So I was told the gym is a sacred ground where you don’t approach women. I understood that and maybe out of fear of getting rejected never tried to cold approach a girl working out. But yesterday I broke that rule when this gorgeous stallion kept eyeing me while I was squatting, I have seen her at the gym before but always kept to my self. I didn’t talk to her then because I didn’t have anything to break the ice with. I noticed she was using one of those massage guns and just had a quick thought of asking her if “that thing works ?” I was a little tensed since she was wearing headphones and in between her sets. I waited for her to finish her set and asked her. She responded kind of cold and I went back to working out. But suddenly when I looked up she was standing there and started to talk about the massage gun and we started to chat about other things. Towards the end of the conversation I didn’t bother asking for her social media but instead asked her to put her number in my phone and she did!

I think it was an overall success but it’s too early to assume, will update this post as the story develops.

Update:

Sorry for the late update guys! First of all I’ll address the “Stallion” comment lol Some of you realized that yes I was referring to Megan thee stallion meaning a woman that is tall and fine (5'7 and over).

I have a busy schedule at work so and l started to reply to her text late and when we would see each other at the gym I kept to myself because I was focused on getting my sets in and leave. She always approached me and it would be a quick chat. We talked once about going out but I got busy and never followed up. She eventually got frustrated and sent me a long text saying how I am ignoring her and she’s not the type to chase someone who clearly isn’t interested. I told her the truth about being really busy and I said if she doesn’t want to talk anymore I understand that. She told me she’s never been shut out by a guy before and she’d like to go on a date. I eventually made some time in my schedule and we went to watch Space Jam(didn’t enjoy it at all btw) and dinner at this fancy seafood grill. During dinner I got a call from work about an issue in production(I am a developer for an IT company) so I was focused on that and after dinner I walked her to her car and left.

As of today she still sends me texts to check up on me but with the way my life is right now I don’t have time for a relationship. Which I plan on telling her soon. Overall I would say it was a success if the goal was to get into a relationship but that’s not was I going for unfortunately.

Also thanks for all the upvotes and comments!