Hi everyone, so I knew this guy for a short time, 4 days. We knew of each other from work but only started talking. We established that we would do casual, both weren't looking for anything serious, just a but of fun. We decided to met up on the 4th day and just like that, from being all flirty before hand over message, broke down emotionally and I had to comfort him for most of the day. I felt sorry for him but its not what I'm after.

I'm a little worried, do you think he has gotten too comfortable with me too quickly? I'm thinking I should leave, is that the best thing for me too do?

(He broke down,hands on head after we hooked up because his sister texted him saying he had to drop a parcel off the next day)

Thanks for your answers xx

EDIT: We hooked up, he was a selfish lover, didn't try pleasure me. Actually laughed it off. Then checked his phone and broke down. Hands on head and was dead silent, everything.

EDIT: Where I am upset... what happend through the day.

  • before we met up to basically hook up we agreed to get something to eat, when I showed up he was moody af. Saying aggressively in public ' I don't know what you eat'

  • Made fun of me wearing an oversized sweatshirt even though I told him I was running errands for my family who had covid

  • Told me he didn't like me enough to take me to a resturant or even on a date after I wanted to know if he wanted anything more.

  • after we established casual, yes, we were still sexually attracted to eachother so we hooked up but only me going down on him and basically he didnt want to go down o me so I got nothing.

  • He then checked his phone about the parcel, broke the fu k down with his hands on his head, I go to comfort him, hug him, peck kiss him. Then as I get up to leave after he was relaxed tells me he could have 'sucked his own dick' and my bag is nerdy.

What I'm wanting to know is how can I understand how to deal with this. People are telling me he will co tinue hitting me up and I don't want anything to do with him. We work in the same building.