I've been meaning to write this for a while. Thank you Seddit.
Background
I went out with a girl for 2 years. It was my first serious relationship and it seemed great at the time. In the end I broke up with her and I felt fucking amazing. For a grand total of 2 weeks. Then it sunk in, the horrific feeling any guy knows once they break up with a girl they've been with for a while. I couldn't stop thinking about her and my god, my game was fucking destroyed. I literally forgot how to flirt. I'm sure seduction has a word for this, but I'll just call it post-relationship blues.
Started reading Seddit and started progressing. I was petrified on my first date. I was so scared I almost persuaded myself to go home. That date turned into a fuck buddy who I still see.
Transformation
Fast forward to now and I feel fucking amazing. I'm more successful than I've ever been. In the last 3 weeks I've had sex with two 8s and a 10. After having sex with the 10 I just had to tell Seddit. The stuff you read REALLY works. I'll save some of those stories for FRs.
I wanted to share the most important things I've learnt along the way:
- Read Seddit - Well done, you're already doing it. The amount of amazing advice on here is incredible. BUT, don't be afraid to try your own thing and don't ever think there's one way of doing something.
- Go to the fucking gym - You'll feel so much better seeing yourself improve. I started going 3 times a week. Looked up a good weights program and followed it. Your confidence goes through the fucking roof. Women now tell me on a day to day basis how good I look. That feels amazing.
- Get a job you fucking enjoy - If you have a stimulating job which you enjoy, you have a talking point. But most importantly girls LOVE a guy with ambition.
- Speak to EVERYONE - I can't stress this enough. My confidence levels went through the fucking roof as soon as I started speaking to everyone. Girl behind the till, waiter, randomers. Just fucking do it. You'll feel amazing.
- Eye contact - A great technique for improving confidence is looking at everyone you see walking down the street. ONLY break eye contact when they look away. It's fucking petrifying at the start, but slowly it builds up your confidence. Try it for a week and you'll feel amazing.
- Read your favourite seddit post or seduction quote before you go out - It's amazing how quickly you forget amazing pieces of advice or new things you want to try out. Read it before you go out, it helps you focus on what you want to achieve and helps you get in the right mindset. I have a doc with the things I'm trying out, or a great piece of advice I've recently read.
- Have fun - that's why you're reading this. You love seduction and you love women. At no point should it be a chore. You're seeing yourself improve all the time and trust me, the journey is fucking amazing.
Most importantly. Just fucking do it. Every post says it, but it's fucking true. There's only so much you can read. You learn from experience. Get out there, speak to women, get numbers, text them, date them, fuck them.
Thank you Seddit.
TL;DR: I went from a harsh break up to being more successful than I ever have. I'm feeling the best I've ever felt through a transformation period of a few months thanks to Seddit.
EDIT: Love reading all your comments guys! I'll answer any questions you have. I'm going to post FRs and go into more detail as people have asked for it. Stay tuned!
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