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dheidjdedidbe · 2022-07-04T16:45:58+00:00

I am 24 and have never been on a date. I hate to compare myself to my friends but at the same time I feel like I am missing out since everyone I know around my age is married and starting families. There’s nothing I want more than to have a family and it sucks when everyone else is able to do so and your the one single guy everywhere you go.

vanlifecoder · 2022-07-04T13:28:14+00:00

comparison is the thief of joy.

nofapHER0 · 2022-07-04T10:41:19+00:00

Don’t wait for people to invite you to the fun. Be the guy that invites other people into the fun.

This is your first step in learning to be high value: provide value

I’m also 24. Take it one step at a time. My body count during 2020-2021 was zero. Now so far this year it’s 6. Never ever give up on yourself and if you feel jealous of others having fun then let it drive you to get up and become better every single day.

I’ll give you an assignment: high five a cute girl in the club on your next night out. That’s it. Then progressively overload the difficulty.

yyuyuyu2012 · 2022-07-04T17:21:35+00:00

Yep. 25 years old and I got fat right after college + didn’t game at all for 18 months due to the pandemic. I’m starting to work on fixing the problem, but by the time I have the body I want I’ll be 27. Feels like I completely missed the boat on that fun time of life (22-25) where I get to have lots of casual sex with college girls who are way more into me because I’ve got my shit together (which I do other than my weight) and am more mature. I know sex doesn’t just end at 27, but I’m really regretting missing out on this stage of life and getting to hook up with 18-22 year olds without being seen as a major creep.

Canadian-Seductioner · 2022-07-04T14:24:45+00:00

I'm almost 29 and having the best year of my life game-wise. Smashed over 50 different girls in the past 12 months, a new personal record for me. It gets better bro, provided you're improving your skills.

biokaizen · 2022-07-04T13:01:21+00:00

Yes. in my 20 I haven a flat to get sex, most of the times in my car...

HilarityEnsuez · 2022-07-04T18:48:47+00:00

Are you a guy? Because you can date younger. Arguably, you should date younger. Ao you can be 32 dating 27 no problem or even 25 if you want more of that crazy fun time you think you're missing.

WillyWonker97 · 2022-07-04T12:52:30+00:00

I feel the same, bro.

I am also 24 years old just like you.

not everyone is lucky.

Difficult_Ad_8299 · 2022-07-04T14:56:49+00:00

CAN confirm the 30es are amazing

serialkiller_mne · 2022-07-04T15:11:38+00:00

We are the same age, and I had similar thoughts years ago so I said fuck it, became ruthless when it comes to picking up chicks, literally no inhibitions and did some of the craziest stuff and had fun. It was worth it, but still I want more, I don't want this to end yet, so I keep being a demon.

I was in a 2 year relationship also, and to frankly tell you, it is nice, but nothing out of ordinary. It shouldn't be your goal. Let it happen when it happens, just have fun along the way. While in a relationship I felt "stuck" about missing out to fuck other chicks, but once I broke up, I became a demon once again. I don't regret being with her tho, but you can be as happy by yourself

You have bigger body count than most guys your age, believe that, so don't worry about it. Your confidence should be fine, and you are only 24. That shit ain't the same as 34.. every year is a big development for us since we are very young so take your time bro and enjoy life as best as you can

dheidjdedidbe · 2022-07-04T16:24:28+00:00

try doing things that are fun with people you like to hang out with (those tend to be fun people).

in due time you’ll meet a person you can probably have a relationship with. This is where 90% of serious relationships start for most people.

h7hh77 · 2022-07-04T17:03:38+00:00

I started at 25, it's as good time as any. Besides, I may get shit for saying this here, but your career is more important. They get kids and family, but I earn 5 time as much as them combined, and I have no kids to spend money on, no debts and a good sum invested for later. Granted, my partners aren't going to be as young and pretty, but that's not that big of a downside. So no, I don't regret being boring, I had other priorities.

nickpayboycr · 2022-07-04T17:09:58+00:00

Indian here 20M , after a long time I've seen a Indian post something on this sub ,help me get started brother, I am at zero.

Previous_Shake_9484 · 2022-07-04T19:14:18+00:00

It might be that your seeking fulfillment in the wrong area. There will always be girls at any stage or year of your life. ALWAYS. When you’re single, when you’re in a relationship, shit, when you’re married, there will always be a girl there to take you away from what’s important. Seek out what really makes you happy and you’ll find a fulfilling girl there or girls to your liking and they will flock to you with your confidence in whatever passion you found

DoMetourUSA · 2022-07-04T20:04:44+00:00

I agree it's like this experience is portrait as the human experience. And as a fellow human being I want my own version of this just to relate if nothing else. Moreover it's like when these people are done with this phase now the y are looking to wife or hubby you. It's worse than a doggy bag left overs from a party you were never invited. And in my case people talk and act around me like I just wouldn't understand or it's on going on just to me. Otherwise I wouldn't worry about it. Choosing not to participate is one thing, missing out or just being purposely left out just feels like billshit and now I don't even know how I feel about any of it even if someone were to extend an olive branch

Italianguy340 · 2022-07-05T01:08:43+00:00

I'm 25 too and feel the same way. Missing out completely. I'll probably just give up soon that way it's easier, since I'll never achieve it if I tried.

brandonmadeit · 2022-07-04T21:08:31+00:00

Men typically gain more value with age, opposite for women. You’ll start seeing a change as you get closer to 30 and beyond

DortyNiqga · 2022-07-04T19:07:36+00:00

Sex isnt all that

grindforthegold · 2022-07-04T19:20:40+00:00

i’m a struggling starved by choice, but i’ve been with 10 girls in my 20s. would’ve rather been with 2-3 consistently, rather than 10 random ones but i do take pride in the fact that if i’ve been with 10 girls i know i can get girls and i feel proud of that. nonetheless i gy most from online dating and the best ones from in person so try to be as involved in school as you can and try to maximize your looks with a beard, lifts and proper haircut if your forehead is big etc

listAmbitions · 2022-07-04T19:50:10+00:00

You can still bang like crazy in 30s. No issues whatsoever.

And age is not a thing. Believe me lol

Competitive-Fox688 · 2022-07-04T20:57:34+00:00

There is a chance that bus is full of STD’s

2022-07-04T20:58:20+00:00

I missed that bus 20 years ago. Likely never gonna get on it

OnyxJuvie · 2022-07-05T00:37:13+00:00

Same for me 23, slept with 2 people but feel I'm messing out. Unfortunately had a lot of obstacles in life, childhood, being diabetic.etc

I've been working on myself for a year now, body and mind wise. Its tough but got to keep trying, I only have 1 friend also. Hang in there.

stingadingding17 · 2022-07-05T00:39:39+00:00

About 1/3 of men these days are in the same boat as you. The rest are chads with what equates to modern day harems. The world sucks, life isn’t fair, and no one really cares about your problems unless they are effected by them, especially if you are a man. Do with that what you will, but my point is, you’re not the only one suffering.

Kennymacdougall · 2022-07-04T09:30:28+00:00

Don't have a relationship as a goal brother. This is a feminine characteristic.

And yes, I am Indian too. At least Indian descent.

You are 24, very young still, lots of adventures still to be had.

Aliebaba99 · 2022-07-04T16:04:08+00:00

You shouldnt be so worried about having a high bodycount. Its cringe.

2022-07-04T16:59:03+00:00

Not really I care more about my career and moving out right now

awakened900 · 2022-07-04T21:01:44+00:00

u/awakened900 I just have one question !!! Do you live in India ? Because I live in a small town in India and I haven't even heard of people having more than 1 partner. Can be because of my small friends circle but still hard to believe. Is Indian city life awesome and I am missing out ?

jjboy91 · 2022-07-04T21:40:35+00:00

I'm Indian and where I live girls ain't physically attracted to our ethnicity so yeah it's for sure unfair but that's life

Separate_Taste3428 · 2022-07-04T21:51:41+00:00

It be like that sometimes

Dfw-goodvibeonly · 2022-07-04T22:06:22+00:00

I do.

oliverbutcher · 2022-07-04T22:20:49+00:00

Comparison will forever be the thief of peoples joy. I’m 21 here and never been in a relationship & never been a one night stand type of bloke. Whenever you find peace in your own company your desire to getting a S/O and sleeping around becomes less desirable well for me at least.

Focus on yourself, build your character and the more you are out and about you will stumble across new people and things just click if they’re meant to be 👌

2022-07-04T23:30:14+00:00

Be what you want your partner to be, you can’t be hooking up with girls then hoping to find the right one.. what we are and what we’re looking for can easily be seen through us, no serious girl will wanna settle with someone who fools around

InsidePilot_54 · 2022-07-16T00:28:46+00:00

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