I don't understand how single moms think this sounds appealing.

Typo-MAGAshiv · 2022-03-26T14:01:54+00:00

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I don't understand how single moms think this sounds appealing.

A combination of the following:

A) Solipsism. They cannot get out of their own heads and look at things from someone else's point of view.

B) it's her kid, so of course it'll be just amazing and everyone will love it! I mean, it is her kid, after all.

BridgeViking1066 · 2022-03-26T05:58:50+00:00

Because they have a really really bad judgment, that’s why they’re single mothers.

DianeticDelight · 2022-03-26T06:05:43+00:00

Everytime they mention a flaw or a baby or something, the way they mention it is always made into a you thing.

but that’s just one person for you to love

”If you can’t handle ___ then don’t swipe” And so on..

Just a quick unrelated note: the way she used the word ”but” instead of ”so” or ”and” shows she knows damn well another mans child carries a negative connotation.

NutsLikeMelons · 2022-03-26T06:09:23+00:00

How come when they offer more to cuddle they are either A) fat B) a mom or C) pregnant. Why is it never D) bringing a hot girlfriend to join in? That would be a much better plan.

Machomuk89 · 2022-03-26T06:45:41+00:00

As it shits and barfs and snots and cries 20 hours a day. Boy howdy this sure beats peaceful evenings out getting to know a person over a few months to a few years before even discussing family. Why would anyone not want to just immediately take over where some dude left off?

silly_birb_Banned · 2022-03-26T08:47:52+00:00

Projection, a man with many kids from different women was "preselected" by other women and considered better so they think it also applies to women.

It's just like body count, a man with high numbers is considered better by women and women think it also applies to them because feminism teached men and women are the same.

Joaquino7997 · 2022-03-26T09:51:58+00:00

It's because single mothers are allergic to the word shame.

This one probably seems to think that because she's only 21, she still has a better chance of landing a (alpha OR beta) male than women 10+ years older than her.

What I'm sure she's realized at some point is that men see absolutely nothing appealing about dating a pregnant woman. If some unsolicited 'act of fate' took the dad away, then my condolences. However, that is seldom the case with today's women.

SystemFolder · 2022-03-26T10:18:57+00:00

I’m sorry, but that sounds as pleasant as sleeping in another dude’s cum puddle.

sleepyweaselisawake · 2022-03-26T12:04:07+00:00

For all the women demanding abortion rights in the US it really makes me wonder why there are so many single mothers.

Old_snowboarder · 2022-03-26T11:05:56+00:00

Low IQ and never been held accountable or criticised.

Felarhin · 2022-03-26T06:21:24+00:00

I wish I could see what sorts of results will come of this endeavor.

emerald_engineer_08 · 2022-03-26T07:17:02+00:00

Isn’t it March now? She doesn’t look like she swallowed a watermelon

NBA_MSG · 2022-03-26T07:41:17+00:00

If good decisions were part of her skillset she wouldn't be a 21 year old single mother

Overkillengine · 2022-03-26T12:15:20+00:00

It is an unfortunately common mindset encountered in women to regard men not as fellow human beings, but as utility, status, resource, and entertainment providers. Her mindset is easily inferred to be such because if she had thought of men as having their own wants and needs she'd might have realized just how horrid her sale pitch would sound to them.

Boar_excrement · 2022-03-26T11:53:44+00:00

Sorry sweaty, if it is not my deposit, then you cannot make a withdrawal.

whypubescurly · 2022-03-26T15:26:13+00:00

I think females actually believe that feminism gave them the power to do whatever they want when they are young and hot and when gravity and father time take those blessings men will Have to accept them just because they are not oppressed anymore and it's not 18 century And you have to love her for personality and yea pay for her and her bastards untill you die and maybe she will let you hit it once a year if you've been a good boy

Balefirez · 2022-03-26T08:56:52+00:00

Because they don’t think like men.

iceyH0ts0up · 2022-03-26T12:06:59+00:00

People are irrational about a lot of things that personally affect them, or who they choose to identify with or as.

This same woman probably thinks other single moms aren’t competition for her cause her baby hasn’t arrived yet.

It’s easy to live in delusion, and look for ways to cope in order to protect yourself.

DaddySkrags · 2022-03-26T12:34:18+00:00

21 and its downhill already.

_Bike_seat_sniffer · 2022-03-26T12:50:49+00:00

Is that an euphemism for pimping the baby? If she had a history of drug abuse I'd be on the lookout, some of these skanks have absolutely no shame

emerald_engineer_08 · 2022-03-26T07:17:50+00:00

Are abortions really that expensive?

bigrome347 · 2022-03-26T16:57:28+00:00

Why is this so normalized? That’s my question. Why is it that people have children at all ages and then come back to the market saying that they’re looking for a husband and all this other nonsense when they had no husband radar on when they had these children?

The sad part is I feel like it’s only gonna get worse. It’s just going to be more women from the ages of 18 through 40 with children from boyfriends/fuck buddies/one night stands etc. wanting husbands to raise these kids it’s crazy to me.

And the super sad part about it is that it’s all races, all sizes, all looks (ugly, pretty, average etc.) and all ages. There’s going to be a point where it’s going to be about 75%+ of the females in the USA is gonna be single moms in totality of all races. Those are gonna be scary times

casra888 · 2022-03-26T13:59:02+00:00

They are incredibly delusional and can't imagine other people realize how incredibly dysfunctional they are

kidsinmyvan · 2022-03-26T14:57:56+00:00

Imagine knowing the mother of future child is finding random guys on tinder to lay with your kid

Unit614 · 2022-03-26T10:55:01+00:00

Because logic is dead nowadays.

Itburns12345 · 2022-03-26T12:27:37+00:00

Cool so you're a single mom (red flag) whos now pregnant (massive red flag) , will be hormonal and nightmareish soon and will have a long period after birth where sex is out AND you expect us to look after your kids very soon into dating (flag so red its drawing bulls from all over the country!!)

SpideySurreal · 2022-03-26T15:01:23+00:00

Damn she's fine, but goddamn her attitude's not, not one bit.

I wonder if at 31 she would say "but that's just three more persons you can LoVe..."

awsdlefthandbutton · 2022-03-26T17:26:49+00:00

Because there is always some thirsty guy out there who will go for them and 'rescue' them.

polishknightusa · 2022-03-26T23:28:48+00:00

As I see this, I wish I could advise my younger self, and others: "Look! No man need be an incel!) (with caveats, of course).

If you're in your 20's and not great looking or have much money, and you want to bang a decent looking women, perhaps now more than ever in history can you do that with so much of this low hanging fruit around: Milfs and single mothers.

Borrow a nice car, pick her up, take her to a family restaurant and split the entree (it's cozy that way, she doesn't get a doggie bag) and then offer her something nice for the child. A guy wrote up his experiences in this regard in oniine dating and something like 80% of these women offered to have sex with him by the 2nd date.

How to move on afterwards? Just gripe about your problems and needs and say you love them and write love poems and such and they'll dump you as too needy.

Ownedby4Labs · 2022-03-26T15:36:14+00:00

Look…baby ducks are cute, but why would I want to raise one?

DrDog09 · 2022-03-26T22:14:19+00:00

Shame really. What is it in women that they want to self destruct like this?

thefudmaster · 2022-03-26T15:51:41+00:00

“One more person you can [provide for].”

LPBPR · 2022-03-26T19:01:31+00:00

IMO Sadly with her looks there will be a line of men willing to step in for the rescue which is partly the problem. If men just man the fuck up and stop with the proverbial save a hoe routine, these behaviors wouldn’t be as pervasive.

Bob_and_Virginia · 2022-03-26T10:26:27+00:00

Hahahahaha! 😄

OkYesterday5229 · 2022-03-26T17:39:11+00:00

Just hit it and quit it

Mr_Chad_Thunderpenis · 2022-03-26T17:22:58+00:00

Hahaha not sure if this is sad or just plain hilarious.

Optimal_Wendigo_4333 · 2022-03-26T18:43:35+00:00

The reason is: selfishness! Since it's their kid, the next man must love it and be paying all it's bills.

vtec__ · 2022-03-26T19:04:52+00:00

these girls used to be on backpage, now they tryin to trick on you

alldaycray · 2022-03-26T20:09:54+00:00

Right.... Cause that's exactly what I'm looking for a woman that's pregnant with a baby that's not mine.

waveformcollapse · 2022-03-26T20:45:09+00:00

spoiled beyond belief.

denvercaniac · 2022-03-27T15:05:18+00:00

"I'm having a baby" "That's a you problem"

repsol93 · 2022-03-27T02:20:40+00:00

Tbf this sounds very appealing to someone with a pregnancy fetish! Just don't let her know where you live!

Educational_Drink453 · 2022-03-26T19:23:16+00:00

Over here in So Cal.

2022-03-27T03:54:40+00:00

Future son-husband or single-mom has entered the chat.

AndyBrown65 · 2022-03-27T05:31:10+00:00

LOL. I can think of two more people to love and cuddle.

The baby
The baby's biological father, once he gets out of prison

PlayaLarga · 2022-03-29T00:29:54+00:00

Right off the bat you know she just needs money

downzeitor · 2022-03-29T06:16:10+00:00

A bailout seeker with a bun in the oven. The lack of self awareness is astonishing.

OraleEse13 · 2022-04-01T02:10:56+00:00

And she's still using her provocative sexuality as the bait to hook you with... smh.

Codex1101 · 2022-04-01T07:29:08+00:00

She's being psycho for two

V_M · 2022-03-27T15:44:50+00:00

The serious answer to the question is she's almost certainly advertising either directly getting money for the temporary use of the hole the baby did not come out of because it'll still be tight, or she's indirectly trying to get money via "plz subscribe to my lactation OF"

IratusHonestus · 2022-06-15T13:39:47+00:00

It's a lifetime if being told that they're special for having a vagina. That, coupled with the army of simps online, makes them genuinely believe that men will still chase them.

Radiant-Training-904 · 2022-08-22T19:55:32+00:00

Well I love single mom where you located love to talk to you more

Ftpiercecracker1 · 2022-03-26T17:15:56+00:00

Only reason for me to entertain a single mom would be to satisfy my lactation fetish. 🍼🍼😋

Appropriate_Two_5555 · 2022-03-30T20:31:02+00:00

Mister_McDerp · 2022-04-01T11:18:08+00:00

So... the picture is from >9 months ago, then.

Low-Inspector-4185 · 2022-04-06T15:37:44+00:00

Because there are plenty of simps that will sign up.

I have some hot sports opinions on single moms. There are outliers but when I see single moms I see poor choices and a child starting off with a hand tied behind their back.

They’ll keep using their kids as props, hooking ip with random dudes, exposing the child to multiple men that they will bond with only to be broken. Wash, rinse and repeat.

Signed- A dude raised by a single mom.

Ari9000plus · 2022-04-11T08:17:22+00:00

Tha fuk...

Philhelm · 2022-04-12T13:25:37+00:00

This is why children of single women are in a higher risk category for sexual abuse.

PS2Errol · 2022-03-26T08:47:57+00:00

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Title	I don't understand how single moms think this sounds appealing.
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Date	March 26, 2022 5:50 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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