got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?

putcoolusernamehere · 2022-07-31T03:41:25+00:00

Only getting 1 number in 43 approaches is probably a sign there's something majorly off about how you are approaching or presenting yourself. In my experience, most single girls give out their number really easily.

ResponsibilityKey427 · 2022-07-31T00:56:42+00:00

Cold approach so effective bro

atomant88 · 2022-07-31T00:30:01+00:00

That a bad ratio even for a rookie. You're def doing something wrong. Go back to your fundamentals and evaluate. Review your approach. Try something new.

traybro · 2022-07-31T00:38:48+00:00

How does your typical interaction look? Opener, conversation topics, etc?

BlacBlood · 2022-07-31T00:48:45+00:00

Numbers game and the ratio is 1:43. You’re doing something wrong. How’s your typical approach looking? How are you presenting yourself?

ebell1989 · 2022-07-31T01:53:51+00:00

I rarely ever ask girls for their #s in public and I almost always get it...so my ratio is pretty high. Lol Probably ask someone once ever odd month or so.

BarVegetable1512 · 2022-07-31T16:34:46+00:00

Sometimes results come in bunches. Maybe your next 43 approaches you'll get 10 numbers. Anyways depends also how you define approach. If you say hi to a girl or try to stop her and she keeps walking, does that count as an approach? Because realistically a lot of people don't want to stop and talk during the day time for a multitude of reasons. 43 approaches is actually a small sample size...

tlthang · 2022-07-31T00:45:51+00:00

This proves that .. it’s a numbers game. 43:1 seems low but the message is the more approaches you do, the higher the chance

Majestic_Meal_5655 · 2022-07-31T04:58:53+00:00

This seems right. Expect a date or two after cold approaching 100 chick's. Eventually you'll get lucky. If you don't give up.

rjones416 · 2022-07-31T04:21:13+00:00

how attractive is this girl?

willgo-waggins · 2022-07-31T04:38:01+00:00

Seems like a complete waste of time to me.

I get numbers without working at it whenever I go out. But I generally only do day approaches at events.

My goal is to be fucking them. Period anything less is only a place or a show and missing the goal which is a win. The only time it’s not is when (like now) I am with someone, or I’m just having fun with friends and not looking for anything.

Set your standards higher.

DDKTA · 2022-07-31T12:38:28+00:00

Please just get their socials in future. You’re letting yourself down

CocoBabeNYC · 2022-07-31T01:19:06+00:00

lol, this will be your reality if keep doing it the retarded way.

Girlie43210 · 2022-07-31T04:19:24+00:00

Just ask her! She must be conscious of something, may be pimples marks or pimples itself. Taking her hiking / facial / swimming will make her feel that you can’t talk direct and are just playing games. Girls like honest talks, be venerable so she can be too.

AngeloMacon · 2022-07-31T06:50:53+00:00

You got the balls part of the equation solved. But those are some terrible ratios. Even if you were aiming way out of your league or coming off nervous, you should be getting more polite gave you a number or social media add with no intention of going outs. You're coming off odd or making them uncomfortable.

froze_gold · 2022-07-31T15:41:51+00:00

What did you text her after you left? I personally like the "this is that cute guy Dante"

FlatDistance5 · 2022-07-31T17:18:27+00:00

1 solid out of 50 numbers that are solid is pretty typical for newbies.

But here’s a couple things the more approaches you do the decrease in ratio.. - I attribute that to recognizing women that aren’t interested from the onset. You’ll start to recognize patterns of disinterest. And either you’ll dismiss yourself or have her dismiss you.

Here’s what I suggest (disclaimer: I’m not blackpill, but they have some truths) focus on your looks before daygame, haircut fashion, Watch bracelets. Are you in good shape, fat, or skinny, doesn’t matter hit the gym and try to pack on muscle.

The ration will never be 1 solid to 1 but if you focus hardcore on self-improvement it’ll fall.

As far what you can do during the approach. Make saying hey I thought you were cute as the second or 3rd thing you’ll say. Focus on strictly what she’s wearing and cold read. Hey I didn’t know they allowed teachers to shop here, I bet all of your students hit on you, hi I’m flat distance I think your gorgeous, (heavy eye contact) what’s your name….

Then follow a strategy, 3 minutes banter that means self amusement, I personally like to make fun of the girl, back and forth, if she’s not asking questions, illicit questions from her. For example i like to travel a lot I went to a place when the skyline is so large you can lost in it looking out your window. Her: where did you go, me: New York ever been? Her: no but I want to, me: cool you and I can go and share our Romance there, maybe go half on a baby 👈 that’s my sense of humor. If she doesn’t ask questions tell her you can leave, she’s not interested not a big deal

Close correctly specific time and place. Then get the number with the purpose of seeing her that time and place

I have to be honest I’m a lazy daygamer when I see a girl whose my type I just go in and follow the same script you use hey thought you were cute…… but when I actually focus on approaching the correct way I notice the amount of solid numbers increase. Couple that with me eating right and hitting the gym like a maniac and the amount of dates increased.

So I know it requires effort but change your structure fashion and body. Just because your interested in her doesn’t mean she should be interested in you. You have to be interesting.

LaxFox · 2022-07-31T23:35:50+00:00

Everybody seems to be agreeing that something is not right, but what numbers should we be seeing? I’m new here and just getting into game. What’s the typical success rate for someone who is not a complete newbie?

ParticularAmazing112 · 2022-07-31T23:47:27+00:00

Maybe there is something off about your vibe bruv . Unless they’re in a relationship, most women give out their numbers really easily. They might not respond to you but getting the number is often the easiest part in my opinion

No_Examination_4242 · 2022-07-31T23:49:22+00:00

It can also depend on the country you’re in too. The women in Brazil, Columbia, Spain, etc. Are much more receptive and open, along with being super easy to talk to

CometAzur42069 · 2022-08-01T01:16:35+00:00

you're messing up bad, girls give numbers out like candy. unless they think you're a axe murderer or disgusting. they'll entertain even texting with you before flaking/ghosting if they were really not interested but liked some validation and wanted to be nice as well.

FranciscotheBull · 2022-08-01T10:17:18+00:00

Honestly, I don't think their is anything wrong. Let's be honest, guys don't know what woman likes us and don't like us for a relationship or find us attractive. If we did, we would ignore the ones who don't find us attractive and go for the ones who do. Some (not all) women will want to talk, not want to come off as rude, and don't want to say they aren't interested so they give their number and purposely ghost just to get the guy to go away that instant.

Just keep going. You will be rejected so just keep it pushing and don't worry about it. You might not be doing anything wrong.

Title	got 1 solid number from 43 day time approaches, thoughts?
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Date	July 31, 2022 12:23 AM UTC (3 years ago)
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