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alteransg1 · 2022-01-18T08:04:03+00:00

Simple answer - don't. Just ignore it and let the girl get as close as she likes.

Badam7276 · 2022-01-18T08:17:21+00:00

Man it means the chemistry and intimacy will be amazing with this one.

JacobMoogberg69 · 2022-01-18T07:45:45+00:00

I'd give anything to have boners just from holding hands. Ah, don't get old.

byteseed · 2022-01-18T10:40:05+00:00

Do not prevent it, own it.

Congratulations! My best partners were constantly giving me boners, in the street, in the theater, in the bus. She will know, she will like it, it is ok for her to notice. Show her what she is doing to you! Let her feel it. Women love when men are physically attracted to them. Pure attraction is impossible to fake, it is honest signal of the raw sexual chemistry.

Do some fun together in the dark park or lonely beach. Enjoy!

FaithInStrangers94 · 2022-01-18T09:28:01+00:00

I struggle to get boners when I need them so be thankful

If she notices just say something like “don’t blame me, he does what he chooses” or something and if she’s mature and likes you then she should probably find it more flattering than creepy

Motsickers · 2022-01-18T09:59:04+00:00

It’s normal dude, just own it. I mean okay it’s only holding hands but if you get a boner from just that it means that you have a healthy body and mind, testosterone also plays a huge role and being in my 20s too i understand you😂

LongLiveMacdre · 2022-01-18T08:01:13+00:00

Hurry up when she’s not looking, tuck your penis upward into your waistband. Also wear briefs, not boxers. Cause boxers are too lose, and briefs will pull your penis closer to your body.

DoomerToChad · 2022-01-18T07:27:12+00:00

Why would you not want her to notice? It's normal thing, nothing to be insecure about. Own it

__j_e_e_l__ · 2022-01-18T14:29:22+00:00

"Three things can't be long hidden, the sun, the moon and the truth." - Buddha

😬

ChutiyaChutney420 · 2022-01-18T15:06:44+00:00

I have found a pretty neat technique, just flex all your muscles real tight, biceps, calves etc. All the blood would rush to those places and the boner will successfully be defused. Tried and tested

KingAlpaca__ · 2022-01-18T07:49:37+00:00

Jerk off under the table

the_bbutterfly · 2022-01-18T10:29:36+00:00

sometimes i'm just talking and my dick gets hard, i usually think as it as my dick saying to me that that sedution is going good

Classic_Common_9163 · 2022-01-18T07:26:37+00:00

Get underwear that minimize friction and holds your penis in the type u configuration will do wonders

PetiteCaresse · 2022-01-18T10:45:46+00:00

I never ever realised a guy had a boner when we were clothed. I don't look at this place. Don't think this is an issue.

Ilovethaiicedtea · 2022-01-18T11:55:30+00:00

Flex a muscle for 30 seconds

pokemonpokemonmario · 2022-01-18T07:44:30+00:00

You want her to notice. Might even drag you behind a tree or into a bathroom or in the car.

fhdgufhufji · 2022-01-18T08:45:41+00:00

If your straight, just think of gay porn

Opposite_Setting_588 · 2022-01-18T11:30:03+00:00

If I’m interested then I would find it flattering, if I’m only partially interested my mind might use it as an excuse to write you off. If the chemistry is there, it is there and if she’s mature, it’s not going to be a problem. Only problematic if she’s not as into you.

Margin_call_matthew · 2022-01-18T10:22:02+00:00

Jerk off before you see her.

Bilbo_Smaug · 2022-01-18T15:12:14+00:00

It's normal, don't worry. It's mostly a blood rush from excitement/feeling good. Since your "big guy" is part of your body, it receives the blood rush too. Think of it as a non-sexual boner.

Yuva0 · 2022-01-18T07:43:10+00:00

Wear boxers, the loose ones which cover it up well.

guckindieluft · 2022-01-18T11:22:12+00:00

Prevent it? I’m gonna push it on her so she notices. Bonus that works best in public: take her hand and put it on your boner. They usually blush but love it.

No kidding.

GluckTruck · 2022-01-18T15:34:30+00:00

Hide it!?! Wtf? What kinda society has this become? We’re so ashamed of sex. You got a boner, bro? That’s a natural as a period or big breasts. Don’t you DARE hide that thing. Just be polite and laugh it off. She loves to see it

Pretzilla · 2022-01-18T14:15:46+00:00

When she notices, tell her: "not me making it happen, it's you"

theslyraptor · 2022-01-18T11:33:45+00:00

Trying to hide your situation is the worst thing to do. (Unless you're outdoors & people can notice) Just embrace it & play it cool. Playfully accuse her of turning you on.

2udaylatif · 2022-01-18T07:41:18+00:00

Put her hand on it

SgtSplacker · 2022-01-18T11:23:01+00:00

Hide it? As soon as i get one it all turns into a game to get her to touch it.

hardthumbs · 2022-01-18T13:28:28+00:00

You think you’re the only sex which find seeing someone aroused hot? You don’t think girls don’t like dicks? Only guys like wet pussy?

not_shajal · 2022-01-18T13:42:20+00:00

Don't. Be confident about it and let it do it's thing. Iv had girl he super into it and kept staring at it. I caught her peeping and joked about it and it got more intense. Turned out a great night

Jonathan9O · 2022-01-18T10:54:42+00:00

Press against her leg😋

eckzotic · 2022-01-18T11:37:00+00:00

This happens to me. I would always be nervous when it would happen from just holding hands or something, and I would try to hide it. It wasn't until I lost my virginity not too long ago and became comfortable with that girl, that I found out it wasn't too weird, she would compliment me on how hard I would get. Not trying to toot my own horn, but I'm guessing the other guys she was with weren't the same. Take it how you will. If you really wanna hide it, do like the other guy said and tuck it under your waistband when she's not looking, its what I did lol

MrHouseGang · 2022-01-18T11:55:26+00:00

You live proud with it and if she notices, it’s only going to cause nature to run it’s course even faster.

canuckle1211 · 2022-01-18T12:57:28+00:00

It's ok to get a boner. Just don't be weird about it. Most times girls find it as a compliment in my experience.

cbh28 · 2022-01-18T13:13:42+00:00

You're in your 20's and she probably is too, having a boner when you like someone is quite expected. She's not gonna be grossed out by it or laugh at you, so who cares? Just keep enjoying the date. If she notices, she'd most likely find it flattering, at least she knows you're into her.

ChurchofCaboose1 · 2022-01-18T13:51:02+00:00

Wear boxer briefs if you're that worried. It will make your erection less obvious without completely hiding it. Girls like knowing they have that affect. Least if they like you.

deathray-toaster · 2022-01-18T14:12:38+00:00

It happens when I hug a woman I’m attracted to, I just hope they don’t notice it. And I hope that if they do I don’t get scolded for it. They must know by now that it’s not intentional? Atleast when it’s a woman pushing 30 like I am.

jillcrossdresser · 2022-01-18T14:16:38+00:00

Chastity cage!

RandomLoLs · 2022-01-18T14:23:59+00:00

Lot of people here are giving you comical or useless advice.

If you really want to subdue your boner, just flex your quads/legs like you are trying to stand on your toes or squat. This will move the blood to your quads which are big muscles and your boner will go away.

But like others have said, you don't have to hide it. I think it's a compliment to the girl if she can give you a boner just from holding hands.

Melodic_Score_1950 · 2022-01-18T14:29:21+00:00

Haha happened to me too many times. Cant help it brother

alexanderldn · 2022-01-18T14:45:46+00:00

embrace it.

volavi · 2022-01-18T14:51:38+00:00

Wouldn't you feel great to know that the girl you are into is getting wet just chatting with you? Embrace it, if she likes you she will like you even more.

Bodacious_Dad_Bod · 2022-01-18T15:14:16+00:00

You shouldn't feel ashamed over your natural tendencies. It's not as big of a deal as you think it is.

tankezord · 2022-01-18T15:17:10+00:00

don't

RobMosaku · 2022-01-18T15:18:44+00:00

You could let it hang out and put a little top hat and a monicle on it?

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2022-01-18T16:00:22+00:00

Why would you want to hide it? Girls love it when they know you're turned on. If anything, rub it against her when you make out

minnesota420 · 2022-01-18T16:15:06+00:00

Imagine your grandma naked

SuaveFuck · 2022-01-18T16:40:21+00:00

unless it becomes like a full flagpole and it becomes like visibly offensive.........OWN IT.

youre male. you inhale female pheromones, stone age brain thinks its sexytime and so it redirects blood flow to the part in charge of that. in my 20s, when i had closeness with a girl and she was like "WTF YOURE HAVING A BONER!!!!!" i was like, wait for it..... "THATS A MEDICAL BONER .HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH MY INTENTIONS OR DESIRES RIGHT NOW." and believe it or not, after a while brain realized "well, false alert" and thus the rock hardness subsided again.

its medical. and everyone involved should be happy that it happens. means its functional when it is actually needed.

Leroythedroid · 2022-01-18T16:53:15+00:00

Hold breath😂 it works

milkman10169 · 2022-01-18T17:06:02+00:00

Own it. It happens and it's not a bad thing. I am 40 and it happens to me still from time to time. My partner gets a kick out of it and loves to see that I am still that into her.

b_a_d_r0b0t · 2022-01-18T17:15:21+00:00

Wear baggy clothes

silent_kevin_gnapoor · 2022-01-18T17:57:29+00:00

Let her see that shit bro

jujutoastybuns · 2022-01-18T18:13:26+00:00

Me and my best friend at the time (now bf) would go to walmart for groceries to cook for his parents and in the middle of the produce section he sat on the floor and wouldnt get up. He later told me it was because he was hard as a rock from looking at my ass. Now he grabs and touches it all he wants. I think it was hot back then and i still do today lol

TheRiverOfDyx · 2022-01-18T18:32:06+00:00

Think about tanks, ww1, ww2, naval combat, KEEP THOSE BOATS AWAY FROM THE MOUTHS OF CHANNELS. Open seas only. If the thought of the sea gives you swimmer vibes, stay away from the sea.

Actually, infantry combat and tank warfare works, if you ever think about your swimmers all up in that business, remember it’ll grind your life to a halt AND those millions of potential spawn of yours, they gotta go to what amounts to a war within your lady friend’s uterus and the path hitherto.

Good luck, soldier

one-last-hero · 2022-01-18T18:33:57+00:00

You don’t, and she’ll see and she’ll know. Own up to it and don’t care about anything else..

AnthdieSoos · 2022-01-18T19:00:03+00:00

Why prevent it? It is even good if she notices it lol

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