What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”?

reddixmadix · 2012-08-01T10:33:32+00:00

10-15 times a day, over 3500 times a year. That seems like a perfectly plausible number pulled out of someone's ass.

Tobislu · 2012-08-01T04:55:15+00:00

Matt and Trey Parker said that the secret to South Park was proceeding their stories with "Yes, but" and "So then". Never proceed with "Yes, and" because it's boring.

I guess the same applies to seduction.

thendrill · 2012-08-01T07:44:34+00:00

Articles like this are the problems with seddit lateley....

All spam and commercials for something simple !

Are you people forgeting we have a sidebar full of shittests and answers !

a_change_of_mind · 2012-08-01T09:00:59+00:00

If they ask me to take a photo, I say sure, take the camera, take a photo of myself and hand it back to them... as if that was the most normal thing in the world.

2nd_class_citizen · 2012-08-01T05:10:20+00:00

What about the congruence test mentioned at the start?

NO_TROLLS_HERE · 2012-08-01T04:28:43+00:00

What do you guys think would be a good retort if a hot girl asks you to buy a drink?

Seife · 2012-08-01T12:50:45+00:00

A really attractive girl will get hit on 10-15 times A DAY.

Nope...

johndrama · 2012-08-01T12:28:15+00:00

Sorry, but this is largely bullshit pulled out of someones ass. If you constantly are thinking about what the girl is going to do and looking for her to test you so you can pass the test your going to get nowhere. If you really want to be a good pua you should be testing the girls, not the other way around.

BiiiillBrassky · 2012-08-01T02:25:10+00:00

great article. sometimes when my energy's low or my state's not right, i'll get into compliance mode with girls and quickly feel like an AFC without really realizing what was happening. flipping the script and getting them to comply makes you look and feel like a boss

ZERGSTOERER · 2012-08-01T12:06:08+00:00

Girl: "Why don't you buy me a drink?"

You: "Why should I buy you a drink? We just met and you did pretty much nothing for me. You could be a lesbian."

2012-08-01T03:49:39+00:00

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royisabau5 · 2012-08-01T07:06:36+00:00

This guy sucks at writing, but the content is great. I am conflicted...

phreanix · 2012-08-01T14:00:41+00:00

In one word: Confidence.

daLeechLord · 2012-08-01T14:38:24+00:00

There are other small things like “why don’t you wait here while I go to the bathroom.” or “give me a kiss on the cheek” or even “will you take a picture for us?”

I've had the bathroom thing happen to me and I just now realize it, any ideas on how I should counteract it because I got nothing.

KupOhTayh · 2012-08-01T06:14:51+00:00

Or you can be genuine? There's nothing sexier than that.

zergboss · 2012-08-01T15:01:21+00:00

Money.

dvorakoa · 2012-08-01T19:57:14+00:00

If a girl asks me to hold her drink/handbag I like to give them a sly look and say - "I think you have me confused for every other guy in this place" then smile. Always finish with a cheeky smile.

snotsnot · 2012-08-01T07:53:39+00:00

Isn't this to some extend a shit test?

Piranhapoodle · 2012-08-01T14:36:14+00:00

Complying too much just shows that you desperately want to have sex with her. Big turn off. Better show her a reason of why she might want to have sex with you.

blueatlanta · 2012-08-01T14:41:40+00:00

i do the same thing, except i start with no, as it gives them a subconscious shock. "will you do xyz for me" "no, but if you do abc for me, then i will do xyz for you"

MistaFANG · 2012-08-01T17:28:44+00:00

Nice clothes

Sirrus21 · 2012-08-02T16:36:20+00:00

How to become instantly hot: stop masturbating.

mistahARK · 2012-08-01T08:44:18+00:00

Whenever I see an article like this, full of 'never' and 'always' and 'guarenteed', I just click the comments and see what an actual girl thinks about all this.

Any females with some insight on this?

cowboyitaliano · 2012-08-01T15:30:12+00:00

If she asks you to take her picture you can always put on your shit grin and say: "clothes on or off?"

Phaint · 2012-08-01T06:01:04+00:00

If you need to read stuff like this, you fail.

Seriously, just be comfortable in your own skin. All this 'compliance test' crap is snake oil.

Oh, and learn to dance. Women like to dance. If you don't you're already behind the curve.

Manny_Rize · 2012-08-01T21:00:46+00:00

After reading the article I made my way over to "kiss technique" and he ends it with "learn the one sentence that will activate her sexual triggers" Lol you can't be serious. I've read his book The Tao of Badass and it is by far one of the most helpful books I've come across but this so called sentence is simply "it's okay" -what's okay? " "I want to kiss you too"

Title	What makes an average looking guy instantly become “hot”?
Author	smalltalksexy
Upvotes	287
Comments	158
Date	August 1, 2012 1:05 AM UTC (14 years ago)
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