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JacobMoogberg69 · 2021-10-22T21:12:36+00:00

That's the ultimate goal. Men are so fucking conditioned to always chase and be aggressive with women, which is why they are always running away. I had the same experience after a bad break up. I just couldn't look at or even think about women. That's when chicks started coming out of the woodwork wanting to hook up.

Daunt02 · 2021-10-22T19:35:22+00:00

There's a vacuum like affect that happens when you sit confidently in your presence. Women want to fill it in.

I did this but with not asking for numbers or trying to close. It started out rough but a few months in women would get my number and pursue me to close. It's a weird mental flip, and doesn't work if you have no game, but it made socializing a lot easier and less serious.

jewishparka · 2021-10-23T01:46:57+00:00

dog i been grinding the gym for over a year now not focussed on women and i aint got no women giving me nothing just a bunch of dudes fist bumping me but cant complain its been a good life so far

No_Load_7183 · 2021-10-22T19:46:20+00:00

What's your age? Since I'm younger I feel as though this wouldn't happen to me.

2021-10-22T23:43:31+00:00

There is something intoxicating about a man who really really doesn't care about getting women and the kicker is it can never be faked.

babajisbro · 2021-10-23T04:49:32+00:00

Watch what happens when you're in a happy, sexually-satisfying relationship...girls will start checkin' you out everywhere and hitting you up out of nowhere.

Self-confidence and 'not caring of the outcome' are still two very underrated qualities in a person.

MuMuGorgeus · 2021-10-22T21:42:19+00:00

Did you make eye contact with the ones that approached you, or it was completely out of nowhere?

LandscapeClear1630 · 2021-10-22T22:39:27+00:00

are they the kind of women you find attractive?

NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-10-23T00:54:28+00:00

Master game: ignoring women bugs the hell outta them! It denies them their vanity and they enjoy "winning" your attention that much more. Guys who give women attention and praise and flood their DM's with compliments DLV. If you view yourself as the prize women will notice you DHV'ing. Value is subjective. What isn't subjective is what you truly believe about yourself. Your posture betrays your inner thoughts. If you think you're the greatest, you'll carry yourself like Ali. If you believe you're worthless you will send that vibe into the world.

coolwater85 · 2021-10-22T22:53:41+00:00

This is the way.

gmahogany · 2021-10-22T23:45:31+00:00

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gmahogany · 2021-10-23T01:07:07+00:00

You must be good looking then

mmmkaaaayyy · 2021-10-23T00:06:01+00:00

i was actually going to make a post today about this same thing, but didnt know which forum. ill prolly post it then. but youre exactly right, your energy changes. they can tell it.

williamroberthoss · 2021-10-23T03:15:05+00:00

This all sounds very zen. Lol. When you stop trying it will just click ?? But you can’t fake it?? You’ll just know?? Hope to find this space I’ll let ya know when it happens.

comfortboner · 2021-10-23T04:16:33+00:00

When it rains it pours, and when it’s dry it’s the desert. Enjoy my guy

RussianBoa · 2021-10-23T06:14:40+00:00

Congrats, first of all. But you're not telling the whole story. "Just don't care, bro!" - means nothing. You said the 5 girls came up to you. Be more specific: How did these women approach? What did they say to you?

CalvinHobb3s · 2021-10-23T01:06:29+00:00

This is bullshit

PoroPorn · 2021-10-23T05:31:00+00:00

It's all about being non-needie when it comes to attracting girls, and when you focus on the girl instead of yourself you put her before you and that's needy. Highly recommend the book "models" by Mark Mason, that put so many aspects right for me

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-10-23T07:30:10+00:00

Well you care enough to spend most your weekend at bars and places hoping to meet women tho right? When I go through phases where I really don’t care I barely bother going out at all

Hot-Construction-811 · 2021-10-23T01:42:29+00:00

right on brotha. early july got out of a short term relationship and by end of july i was talking to a girl firstly online and in real life. when we first met I was like don't give a fuck attitude. totally swearing and sat really relaxed which is totally opposite to before when I was meeting girls on the first date. 2 months later we are still together in fact planning a holiday over the summer. i don't know what gives but not giving a fuck actually works.

GeeseCTM · 2021-10-23T06:25:53+00:00

..... I can't even stomach these posts. Where's Formhandle to move this post to the reading impaired section to be ridiculed when you need him? Masf - RIP

ThePherdBeve · 2021-10-23T00:22:13+00:00

How old are you

lonelyshark911 · 2021-10-23T02:46:17+00:00

Thanks for the post - think im in a similar spot to you

chongmc · 2021-10-23T04:11:58+00:00

A friend once told me that if you stop looking, they will flock to you so I guess that is somewhat true.

StraightFlight · 2021-10-23T04:30:09+00:00

Either way, fucking congrats on that stroke of luck!

TempAcc64 · 2021-10-23T04:46:02+00:00

Trying to get there myself. My issue is I want to understand why it works.

duffy_stone · 2021-10-23T06:04:13+00:00

I'm curious how the vibe and conversations are when you're not the one chasing, how would you say the conversation and attraction build up when you have this mindset.

2021-10-23T11:01:27+00:00

You must be damn good looking. Agree and you’re right, not caring gives better vibes but also, concentrating on yourself, things just fall into place. This has helped me (still more to work on) but damn, 7 girls and 3 bar girls, nah man that’s not just not caring. Natural looks also man. Good share tho and you are right

freespirit1963TJ · 2021-10-23T11:55:58+00:00

Nailed it!

Altokation · 2021-10-23T13:35:35+00:00

This advice should really be taken with a grain of salt

MattDynamite · 2021-10-23T14:29:14+00:00

That's the key to being attractive. It's rather intangible but, when you don't care, you simply change the way you carry and express yourself. Your whole body language change for the better and you seem more care fun and fun to be around. Glad to hear!

ScienceIntelligent · 2021-10-23T15:17:58+00:00

Yeah, we can kinda smell desperation and apparently cool guys are just, idk, cooler 🤷‍♀️ Jk 😂

gn95 · 2021-10-23T17:26:43+00:00

Why are posts deleted? now I cannot see what was there

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