So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?

gbsteve75 · 2022-06-17T11:09:48+00:00

If a woman asks, I'll give my height/weight and then say "you?"

mrblack-- · 2022-06-17T07:51:34+00:00

You fuck her first THEN you tell her off.

Southofsouth · 2022-06-17T06:54:36+00:00

Yeah women can be very hypocritical...

dkcq · 2022-06-17T08:59:36+00:00

Cut the date short and go straight to the bed room?

nbh1995 · 2022-06-17T11:17:40+00:00

You absolutely don't have to fuck her. You fucking a woman like that is enabling that shitty attitude which will eventually create more people like that...

Ikem32 · 2022-06-17T10:38:42+00:00

Avoid dating apps. They work NOT in your favor!

Upside_Down-Bot · 2022-06-17T09:00:23+00:00

I always flip it on them. What's her height? I don't wanna be getting with any Goliaths or Helgas.

Why are you so concerned about offending this chick? Because you're putting the pussy on a pedestal. There are other women out there. If you don't like the double standard, then respect yourself by not pursuing her.

thispolishitalianguy · 2022-06-17T13:17:45+00:00

Im 6‘3 have my downvote. I don’t talk to these kind of women they suck

TheDom1992 · 2022-06-17T09:22:23+00:00

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DustCrystal · 2022-06-17T08:37:50+00:00

If she said that it would be 100% fine if you asked "and how much do you weigh? " I don't date women over 50kg or something

cobraCL · 2022-06-17T12:14:08+00:00

I actually agree with you - I'm a woman and find it stupid that height is mandatory on many dating profiles but weight is not. I'm no longer on dating apps but would definitely post my measurements publicly as a courtesy. Makes life easier for everyone!

Thin_Protection5616 · 2022-06-17T07:09:52+00:00

Not asking a girl's weight after she asks your height is the epitome of simpery

one23abc · 2022-06-17T10:14:27+00:00

Yeah I called a girl out on this and the conversation got super aggressive and so I decided to change the subject and she got super offended and said I was a mysoginsit and said I was 'super defensive' after I wanted to change the subject. Maybe she wasn't my type, but maybe its just not a good thing to say in general.

Injured_Fox · 2022-06-17T08:46:30+00:00

Some ppl pick one another up and stuff

gabrielzalles · 2022-06-17T11:58:56+00:00

One of a million female contradictions. It's even worse because men can't control their height.

KrikoryanG · 2022-06-17T14:26:38+00:00

Woman here. No! If she can ask about your height you can ask about her weight. Just my perspective

DoctorForesight · 2022-06-17T11:15:26+00:00

There's a difference. She can change her weight. You can't change your height.

cocoadusted · 2022-06-17T12:57:24+00:00

Another one that got away with it

Kennymacdougall · 2022-06-17T13:01:53+00:00

Since when has pussy become so valuable? Start acting like a boss. You do not need her.

skon7 · 2022-06-17T08:49:18+00:00

Yes most guys with game say nothing until they can get the girl in person and smash. Because if you make her uncomfortable about her body etc she might not want to do it in the first place and think of it as rude. You’ll find out if you like her weight once you get her in person so that’s your first accomplishment

I understand where you’re coming from because it definitely is a double standard. Especially as it pertains to height which is a body feature and so is weight also. But women are judged constantly for their looks, way more than men, so it’s natural for us to feel like you’re making a swift judgment about us by asking anything related to that at all or only liking us for one thing and not us as ppl…. In a way it is definitely different for that reason

caesarfecit · 2022-06-17T13:17:29+00:00

Because you're supposed to not care what she thinks of your height.

Whereas you asking after her weight is like her asking after your bank account. It's hitting a girl right in the sore spot unless she has a sexual ego in the stratosphere.

Repulsive-Fee393 · 2022-06-17T10:36:05+00:00

Bro you can ask her whatever you like, ask her how much money she makes, ask her how many dudes she’s smashed ask her whatever, Johnny Depp winning set these bitches back 100 years, even L’Oréals saying men are worth it now too, fuck these hoes.

Ok_Razzmatazz_1751 · 2022-06-17T12:16:45+00:00

Height is a real thing just like weight that determines attraction. Denying this is futile

PimpHandsStrong · 2022-06-17T12:10:51+00:00

“…but I guess you have to play the role until you smash.”

You hit the nail on the head. It is what it is.

U1tra1ightBeam · 2022-06-17T10:12:07+00:00

The girl just wants to date someone at least slightly taller than her. Give her a break.

TantalizingTiger7 · 2022-06-17T08:55:52+00:00

Lol, get over it. You let it phase you enough to vent about it on Reddit?

Work on your threshold for getting ticked off about the reality of double standards

pearllovespink · 2022-06-17T12:11:24+00:00

Because it makes no logical sense to ask for weight. You can’t see peoples true height most of the time. If you like someone physically, why do you care how much they weigh? You’re already attracted to them lmao.

Weight can also be changed.

7Birdies · 2022-06-17T08:49:35+00:00

You don’t really understand women

awdatzya · 2022-06-17T13:20:28+00:00

a bit off topic, but maybe it will be useful for you: when it comes to women, numbers on the scale don't say anything, unless you're actually obese/really overweight.

because we have a fat distribution that's completely different from men, AND from each other, you can't predict how a woman looks like just by her weight and height. i weight the same for the past 5 years, but because my fat distribution kept changing, i look completely different than 2 years ego, hell, even a year ago.

also, our bodies are sensitive to even the slightest change of the hormone levels, so if i have a bad luck with it sometimes, in the morning i look like a full moon, i am bloated, it seems that i have cellulitis all over my body etc.... but then in the evening i suddenly look snatched and even though I was eating and drinking during the day, i can weight up to 1 kg (2.2 lb) less than in the morning.

just an interesting thing to know.

sixpack04 · 2022-06-17T12:53:41+00:00

This is the same kind of woman that cries about not finding a good quality man. She will inevitably eventually settle after realizing that a million girls are going after the same couple of dudes, but not before having a couple of kids. Ironically someone will still swoop in to “save her”

gucciwillis · 2022-06-17T08:38:10+00:00

Why would you need to know a girls weight though? People hold wright differently if you judge girls on weight then you’ll miss out on a lot of peng gyals who have bunda

SamuRonin90 · 2022-06-17T11:47:31+00:00

How the fuck are you getting hookups on Bumble?

PoinFLEXter · 2022-06-17T12:37:09+00:00

To the extent it matters to you for attraction, then you have just as much of a right to ask her weight as she does to ask your height. In both cases it usually comes off as superficial and tactless. Be glad that such a person exposed herself this early on so that you’re aware of this quality about them.

As a short guy, I’ve stopped being annoyed by this question. It usually frustrates me because my answer to the question will usually result in being ghosted by the type of girl who would ask that question in the first place. But hey, we all have our physical deal-breakers, right? Although I can’t change my height yet a girl can change her weight, a girl also can’t change her nose if she has a giant schnoz that ruins my attraction for her (without expensive surgery). So if I believe a woman should give me a chance despite falling outside of her typically preferred height range, then I too should give various physically unattractive women a chance despite falling outside of my typically preferred beauty standards.

joeyggg · 2022-06-17T12:50:10+00:00

There’s nothing wrong with having a preferred body type. Weight isn’t a good indicator of body type unless you also know her height. If there aren’t any full body pics on her profile you can just say your only into women with a fit body type. Some women are into fitness and actually happy to talk about it. Some think guys should ONLY be attracted to personality, other women understand reality.

cutiepienew · 2022-06-17T13:32:43+00:00

Well true story man. They get insecure about the weight

432olim · 2022-06-17T13:37:50+00:00

This is just the nature of the game. Women can afford to be pickier than men because the two sexes evolved with notably different roles in reproduction. Women have to carry a baby for 9 months, give birth, and breast feed for years and become principal caretakers. Men have to copulate for 5 minutes then can run off. Women are drastically more cautious on average.

As long as a woman isn’t horrifically bad looking she could ask almost any man she wants on a typical dating site to have sex with her and the vast majority would say yes. A typical average looking man that reaches out to large numbers of women just asking for a first date and not even sex would get ignored or rejected by most women he asks. This is on top of the fact that men are 10x as likely as women to sign up for the dating apps in the first place.

Extremely asymmetric game!

Bills817 · 2022-06-17T13:39:46+00:00

EthicalSeduction · 2022-06-17T13:58:46+00:00

When you see someone do something crappy like this, make a mental note of it and then never do it yourself. It's a learning point.

KaleWeekly · 2022-06-17T14:18:45+00:00

I'm 6'4... if any girl says these exact words she's automatically off the dating/relationship list. Shows how shallow she is and makes my job a lot easier.

redeyerds · 2022-06-17T14:24:57+00:00

Instead of weight why not ask her cup size

Genderneutral_Bird · 2022-06-17T14:25:42+00:00

Straight people… I honestly don’t get the point in why height or weight matters.

Just ask her what her height is because ‘you don’t date short girls’ and see if she gets offended?

cciciaciao · 2022-06-17T14:28:53+00:00

Being honest comes at a big price

Title	So she can ask about my height but I can’t ask about her weight?
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Date	June 17, 2022 6:49 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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