My Most Successful Cold Approach Technique

zarazaodrin · 2021-06-20T22:02:42+00:00

Here's how it would go for me:

Me: "Do I go up to her or is that too direct?"

Girl: "Go up to her and introduce yourself"

Me: "Ok; hi, my name is zarazaodrin"

Girl: "Exactly! Just like that. Good luck!"

Me:

justanotheranon9 · 2021-06-20T19:38:23+00:00

The brains on this guy.

All jokes aside this is kinda clever. Ima try and update

Acrobatic-Artichoke9 · 2021-06-21T11:26:19+00:00

One that has worked for me is approaching a woman with my phones contacts open & saying " Excuse me," Charming smile on my face, "Would you mind taking this survey for me." 9/10 The woman laughs and compliments me on how good my pick up line is before providing me with there info. Out of the 5 times I used it- it worked 4 times. The 5th time only failed because the woman thought I was talking about an actual survey to which she replied " I'm sorry, I cant right now."

Dutchcat1077 · 2021-06-20T17:34:06+00:00

Clever

Aggravating_Farm_125 · 2021-06-20T21:05:31+00:00

This is called an opinion opener.

Global-Bridge-6787 · 2021-06-20T21:32:41+00:00

🙏 answers to my prayers about approaching a group set. May the universe bless you, my friend.

PompousSchmuck · 2021-06-20T21:32:08+00:00

Thats like.. 5D chess right there

Woujo · 2021-06-20T23:08:50+00:00

You don't need to do this. This is more for you than for them. You can just go introduce yourself.

loveisascam · 2021-06-20T23:22:06+00:00

I tried this today wipes pepper spray from eyes

Totally worth it

Fusionpro101 · 2021-06-20T17:58:17+00:00

Woah this is very smart 🙏🙏

loofyd · 2021-06-20T19:39:32+00:00

SMOOTH

afterthought871 · 2021-06-20T20:07:35+00:00

Cheesy

Bruvguy72 · 2021-06-20T23:19:09+00:00

damn this is a dime haha

TheUltimateAntihero · 2021-06-21T10:56:53+00:00

"Aww.... you're cute but I have a boyfriend.".

Party successfully ruined.

jwilhelm0618 · 2021-06-20T18:58:49+00:00

Appreciate the input

Odd_Elegance · 2021-06-20T19:50:02+00:00

It only works if ur handsome though lmao

Anywhere-Solid · 2021-06-21T00:36:34+00:00

I was just thinking of cold approach technique & this came up as the first post as I went on the app- I wish I could prove it…..I’ll automatically award myself 70k likes

E-Wildin · 2021-06-20T21:40:40+00:00

Beautiful.

cinder_16 · 2021-06-20T21:55:05+00:00

C L E V E R

Ray2020K · 2021-06-20T22:01:35+00:00

Well done, sir.

Standing applause

HungryEveryTime · 2021-06-20T23:36:07+00:00

Damn i saw that in movies and i had this in mind

But i wouldve never thought that this actually works

Sir_Loin_the_Impaler · 2021-06-20T23:45:48+00:00

Brilliant. Love it

Meruem-x-Meruem · 2021-06-21T03:31:30+00:00

What do you say if she can tell what you’re doing and says “no, I don’t think you should”. What’s a non-awkward way to end the interaction?

El0vution · 2021-06-20T21:47:58+00:00

Hot tip, I will definitely use this one

whereszedzedsded · 2021-06-21T05:49:02+00:00

Honestly, I’ll be the one to say that I don’t find this smooth. I’d feel a little uncomfortable, and a little trapped into the situation. because you’ve gone from asking about someone else, to now me.

_xix__ · 2021-06-21T00:20:01+00:00

Yep I’m unsubbing.

OptimisticallyLookng · 2021-06-21T03:12:33+00:00

Someone did something very similar to me when I was a teenager. I encouraged him to go to her and tell her how you feel about her. So he told it to me! I was not interested in him and was hoping he had found someone else and leave me alone. Awkward 😞

coronavirusisajoke · 2021-06-20T21:00:01+00:00

I'd like to give you an award for this one but it seems like I'm broke-

MisterShogunate · 2021-06-21T03:16:03+00:00

Ive seen guys do this and it’s too cheesy for me. It would work if you were a teenage kid it would work.

FaithInStrangers94 · 2021-06-21T04:23:06+00:00

Thing is what do you say after you introduce yourself?

At least other types of approaches can lend themselves to a continuing conversation but this one is like “hey I’m Andrew... so... doin a bit of shopping today?” “Yeah” “nice. Predominantly clothing or?” “Yeah” “any particular brands you have in mind?” “Yeah” “wanna continue this chat over a drink?” “No”

dave_spontani · 2021-06-21T07:31:17+00:00

Lel

Funny idea, have my upvote

Acrobatic-Artichoke9 · 2021-06-21T11:52:27+00:00

Gentlemen I can assure you that you don't have to be handsome for this to work. I am medium-ugly at Best. But I speak & dress exceptionally well tho. Image matters. Just ask the peacock.

Broski_Higgins · 2021-06-20T22:14:23+00:00

This is good but usually its better not to have prerehearsed lines because then it helps you be more clever and unique with what you say.

Flnt_Lck_Wd · 2021-06-21T12:49:46+00:00

Please note, from my experience most women do not want to be approached. I’d say, of the women who are looking to begin a romantic interaction with someone, most of them would like to be approached, instead of being the approacher (perhaps this is what OP meant). Like others have said, if it turns out they are not interested after telling you to approach, just say have a nice day and move on.

sarge4567 · 2021-06-21T14:01:45+00:00

IMO this is good, but also, there's a million type of girls with different mentalities & psychology, and there is no one size fits all approach. Some girls DONT WANT TO BE APPROACHED, some want to be approached a certain way, some are down to fuck almost on the spot, some aren't, etc.

You just got to try and see what happens.

Also, lots of how a girl will react to you in particular is not in your control. You might be her type or she might be horrified by you. And totally different reaction based on that. EXACTLY THE SAME MEN WOULD ACT in truth. If I see a girl I find not my type, I won't engage.

Also, SITUATION is very important. A girl on holiday somewhere is not the same girl as if she is stressed at work. Common sense but important.

Endovelico · 2021-06-21T07:53:40+00:00

Nah, unless it's a 18 yo who hasn't been approached that many times yet, they will see this coming a mile away.

just_some_dude_blah · 2021-06-21T13:23:14+00:00

Lol i got to try this. Lol

NGstate · 2021-06-20T20:38:11+00:00

haha just tried this a few days ago! 7 years ago i witnessed 4 people on a street forcefully take a younger man into an ally and i did nothing to stop it

Fecund_Sweet · 2021-06-21T01:45:11+00:00

Why would you cold-approach someone?

neverhadnoonever · 2021-06-21T13:42:09+00:00

“it puts her in a position to not contradict her own advice”

… so basically embarrass her and put her on the spot? this is terrible advice. Also based on what exactly are you saying all girls WANT to be approached? this is not true at all. it heavily depends on the time, setting and circumstances. really bad advice here

TheSunshineMan · 2021-06-20T21:02:05+00:00

Beta behavior.

A real alpha man knows what he wants and goes after it.

Not asking a girl in a seeking approval cheesy way:

"What should I do because I'm clueless with women"

EDIT: -27 downvotes - this sub is full of simps who've obviously never even approached a single girl on the street or lost their virginity.

El_Marlin · 2021-07-01T13:39:15+00:00

this honestly is a really bad strategy lol. Its a lot easier to just compliment her clothes and go from there.

JonSnowsCousin · 2021-07-10T17:06:19+00:00

Just tried this at the dealership while getting my oil changed. Took me two hours to work up the courage and find a good moment to approach.

It went like this:

Me: Excuse me, how's it going? I was wondering if I can get an opinion from a girl?

Her: " I'm good, how are you doing? And sure.

Me: just waiting on my truck to get finished up! So, if I see a really cute girl, would going up to her be too direct?

Her: " no, I mean I think that's what you're supposed to do."

Me: yeah I think so too... Well, you happen to be that cute girl, my name is secret. Shook her hand and looked her in her eyes. Asked if she was single and if I could get her number and she said she was unfortunately in a relationship. She said she was flattered tho and started smiling a lot.

Should I worry if she was lying or just chalk it up to 1 cold approach experience and don't over think the situation?

Im still all Shakey but this feels 100x better than if I would've left without talking to her.

Advice, opinions?

Zangief89 · 2022-05-04T03:47:30+00:00

This is a killer opener, I can tell and I haven’t even used it yet. Good looks

Title	My Most Successful Cold Approach Technique
Author	yeahoverhere
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Date	June 20, 2021 5:15 PM UTC (5 years ago)
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