How to stop staring at breasts

Therocksays2020 · 2021-10-17T07:37:59+00:00

Focus on eye contact which you should be doing anyways. You can research the social gaze which is known to make people like you more.

Dr-Tray · 2021-10-17T09:00:49+00:00

start wearing sunglasses at night

CoinTimeU · 2021-10-17T08:20:26+00:00

Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun, you don't look directly into it, that's dangerous, you get a sense of it and you look away.

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dbsmbCWUNEE

SgtSplacker · 2021-10-17T13:43:10+00:00

I look at breasts like any other part of the body. Actually more since they are sometimes put on display so prominently. Who cares? 1-2 seconds is plenty of time to check them out and move on. A stray titty is like my favorite thing in the world.

devnasty009 · 2021-10-17T10:49:43+00:00

Quit drinking so much

whiplash81 · 2021-10-17T15:13:57+00:00

Play a game with yourself where you will take a mental note of their eye color. This will change your focus to eyes, which is where it should be.

GuaranteeOwn5108 · 2021-10-17T09:53:15+00:00

look up

phillypiston · 2021-10-17T18:20:07+00:00

Looking is fine; just don't leer. If no one is bringing it up during conversation, then your problem is being self-conscious.

kostaz69 · 2021-10-17T20:58:05+00:00

Be gay

norwegiandoggo · 2021-10-17T07:44:13+00:00

Practice self control

AelfredRex · 2021-10-17T11:53:04+00:00

It's a matter of degree. It's OK to do a bit of noticing, some casual undressing with the eye... that shows sexual interest and can get great reactions. It's bad to stare nonstop or when talking to her.

Humans are the only primate where the female has evolved protruding breasts. Sexual signalling is one of their purposes.

heraldos · 2021-10-17T11:14:44+00:00

Leave the porn for 66 days and have sex with someone and ready.

SithLordJediMaster · 2021-10-17T15:13:32+00:00

Old Drill Seargeant told us:

"You have to use your peripheral vision. When you're in the mall with your girlfriend and an ao attractive woman walks by you use your peripheral vision to look at her. You're looking straight so your girlfriend doesn't know but the sides of eyes catch the other one."

TheSunshineMan · 2021-10-17T12:01:32+00:00

By touching your first breast in life. Then everything changes.

mceatalot · 2021-10-17T15:47:08+00:00

Pretend that you’ve seen enough that you’re sick of em.

letsgetrandy · 2021-10-17T10:41:17+00:00

Staring too much just makes you a thirsty pervert. When conversing with anyone, look them in the eyes. But if you're not conversing, having a look at the goods isn't a big deal... and if you have true confidence you can do it and then when she calls attention to it you just return your attention to her eyes and say "hey, just admiring the view... not bad". I have had this work out rather well for me many times in the past.

cryptocat333 · 2021-10-17T10:36:36+00:00

Just remember, if you keep staring at the sun, you will burn out your rentas.

Use this analogy with your dick. If you stare at tits too long your dick will fall off.

TheBurgessChurchill · 2021-10-17T17:31:29+00:00

LMAO!! This might be the funniest post I've seen on here. I suggest you own it. Call yourself on it. It will create sexual tension if you're in rapport. You can say, "I know this is inappropriate but I can't stop staring at your beasts. Honestly they are really nice". I remember Yad (A British pick up artist) would say something similar to that. If you're in rapport it will get a laugh. You need to have big balls if you're going to try it. You need to fully 100% believe she will respond well to it. You need to be completely congruent. If you feel nervous when you say that then it won't work. Good luck. Haha.

heraldos · 2021-10-17T11:17:13+00:00

Look breasts of good looking girls is normal and good nothing Bad in my view.

MrMacDoctor · 2021-10-17T16:10:23+00:00

Why would you want to change

Kief-Liege · 2021-10-17T09:14:06+00:00

Keep staring g

MetaphysicPhilosophy · 2021-10-17T10:05:58+00:00

I have the same problem but for ass. Honestly, in this day and age, women probably get some sort of validation from it. Just don’t be rapey

im-the-stig · 2021-10-18T02:27:39+00:00

“Looking at cleavage is like looking at the sun. You don't stare at it. It's too risky. Ya get a sense of it and then you look away.”

― Jerry Seinfeld

Ajarofpickles97 · 2021-10-17T14:41:19+00:00

The occasional glance at the breast isn't a turn-off (that depends on the woman, though). It lets the girl know you are interested. Just don't ogle them or anything like that. Your GF will love it it makes her feel desired

undercoverlemon373 · 2021-10-17T09:35:57+00:00

Sorry OP, it is not possible. Control and other shit are just an illusion

flckoflcko · 2021-10-17T07:46:02+00:00

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KanePilkington · 2021-10-17T19:21:35+00:00

33 years old and i still struggle with this. It's so stupid how attracted we are to them.

Crixusgannicus · 2021-10-17T11:26:53+00:00

You have something handy called peripheral vision. USE IT.

You can look in their eyes and still see their tits, easily.

Attend and learn.

Look at the farthest wall. Look at the center and soon....

become aware you can also see where it meets the adjoining walls on either side.

And as you notice that, now, turn and look at the nearest wall because you will become

aware you can also see where it meets the adjoining walls on either side.

Which means now you can look at the tits without being caught.

HOWEVER, you want to get caught occasionally looking at the tits, BUT NOT STARING.

Why? Because it's one small step to proving you're a MAN, not a pussy.

That is all. Carry on.

ForTheLoveofGeese · 2021-10-17T08:51:55+00:00

Idk, maybe just grow up a bit? Stop putting women on a pedestal? Get laid? One of these has to work for ya..

Darnag7 · 2021-10-17T12:46:30+00:00

It's okay to look, but not to loooook. Give it like 1/2 a second then make eye contact with a feeling of gratitude for their fashion choices.

In other words, don't beat yourself up about what might be an involuntary response. Follow the other advice, whatever works. Just don't start hating yourself over it.

24mech · 2021-10-17T15:33:55+00:00

Look at a point at the forehead , do it on friends then when realize you’re doing it while thinking hard about it then there you go 😏. GL btw… it’s really hard to stop glancing at em glorious breasts.

youcheekydelinquent · 2021-10-17T16:10:21+00:00

Its not hard. You practice with everyone. All the time. You build awareness about it. Learn to talk to every woman and get them to smile its really actually kind of easy. Then when you meet a hot girl and you don't hit on her or make her feel like an object and instead you've made her smile and she's like huh.

Mrsowrong · 2021-10-17T19:11:41+00:00

Stare at the bridge of the nose

Training_Passenger79 · 2021-10-17T20:50:39+00:00

The habit to do this comes from the fact that the sensory area of your brain is so active. You can channel activity from that area of the brain to another by keeping your mind engaged. When you’re speaking to people, analyze what they are saying, ask yourself follow up questions, and keep your brain engaged in the conversation.

This will activate different brain regions and your eyes will stop wandering so much.

harmonic- · 2021-10-17T21:04:34+00:00

https://youtu.be/DvrcHpipzmA?t=50

whateverforever84 · 2021-10-17T22:21:39+00:00

Wear dark sunglasses.

bubbleburgz · 2021-10-17T22:28:02+00:00

https://youtu.be/AqWNmk7pH3s

cormacru999 · 2021-10-18T01:24:21+00:00

Stop thinking of women as objects for your pleasure & start seeing them as people with other aspects to enjoy.

YetzirahToAhssiah · 2021-10-18T04:18:33+00:00

Eye contact with a beautiful woman is intoxicating. Acquire the taste.

Agreeable_Bench9625 · 2021-10-18T04:38:59+00:00

I support this

InappropriateSnark · 2021-10-18T04:55:51+00:00

Talk to the woman’s face. Make eye contact. If you’re looking your conversation partner in the eye, you won’t be ogling her boobs because boobs aren’t part of women’s faces. Save the boob gazing for a time when you are not engaged in conversation and can do it a bit more stealthily.

Throwawayact696969 · 2021-10-18T07:21:44+00:00

The great irony is that its entirely dependent on how you present yourself as a man.

If your essentially already good at the dating basics you'll usually be fine even if you do get caught.

If you suck, you'll get shamed.

I never get in trouble when I get caught staring but I'm pretty damn charming so yay for me.

No-Cheesecake-1081 · 2021-10-18T09:59:00+00:00

It's literally written into your genes to look at boobs, good luck trying to change it. Seriously, just keep checking out women, they are checking out your assets as well.

EU-Howdie · 2021-10-19T14:14:13+00:00

That is easy, do not drink that much .....

Title	How to stop staring at breasts
Author	flckoflcko
Upvotes	327
Comments	78
Date	October 17, 2021 7:35 AM UTC (4 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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