced me to this girl at a party but she had an abusive loser boyfriend. A month later he breaks up with her and she calls him over 20 times when she hears that he is involved with a different girl now. Completely insane.

I think how hard chicks take a breakup relies on a couple of things:

Did you display alpha traits and were willing to commit or were you demonstrating more beta traits? She can always find another "beta" but being an alpha widow hurts.
Did you maintain your frame in the relationship? Or better yet, could you go out and try to get with another girl post breakup, as another user commented? Female competition anxiety is powerful. You hear chicks hamster all the time "he's never going to do better than me anyways" and they really do believe it. If they know that isn't true though it's harder for them to hamster.
Your overall value, which is indeed in part a combination of 1 and 2 but there are other factors talked about here too. Y'all know.

If you are high value male possessing alpha traits and run a redpill relationship, your chick will be sad/depressed/murderous if you break up with her. Otherwise, not so much.

adsnell2004 · 2014-01-03T20:38:59+00:00

When you feed into the game, they win! I can relate, OP. Be an actor at this point and when it is time to get your own place, never talk to her again. These games are clearly made and played by emotional terrorists. Consider this a good thing you are not together.

watersign · 2014-01-03T20:40:17+00:00

It's easier for a woman to jump on another guys cock. It's not so easy for an average guy.

_DiscoNinja_ · 2014-01-03T22:07:08+00:00

I think the "war brides" argument falls flat when you realize what mortality rates were like for women during childbirth for most of human history.

charlesbukowksi · 2014-01-03T22:51:28+00:00

The kicker with all this is that we were not able to move out of the apartment we share. That's happening this month. There are financial and logistic reasons for that. What it has amounted to is that now that she has a "someone," I'm exposed to things like knowing when she doesn't come back for the night, and watching her primp and preen for hours before she goes to see him. And of course, now since she has him, she is completely robotic to me in ways she wasn't in the old post-breakup phase. It's Draconian-level psychological torture. I don't care how much you think you have your shit together, if you have this shit literally in your face, it fucks with you. And yeah, I've been going to the gym a lot more and trying overall to be better. This is simply a tougher situation. All I want to do is get out of here and forget she exists, like what normal people do.

I've been in a similar situation, I empathize with you OP. You'll get over it sooner than you think though, good luck.

Midolol · 2014-01-04T01:40:00+00:00

because women rule the world behind the scenes as the man is always a target.

Ceekoe · 2014-01-04T07:47:53+00:00

Maybe a little late, but I am feeling your pain. Bro hugs.

getintheVans · 2014-01-04T08:46:31+00:00

Dude... Must be really hard on you. I'm sorry. But like in my current situation it's good to use that as motivation

vozkhan · 2014-01-18T00:40:55+00:00

"Men are the disposable sex, women, the preserved sex. Men would simply die in favor of a superior aggressor, but women would be reserved for breeding. So it served a feminine imperative to evolve an ability to cut former emotional ties more readily (in favor of her new captor) and focus on a more self-important psychology – solipsism" - War Bride

rickaboy · 2014-01-03T18:41:01+00:00

I think there's more to it then just this. The feminine is not self-validating. They rely on men and exterior forces to validate them (one reason why women are more materialistic - I have this shiny new purse which validiates me as a more important person)

Men, on the other hand. We are able to validate ourselves through what we do. Because we are self-validating by nature, we don't necessarily go swinging from relationship to relationship. (though if we can get a quick plate, sure). Women need that relationship to validate themselves.

my 0.02

2014-01-04T00:21:01+00:00

It goes beyond the fact that women have more options and can replace you quick. Women's memory works in a very unique way that allows them to actually transfer a lot of the feelings they had / have for you to the new guy, and literally forget tons of shit that you two went through. Women's memories subvert and contort the past until the past fits what their tingles are telling them. This is hamstering on another level and it isn't always bad.

Women have hormones that makes them forget or contort their memories of pregnancy and its pain -- this is so after the pregnancy, when their second helping of baby tingles comes, their mind doesn't say "wait a second, remember how miserable that shit was? Don't do it again." Biology wants them to reproduce again so it literally secretes hormones that alters their memory of the past.

Women do this after the relationship is done. She will obsess and need you back for a while, but then as soon as she finds some new guy, your relationship becomes a blur to her. If she cheated on you, she will only remember the 10% of the relationship where you were an asshole. This allows her to think that her cheating was in line with the smart, sweet girl that she is, because after all, you were an asshole. Her mind will take all of the good traits about you that she loved, project them onto this new guy even if he doesn't have them, and file you away in her memory as the guy you were at your very lowest.

This is how a lot of women manage to get off the carousel, hop off alpha cock, and find a chump willing to provide for them. They honestly believe they are in love - they have convinced themself that this beta has all these desirable alpha traits, with none of the problems that riddled the players who "didn't want a real woman". Of course in a few years, the haze wears off, they see their chump husband for what he is, and then they will begin the process again, forgetting everything good about him, and transforming these same player dudes into "real men" who she will upgrade to. Problem is, they don't want her for more than a pump now.

So remember. It's OK if women get over you. You are only upset because of your ego. Your ego says "well if she forgot me just like that, then I must not be as great as I think I am". Drop the ego and realize she left because she thought she could swing to a better branch, and when she got to that branch, her highly calibrated biology helped her rapidly hamster you out of the picture. Don't beat yourself up for taking longer to get over her - she is advantaged in this area.

But that being said, if you're sharing an apartment with this chick, you need to be fucking and bringing home girls. You shouldn't be the one sitting like a bitch while she brings home dudes... I guarantee if you bring home a hotter girl than her and noisily fuck her, she will stop being "robotic" and try to flirt with you as a test to check out if you still have feelings for her.

tetrahydrous · 2014-01-04T05:05:24+00:00

That is simply not true. If a woman gets over you faster than you got over her, it only means she was not as invested in the relationship. Or, maybe she simply recognizes that the relationship is no longer worth the effort and dwelling on it is illogical.

Lingering in despair to prove you loved someone is not attractive, nor is it healthy. If the relationship is over, why would you waste your time thinking about it? Why not seek better companionship? 2 months?! That's ridiculous.

That's why women get over a relationship more quickly. They can rationalize that if a "deal breaker" comes up (for example, you want to have kids and you learn that she doesn't early on) she can move past it and find something different. Why do you insist on suffering? To prove a point?

saintpanda · 2014-01-04T10:36:09+00:00

They get over you quicker because you're pathetic in the relationship. It's really easy to move on and get over someone when the thing you're moving away from is just a pathetic anchor in your life. It's easy to get over because it's a relief that it ended.

acoti · 2014-01-03T19:38:08+00:00

OP, you have to separate yourself from this situation physically. Trying to get over this while constantly being exposed to her will not work.

Break away from her physically when you are able and go the route of no contact.

iOutlaw · 2014-01-03T20:04:57+00:00

I certainly don't have this happen to me, I've gotten over all my ex's in about 1-3 days no matter if the relationship was 1 month or 1 year. Then I immediately start scouting and hitting on them again.

the99percent1 · 2014-01-04T00:16:00+00:00

Read the best thread of the year.

It's clear. She doesn't love you. She loves the feelings you give her.

And we all know how emotions can sway one way or the other. Hence why she has less time feeling sorry for dumping your ass and moving on.

afcpoop · 2014-01-03T19:11:38+00:00

I feel you my friend. That sounds harsh.

I feel as if the redpill community see's things like revenge as "reactive". When you study all the bastards of history, a lot of their motives were out of pure hatred and spite. If you look at Genghis Khan his whole reign began as revenge to honor his fathers death. Then to go after those who raped his wife. Then to go after his blood brother who betrayed him.

Women seem not to control their evolutionary tenancies like men do. I honestly feel like the only solution to get over stuff like this is to fight back big time. I don't see this as "her controlling you". I see this as a child throwing a stone at a blood thirsty army. The whole "work on yourself" thing is a given, but totally bullshit as a solution. You should make her life hell. Put NAIR in her conditioner lol. Why should you suffer? Destroy that fucking bitch while lifting weights and spinning plates.

NoMoreNicksLeft · 2014-01-03T22:08:30+00:00

Even if this were true (and the evolutionary psychology behind it seems reasonable enough), I fail to see the point. Is it going to hurt your fuzzy-wuzzy feelers if she doesn't take at least 6 months or 3 years or whatever to get over you?

And do you only want this to happen for breakups, or if you leave her a widow does she have to suffer through grieving forever as well? Personally I think that's unacceptable. If I croak, she still have to take care of my children, so any prolonged or extreme mourning is less than ideal.

Moping around hoping that she hurts worse than you do is juvenile. It's not even an expression of love you might want to receive, since it comes far too late to matter.

NitzXL · 2014-01-03T15:43:48+00:00

Why guys get over girls quicker: Instead of crying you go outside and pick up a girl or you call one of your irons and make her to a plate.

Title	Why girls get over guys quicker
Author	[deleted]
Upvotes	138
Comments	169
Date	January 3, 2014 2:12 PM UTC (12 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/TheRedPill
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