How to show interest in a guy?

Vegetable-Mall-2329 · 2024-08-09T20:08:53+00:00

Tell him straight up you like him. Women always try to to give what they believe to be "hints" but I promise you, nobody notices them. Use words like an adult to express your interest. Godspeed 🫡

Western-Month-3877 · 2024-08-09T20:04:31+00:00

By telling him you’re into him

DisruptorMor · 2024-08-09T21:31:43+00:00

Be cute and, while with him, act in a way that is unique, showing that he could receive a special treatment compared to how you treat others.

Don't be afraid to share love and that's the kind of advice for everything in your life. Share love in every way you can, just remember that the kind of love you share with him needs to be unique.

I wish you the best.

P.S.: if he is taking too much time to say something, but he is clearly enjoying the way you treat him, you should talk openly with him in order to be in a relationship that both provide, otherwise he is going to sit comfortably still, while you give your whole energy to him.

Sauvage_Sir · 2024-08-09T21:41:14+00:00

Tell him, "Hey were you get that?"

He says "get what?"

You say "Those good looks 😏"

actstunt · 2024-08-09T21:57:37+00:00

My current girlfriend (the most beautiful girl I’ve dated) used to write me on WhatsApp on a daily basis but for work related stuff (we work for different companies) and then started to scalate things.

She began by sending me stickers, love stickers, asking me for help for stuff I was sure she was able to do, taking me photos and telling me I looked good or that I did a great job. Then one day she sent me a pic of her (no nude) I just told her that she looked pretty.

But I always thought that it was impossible to date a girl like her, I didn’t consider myself handsome or valuable but several girls had told me the contrary. So it was me auto sabotaging me.

Then one day she was at the office and we went for lunch and she started to telling me all kind of secrets and personal info without me asking.

And I was thinking that maybe but then again I said to myself “maybe she’s just nice with me” and that day at night she told me that she was in love with me and gave me several reasons why haha so in the end just tell the truth out of your heart.

Good luck.

srwat · 2024-08-09T21:56:18+00:00

Use the oldest trick in the book, have him help you with something you don’t need help with but pretend you do. Many guys love the chance to take a kind of teacher role. You can escalate it without scaring him by subtle body movements and being sure to have plausible deniability in it. Make an excuse for him to be able to touch you by brushing up against him.

If he has no interest, he won’t follow up on anything or else he is very shy and inexperienced.

HazardSharp · 2024-08-09T22:16:46+00:00

This is a good question that needs a good answer. And there are a lot of answers here that are too subtle or too direct. Find something somewhere in the middle that is both clear but not live as a hermit if it goes wrong.

My suggestion is to ask him to have a drink with you somewhere, coffee or alcohol, whatever your preference. It’s is a low investment option. Get to know him a little before you build a fantasy about what he really is like. This is a common mistake we all make when we wait too long to talk to someone new. Maybe he isn’t ready for anything now, maybe he already is in something kind of thing.

Velvettouch89 · 2024-08-09T20:03:35+00:00

Are you a male or female asking?

MetallicBalls_99 · 2024-08-09T20:53:17+00:00

just make a deep eye contact even if that guy notices don’t look away and maybe pass a smile while doing this (obv keep a track between seductive and creepy eye contact don’t let things go bitter) . do it twice or thrice and boom you’re good to go!

Severe-Doughnut4065 · 2024-08-09T19:54:30+00:00

Give him sex

Wyerie · 2024-08-09T22:42:01+00:00

Men are dense about this kind of stuff. You have to be very, very clear. Much more forward than probably feels natural to you. Not asking him out is going to going to be a real barrier to success. The friendzone works both ways, the more you show interest without being explicit about what you want, the less likely he is to make the first move.

kronos55 · 2024-08-10T07:43:48+00:00

without asking him out?

Telepathy

Flamingpotato100 · 2024-08-09T19:48:02+00:00

Be around him all the time. Find any excuse to talk to him and pick at his brain

Lord_Asmodeus93 · 2024-08-09T21:20:52+00:00

It's not that hard. Text him casually, and if he doesn't get the hint to make a move, try to steer the conversation towards relationship stuff.

Imjustnot_you · 2024-08-09T22:10:36+00:00

Men are simple. Forget about throwing hints. TELL. HIM. STRAIGHT. UP.

innergamedude · 2024-08-09T22:56:07+00:00

Lol @ asking men in search of flirting advice for flirting advice.

Brou150 · 2024-08-10T00:02:58+00:00

Ask for his number, ask to hangout sometime. Now that i think about it, if a woman asks me for my number, i think its pretty likely shes interested cause women never ask for my number.

sjyler · 2024-08-10T02:11:12+00:00

Do anything that shows interest at all, even prolonged eye contact is reasonable.

West_Hunter_7389 · 2024-08-10T02:32:15+00:00

From an ugly guy's perspective, any gesture can mean flirting, the same way it may mean flirting.

If you want to learn some spanish, Pau Donés made a song about that:

Cómo quieres ser mi amiga, si por ti me perdería (how you wanna be my friend, if for you I'd lose myself)

Si confundo tu sonrisa, con camelo si me miras (if I treat your smile, with flirting if at me you're looking at)

Si confundo tus caricias, con camelo si me mimas. (If If I mix a friendly caress, with love if you spoil me)

Pasion y ley Dificil mezcla Agua y sed un serio problema... Cuando uno tiene sed, pero el agua no esta cerca Cuando uno quiere beber, pero el agua no esta cerca

( Passion, and law it's a hard mix Water, and thirst It's a big issue .

when somebody has some thirst, but the water can't be drinked.... When some body wants to drink, but the water can't be drinked

SkyAggressive5490 · 2024-08-10T03:23:32+00:00

Make eye contact with him several times

Patient_Mammoth_2584 · 2024-08-10T07:38:35+00:00

Men actually find it really attractive when they know a woman wants them. As women we often feel that men should be the ones to always make the first move but that shouldn’t be the case. Be confidant and upfront- I’m sure he would appreciate that rather than having to read your mind.

antctt · 2024-08-10T09:34:12+00:00

I’m a man and am telling you being straight up might not be the best idea.

Do this: 1. Try giving some compliments and see if you get compliments back 2. Try touching his hand or leg when laughing at a joke 3. If 1 & 2 get good reactions you may shoot your shot, but try 1 and 2 first

Pedro_Moona · 2024-08-09T20:10:47+00:00

Just spend time around him

fsuite · 2024-08-09T21:42:44+00:00

Is it a guy you are seeing in a regular environment (workplace, social circle, weekly interest group, gym, etc.) or is it a guy where you aren't expecting to bump into again?

InterviewEast3798 · 2024-08-09T22:00:45+00:00

ask him for advice or help with something.Sent him a meme or a reel and do the same again in a few days

jjboy91 · 2024-08-09T22:13:14+00:00

Leave him a note with an invitation or a question

TheWavyWizard · 2024-08-09T23:02:09+00:00

tell him in a nonchalant way. we love straightforward things but women aren’t programmed to be straightforward

Ancient-Position-696 · 2024-08-10T00:25:25+00:00

Give him a Send Noods shirt

Darth_Krise · 2024-08-10T00:59:50+00:00

Tell him directly, there’s no beating around the bush with this sort of thing. Not only should you tell him, but you should also tell him what you want from him as well. It’ll help both of you out and save a lot of time

mrsilverman · 2024-08-10T01:59:47+00:00

Grab his cock

NewOCLibraryReddit · 2024-08-10T02:26:04+00:00

Are you a guy or girl?

Bailicious2 · 2024-08-10T04:28:36+00:00

Dont.

TheGentleman557 · 2024-08-10T05:18:31+00:00

Guys respect confidence. If you be upfront about being "into" him, that meaning you think something could happen because you guys have chemistry, a really really good way to get over the confidence/rejection bridge is to understand and know this. Even if he doesn't feel the same, he will respect that you were open and honest 100%. Even more so if you handle a response you didn't want with grace, it goes a really long way. I've turned women down and when they've handled it well IMO it bumps up their sexiness quite significantly. Just a thought

aeroaca9 · 2024-08-10T05:50:58+00:00

Look at him, smile, and wave. When you have a conversation with him, look him in the eyes, look at his lips, ask him genuine questions about his interests, hobbies, and family.

Sugar_Dizzy · 2024-08-10T06:01:14+00:00

Smile. Softly laugh at his jokes. Compliment him on his looks, clothes or shoes or the way you noticed he did his hair a certain way etc. be authentic, confident (not conceited) and super nice… it will come off naturally as flirty.

arnsax · 2024-08-10T06:47:44+00:00

I think if you don't want to tell him, just ask him out as a friend and dress nicely maybe, he may still not understand, (some guys are dumb, I was once too) so make sure to let him know you want to hang out again.

I think by this strategy he'll understand or you will eventually build enough confidence and comfort to ask him out yourself.

Good luck!

yashar_sb_sb · 2024-08-10T09:17:38+00:00

Ask him to take you out.

Jashan_N · 2024-08-10T09:53:35+00:00

Be nice to him ✅.

Dynamix86 · 2024-08-10T10:07:49+00:00

Ask him for advice or ask him to help you with something that you need a man for

Becominghim- · 2024-08-10T13:39:36+00:00

I don’t know about the rest of you but when the chase isn’t there I don’t feel super motivated. So if you do express interest, still make him work for it. This might just be me but guys reply to this so I can see if it’s a me thing or a general thing

Acceptable_Act1435 · 2024-08-10T14:46:57+00:00

Tell him you like him AND ask him out.

It sometimes happens that a woman tells a guy that she likes him, which doesn't happen often, and guys don't know how to react, so they get awkward. Women then misinterpret this as a sign that they shouldn't tell that to guys, because they are not used to it. However, they are just a bit overwhelmed by the positive attention and don't know what to do (later he will regret he didn't say something).

So, tell him you like him and also that you want to get to him better

mal_one · 2024-08-10T16:45:13+00:00

Pass him a note

amlextex · 2024-08-09T20:31:41+00:00

World Famous 3-Step Approach to Showing Interest to Your Dream Guy:

Step 1: Say you like his tie.

Step 2: Then say, I like your belt.

Step 3: Finally, say, I like.

If you do all 3 steps correctly, it will work.

ConjunctEon · 2024-08-09T21:22:45+00:00

Best one I had was when I was shopping. She said “Hi! Hey, didn’t I see you at the pub last Friday?” We dated for a year after that. Good luck!

tampawn · 2024-08-10T00:48:19+00:00

Walk up to him and ask him is he having fun? And tell him you like to have fun and smile in his face. That's about as indirectly direct as I think any of you girls can get.

Othrwise tell him you like his vibe. Some girl told me that a year ago and I still remember it. Men are USED to never getting compliments...ever. Tell him you like his vibe or that you are into him.

shusain2991 · 2024-08-10T03:41:59+00:00

Just keep aside your ego and ask him straight that i want to have a coffee with you. I know it's your ego not your confidence. I know many women who already have many relationships in the past but still they don't ask guys out. They have more experience than the guy itself. But still don't ask out guys because of their ego.

klas228 · 2024-08-09T21:44:14+00:00

Just show genuine interest about the person, initiate small talks and ask questions, make a silly joke, after a few conversations you will see if there’s a spark.

GymBroTRT · 2024-08-09T20:39:19+00:00

Stick out your index and middle finger forming a V and then flicker your tongue between the two fingers while making eye contact with him.

Diligent-Physics189 · 2024-08-10T18:07:55+00:00

You could try asking him out

rzerx · 2024-08-11T13:31:26+00:00

Yo wtf question is that?? Wtf ?

Title	How to show interest in a guy?
Author	Agreeable_Cap3513
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Date	August 9, 2024 7:41 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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