Someone I know was recently called out for some inappropriate behavior. It is a complicated drama that began with another guy stealing my friend's partner then engaging in a vicious campaign to destroy his reputation in a shared community. A number of uncorroborated accusations were used to effectively 'cancel' my friend. It was basically a personal turf war and my friend lost big. Witnessing this I really became aware of that I am holding fear around this kind of scenario, post me too. Its another obstacle to connecting with women. I am cautious to a fault, understand consent, and recognize the fear of being falsely called out prevents me from leaning in and communicating sexual interest. I would appreciate hearing how others have navigated this minefield.