'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye''

PenissButtt · 2022-10-09T15:59:02+00:00

"Worst she can say is no"

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Jasonhardon · 2022-10-09T11:19:44+00:00

Move on, don’t make things more awkward

BlacBlood · 2022-10-09T11:45:43+00:00

Don’t let it get to you. Other people have been rejected in ways more embarrassing including me. Move on and look for the next opportunity.

Titty_Slicer_5000 · 2022-10-09T17:16:08+00:00

Eh I wouldn’t “tried a few techniques”. That’s a pretty mean way to reject someone. You’re devaluing yourself by sticking around and trying to “win her over”. I wouldn’t take it personally. She might be having a shitty day. She might have just dealt with one too many creeps that night. She might have a boyfriend. Next time just say politely say “okay enjoy the rest of your night”. Walk away with dignity.

Flimsy_Shallot · 2022-10-09T16:06:01+00:00

Good for approaching (hopefully respectfully) but when someone says no just move on :)

Archyblackcat · 2022-10-09T17:03:02+00:00

Bro you’re not perfect , not everyone is gonna like you.. plus my current GF said to me, sometimes girls just reject guys for fun even if they like them because some girls just get a thrill from rejecting good looking guys.. like when a Rich guys throws money away for the fuck of it cause they have a lot to Throw so they don’t know what else to do with it .. you get it ??

BermudasV · 2022-10-09T23:42:53+00:00

"Chill your ego, I just came to tell you about the big chunk of food on your teeth, see ye" When she looks back at you after checking in the toilet or asking her friends, make sure to have a big smile and that middle finger up on the ready for a good flick.

SolidPuzzleheaded984 · 2022-10-09T17:27:42+00:00

No such thing as game.

If you aren’t her type no matter what you say or do will get her sexually interested.

You can’t negotiate attraction.

Yes you could’ve done the best push pull techniques lol (which don’t work) and she would’ve still said no.

brilliant_beast · 2022-10-09T17:36:23+00:00

Best thing to do is to purge it from your memory as quickly as possible and move on (unless there’s a lesson to be learned for next time). Easier said than done sometimes but that should be the goal after a rejection.

Lukezoftherapture777 · 2022-10-09T15:28:06+00:00

Props to you though, you did it. Do it again

mjornir · 2022-10-09T17:33:55+00:00

I tried a few techniques to stick in there after she basically told me to go away

That’s when you should’ve quit. Of course she’s gonna harshly tell you to fuck off when you refuse to take a hint man. That’s on you

RedditsOlderBrah · 2022-10-09T09:55:23+00:00

that scene from donnie brasco where they start listing all the meanings of the wise guy term 'forget about it', only it's for a woman saying 'fuck off'

Proper-Rub6270 · 2022-10-09T17:43:07+00:00

She was making eye contact with you from a far and then rejected you when you approached her? Damn, I thought girl making eye contact with you, means attraction.

Basic85 · 2022-10-09T23:52:27+00:00

I got rejected like that too, it was hard to overcome at first and probably still stings but gotta move on to the next. Maybe she get's approached a lot just gives that canned rude response.

The harsh lesson I've learned and still struggling with is to never let a previous rejection affect your next approach, you end up with negative talk to yourself like " I was so stupid to that", "I'm a loser", etc.

CoNoelC · 2022-10-10T00:30:49+00:00

This isn’t even that bad lol. Mr handsome over here getting the slightest taste of what it’s like to be a normal dude lol.

HerrAdventure · 2022-10-10T00:37:03+00:00

"I hope your evening is as pleasant as you are, cheers."

First thing that came to my head.

squincherella · 2022-10-10T00:44:43+00:00

The girl was rude.
“Tried a few techniques to stick in there”? Why are people so desperate for attention from people that want nothing to do with them or who treat them like this? And at that, from a complete stranger like this?
OP, you can do better. She was rude, but I wouldn’t even be bothered of someone like this didn’t want me, after that I wouldn’t want them either.

Jawsumness · 2022-10-10T01:56:54+00:00

Girls like this get off from telling guys no in blunt ways. A quick “Have a nice day” is all you need.

Lukezoftherapture777 · 2022-10-09T15:27:45+00:00

Nah she might have been havin a shit night. Never in the mood to talk when im exp those

NewCommonSensei · 2022-10-09T18:45:04+00:00

If she tells you straight up to go away it’s a no lol what dont you get

Milksteaknow · 2022-10-09T19:32:29+00:00

Why would you want anything to do with a girl like this? Move on til you find one receptive to you

quadfintryfin · 2022-10-09T21:42:57+00:00

I woulda said “yikes never mind” and walked my ass away

el_colimofla · 2022-10-09T22:59:59+00:00

If a girl feels the need to be rude with a stranger she maybe tired of men approaching them a lot and adopted a very defensive stance or she's the kind of person that treats all people like that, both of those are disrespectful and you should not take it personal

KindredJars · 2022-10-09T20:44:24+00:00

just laugh at her and leave

Responsible-Leg-6558 · 2022-10-09T21:27:05+00:00

I’d say you dodged a bullet.

ChampionshipStock870 · 2022-10-09T21:50:37+00:00

Sometimes you gotta know when to hold ‘em and when to fold ‘em

Ivabighairy1 · 2022-10-09T22:51:17+00:00

You dodged a bullet. Picture the next 50-60 years with someone that hostile. It stings for a bit, but if you know her, watch her over the years and you'll see what I mean.

evetrapeze · 2022-10-10T01:11:53+00:00

The proper response would be a sincere "I'm sorry I misread your signal" then walk away. She will be sorry she rejected a gentleman.

150420throwaway · 2022-10-09T16:30:36+00:00

And this is why you don’t shower random 403’s with compliments, because they start to think they’re something special.

DevynDior · 2022-10-10T05:52:10+00:00

Do men not realize how it feels to be approached by men all day because we made eye contact?! I’m so many situation it was a fucking accident, and now my day or conversation is interrupted by a stranger I have to be polite to because we accidentally made eye contact?
Insulting her is absolutely not good advice, it will just solidify how lame you seem

below298 · 2022-10-09T21:38:31+00:00

Idk. A woman says that to me I'm never making eye contact with her again. That hard to get stuff doesn't / shouldn't fly with most men.

TheRealPedram · 2022-10-10T03:32:59+00:00

That says more about them than you mate don’t fret. However, In case of harsh rejection like that, hit ‘em back with “I thought the same about your nails, better in your pocket” and leave with a smiley face. You have no clue what a confidence atomic bomb that is for most girls 😂

James_Cruse · 2022-10-09T10:35:41+00:00

Did she actually tell you to leave? Or did she just stand there when she said that?

If she just stood there when she said it - she was challenging you. Meaning she was testing you and you failed. Attractive Women don’t have time to talk to every single guy that approaches them - they need to get rid of the weak ones quickly and this is the method she used and you complied.

If she was actively walking away, then I would say it’s a solid rejection and have a laugh about it and move on to the next attractive girl nearby.

2022-10-09T20:00:41+00:00

Less obvious More flowing Less robotic Elevate your language Drop the stupid techniques Take it light, say thanks

If you feel its a no or a maybe, it absolutely is. As I said, say thanks (that's socially graceful because you'd like someone to say thanks and move on if you rejected then) and don't look back. If there ever was a chance, she'll let you know.

Im a level above that. Conversation and feels takes two, if she's anywhere around an almost cold tone, lacking reciprocities... now you know, the words are less weighty, listen to the subcommunication too. So in short, be there and attentive, breathe, look at her.

HHaTTmasTer · 2022-10-10T00:43:26+00:00

Believe me it is at least better to have honesty, it is way worse when they look at you with a disgust face.

Easy-Ad3900 · 2022-10-10T02:43:02+00:00

All you had to do was laugh, tell her “you’re good”, and walk away

wonderwildskieslimit · 2022-10-10T02:43:11+00:00

Do not take this personally. Keep working on yourself.

PontusOfMars · 2022-10-10T03:23:20+00:00

She's just being a bitch for whatever stupid reason, maybe she had a bad day and decided to lash out at someone. Either way, she saved you a bunch of time. Don't stick around next time, just shrug your shoulders and bounce to the next girl. Don't let it get to you, girls who try doing that are headcases who want to get back at life fucking them in the ass by trying to bring others down. If anything, you should feel sorry for them. Most girls will be polite and just tell you "it was nice meeting you."

Illustrious_Fact2580 · 2022-10-10T03:24:25+00:00

Idk why some girls have to be so mean and evil with their rejection. Why can’t it be no thank you but have a good night? Hell I’m almost scared to turn a guy down in a disrespectful way because they get mad and want to beat you up or kill you nowadays.

xxNavi · 2022-10-10T04:08:49+00:00

"ok bitch"

bambam1911 · 2022-10-10T04:13:41+00:00

hahah i would have said u where good until you opened your mouth dont take it personal also dont take shit either call her out on being rude

MachoCyberBullyUSA · 2022-10-10T05:53:56+00:00

“You looked a lot prettier when I was over there with my friends”

Title	'You were good where you were over there with your friends. Bye''
Author	OpenHeight6562
Upvotes	107
Comments	76
Date	October 9, 2022 9:48 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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