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MrBowlfish/r/askTRP04/12/16 05:18 PM
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2

It’d be interesting to spend a month off everything and see what happens.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:46 PM
3

That’s the whole idea of getting a baseline. Do you have any meds you must take? Like doctor prescribed?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 04:01 PM
1

I’ve had some issues with herbal medicine before (rashes), so I’d be suspicious of it. If you want to try it, go ahead, but I’d be ready to drop it if I had to. Take notes.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 03:41 PM
12

By baseline I mean just living a month or 2 just drinking water and eating healthy, no other input. When you have a health problem you need to eliminate as many unnecessary variables as possible so you can try to isolate and pinpoint the issue. If you’re using substances (of any kind) it muddies the whole process and creates confusion. Also, take notes. Journal your sleep patterns every day, keep a log of anything that enters your body so you can potentially track patterns. Comes in very handy l…
/r/askTRP08/06/21 02:26 PM
16

Have you taken any length of time to be totally free of all drugs? I mean everything: medicine, caffeine, nicotine, alcohol, weed, just to get a base line?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 11:43 AM
1

A) 12 approaches in 9 months? And no, covid is a piss poor excuse b) 48 hours is too long. You’re a stranger to them. Text while you’re still fresh in their mind and theyre still buzzing.
/r/askTRP07/06/21 11:39 PM
13

“You seem perceptive”. Always put it back on them.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 01:40 PM
0

People still starve when you give them money.
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/21 04:30 PM
7

Similar to asking kids who support wealth distribution to distribute their high grades to lesser achieving students. “But ...but”. Ah not a fan of it when it affects you eh?
/r/PussyPassDenied06/03/21 03:11 PM
8

Guys want women. They just do. They come here for help
/r/askTRP04/03/21 09:53 PM
1

Eh it comes and goes.
/r/askTRP05/01/21 12:56 AM
2

When the going gets tough, the tough get going. There’s no bullshit ‘feel-good’ lines anyone can really give you. Life will definitely serve up a succession of shit sandwiches sometimes. Sometimes you’re just along for the ride but you grin and bear it. You keep fighting and scraping for every inch you can grab. You get the wind knocked out of you and you hit right back. You never give up.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 11:56 AM
7

I don’t buy into the anti-meat trash they’ve been pushing for years. There are plenty of examples of indigenous groups of humans with diets consisting almost entirely of meat and milk (Inuit, Chukotka, Masai) that were known for their superior health (and height). Interestingly, while there have been numerous carnivorous populations, there were/are no vegan populations that live that way from birth to death. As for male energy, yeah it’s not gonna hurt. Certainly easier to maintain energy than i…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 11:59 AM
1

Just treat him like a kid. Give him lines like “You ok? You need to talk? You seem upset” Just keep putting it all back on him.
/r/askTRP17/10/20 07:28 PM
1

Don’t think too big at first. Aim locally.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 03:43 PM
1

You don’t just discover it suddenly. You aim for something, move towards it, readjust your course.
/r/askTRP25/09/20 02:07 PM
17

Every day stray a little further from your comfort zone. Start small, like talking to cashiers about the weather. Build up to public speaking. Basically, keep scaring yourself in larger and larger doses. Don’t stop and take breaks. Keep going.
/r/askTRP09/09/20 02:25 PM
-8

“I don’t usually handle murder weapons until the 2nd date..but I may just make an exception for you...”
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:54 AM
23

Because eventually you plate a smokin hot babe and you won’t have the brass nuts to next her.
/r/askTRP09/08/20 05:50 AM
4

Any guy that truly believes he’s a “sigma male” has watched too many superhero movies.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/20 04:49 PM
15

“I reserve them for the nicer girls”.
/r/askTRP23/07/20 04:33 PM
2

You may want to get a doctor to check this out. Sounds a little unusual.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 03:23 PM
5

This was pretty cringe to read.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/20 03:20 PM
1

The reasons are so numerous that they may as well be completely arbitrary. What matters is if you are having reasonable success in the long-term.
/r/seduction14/07/20 05:55 PM
63

Don’t pick up any new source of nicotine. BURN that addiction off. Embrace the withdrawal. It will take 3-4 weeks to really be out of the woods. Don’t look back.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 04:29 AM
4

Wait...30 is middle fucking aged??
/r/TheRedPill07/07/20 06:39 PM
1

You can absolutely be red pilled and married. Red pill to me describes a mindset, not a relationship status. Being married is neither good nor bad, though men do tend to live longer, healthier lives as married people. This sub rails on about how marriage is for women, and maybe it is, but they’ll go right along with the idea as soon as the right woman comes along. It’s a rare man with the brass nuts to next a woman he truly loves.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 07:55 PM
9

The vast majority of these young red pillers will eventually get married after they use the tactics to meet a good woman.
/r/askTRP28/06/20 04:32 PM
1

Cans of sardines.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:58 PM
5

Girls dont give a shit about your n-count. They care about your expertise with women.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:57 PM
2

Don’t make the mistake of answering the question directly. Reframe it so it’s in your court. Respond, “is that a yes or no?” Or “are you coming or not?” Or “what is this a trick question?”
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:51 PM
8

Flakiness seems proportional to how invested they are upon first meeting. Mutual friends? Low flake rate. Cold approach followed by moderate conversation? Moderate flake rate. Dating apps where you’re one man in an ocean of dudes messaging her? Extreme flakeytown.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 07:42 PM
3

Shes just comfort-seeking and testing you for compliance to make sure you’ll stick around. The idea at this point is to just relax and have fun. Don’t have too many “serious” conversations. She should see you as someone who is comfortable with dealing with women. Just casually date. Don’t overthink the living fuck out of this like every young guy seems to want to do.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 03:56 PM
21

Attractive people marry other attractive people, attract better jobs, careers, connections, get promoted faster and generally selected for everything in life more easily. They have more money and produce more attractive children.
/r/askTRP21/06/20 03:52 PM
1

Context is irrelevant. There is no winning move here that involves this much consideration. You are way over invested into this particular situation, this particular girl.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 08:00 PM
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Young guys always think the laundry list of specific details of their situation are relevant. They aren’t. If you’re putting this much thought into the situation you are over investing in this girl and overthinking the irrelevant detail. It’s NOT worth this much consideration, I promise you.
/r/askTRP11/06/20 07:55 PM
3

I think a lot of the young men here have bought into the (perhaps postmodern) notion that human life is fundamentally a struggle for power. They see humility as weakness and egocentric behavior as virtuous.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 03:09 PM
1

People snicker about Napoleon’s overcompensation while Socrates is revered...
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 03:07 PM
1

And you’re 20 years older.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 03:46 PM
10

Even if you explicitly explain to her that you practiced and learned how to be attractive, as long as you’re good at it, it will still work.
/r/TheRedPill20/03/20 03:44 PM
1

What’s the alternative? Circle the drain?
/r/askTRP09/02/20 04:07 PM
1

Remember you’re gonna die soon.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 04:48 PM
1

Found a video of OP: https://youtu.be/3nHCE1YZZNM
/r/TheRedPill22/01/20 02:49 PM
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You’re laying it on too thick with this girl. Too many words from you in these texts. Less explaining, more logistics for setting up the date.
/r/askTRP21/12/19 09:54 PM
4

You’re overthinking and pedestalizing this person. Just tease her. Throw it back on her. Her: “You’ve gotten chubbier!! Lololol” You: “You ok? You drinking in the morning again?”
/r/askTRP19/12/19 04:14 PM
2

There is no harm in starting to lift light weights immediately.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 08:05 PM
0

It does show a lack of interest. I would just say “k” and rebook my evening.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:29 PM
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I don’t agree that breaking eye contact is a sign of submissiveness or any indication of one’s position in a hierarchy. If I catch eyes with another man in the gym, I’m not looking away because one of us is “more alpha”. I’m looking away because I find routine staredowns in a locker room to be slightly homoerotic and unnecessary. It’s very intimate and I don’t enjoy people that much. No reflection on our “status” whatsoever. I won’t stare down the 6’4” juiced chad or the 5’6” 110lb high school k…
/r/askTRP10/12/19 05:24 PM
1

Same shit.
/r/askTRP05/12/19 05:06 PM
3

Sometimes the men want your D too.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:31 PM
18

Careful, could be a robbery.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:23 PM
6

Don’t engage directly. Reframe, “Haha good one” “Oh man” “Lol” You are not required to answer annoying questions.
/r/askTRP04/12/19 05:19 PM
4

This doesn’t sound blue pill. This sounds like comfort and welcoming. You’re confusing being blue-pilled with being nice. You can be a red-pill savage and be nice to people you know.
/r/askTRP30/11/19 04:29 PM
8

“Oh so you don’t use it”.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 03:28 PM
1

Don’t listen to these fuckin kids. These drugs hijack your brain’s dopamine system. You grow accustomed to them so that getting off is difficult and painful. Depression is a common result. You’ll experience less guilt, anxiety and withdrawal pains if you avoid taking any drugs. It may be a little harder at first but it’s more relaxed and rewarding.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 03:15 PM
4

You’re handling it fine. Don’t let them get you worked up. That’s their intention. Just smiles and high fives all around. I like to ask them if they’re ok or if they need to talk. Don’t fight. Fighting is for guys with small dicks.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 05:09 AM
1

Taking or recently quit taking ANY substances? (Alcohol,nicotine,caffeine,marijuana,cocaine,etc etc)?
/r/askTRP23/11/19 05:02 PM
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It’ll take about 2 years to get something approximating your genetic potential. That’s if you’re pushing yourself pretty hard but wisely and efficiently. You’ll get 80% of your growth there and the other 20% over the following 5 years, roughly. Steroids just make you look like an action figure and don’t really help with women. They are for impressing other men.
/r/askTRP23/11/19 04:53 PM
1

You don’t want it bad enough....yet.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:46 AM
1

You’ll make big changes when you are truly sick and tired of your current situation. Often, failing several times comes first.
/r/askTRP30/08/19 04:39 AM
2

Balance your public masturbation as well.
/r/askTRP25/08/19 01:31 PM
2

Check your diet. Try changing things around and watching your symptoms. Try more meat, more fish, and take cod liver oil. Cut out modern day garbage like sugar, grains, and vegetable oils.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:11 PM
2

Get as much travel into your life as possible. You will not regret it.
/r/askTRP23/08/19 01:06 PM
1

What did your lifting routine consist of?
/r/askTRP21/08/19 12:51 PM
7

Works all the time. Even the cringey guys are gaining experience and that's what counts. Standing on the side talking yourself out of it doesn't get you anywhere. This is a time in life you can take risks and there really isn't much to lose. You really only stand to gain. Learn outcome independence, then cold approach becomes second nature.
/r/askTRP06/05/19 10:50 PM
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Remember that most encounters don't pan out anyway. Even if you had gotten her number, agreed to drinks, she would probably flake. It's a high failure rate so don't beat yourself up. You didn't miss out on anything. There are endless options. Literally endless.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:50 PM
9

It's a buyers market. All the attractive women on dating apps are absolutely bombarded with options, many of them high quality options. If you have model good looks, it may be worth your time. If you are average, mutual friends and day gaming tends to result in more high quality leads.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 08:44 PM
3

Women are creatures of the Earth just like us arrogant, egotistical men. I respect any creation of this universe as something beautiful and temporary. Once you drop your expectations of life it all becomes staggeringly impressive that it exists at all.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:58 PM
1

So you have little respect for life until it’s proven something to you?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 02:55 PM
2

Pretend like it never happened.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:42 AM
-2

“And yet you still can’t get enough of me”.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 04:39 AM
1

You just keep going.
/r/askTRP26/01/19 06:26 AM
1

Fuck what these bitches think.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 02:45 PM
16

"Don't have that".
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:23 AM
4

Those are rough similarities that many people partake in. Just because some other guy lifts and acts assertive doesn’t mean you have to change your gameplan. You guys can’t be that shallow. There must be more to your personality than this surface level stuff.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:13 AM
-6

I would say “If you need help at the gym let me show you how it’s done”. Reframe the situation in your favor.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 05:06 AM
10

Plastic surgery is a bajillion dollar industry so...what do you think?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 04:27 PM
3

This is a trade off to having a rotation of women. This is one of the biggest selling points of LTRs and marriage. There's no perfect situation.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:57 PM
1

ok
/r/askTRP08/01/19 06:04 AM
28

She will think that stuff. So what? Do you go outside and find your car has been repossessed because of it? You need what's called outcome independence. Who cares where the interaction goes? There are really no consequences. Some women, especially when you get better at it, will love the fact that some guy had the balls to change her day. You have to be willing to take the risk, be willing to look like a fool. It's worth it.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:25 PM
1

It's fine. A lot of women acknowledge Red Pill truths. It's not like this is "secret knowledge". It's on the fucking internet. You guys are deluding yourselves if you think this is some really well-kept secret. It's basic at this point. Who gives a shit?
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:15 PM
29

I would try to hold it and let them break it but I don't overthink these situations. It's more important to just get experience opening women wherever you go and whenever you feel like it. Their signals are murky.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:09 PM
3

Just throw her on the back burner. Stop analyzing her behavior. Line up other options.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:04 PM
15

You just ghost her in these situations. Your time has value. You move on. Who cares what her reasons are? Just give attention to the girls who make time for you and honor plans. Cut the rest.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 10:01 PM
74

You just have to do the things that your lizard brain is screaming at you to avoid. Just walk up and talk about whatever. You're going to suck at it. They're going to blow you off. Then repeat. It's like any other skill in life. Starts off scary, gets easier and easier. Don't avoid the scary things.
/r/askTRP07/01/19 09:58 PM
1

You’re young. You’re new to hot girls. You care too much. Get shot down and blown out of the water more and you will stop giving a fuck.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:43 PM
10

This is just part of becoming a man.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:41 AM
3

You would quit if you really wanted it bad enough.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:39 AM
3

This is scarcity mentality. You feel in competition for women as if there were a limited number. Who cares if some guy is doing really well? Maybe she’ll NEVER leave him. Maybe she’d NEVER fuck you under any circumstances. Maybe he has threesomes with her and a rotation of other hot girls. Who gives a shit? There are billions of women. You take care of you.
/r/askTRP06/01/19 06:37 AM
16

Let’s say you meet a foreigner who’s here on a travel visa and you want to have children with her...marriage becomes almost a must.
/r/askTRP29/12/18 05:28 PM
2

Don’t
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:15 PM
1

“Yeah did you?”
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:15 PM
2

Sweet humblebrag post
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:13 PM
-2

Whenever you feel like it.
/r/askTRP26/12/18 10:12 PM
2

Then the next girl you meet has an n count of 2 but is a crazy bitch.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:58 PM
3

Who cares? Win some lose some.
/r/askTRP22/12/18 05:37 PM
2

Attempt to escalate.
/r/askTRP12/12/18 07:39 PM
15

Don’t bother with group hangouts. Too much social dynamic garbage at play. Get em one on one to expedite things.
/r/askTRP09/12/18 05:49 PM
4

Doctors like to try to predict the future but they are not always on the money. They may be wrong. She may live 12 more years. This girl doesn't deserve to be ignored by everyone because she has this "curse" on her head. Do you like her? Then hang out with her. I'd personally treat her as if she didn't have a disease. Stop worrying about yourself so god damn much. That's what I hate about this TRP shit. So self absorbed. Take a fuckin chance.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:30 PM
1

Just gonna have to wait this one out, sonny.
/r/askTRP07/12/18 11:27 PM
4

What you need to do is read the sidebar before posting condescending questions like this.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:06 PM
20

"When your words carry as much weight as mine, you keep them to a minimum.....there, you like that sentence, babe?" Don't engage women in logic battles. Play games with them and dance around like you would with a child.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 05:03 PM
-5

Yes, go back to sleep, sheep.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:56 PM
-8

"Yes, several".
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:22 PM
1

You don’t owe her your time or much of an explanation if you didn’t agree to meet. Remember that girls ghost and flake with no remorse. She’s just pissed you beat her to the punch. She’s trying to blame you to remove embarrassment.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:41 AM
3

You had plans to meet downdown and you just didn’t show up? That’s just rude, not real playboy. Next time don’t even agree to go out. If you say you’re gonna go, go.
/r/askTRP26/11/18 04:11 AM
7

You are pedestalizing. When you meet girls, your mind is highlighting their good qualities and filling in the gaps in knowledge with more good qualities. If you spent significant time with them, you would see their deficits. We are all trash and so are they. No one is that great. They are no better than you, your mind is just spazzing out on the prospect of vagina. Vagina is everywhere and not a commodity. They really have very little to offer. But I know..."this one is different".
/r/askTRP24/11/18 05:05 PM
6

This is fear of rejection. You have to remember that the consequences are minimal. Detach from the outcome. Taking chances is the only way to get anywhere. You will almost never get "enough" IOIs. She probably thought she was sending plenty of them. Now stop beating yourself up and start opening some more broads.
/r/askTRP24/11/18 04:57 PM
1

It would be more fun to turn them down in front of everyone.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:27 PM
1

Nobody is that cool or badass and everybody is weird.
/r/askTRP16/11/18 04:25 PM
1

Most people are just going to think you're a big piece of shit. That's life.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:18 PM
10

Why are you so concerned with the judgment of everyone around you? How do you feel about dating while on vacation?
/r/askTRP15/11/18 10:15 PM
18

Life's a bitch and then you die. Welcome to the party.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:25 PM
1

A good remedy for this situation is gaming and stealing Chad's favorite girl.
/r/askTRP15/11/18 04:14 PM
8

The mindset of someone in an audition is "I need to impress these people. I need them to like me. I need to be accepted". Most guys go on dates or approach women with the same mindset of someone in an audition. Women can sense this need as desperation. It triggers their inquiry of "Why is he trying so hard to impress me? He must not have many options". Guys who are outcome independent are not auditioning. They don't care if they "land the part" in this girl's life. They say what they mean. They …
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:53 PM
-2

Learn to stop giving a shit.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:42 PM
69

Without a doubt, outcome independence. It is the single best predictor of dating success, imo. Detach. Stop auditioning for people. It's the best advice I ever got and could ever give. The guy who doesn't give a shit gets all the girls. It's harder to pull off authentically until you crest your late 20s. Before that, everyone is so concerned with their social circle that they can't truly detach and let go of their concern for the opinion of others.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:41 PM
0

You don’t have to be cool with it but if you try to control her behavior you will come off as insecure and needy. She may start lying and hiding things. It’s either you’re cool with it or you next her.
/r/askTRP13/11/18 03:25 PM
2

Consider supplementing with fat soluble vitamins. I take cod liver oil daily. I noticed a correlation with mood using it.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 04:45 PM
3

Well, life is absurd and tragic and anyone who denies that is delusional. Sounds like you enjoy the happy parts too. Sadness creeps into the mind of any intelligent man. In my opinion, it’s quite normal and not necessarily a sign of any “problems” that need to be fixed. You may consider taking anti depressants if it really starts to interfere with living.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:59 PM
6

They also subside with time and aging and realizing we are all very temporary. May as well have fun. It’s better to just fuck up and make mistakes and be a wise old man than to try to nail everything perfectly from a young age. That will just keep you in analysis paralysis.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:45 PM
1

Whatever you do, just let it slide. Who cares if he and everyone in the gym think you’re a big pussy? Does that ruin your chances at a successful life? Don’t get involved. What is to be gained? Nothing to gain. Lots to lose in a confrontation. It’s just not important so forget about it completely.
/r/askTRP12/11/18 03:35 PM
3

Ignore it. Try it again. If shes coming over, she is interested.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:09 PM
3

Yeah you get over it by continuing. Calibration happens through repeated exposure.
/r/askTRP11/11/18 04:05 PM
1

yeah but your theories will sound ridiculous to them. Doesn’t align with all the movies they’ve seen bro
/r/askTRP11/11/18 03:14 PM
-1

It's most certainly not a linear progression. n00b gains are an often discussed topic. Your body adapts fucking quick and then plateaus pretty hard which is why everyone gets on the gear.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:18 PM
1

It's like, do I need a gun to go hunting? No, you don't but you'll get more kills.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:12 PM
2

Sure. Just don't try to figure her out. Don't try to control her behavior. Outcome independence. Sounds like you are doing just fine.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:10 PM
3

First of all, why would anyone write home about aesthetics? Their family knows what they look like. I think the only reason this girl has you puzzled and you are trying to "figure her out" is because you like her. She has your attention more than the other plates. I would recommend you back off a bit for a week or 2, see the other plates. Be "busy." Then mysteriously reappear. She's pushing the comfort level to see how much control she has.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 08:06 PM
-7

Yeah. Stop beating yourself up. Not everyone LOVES lifting. You get 80% of the gains you will ever make without roids in the first few months of lifting anyway. IMO, diet is more important in long term health and physique.
/r/askTRP09/11/18 07:54 PM
31

Why do you owe an explanation?
/r/askTRP09/11/18 05:15 PM
3

Read more about how women "test" men. You are failing her shit tests.
/r/askTRP07/11/18 03:06 PM
1

“Holy chit this is fun” preceeded 99% of all terrible decisions ever made.
/r/askTRP02/11/18 05:07 PM
1

You were anxious to get out of the interaction. Instead, embrace the awkward pauses and strenuous communication. They are normal in the beginning of any social interaction. In time they will feel as normal as eating. No need to rush. Don’t eject until the cockpit is filling with smoke.
/r/askTRP15/10/18 05:08 PM
2

God damnit, and all these years I've been blowing ONTO my balls..
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:56 PM
3

Just hit her back, pretending like nothing happened. Don't address previous conversations. Engage her as if she were a new plate. Continue escalating.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:54 PM
1

Actually, jobs are a good way to meet new people. Work experience is also vital to building frame, confidence. Give it a shot.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 05:20 PM
44

100 miles? That’s some people’s daily commute.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 06:47 PM
2

Go for hikes in the woods. Hit the iron. Physical activity makes men feel better.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 03:34 PM
2

Girls from your social circle is not shitting where you eat. That's just typical life. Girls from work is shitting where you eat. To answer your question, how the fuck should we know? Do you like her? What do you want from her?
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:34 PM
5

Alcohol is a non-factor when dealing with women. You can just go to a bar and drink water and everyone will assume you're drinking. No one will pay any attention to it unless you make a big deal of it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:31 PM
2

I thought this was an existential angst post when I first read the title. Oh, how time slips between our fingers like grains of sand.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 04:28 PM
2

You should have started chatting up some girl right in front of her.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:57 PM
32

Settle down there, Superman.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:55 PM
0

You just treat her like a kid "What's wrong sweetheart, still mad?" You just blow 'em off. They love that shit.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:20 PM
18

How desperate are you? Fuck that. Don't do it.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 03:15 PM
1

Read about hypergamy. Women desire men who are superior to them. It sounds as if she doesn't respect you very much, so she will have a hard time reconciling being with you for a long period of time.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:31 PM
1

Personally, if I were fat, I would low carb and stay committed for months. Meat, vegetables, nuts, berries. For months or a year.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 03:30 PM
2

No magic formula. You need to build the habit of going to the gym and cooking every day.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:44 PM
3

This is oneitis. You are not maintaining an abundance mentality. She's going to hang onto you as long as it's convenient, until something better comes along, and then you'll be standing there with the burnt wreckage of your relationship, screaming "after all I did for you!!"
/r/askTRP30/07/18 02:41 PM
1

You expect entirely too much from people. You need to focus on yourself and your actions and be a magnet that pulls people into his life. Stop trying to effect change in others. They don't give a shit.
/r/askTRP29/07/18 03:44 PM
1

You’re working with a bunch of apes. What do you expect?
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:40 AM
2

Not detrimental in any way.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:39 AM
5

Consider yourself lucky and stay out. Let em chat away.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:39 AM
3

I wouldn’t even attend said party. Risk of triggering yourself outweighs any benefits. Find other parties.
/r/askTRP28/07/18 10:20 AM
1

Ideal would be something done from home? Not at all. Ideal when you are young is to get out there and see the world.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:20 PM
-1

Allowed by who? or what?
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:18 PM
5

I desire to go buy a pack of cigarettes right now but it doesn't mean I have to do it. Jerking off right before making sexual decisions will always make you more conservative. Decide what you really want.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:15 PM
1

Get over what? If it's no big deal to you, it'll be no big deal to them.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 10:06 PM
12

Tease them. Give them shit. Treat them (half jokingly) like they are a disappointment. Then you give them the smile. Then you disappear.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 02:10 PM
7

You're going to get shit for everything you do at your age, so you may as well do what you want. What's the alternative? Buckle and blend in? What kind of life is that?
/r/askTRP26/07/18 02:08 PM
1

What if your mission is to be a strong husband and father? Are those guys useless?
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:52 PM
3

Do you know how many people end up with their high school sweetheart? fucking nobody. That's how many. What makes you think this girl is supposed to be in your life? Doesn't past experience have any value to you? Let her be a PAST experience. She's getting in the way of the next girl, I'm telling you. You're going to feel real dumb when you're finally with a girl who WANTS to be with you. You're wasting your time.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:46 PM
3

Hey, snap out of it. This girl moved on to explore other options with other guys. She doesn't give a shit about you. Only you can give a shit about you. Wake up. You're young, dumbass. You have oneitis. You're obsessed with this fucking girl. Do you know how many god damn women are out there? Way, way more than you can imagine. You're being a fool and you will see it one day. The only answer to this situation, whether you like it or not, is to realize this girl doesn't add anything to your life,…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:31 PM
1

You're asking us what you should do with your life but this is one of life's great questions. You're confronting the meaningless of life. We all struggle with this. It's a personal battle.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:27 PM
1

They get pushed through the public school system that teaches them that part of their value is related to their economic output. Biological impulse overrides this in most women but some actually buy into it. It often hits them later on in life that it's all meaningless and empty to them. Others still just want more independence in life. Not all women are identical clones. They do have varying personalities.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 03:24 PM
1

You need to stand out. You need to be teasing her and escalating fast.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:06 AM
3

First off, there are no 10s so gtfo with that shit. Second, she’s likely been talking to some other guy, that’s usually when the serious bitch behavior starts. The trick in those situations is to stay calm. After shes done screaming and you keep driving straight you say “you done screaming, sweetheart?” Control the frame. You should be the one dropping her off at home and driving away, no comments, as reward for her cunty behavior. You just drive home and go back to whatever you like to do. Don’…
/r/askTRP25/07/18 02:02 AM
1

It means your words, thoughts, actions need to match, need to be congruent. So if you talk a big game you have to walk one too. If you talk like a player you have to be able to walk on a girl.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:58 AM
3

“Fine, I’ll bring my friends Smith&Wesson”
/r/askTRP25/07/18 01:55 AM
4

A boat.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:39 PM
11

She's right, you got real salty. Where did that "I don't know why the fuck you're talking to me" come from? Talking to girls should never get that serious. I agree with this chick that you need to relax.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 10:38 PM
1

These celebrities are making the mistake of apologizing. You don't acknowledge the parasites. You have to stand by your word like "Bro, I am comedian. Fuck ya'll if you take it all serious."
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:25 PM
1

Um, I guess you have to wait, while continuing to slay elsewhere.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:21 PM
19

Your friends sound like faggots. Get some new friends.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:17 PM
3

I don't think it's a shit test. I think she's blowing you off for Chad.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 09:15 PM
8

Son, are you drunk?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:05 PM
2

You want people to think you're a great conversationalist? Just ask them questions about their life. They give you some answer, pick out some detail and ask about that. Doesn't matter if you're interested. Just listen.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:02 PM
2

"Are you referring to the whores I keep in my basement?"
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:41 PM
10

Cocksmokers on the other hand...
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:32 PM
39

Indicative of mental issues. Next.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 05:23 PM
5

Yeah fuck it. Next. Always flip it on them. Make her audition. She's the boring one. Next.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:23 PM
2

You only talk about things you enjoy? Sounds a little self-centered, don't you think?
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:11 PM
7

You should have stopped answering after she said "same". She would then feel like the boring one and try to come up with something interesting to provoke your response. Your replying, "ok" comes off a little empty and needy.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:08 PM
3

What’s the activity you’ve returned to over and over in life that engrosses you and makes you lose track of time? What are your natural gifts?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:57 AM
2

Why find a money maker until you find a long term career? Work on the long term career straight away. You’re 26 and not getting any younger.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 03:51 AM
17

Ok, what’s the question?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 02:30 AM
1

Let them be.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:53 AM
1

Don’t respond. Just be cool.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:52 AM
3

Take it as a compliment. Be gracious. Treat people well.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:37 AM
8

Oh please, when is “everyone against” you? You must be doing something crazy for everyone to gang up. Have you been masturbating in public again?
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:37 AM
17

You need outcome independence. Stop auditioning for these people. They’re just as clueless as you are. No one knows what the fuck is going on.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 01:35 AM
1

By ranking yourself up, mostly through lifting, getting some sun, and wearing the right clothes, you then start walking with the right attitude and as you sense your options piling up, you lose interest in maintaining any one particular option.
/r/askTRP09/07/18 02:13 PM
6

You remain calm, talking him down, de-escalate the situation. If that fails, you run!
/r/askTRP30/06/18 01:10 PM
2

It's like fishing. Some fall off the line. Just keep casting that line. Don't overthink the shit. It's not really a special sequence of triggers you have to pull. You can do EVERYTHING right and still fail so really, don't take it to heart. Keep on fishing. I would say though, next time, don't text saying you "want" to see her again. Inject more dgaf and humor if you can. Make sure you speak to these girls with the confidence of a man who regularly deals with the hottest of hot women. It's about…
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:27 PM
0

There's nothing wrong with crying over the death of a family member. It's a normal part of being human. Don't listen to the psychopaths on this sub. You will still get laid, I promise.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 03:23 PM
2

It's better to observe examples. Look at James Bond. So good at his job that it amuses him. He can make little jokes here and there because he is so confident and competent.
/r/askTRP13/06/18 12:20 AM
1

Yes, that would come off as the "player" and turn a lot of girls off. They want to feel special. That next girl would have to be an extremely natural encounter like you were standing next to each other in the checkout lane and just casually starting talking. I think if girl A sees you approach girl B in the next aisle, you are killing your chances. Better to come back the next day.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:53 PM
2

"favor" or "advice" seems a little silly. Just make a comment when standing next to one. Say you're in the shoe aisle. She's looking at some shoe. You say "I'm sure you have 11 pairs of those at home already." The frame is I am a sexy, friendly, outgoing, confident man and I say whatever the fuck I want to anyone. She either scoffs and blows you off or she smiles and answers. Then you make general teasing chit chat, joke that you've been in this store for far too long and then maybe you can ask …
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:32 PM
-1

They're just afraid of it. If you have the right frame, you can pull from dinner no prob. It's about the man behind the wheel, not the starting point.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:12 PM
1

Stop taking yourself so seriously. Just do whatever you want. Have the social freedom that most young guys are afraid to embrace. No one will remember any of you in a couple years. See a hot girl? Walk up and tell her that her shoelace is untied "no it isnt" "oh, thought it was, where u from." You are too attached to the outcome. There are no real consequences to fucking up so just do it.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:04 PM
9

2 days later you: "who's this"
/r/askTRP09/06/18 02:02 PM
36

It doesn't really matter. Is a girl going to care if Chris Hemsworth takes her to coffee, drinks, bowling, sewing class? No. It's about the experience you provide her, your frame, not the beverages or items in front of you. Those are simply a reason to meet where your charismatic aura will give her a taste of her new addiction.
/r/askTRP09/06/18 01:54 PM
3

The point is that only humans eat processed food that is stripped of it's natural contents and then reformed into "tasty" things. You think that comes without consequence?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 09:27 PM
63

Used to do this a lot. I had a good time with it too. You have to take on the persona of a Sigma male, a Han Solo or Man With No Name Clint Eastwood type character. These guys are self sufficient and totally comfortable alone. Imagine you are just new in town. You don't need the support of a social network. You're a lone wolf who can catch and kill his own food. I used to just walk straight up to any solo woman at the bar, look her in the eye and say something funny. Some observation about her o…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:29 PM
13

it's a synonym for rationalizing, with an emphasis on self-delusion.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:26 PM
4

Personally, I've been avoiding all grains for a very long time. I have been paleo for decades so I am quite biased, I would say. I don't get the urge to eat roadkill but I probably don't find it nearly as disgusting as most people do. I have eaten plenty of raw meat and enjoyed it, and did not get sick. You're probably asking someone who is on quite an extreme end of the spectrum. I believe in human meat consumption as normal, natural, and healthy. edit: I should add that I don't advocate raw me…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 04:01 PM
7

Humans are the only creatures eating high amounts of vegetable oils, hydrogenated oils, processed grains and refined sugars; all things that don't exist by themselves in nature, but require industrial processes to acquire. Lots and lots of animals in nature eat animal flesh and fat. Many primitive, isolated human societies eat meat or milk every day. None eat the refined shit we all eat in the Western world every day. Which do you think is more likely to cause long term problems?
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:39 PM
5

You're overthinking this too early in the relationship. If it is the beginning, which it sounds like, you should just be meeting and hanging, having sex or not, whatever. It's just for fun. Stop trying to get it all "sorted" in your head. You don't owe her any explanation. Just coast, just ride it out.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:29 PM
11

Ignore. Proceed as usual. Pay attention to their actions, not their words.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 03:27 PM
1

What the fuck? Are you stupid or something? Who gives a shit? Just go over.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 10:25 PM
4

Don't adjust anything. You should be doing your job with the same precision and excellence whether you are surrounded by men, women, or aliens from outer space.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:14 PM
3

You're too concerned with their reaction. You need outcome independence. OK, they label you a creep. So what? Who cares? Next.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:10 PM
4

Women are highly social. They need to be in contact with peeps constantly. I just talk to them like they aren't on the phone. I pretend their phone doesn't exist. I take precedence when I'm in their presence than whoever the fuck they are sexting. I don't care if this is considered polite or not. I think phones are obnoxious.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 04:08 PM
7

Do not engage. Stop answering her questions directly. She's giving you the rope to hang yourself with. Always flip this shit around on them. You: sweet pickup line Her: Do you think you're slick? You: What? As opposed to sticky or something? Her: I still feel like you could do better You: You seem like good practice. Bat it all away. Rephrase. You hold the frame. Do not let her direct the conversation.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 02:07 PM
3

It's actually a kinda nice setup. You don't want to be too available. This is nothing like a LDR where you don't see each other for weeks or months. That can really kill the relationship.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:57 PM
2

Do not. You don't want legal entanglement with someone you don't intend on staying with.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 01:55 PM
0

Lions sit around being bored, just lounging. Them bastards are hella badass.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 09:29 PM
1

Why create a social media presence that doesn't match who you are? Most people with active social media accounts are just naturally really into it. You don't seem to be. Why force it? Just because everyone else is doing it? I'm not. I find social media to be parasitic and shallow. I stay out of it. I do just fine with women.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 03:01 PM
2

I don't find it necessary because I can just stand up and then my penis is at eye level and she takes the hint.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:57 PM
23

The truth isn't as bad as you think it is. This girl was not attracted to you, for whatever reason. When a girl is attracted to you, she can fall madly in love.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:30 PM
1

You didn't fuck it up that badly. Just let it go. Don't send any texts. Act like nothing happened.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 08:29 PM
2

It can help get past squat plateaus.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 05:18 PM
1

I would hit the leg press machine. Make sure you are doing rows and shoulder presses as well.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:45 PM
4

This is taking things too seriously. This doesn't sound like amused mastery.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:15 PM
8

Don't answer those kind of questions directly. Bat them away. "Honey, I love all my concubines equally" with a smirk. Eventually she starts going "you're an asshole" or hitting your arm and you go "oh look how mad the girl is" and you pick her up and throw her over your shoulder. The trick is don't engage in a head on assault. Don't take it seriously. Intentionally redirect, misunderstand their questions. Play dumb. Tease them.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:14 PM
3

If she's a plate, why do you really care what she's doing when you're not around? That sounds like an LTR. I would probably have responded hours later with "cool have fun"
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:10 PM
1

I really don't think they will be the same. Shooting movies is usually very blue collar grunt work unless you are one of the top 5 personnel on set making creative decisions. Video marketing is not the same. In your situation, I'd probably take the Bulgaria trip, for the adventure, and fall back on my marketing degree if it didn't work out but ultimately you have to reach inside and feel where your soul is tugging you.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:53 PM
3

This is the right answer. Stay super calm and professional about it and insist on taking it up the legal ladder.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:45 PM
5

Status or attractiveness? If you have a nice tan you are more attractive but I wouldn't say you've really upped your status...
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:42 PM
1

Which industry would you prefer to work in? Nevermind the first couple months of either one.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 02:38 PM
2

Most people on here don't give a shit about having kids because they themselves are still kids. Men don't reach maturity until about 27. Then the idea of kids becomes less offensive. By then you are a little bored of just taking care of yourself and the idea of raising little humans becomes more appealing.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:15 PM
3

Yeah but there's no avoiding that. I can avoid prostitutes.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:39 PM
5

A little bit less paranoid. I don't imagine hundreds of past clients with normal chicks.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:39 PM
10

Good God. How do people do that? Even if someone offered me millions to go 15 years dry, I don't think I could physically do it.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:38 PM
1

Bro, Brad Pitt and George Clooney are 5'11"...OK?? You're fucking golden. You're luckier than 90% of the dudes on the planet. Stop staring at the giraffes.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:15 PM
1

Getting older usually helps.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:12 PM
1

Varies. Sometimes you can turn chance encounters into mini-dates right then and there. Airports are good examples of this. If you're at the gas station, though, that one is 2 minutes.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:11 PM
1

The only explanation for this would be she didn't realize you were injured. Other than that, I'd next her. This is the flag that she will do some much more cold-hearted shit later.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:10 PM
4

That's all well and good but the simple fact that she's boning a dozen guys a day sets my mind ablaze in suspicion.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:07 PM
9

I used to think I could. I now realize I am too OCD about catching something. It would be one night of fun for 6 weeks of bugging out and staring at my dick with a magnifying glass. Condoms don't fully protect against Herpes, Warts, and Syphilis. That sucks!
/r/askTRP17/05/18 02:04 PM
3

They hate us because we are different.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 04:46 PM
2

"Does HR have any guidelines for this??" then pull out your mac-10... but seriously, you just have to become hard to replace. You either have some intense training no one else has, or some faraway exotic experience working in Europe, I don't know. You may have to start your own shop, own the means.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 03:44 PM
3

I suspect you will always resent her for having more experience. You need more dating experience. You haven't been with enough women. Mark my words. You will probably ignore this advice and propose to her anyway. You need more time in the field before you build your cabin. Secondly, if you want the REAL # with women, you must maintain the "i really dont care" vibe FROM DAY ONE. If she ever catches even one hint that you may be affected by the number, you will be lied to. You are probably being l…
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:33 PM
3

I would respond "haha dickless!!" Also, you better be lifting.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 12:22 PM
8

I still meet new women the same way. The same eye contact. The same same handshake or hugs or whatever. The same humor and confidence. I can have casual conversations. The difference is I don't escalate. I don't pursue. I don't go for numbers or mini dates. I try not to do things that I would never do in front of my wife. I sorta expect the same from her. If I am going to go further than that I may as well be single and spin plates.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:06 PM
8

Alcohol is like online dating when it comes to women. It's thought of as easier and that "everybody's doin' it" but when you learn to do without it, your actual success rises. You gain more absolute control over the situation rather than being one of the passengers.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:02 PM
1

I'd say enjoy being young. Try lots of new things and make lots of memories. Time is the only thing of any real value. No one can buy more time.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:17 PM
1

You can probably stay where you are if it's a big city. Plus you can always play off those college years as "crazy and drug filled" as long as you think you can keep yourself in line. Sounds like you still need to get a handle on the drugs. Your social situation will smooth out but you need to handle the addiction foremost.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:01 PM
1

No one gets out of here alive. You may think your Dad left too soon, but that is a mistake. He left when he was supposed to check out. Don't be mad or resentful at the world for taking him away. We all have our expiration date. At least he got to have a son that he connected so well with. He has passed the torch to you now. He doesn't want you to be down and sad. He wants you to take that torch and run like mad. Keep passing it along, down the line. You are also going to die.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:54 PM
2

Since YOU have a problem with your age, she is going to find you creepy. You don't have the frame.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:49 PM
1

This just sounds childish. I would not waste energy trying to decipher this one. It's probably just one of the attention-gathering programs she runs on guys. She doesn't like that you're not chasing her. So what? Temper tantrums.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:47 PM
2

Fuck it. I'd do it. Virginity is an overblown concept anyway. It's not that important who your first lay is. It's more important to just get it over with so you can start getting experience.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:34 PM
27

Could be drugs you're taking. Any medication? Caffeine? Could be blood sugar levels from diet. Could be sleep loss. You could be bipolar and experiencing manic and depressive phases. There are too many possibilities.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 01:24 PM
1

Put it off for a few years. If you still feel that way by 27, do it. Along with giving you time to think about it and ride out the shaved head, the technology will improve at the same time.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:52 PM
2

Try opening people for non-sexual purposes first. Ask which aisle something is in the store. Do it everywhere all the time. Open dudes. Ask him what year his car is. It will be easier because you're outcome independent in these instances. You don't want anything from them. Once you are comfortable opening PEOPLE then opening hot women becomes less of a thing.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 02:47 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:15 PM
1

You're asking the wrong question here. You don't choose a career based on it's schedule. You choose it based on what your gifts and talents are. What is your function? Are you the type of person that builds things, heals people, entertains people, organizes and cleans things, an artist? You answer those things to narrow down the possibilities. Your schedule won't seem like a hassle when you're fulfilling your function using natural talents.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 03:10 PM
2

I always lean towards dropping comfort levels over attraction. It's easier to recover from.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:56 PM
75

Enjoy TRP on easy mode while you can. The single life is when you hear how great you are, LTRs are when the same woman says "You're not THAT fit." "You're not THAT hot." Familiarity truly breeds contempt with women. Be ready for TRP on hard mode if you get into a LTR. At first you will think it's your fault, then you will remember you've been sleeping with her for 2 years and all the mystery is gone. I believe there is no avoiding it unless you are constantly away, traveling. Even at the fourth …
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 01:38 PM
1

You need to sit and think about why this issue bothers you so much. You have to realize that people, men and women, have sex all the time as part of their biology and try not to take it so personally. She is compelled to procreate just like you and I, as all biological creatures are. Let go. Your ego has taken the wheel.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:24 PM
0

It feels like shit when this happens but that's actually a powerful motivating force that will ensure you do not repeat the same mistake next time.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:22 PM
2

I second this.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:16 PM
2

You can next her if you want but keep in mind that typically guys who have this problem have it with every girl they get seriously involved with. In this case, you are concerned with this coworker and it fills your mind but with the next girl it will be because she slept with the bus driver or her ex thousands of miles away. Your mind has this circuitry that it will engage on every female. You have to address the issue within yourself.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:07 PM
1

Get small doses of direct sunlight to most of your skin on a regular basis when possible.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:02 PM
3

I can peer over into your vessel without jumping on board with you.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:36 PM
2

Why does bringing them into your frame mean you lack empathy?
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:20 PM
3

Assess your diet. What are you eating? How much caffeine? Any processed sugar? Clean that area up.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:19 PM
1

No, it's basically building your social standing and skill with social interaction. It's a process for leveling up your ability to interact with people for mutually beneficial relationships. It can be applied directly to all aspects of life. Family, career, work ethic, dealing with customer service, public speaking, etc etc. Sex is basically a secondary effect of lining things up in harmony.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:38 PM
5

Take advantage of it. A week of isolation in the sticks every month is a gift for many men. This chance may disappear one day. Embrace the solitude.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:54 PM
2

You need to yank on some heavier weights. You need to be struggling to pull 315lb off the floor in your deadlifts. You need to be trying to push 75lb dumbbells over your head. The bodyweight stuff will get everything ready to go but to build slabs of muscle you need to lift more difficult weights, in my opinion. Then, as soon as you start doing that, just make sure you are eating more than 3500 calories a day, most of which should be naturally sourced protein and fat, like meat, eggs, nuts, vege…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:29 PM
1

You can't leave her on the side of the road. If something happens to her you look like the bad guy. You have to just laugh at her and threaten to take bumpier roads. You could then drive to her house and drop her off if you wanted to play hardball.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:25 PM
1

Do it in a way where you can maintain plausible deniability, like you can deny it if he blames it on you. Don't send him a link attached to your name, etc. Show it in person or whatever. Then you can disavow all knowledge at a later date.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:18 PM
4

Just pick up one of the popular workout routines for yourself now (some 5x5 variant typically). You could also hire a trainer. Implement the basic routine and build the habit. Your goal now should be just building the consistency of going to the gym. Once you are seeing results, then you can dial in tweaks to the routine. I am about 3 years in and I use a heavily modified SL 5x5 program where I do a day of pushing exercises, take a day off, then do a day of pulling exercises. Started with the st…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:10 PM
1

Not necessarily anything to do with you. Some girls are naturally really wet and others run a little dry as a normal state.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:05 PM
1

You could get a job in a gym and work your way up while building a personal training client base. May be hard but may only take a couple years.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 08:56 PM
2

You know what to do. The problem will be executing without making excuses along the way. The trick is to never give up. Be ready for 2 steps forward, 1 step back, because thats what lifting and fitness is about. Progress, progress, regress. Don't give up.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:33 PM
1

Ok, have you considered becoming a personal trainer who writes health plans/workout plans?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:31 PM
3

Haste displays inexperience and thirst. Always ask yourself what Han Solo or James Bond would do. Amused mastery. Slow, deliberate movements. Comfortable eye contact. Knowing smirks. Maverick from Top Gun is another good example. Quick escalation is great but it's not the only tactic. You can work some girls a couple weeks longer than others.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:52 PM
9

It's probably not the kid thing. She probably sensed something in her face to face encounter with you that she didn't like. Maybe you were coming off as thirsty or inexperienced. Or, her boyfriend came back to town. Who knows?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:42 PM
1

A good question to ask in this situation is what kind of activities do you lose yourself in? Where you just want to keep going...then all of a sudden you realize hours have gone by, but you are still motivated to keep going? It often involves some level of creativity, but for a lot of people it can be organizing. Figure out which activities in your life create a state of flow.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:34 PM
1

Tease them. "Oh, good you're here, she was getting so worried about you". Always TEASE.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:26 PM
12

giving the impression that you are controlling the frame intentionally would be the angry "alphas" who scream at women and make demands and say things like "I run the show around here." Guys who don't give up the impression they are controlling anything are displaying more amused mastery. They are not getting frustrated or upset. They are saying "we need to do this...oh u dont want to. fine but i am going to." Then the girl naturally wants to follow him. This Iron Law basically states, "Be a Nat…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 03:24 PM
1

This is well written and insightful. I think too many people take principles of TRP as literal and objective when a lot of them are written to try to guide you into the mindset that works. It's like when they see "keep your eye on the ball". You literally do it until you realize it's just a natural part of the flow that occurs for a master.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 02:38 PM
2

A lot of good advice here that many newbs forget, especially about maintaining some mystery as long as possible. However, I take issue with 2 points you made. I would contend that girls do flake on guys they are attracted to. For example, if girl meets hot guy because he's in town for a week playing with his band but she's looking for something more serious, she may skip the animal sex and wait for a more local Chad to come into her life. Secondly, I don't think tripping on the doorframe is enou…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 11:55 PM
1

They read it intuitively, the same way you discern a person like a salesperson and whether you trust them or not. They are also genetically gifted in assessing men just like we judge fertility.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:13 PM
1

escalate the interaction.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:11 PM
3

You're not going to do it. You're going to come up with a million excuses. You have to stop thinking of them as these major extroverted approaches. Just think of them as casual every day conversations. Chit chat. If you are striking up conversation out of nowhere she will know you are interested so just ask dumb questions and just make words come out of your mouth. You are required to fuck up an enormous amount before you become any good at this.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:10 PM
1

http://no-maam.blogspot.fr/2012/06/woman-most-responsible-teenager-in.html might interest you I don't mean talking to them like they are babies or never taking them seriously but more like lowering your expectations and learning to play the game.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 11:04 PM
2

Why are you looking for validation anyway? The type of attitude you should have with gaming women is FUCK social media if that is your opinion, which it is. But to answer your question, no social media is not required and is overestimated by young people. Face to face game will never be topped.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:07 PM
1

I'd say it's more like Alpha-type men won't settle early and hold out for the best they can land. Beta-type men will quickly latch onto scraps. The difference is level of abundance vs neediness.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:04 PM
2

It's not that women are terrible people. It's that they are children. Young, inexperienced guys try to talk to women as peers or as they do with other guys. They try to rationalize, hold the woman to a standard of ethics. Once we begin to see women acting as children who bear no agency, we begin to wake up. They're not all selfish, greedy, harlots who will milk you dry but they lack the stoicism, responsibility, agency, and ability to lead that a man has. TRP is about becoming the leader, not ta…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 03:01 PM
3

She could be thinking about branch swinging or she could just be spending a lot of time with the guy BECAUSE of work and is just sharing her day with you. This one needs a little more time, where you continue to lift and smack her on the ass as she walks by.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:45 PM
1

As long as you are in the best shape of your life and are an expert in plausible deniability flirting with women wherever you go, you've taken care of 90% of it. You should really only have to come home at weird hours or take a hunting trip with the boys when she's really getting out of control.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:36 PM
1

Hitting that bottom can become the beginning of the journey. Reaching that point where you just "don't care anymore". Essentially you have to fake it til you make it. The Red Pill teaches the behavior of men who are successful with women. This is how they act after they are successful. Mimic their behavior until you reach that level of confidence. Then it will come naturally. You start by lifting and working on yourself and approaching women and as you fail and fail you begin to have successes. …
/r/askTRP05/04/18 01:27 PM
7

The social anxiety almost always comes from attachment to an ideal outcome. You must be outcome independent in all interactions with new people. You can't fake it either. You must actually detach from your needs and wants and just start executing.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:16 PM
3

You're just lacking the smooth charisma of a highly experienced man. You're not really doing anything wrong. You are also experiencing the lack of contentedness that is inherent in every endeavor. The grass is always greener on the other side. The only thing you can really do is to keep putting in the time and numbers and all these bumps will smooth out. You will gain perspective. The perspective of a man. Use condoms.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:10 PM
3

This is just a lack of experience. If you keep failing forward, this problem will start to dissipate.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 02:05 PM
2

Wait...are you lifting?
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:48 PM
8

Don't fall for the siren's call. Fucking keep rowing out to sea, young one.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 05:07 PM
2

5'9" isn't so short as to induce pity. It's above average in some countries. You don't have to let it control your life in any way.
/r/askTRP22/03/18 06:27 PM
2

They have so many incoming advances that they do not have to show interest to anyone but their favorites.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:02 PM
0

No qualms about murder if it weren't for those pesky laws, eh? Maybe you should not be carrying weapons, good sir.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:00 PM
2

Don't label it an "approach" and build it into this fanfare event. You just talk to girls everywhere and all the time, don't you?
/r/askTRP19/03/18 03:32 PM
3

Usually this is BS just to get them out of the interaction but how can we know? It's possible that something really happened.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:51 AM
2

She didn't want to give you the number. It sounds like she may have a boyfriend. Even if she is attracted to you, she's not game right now. You could try to get her number one more time but you will probably have to next.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:17 AM
-2

This may come off a little "player" or sleazy. It's a little obvious and on the nose. I'd prefer to play the plausible deniability angle.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 01:14 AM
5

"Have you had a bowel movement today?"
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:49 AM
4

Sometimes it's just small talk. When we don't know anything about another person, we talk about the obvious. They could just be trying to make conversation and get to know you, not necessarily trying to fuck.
/r/askTRP17/03/18 12:42 AM
12

Don't let the pussy keep you somewhere that doesn't feed your soul. The rural areas and mountains are beautiful and full of life. The city is heavy and dirty and sad. You will still find girls in the coffee shops, gyms, Whole Foods, etc. They also love the fact you can make a fucking fire and park multiple cars in your driveway.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:43 PM
5

Because if you are way better looking than them they know you are playing them and won't commit. They don't even want to entertain the game they know they have no chance of winning.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 04:40 PM
3

Option C is your best bet.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:53 PM
2

This is a silly thing to get real worked over. It's insecure mate guarding. I don't even pay to attention to what my woman is doing on social media. Stop stalking her behavior online. Now if this girl is real special to you, you could just apologize and say you overreacted. I know some will say this isn't "RP" or some shit but let's get real. Guys fuck up sometimes and make mistakes. Just have one quick conversation where you say, "Look, I was having a bad day and I think I overreacted. Sorry. W…
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:40 PM
4

"Wait, let me double check....yeah still no"
/r/askTRP06/03/18 04:43 PM
2

Dead ends are when they don't respond anymore. You're good.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:27 PM
20

Find a nice, pretty, discreet escort and get this shit out of your system. It's not the incredible fantasy journey you're making it into. It's a basic biological function of life.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:26 PM
15

Most of the guys I see that seem to be there every day are always standing around chatting.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 04:24 PM
2

How is fucking other guys because of low self esteem and missing somebody "female logic 101"? You know that you and every other guy would try to do the same exact thing. GFTOW as they say. We all go looking for validation in the arms of other people when we are alone. You're just being jealous and insecure. These are the rules of the game.
/r/askTRP05/02/18 03:59 PM
1

I hope you know never to talk to the police.
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:55 PM
-6

It's just a shit test. Maintain frame. "You know some girls pay me to rape them."
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:45 PM
28

Yeah I know what's going on here. Your brother is physically good looking, which means he can say whatever the fuck he wants to girls and it's "cute." Coming from less attractive men it will be "creepy and weird."
/r/askTRP04/02/18 04:43 PM
1

Push/pull bro. It's hard for me to tell you what to do because these things require reading the situation. You're not likely to make or break the relationship with a gf in one night like this so just don't overthink it. Go over and chill and talk about other stuff, not this situation. DGAF. Reschedule with her. Whatever you want. Just don't address "the situation" with her.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 06:28 PM
4

I would cut the "haha"s from your texts. It just comes off as insecure and timid. I would have just responded "k" after she said rain check, and not fully explained myself. You could be more DGAF. You could definitely hit her up again, but if she gives you some lame excuse, I'd next her.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 10:59 PM
3

It's not a big problem. You're overthinking the fuck out of this situation. Everyone on all these threads has already given you good advice and is patiently answering your questions. You are just going to have to go mess things up with girls in real life to really learn anything. Go. Make mistakes.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:01 PM
2

If you are giving her attention, she knows you think she's attractive. Verbally telling her will just give her the upper hand in interactions. You want her to be wondering how you feel, "Does he even like me?!?!"
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:51 PM
1

You must think girls are retarded.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:48 PM
7

The only answer is to have other women in your life. Also, remember that condoms don't protect fully against Herpes, HPV, and syphilis. 15 guys in 10 months is quite a lot of dick.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:47 PM
0

The real question is what are you hoping to gain from telling her this?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 04:42 PM
1

Don't worry so much about sex in high school. Scientific studies have actually correlated early sex with lower intelligence: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/10706169?dopt=Abstract You want to be on your game in your 20s and 30s. Sex becomes a bigger part of life in college. You're still a kid in high school. Use it as a warmup where you just get comfortable opening girls.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:12 PM
2

I found that switching to dumbbells helped with stuff like this because I could keep my wrists neutral (or palms facing me) rather than pronated or supinated. It seems to put less stress on wrists and elbows when you use a neutral grip, which is impossible on a standard barbell. I know everyone pushes the 5x5 stuff on here which is all barbell but over the course of a couple years I found I had to change things around to avoid joint pains.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:03 PM
1

It just means you LTR higher quality girls that are harder to replace at the drop of a hat.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:52 PM
16

It more clearly delineates the top 20%. If it turns more men into sissies, it becomes easier to sort through the population. They don't care how many men wash out. There are still plenty of smug, dgaf guys who laugh at feminists. It's a societal wide shit test to help mate sort. They don't care if it comes down to every woman on the planet banging the same 100 dudes. They are only concerned with top quality.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 05:41 PM
1

Why do you care what she considers herself? Why are you concerned with her ideals? Her likes? Do you see how you are considering all of this from HER frame? Do you see why you would fail? Flip all of this around. What do YOU want? What are YOU concerned with?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:45 PM
1

It really depends how you plan to make your living. Some careers require school, some it doesn't make much of a difference.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 05:04 AM
4

Sometimes when you game some girls too strongly they catch that "player" vibe from you and if they have experience with men they think "oh he just wants to smash and dash" and then they reject you first because remember sex comes easy to girls. You probably didn't seem genuinely into her as a human being. That would be my assessment here.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 01:05 AM
13

They are hoping it will get them laid.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 12:37 AM
4

First of all, an n-count of 2 is a little suspicious. Men generally get a rounded down number. Occasionally you will get the real deal if you have acted very open minded and NON-judgmental all the way up to her revealing her number. If you ever revealed any hang ups about n-count before she gave you the #, it's probably a lie. Aside from that, look for good family ties, respect for her father and men in general, low n-count, lack of tattoos, lack of regular curse words, and in my opinion religio…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:09 AM
3

Yeah. Dump this girl and move on. She is toxic.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:44 AM
6

I hate to say this man but I sense this will crumble. I've been in these situations. Distance, didn't escalate when I should have, her responses drying up. She's getting hit on all the time and I'm not around. There is a window for escalation and she is disappointed you didn't take it. You should emotionally steel yourself for this one to collapse. You are over-investing early and imagining your future together. She is probably sensing beta tendencies and entertaining Chad's texts. By all means,…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:12 AM
4

The problem is that with hot girls, they know they are hot. You are blending in with the crowded sea of guys when you tell her shes cute or whatever. Just try to get her out, try to get her to come over. Don't tell her all your feelings. You can give her little nuggets of info sparingly later on so she has this cute thing you said to her once. Doing it up front and early just screams "inexperienced."
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:59 AM
6

Testing to get your reaction. Just spin it around. Accuse her of stalking you and trying to get on your good side. Always flip it on them. Don't qualify yourself. Make HER qualify.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:53 AM
1

It's about the calories when gaining weight. The way to do that is by eating fat. Fat has 9 kcals/gram while carbs and protein have 4. You get over twice the cals eating fat. Butter, coconut oil, nut butters, fatty meat, eggs. Don't waste time with sugar and carbs. They may give short term energy but they build bodyfat and provide less calories. Eat fat and protein and lift heavy.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 02:51 AM
1

Embrace the creepy feel. That means it is stuff most guys are too afraid to do which is why it works so well. They can't stop thinking about you after you leave. Yes, it takes screwing up and calibrating and maybe pissing off a few women, but I think the rewards are worth it. You get to stand out from the crowd.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:09 PM
2

Yeah but when you lose the desire to answer their questions and keep them "happy" you will focus more on just entertaining yourself. I don't care if my responses leave her with questions. Good. Let her have questions. It makes me more interesting. It doesn't mean I have to answer them. "What makes you say that?" "I can spot a criminal a mile away". WAIT WHAT?! etc etc etc. I'm not there to keep her happy, I'm there to entertain myself and when I am bored I will leave.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 08:03 PM
2

I would have replied, "You seem like someone who will need legal help in the future" with a smirk. Then joke with her from now on about giving her discounts on legal advice when she's in prison. I would just tease the shit out of her. I always try to spin it around on them. Make them qualify.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:55 PM
1

You have to give more detail, like what was actually said. This is too vague for us to help.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:27 PM
2

I see this a lot with guys who are back on the market. They don't realize they are projecting this "need to fill the void". They don't realize all the little cues they are giving off to women that says "I am in a rush to replace my last girlfriend with a new one". You must appear content in your current situation, not desperate to rectify it. You should embrace being ALONE. Focus on other things. The women come secondary.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:16 PM
3

She suspects you are weak and can be manipulated and is using your response to her statement here to validate or invalidate her notion. Your response kinda sucks. The awkward "haha." You're in a bad position with this one and it probably won't end well. You can improve your chances by responding to statements like this with things like "If you ever want to be my ex-wife you are going to have to be a little nicer." etc etc. In other words, just don't take any of her shit seriously. You pull her i…
/r/askTRP17/01/18 07:08 PM
1

You have to maintain zero tolerance with this kinda stuff. After the first couple refusals you don't keep her around. Suddenly you need her out because you have "other friends" coming over. You're "busy" "gotta go" "sorry honey, bye".
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:11 AM
3

Cutting drugs and working out. Cut alcohol, weed, caffeine, nicotine, whatever else and start exercising to the point where you're panting and sweating.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:09 AM
2

They don't all cheat as soon as they meet a higher SMV man. Many women do actually weigh what they would be losing (you) by getting with another dude. If you are high enough value, she won't risk a fling with him because he may never commit and women are seeking commitment.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:08 AM
1

You're eating too much bread. Eat less bread and other grains and more meat, eggs, fish, butter, coconut oil, fruit, vegetables, nuts.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 05:03 AM
1

Could be a test. How long has it been? She may come running back.
/r/askTRP11/11/17 03:45 PM
6

Just shrug it off. "It's guy talk, babe". Do nothing, essentially.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 10:32 PM
1

You're reinforcing bad behavior by giving her attention when she ices you out. Just let her go off and sulk in the corner. After a while, tease her gently. Don't pay her any extra attention. Don't break down and explain. Just carry on and maintain frame. She wants to submit.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:26 PM
2

When a lot of different women frequently signal interest to you, that's how you know.
/r/askTRP09/11/17 09:24 PM
0

You don't have to cry but if you have an LTR and your dog dies then yeah, she's going to see you getting a bit upset. That's not being weak. It's being a person, even if you have a dick. None of us are Rambo, hate to break it to you.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 11:17 PM
3

It has to come from the right place. It has to come from real hurt like you lost a friend or a family member or a pet. Maybe you are hurting over some shit that is happening in your life. You can share this stuff in small doses with them. What you don't do is pester them with questions and looking for affirmations displaying your scarcity mentality. Through it all they MUST know that you can easily get other women. That is really the key. They must know you have abundance and tons of options. Th…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:55 PM
3

You don't have to be an emotionless, ruthless tyrant. That's a misconception around here. We're all human and we were all born completely dependent on a woman. You will never eliminate your emotions and it would be foolish to even try. If you have a lot of good things going for you, lift, have abundance mentality then you CAN show emotions and weakness to women. You just have to do it at the right times, in the right doses. You don't dump all your insecurities on them but there is no harm in sho…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:51 PM
2

Yes, complete waste. Your profile has to be so meticulously crafted and your photos top notch taken with a large sensor camera. Use it as a supplement if you want, but I found it a timesink and have done far better daygaming.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:46 PM
16

It's only sketchy as fuck to you. Most people don't give a shit if you drink or not. I haven't had a drink in 8 years and I've still taken girls home from the bar, etc. They want your company, your charm, your manliness. If you're doing it right, they couldn't give less of a shit if you are actively partaking or not. They want the experience of being with a cool dude, they are not demanding that he be loosening up. Men like to see the girl drinking because it will lower their inhibitions but I t…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:43 PM
7

She doesn't get promoted beyond plate. Next.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 10:39 PM
3

The trick is, don't make it an approach. You have to open with something that seems relevant to the environment. You decided to just ask her for something or point out something funny. It must seem fluid and reasonable to the situation. Then, in the course of the interaction, omg, you realize she's kinda cool and you decide you'll take the risk of putting her in your phone (which you have her do). This is the fantasy scenario you must provide them. If you routinely do this in your hard-mode UK e…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:10 PM
2

I live in the US and I've been written off as a creep in cold approaches. It's less about country and more about location, context within that country. Besides, this isn't about what's easy and what's not. It's about results. Do you want to cold approach? Then do it. Why let the opinions of others sway you so much? Is cold approach considered a capital crime in the UK?
/r/askTRP22/06/17 05:00 PM
1

Sounds like you are trying to talk yourself out of approaching.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:52 PM
0

Yeah this sucks. I know exactly how you feel. Some guys, like us, just aren't very accepting of the images of our girl with past dudes. I have never come to an answer on this myself. You'll think about it less and less, but it will always pop up randomly in your head. Then if you let her go, you wonder if you'll regret that decision later when every girl you meet has an N count of 55 with some of them being orgies etc. Seriously anything but 0 kinda grosses me out. I wish I was one of those guys…
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:39 PM
3

It's too much. She's going to be like "Man, this guy is trying to impress me". Better to do something lower investment, to show that you talk to girls all the time, that it's casual and no big deal for you.
/r/askTRP22/06/17 04:34 PM
2

Hope you're armed.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 10:23 PM
1

God damn I love these kind of replies.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:53 PM
1

You can help yourself by opening women everywhere you go. Go for numbers, go for dates. You need to rack up legions of girls in your phone and you will never feel the scarcity again. You can also read the sidebar and start lifting. You need to swallow the pill.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:46 PM
1

This sounds like scarcity mentality. You need more abundance of girls. It simply and logically follows that you then stop giving so much of a shit about each one.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:45 PM
3

I would not tell them it was out of anger. They won't be understanding or see it from your POV. They will just judge you as impulsive and reckless. I would play it off as something else.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:43 PM
1

You're making excuses because you wouldn't be on here asking for help if you didn't want success with women. Stop lying to yourself. You put the work in to attain your desired career now put the work into attaining sexual success. Hit the fucking gym. Start saying shit to women. Don't look for approval. It's not a job interview. It's supposed to be lighthearted and fun. Just keep fucking up until you no longer suck.
/r/askTRP21/06/17 09:42 PM
65

This is the murky area of TRP tactics. They apply very well to approaching and plating but women are looking for more than just casual relationships. Women want commitment. TRP doesn't focus on this. She is looking for a boyfriend who doesn't go around fucking other girls. If you can't give this to her, you have to let her know. She may disappear, or not, but you have to tell her what you want. Either way, even if she gets angry, she will appreciate your honesty eventually. Avoiding the question…
/r/askTRP20/06/17 03:08 PM
3

"Do you wanna have fun?" sounds like something a carnival worker yells at people passing by. It's needy. I don't like using questions. I much prefer statements. Make a statement about something she is doing or wearing. Tease her.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:55 PM
6

I'm with you. I find men who post on social media a lot to be a little...gay. Your response is whatever you want. Why can't you come out and say it like that? Tell them it was boring you. I don't know why anyone would expect social media to be interesting to EVERYONE. It makes no sense. I just don't find it that fascinating. Many more interesting things to do, like reading books.
/r/askTRP20/06/17 02:51 PM
7

This is an odd sort of humble brag post from OP, but I do enjoy the Introvert/Extrovert discussion. Many in the world assume that introversion is some kind of malfunction and that you need to "get out there" and "open up" and become extroverted like everyone else. Bullshit. Being introverted is like being born black or white. You don't choose. You get handed one or the other or somewhere along the scale; though generally favoring one corner. Both come with perks and merits. Extroverts enjoy all …
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:56 PM
9

As men we are extremely picky about a girl's facial and bone structure. They have it difficult in that department too. We don't want large frame, really tall women or short pygmies. We don't want odd shaped skulls. All humans are judged on aesthetic appearance, not just men.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:48 PM
27

Some RP men seem to forget that sexual competition for attractive women is INTENSE. If you are not a grown up about all this and learn to balance, she will next your ass. You can be Chad level 9 but if you are a brutal dictator with no emotions she will eventually wear out her heart, listen to her friends, and replace you with Chad level 8 who will treat her with a little more dignity. There's always another guy with good looks and good game knocking at her door.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/17 04:42 PM
1

Being "too alpha" generally happens later in the relationship when she can't get the comfort/commitment she wants from you. Girls tolerate extreme alpha behavior in the beginning. Sounds like the problem is something unrelated to your behavior. Keep spinning them plates.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:32 AM
2

Are you REALLY going to marry her? Doesn't sound like you want to. In all likelihood you guys will break up and have other LTRs in your life so you may as well do it now if you are in college.
/r/askTRP18/01/17 08:29 AM
61

My only issue with this mentality is that a lot of top tier women do not wish to be part of a rotation and will only allow themselves to be plated for 2-3 months at most then they will ghost you to find a chad who will LTR them, of which there are plenty. The incomes, skills, championships do not mind being bundled together.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 05:03 PM
1

Of course. The male ego is incredibly selfish and overriding. It is the cause of so much pain and misery in the world. So many men simply think they are the best AT EVERYTHING.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:14 AM
10

for real...even college isn't real life.
/r/askTRP13/01/17 06:11 AM
17

It can get a little tiring opening new girls. They don't know shit about me, I don't know shit about them. You may or may not like little details about her personality or her body. I get into LTRs because that girl becomes an expert in pleasing me. She knows exactly what I like, how I like it, and knows she's gotta keep doing it to stay in my life. New girls don't offer that kind of customized satisfaction. It's all weird and awkward and slow in the beginning. A lot of dudes on TRP come off as t…
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 05:53 AM
73

I'm not sold on this idea. If you go to a big city like NY, Chicago, SF you will not feel top 20% merely by virtue of not being overweight. Tons of rich chads there. This "Just don't be a piece of shit" mantra really only works well out in the sticks, even then a lot of guys have some muscle. Unfortunately I think facial aesthetics is always king.
/r/TheRedPill13/01/17 05:28 AM
14

I think this is normal. You had a connection with your LTR. You knew each other, you knew her body and she knew yours. It's just a natural part of the breakup process to sometimes miss them. You have to just keep going. Sooner or later you will meet some women that really take your mind off her.
/r/askTRP11/01/17 09:47 AM
1

Because when a guy throws us a bunch of details, it's almost always because he thinks that his situation is unique, special, different. Men who are drenched in RP knowledge know that this is, of course, bullshit. We are here to wake people up and I'm just making sure you're not still sleeping. You need a lot of experience with women to start to see the patterns. When you start seeing the patterns, you begin generalizing. You start leaving out the details. In your situation, a girl was presenting…
/r/askTRP20/12/16 06:07 PM
3

What's with all the details? You're over-analyzing the behavior of a girl. Bottom line: some chick was into you, opened a window for you to escalate. You did not because of LTR. She moved on. What did you expect? and of course shit testing is a sign of interest.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 05:58 PM
3

If you don't learn to cold approach chicks, you will always need a social circle to bring them in. What a crutch. Learn to cold approach and take control.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 04:01 PM
2

female to male HIV transmission during heterosexual sex is EXCEEDINGLY RARE. Look it up...
/r/askTRP20/12/16 02:22 AM
3

OP, you are arriving at a very rational and honest response to swallowing the pill. Right now, you are taking women off the pedestal. A lot of guys think that means don't worship women, but it also means don't take them too seriously. Don't expect too much of them. Your Disney-esque fantasy of women is crumbling and that is inevitable for a self aware, RP aware man. A lot of people on TRP may come across as ruthless killers who can break hearts left and right with not a regard in the world but d…
/r/askTRP17/12/16 04:52 PM
1

I've gone out many times alone. I have pulled girls or numbers just about every time. I have more success with women alone than with a group of buddies, where you are too distracted to go after the goal.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 04:30 PM
1

Yeah you have a shot.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 07:28 PM
3

Love the term "regional plate." But no. If you broke up with her and take her back you look like an indecisive man with no abundance. Find your abundance, especially with hotter girls, and you will have no desire for this one anymore. Always be upgrading.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 05:07 PM
1

Good point about only seeing the most extreme ones. This is the same problem I have whenever I get into a silly debate with some liberal cuck. They think because I LIKE GUNS that I'm some crazy neo nazi mass shooter. Their thinking is all extremes, black and white. They are terrible critical thinkers.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 05:02 PM
2

Or you could just take cod liver oil.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 04:57 PM
2

I generally tell them pretty early on that I have a bit of a problem with traditional marriage. If after a year or so I do not see myself locking this one in for making babies, I would tell her that I don't plan on marrying her or having kids with her so yeah, she can go find some guy who will.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 04:54 PM
7

Drugs can certainly help you see the principles in the Red Pill more clearly. It's almost like straining mud through a screen and all the valuables come to the surface. I know RP is generally anti-weed or whatever but it has occasionally helped me solidify some core concepts in my head. It has been this way with numerous things throughout my life.
/r/askTRP16/12/16 04:09 AM
2

Sometimes it's a bit of a shit test. I'd say don't change up your game at all. Plate her, date her, whatever. Most importantly, get other girls on the line to maintain abundance so you remain outcome independent with this one.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 09:25 PM
2

How old is she? If she's in her 20s she's been holding out for a while and you may not be able to crack this one without a serious commitment.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:23 PM
-2

Fuck no. Why do you give a shit what this girl thinks?
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:22 PM
1

Actually, I wish I knew when I was younger just how much my pickins would grow as I got older. 23 is no age to settle for a man. Peak options is about 25-35 for most guys. Even older if you really take care of yourself. lol at settling at 23.
/r/askTRP15/12/16 05:08 PM
4

LTR's create a oneitis situation. She is your one and only source of intimacy and poon. Your mind creates a lie that there aren't many girls out there like her. You come to value her too much, pedastalize her, and expect too much from her. When the relationship falters, ends, or she disappoints you, it hurts. You become more stoic as a man, more self reliant, by going through this process a few times. Taking women off the pedestal doesn't just mean stop worshiping women. It also means: They are …
/r/askTRP15/12/16 04:56 PM
1

You may not have oneitis but you are pedastalizing. Remember women are children. They lack accountability. It's all in your hands whatever you want to do, because you, as the man, are the only one with any real power. If you really want that shirt and pants, it's "Hey, I really need that shirt and pants." Just don't get dragged into validating her or having some kind of emotional back and forth bs. Take the lead.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 08:29 PM
4

Really? Penis measurements? Brah get the fuck outta here.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 07:56 PM
1

By moving in together you are really giving a fuck and removing most avenues of dread. So you are left with just lifting. This is why most of us do not move in with women. It weakens us as men.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 07:55 PM
2

This really made me lol and is so true. Never really thought of it this way. They are vastly different from us.
/r/askTRP14/12/16 05:14 AM
1

You should slowly start distancing yourself emotionally from this girl and start lining up new sexual options. She has a plan B and so should you. Now that you are aware of what's going on behind your back, you will be able to pick up on any tells and bail out whenever you want...i.e. demote to plate status.
/r/askTRP13/12/16 06:46 PM
15

Any HB8 you ever date will have other guys hitting on them and trash talking you. They are jealous. This is just part of dating hot girls. If I lost my mind over every one of these losers I would be in jail right now.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:29 PM
19

Imagined violence feels satisfying but in real life could/would lead to all sorts of issues. It would blow up to something not just between you two but everyone in the house and possibly parents, school administrators and law enforcement. Don't be the guy who escalates things into the stratosphere. Actually, this situation means you are doing things right. This guy is jealous. This will not be the last time something like this happens. Have a chat with the guy if you want, but staying perfectly …
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:23 PM
7

Basically.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:17 PM
17

You have to adjust your attitude. You should not be opening these girls looking for approval. Talk to them as if you have 100 other bitches in the wings. Talk to them to see if they are appealing to you, not the other way around. These girls are sensing your desperation and you are killing your chances. Also make sure your haircut, body, and clothes are up to par. Maximize your looks and be uber confident. Tease them. Knock them down a few pegs when you meet them.
/r/askTRP12/12/16 05:09 PM
1

"You're too late. The position of mistress has been filled but I will keep your resume on file." Honestly, this girl sounds very insecure and needy, which are big turn offs for me. I'd next her.
/r/askTRP09/12/16 06:47 PM
9

Don't adjust your behavior based on her reaction. Maintain frame. They come back when they've witnessed stalwart cast iron willpower and determination in a man. They get hooked on this shit. You made it clear that you value your time and she needs to do the same if she wants to be part of your life. It's in her court now. Don't back down. Trying to pry her back into your life reeks of desperation and she'll sense it. Abundance always wins.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:49 PM
2

If you buy a weighted vest you can do pushups, pullups and squats without any equipment. The reason I go to the gym is to have access to a bunch of iron so I can keep the reps down. You don't want to squat without a rack and you may want dumbbells one day like I did. Gym just has it all.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 08:44 PM
1

I would be willing to take the risk of trusting her but that isn't the problem. The problem is I am just disgusted and disappointed and can't look at her the same anymore.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 09:53 PM
1

I have been seeing her exclusively for 8 months. I have dated and slept around a bit before her but am not currently spinning any other plates. I still flirt and open girls for practice to stay sharp, trying to maintain abundance mentality and dread.
/r/askTRP04/12/16 05:32 PM
2

"A well built physique is a status symbol. It reflects you worked hard for it, no money can buy it. You cannot borrow it, you cannot inherit it, you cannot steal it. You cannot hold onto it without constant work. It shows discipline, it shows self respect, it shows patience, work ethic and passion. That is why I do what I do."-Arnold Schwarzenegger
/r/askTRP24/11/16 04:19 PM
2

Came here to say this but also remember that girls like to feel safe with a powerful male. There's nothing wrong with making her feel safe inside your powerful frame as a man. The mistake incels make is breaking down their own frame to appeal to a woman's wants in order to try to make her feel safe. Maintain amused mastery.
/r/askTRP24/11/16 04:15 PM
1

Like backsliding into beta behavior, it definitely won't help your situation but it isn't necessarily fatal for every relationship. Like I said, she disqualified herself, saving you the trouble. I don't have anyone right now. That's your real problem.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:24 PM
1

You must cultivate new sexual options. You must keep casually approaching and getting numbers. Don't doubt for a second that she's entertaining male orbiters and has plenty of backup options to replace you.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 05:00 PM
3

Part of being a desirable man is vetting and disqualifying women for relationship status. This woman went and disqualified herself. Let her go. You wouldn't be worried about this if you had several new girls lined up this week. Are you approaching, getting enough numbers?
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:56 PM
2

Maybe this will motivate you: You have no idea what you're missing out on. Women might tell you that they don't like bodybuilders but once you are muscular and athletic looking, the attention from everyone everywhere you go just about triples. Girls rub your body and stare at you, eyeball fucking you before you even talk to them. My LTR constantly tells me how much she loves my body and I only spend 4 hours a week in the gym. Uh, it's pretty great.
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:52 PM
13

You're seeing now that it is much easier to meet a new woman with a strong frame than it is to build a strong frame in front of her. I'm sure that when she sees you acting "alpha" and rough with her that she doesn't see it as authentic. "He's not being himself...wtf is this?" or that you are trying too hard. I think your best bet is soft dread applied gradually and over time. Don't change all your behavior suddenly. Just gradually start coming home a little later or at weird times. Come up with …
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:47 PM
4

You've answered your own question. You know the answer is abundance mentality. Your mind will naturally raise her to lofty heights if she is your ONLY possible source of pussy. The only way to get the inner anger, frustration, anxiety to calm down is to know that you have more options. Secondly, if she sees you have options, your chances with her are better as well. I know how it can be in high school; how there just aren't that many girls to go around but you could always meet girls outside of …
/r/askTRP23/11/16 04:39 PM
2

I tend to think being mildly unhappy is par for the course when you're human. Life is uncomfortable and is so for most organisms on the planet. It's what drives us to push further, constantly searching for something better. Do you think we ever would have discovered the Western hemisphere or sent men to the moon if we were content and happy? Sometimes I think it's a fairy tale. Embrace the struggle.
/r/askTRP21/11/16 02:33 PM
2

I'll add to this. She's probably already banging some other dude. You said yourself she's been on the phone with someone. Women branch swing. She's grabbed another branch. She was cheating on her previous BF with you (huge red flag). She's dumped you. She doesn't respect you. Even if you guys got back together, she'd never look at you the same again. Move the fuck on for your own pride and the pride of the male species. Don't repeat the same dumb mistakes us older guys have made. Trust me. You'r…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:20 PM
2

A big problem a lot of men have with approach anxiety is they view it as this binary situation where they either pass or fail. Either she likes me or she doesn't. It's better to reframe it as just striking up conversation. Walk up to her and say something that's on your mind or critique her outfit or something. Make an insightful comment about the environment. You are just having a good time. You are not presenting yourself to her for review. You are bestowing your great insight onto the lucky l…
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:10 PM
5

This level of disrespect often coexists with cheating. Beware.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 04:01 AM
8

Shit test. Trying to see if you'll break frame. Spin it around on her. e.g. "Why is it so difficult for you to keep up with me?"
/r/askTRP01/11/16 03:58 AM
4

Waiting for a girl to initiate is weakness in a man, demonstrating his need for validation. You have to do the pursuing. She is waiting to receive you, not the other way around. The test to know if she is interested is whether she allows you to escalate sexually. Male and female relations are just one giant dick slowly approaching a giant vagina. If the vagina allows the dick, she is interested. If not, not interested. No more complicated than that.
/r/askTRP31/10/16 05:11 PM
1

Gotta agree with you here. I understand the concept, yet women are cranked out in numbers just as great as men...There's always another set of ovaries around the corner.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:22 PM
2

This is just another one of those posts that claim you must be extroverted to succeed. With no understanding of introvert men, you don't know how great it can be. I don't have to maintain a large circle of friends, texting and calling people every day that I barely know and don't give a shit about me. I maintain a small tight-knit group and go hunting for women solo, where I am very successful. There's no one-size-fits-all method. We're not all outgoing party animals. I don't enjoy loud places c…
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:16 PM
2

Just add a smiley or winkey face to the end. They'll usually catch the drift. What is your suggested response then?
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:42 PM
1

Good point. Move straight to assuming the sale and logistics.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:36 PM
-3

Text her later that day, "It was nice meeting you today, -name-" and then go straight to setting up the date. "I'm going to -blank- this Saturday around -blank-. U should cum. I mean come." You can leave out that last sexual part if you're not feeling like risking losing her but I like to filter out the ones with no sense of humor.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:32 PM
7

"No, I just surf Tinder looking for lots of short conversations with strangers".
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:25 PM
5

Have you read any RP material ever? This questions sounds like you are at square one. Sidebar. Read the sidebar. Please.
/r/askTRP14/10/16 03:19 PM
2

When it comes to females, watch what they do, not what they say. She may say all kinds of crazy shit but the ultimate litmus test is does she let you stick your dick in her? It's that simple. Women will call a confident man all kinds of weird things in order to see if he has cracks in his armor. She will call you cocky to see if you'll drop the "act." It's a shit test. She's trying to see if you are real or faking. Remember that women are constantly trying to reaffirm whether or not the man is a…
/r/askTRP13/10/16 02:51 PM
2

In all likelihood they are laughing about something that has nothing to do with you. Just because you walked by doesn't mean they are all now talking about you. There's no way to really know "what it means" without experience, being there and feeling the vibe. Call them out if you want. The important thing is to remain unaffected by the actions of women. You are the one in control and calling shots. Walk up to the group next time and ask them what's so funny and then stare each one in the eye wa…
/r/askTRP12/10/16 04:36 PM
2

Most likely this chick is going to get away and disappear from your life at some point anyway so just use all of this as a learning experience. Don't get so drunk next time. I don't drink at all when I go out. It puts you in a much better position to be witty and charming and to handle logistics. Alcohol may help with the anxiety and other feelings but in the end, it's fucking you over. Ask her to hang out in the city somewhere another but but make it super casual, no big deal, dgaf. If she flak…
/r/askTRP11/10/16 04:13 PM
2

I'm 31 and consider 26 to be pushing it for me unless she's really something great. No I don't text a lot, I also don't become facebook or instagram buddies with them. I'd say 3-5 texts per day with LTRs. 0-2 per day with plates. I'm about the meetup and spending real time together, not the virtual bullshit.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 04:02 PM
2

I personally just make out, feel them up, have a good time and try again next time. Keeping it fun and not serious is key.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 03:59 PM
7

This shame is garbage societal programming. We are hardwired to be attracted to young women. It's as normal as women pining for the alpha male of the group. Your friends are jealous. I have a rule that I do not LTR a woman who is less than 5 years younger than me. Everyone knows younger is better whether they admit it or not. No shame. Never settle.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 03:43 PM
2

It's normal. You will only cure this "problem" by dating tons of women and gaining experience. Don't pedestalize her in your mind and just assume this relationship will fail at some point. Remember how easy it was to meet her and how quickly you can meet another. We are human and naturally develop feelings for people we like. Don't move in together, get married, or get her pregnant and you can sit back and live and learn.
/r/askTRP03/10/16 03:41 PM
3

Should have put my clothes on, asked her to leave, asked her why she was even here, etc. Negative. This kind of shit comes off as butthurt and entitled. "WHY AREN'T YOU GIVING ME YOUR PUSSY?!?!?" She doesn't owe you shit buddy. You need to relax. Some girls like to move a little slower. Enjoy the naked girl in your bed. You think this is the only girl in the world? Your post comes off a bit like oneitis actually. You need to be non-reactive in these situations. Why does she have so much control …
/r/askTRP03/10/16 03:32 PM
4

Wrong. It ain't weird as fuck. Using an app as your only source of pussy is weird and beta. If you go and pull on the street, you separate yourself from the hordes of thirsty betas on apps like Tinder.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:02 PM
10

This girl who calls what you're doing weird does not want you to gain the Jedi powers of pulling pussy at will. She wants you to pedestalize pussy like the majority of men. Don't fall for it. Talking to strangers is NOT weird. People CAN be weird. If you walk to a hot chick and say something smooth and funny, you're the fucking man. If you walk up to her and ask for her Instagram account you're a fucking weirdo. Be the man and you can do whatever the fuck you want. Normal social rules do not app…
/r/askTRP26/09/16 03:00 PM
8

I think you're playing with a shitty hand here. She's going to know you've been trying to work up the balls to ask her out. Women at work are also paid to be nice and you're probably overestimating how much she's attracted to you. Now, you could try to use preselection to help you out here by bringing in 2-3 different hot girls over the course of a couple weeks or whatever but you're probably just better off getting the numbers of random patrons you've never seen before.
/r/askTRP26/09/16 02:56 PM
1

Very generally it's a green flag imho.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:48 AM
5

Do you go to the grocery store? to the gym? the mall? Ever use public transportation? Ever visit a park, a beach, or a museum? College was easy mode. Welcome to real life. Cold approach time.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 04:47 AM
2

My best way of handling this is exercising and socializing earlier in the day. If you've been running around in the woods or lifting weights and chatting with buddies for hours beforehand, she comes off as nothing but a chick. Easy win.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 01:25 AM
2

They're all fucking broke.
/r/askTRP23/09/16 01:23 AM
3

"Who is this?"
/r/askTRP23/09/16 01:20 AM
7

Women like a man with options. Women are hypergamous (look it up) and the fact that he's slaying other pussy moves him up the chain in her eyes. Men are polygamous and can impregnate as many women as he can fuck, so it's biologically advantageous for him to do so. On the other hand, a woman can only be fertilized every 9 months and so comes off as "used" and not a good catch to men when she's fucking around. It's also easy for women to get dick but hard for men to get pussy, so there is respect …
/r/askTRP23/09/16 01:18 AM
4

I think about this topic quite a bit. In fact, last night I was sitting alone by a lake and thinking to myself, "This will never get old, I really enjoy my own company and don't mind being alone". Sex and companionship are different than lifelong monogamy and really not all that hard to find, at any age. Like other posters have said, if you stay in shape and don't abuse your body, your options won't diminish terribly until you hit your 60s. By that time, you could theoretically wife up or move i…
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:40 PM
2

If "there are a shit load of other girls" why don't you start chatting them up? Also, you should be hitting the gym hard if not already. Other than that, irrational self confidence and cold approaching will yield numbers.
/r/askTRP22/09/16 02:33 PM
12

Start doing more stuff that scares you. I'm afraid the only way through this obstacle is desensitizing yourself. Take up some risky hobbies and become more proficient in dangerous situations. You will learn to trust yourself and be more brave. I think you need repeated exposure to really scary/dangerous/risky things. e.g. Skydive, rock climb, cold approach women.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 01:54 PM
1

This seems a repost of something written on GoodLookingLoser.com. No credit given?
/r/TheRedPill20/09/16 02:13 PM
1

In my experience, if you have any doubts whatsoever, do not get married or move in together. The urge to be with other women is something to heed, especially if she's your first. I don't think anyone should marry/have kids with their first woman. Your desire to see what's out there will probably not go away. She's not special or different. You are imagining her as a unicorn and have developed oneitis. You can find another great woman at any time, any where. Our mind plays these tricks on us wher…
/r/askTRP19/09/16 10:57 PM
10

"Tell me when you are free" doesn't work as well as "Meet me Tuesday at 3pm?" You should be leading and suggesting things, not letting her schedule dictate. Ditch the waiting a day thing, she's probably got 5 other cocks knocking on her door and they will move quicker than you. Set up that date and escalate pronto.
/r/askTRP19/09/16 09:39 PM
1

You're not being paid enough because you are not providing enough value to society. Society pays for value and you need to provide more of it.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:47 AM
1

She should observe it in the way you speak to bartenders, waitresses, cashier checkout girls. You tease them, speak to them confidently, etc. These girls can't help but flirt back and you just treat all women this way. Unexplained late night text msgs don't hurt, either. The hard truth is that it's much easier to establish this dominant vibe when you first meet the LTR, not months or years into it when she already knows your personality.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:45 AM
1

You're in the anger phase, bro. It'll pass.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:41 AM
2

In life, men sustain injuries and sicknesses. You must take the time to let it heal. 4-6 weeks ain't shit. I know it seems like eternity to a young guy but you better take the time to let your hand heal or you will just drag out the process even further. You're a freshman. You have plenty of time.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 01:33 AM
2

You have to assume that if you haven't had the exclusivity talk, that she is still talking to and possibly banging other guys. Doesn't really seem a good reason to dismiss her as possible LTR since you never had the talk. Don't ask about the Tinder. Keep escalating.
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:57 AM
6

It usually refers to the female hamster, or rationalization machine. A girl may come to your house late at night to "check out a movie" but she won't go over there "to have sex." She needs the plausible idea that it was innocent. She needs to be able to deny being a slut to everyone else. "We went to his house to check out a movie...and...it just happened." She would never say she went over there after you invited her for some sex. It's a plausible idea to deny. You could use the term when talki…
/r/askTRP14/09/16 12:48 AM
4

Clint Eastwood in any movie he's ever been in and in real life.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:48 PM
-1

Right, but these lower-income people are not sitting down to eat beef. They are sitting down to eat cereal, huge amounts of bread, pizza, cupcakes, pancakes, waffles, bagels, syrup, and soda. Beef is one of the few healthy things they still eat. It's the mass consumption of refined starches, sugars and vegetable oils that is killing us; not the ol' staple beef. I think your premise is strong but you are misidentifying the culprit.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 04:27 PM
3

While I agree with your point, beef does not make people fat.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/16 02:29 AM
2

So true. God, I hate those whiteknight manginas.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:05 AM
1

I really loved Shark's stuff. His book, The Black Flag was great too. Good repost.
/r/askTRP13/09/16 02:01 AM
8

I travel quite a bit for work and so I end up in big cities alone. I end up going out by myself and just talking to strange women at the bar. A lot of times they end up introducing me to their friends, etc etc. It's not that big a deal to just go to bars/clubs solo and chat people up. You don't have to take a job there. The social circle thing always dissolves pretty hardcore after college. Learn to cold approach and you won't be so dependent on it. You'll think it's "weird" at first but trust m…
/r/askTRP13/09/16 01:45 AM
2

Dude if you are being accused of a serious crime and the police want to talk to you, don't say shit. Get a lawyer.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 05:09 AM
1

It's a tough decision to make and I know that feeling of cutting off a limb, as you put it. The only way I find to push a girl out of my head is to start casually dating some new ones. Perhaps it's a weakness of mine, but I like to have sexual options at hand. I don't like to go monk mode...I think feeling like shit is a very normal reaction to your situation. Hang out with your male friends. Pursue your studies. Stay busy. Find new chicks.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:48 AM
3

I'd say RP game comes more naturally and is easier for certain men. Men who are naturally independent, have a good sense of humor, ambitious. I think it's effective across the board, however.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:41 AM
14

Sounds like you want to jump ship and spin plates. Nothing wrong with that. Just let the girlfriend know that you want to be free. Don't hide and lie. She will later respect you for it even if she gets really upset now. Also, this new girl was growing on you after an hour? It's just that fresh face glow. They're all "perfect" in the beginning. You don't find their ugly faults until 6 months in. Remember, no unicorns. Edit: Oh, and don't move in with girls who aren't about to bear your children.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 04:37 AM
1

Just let it go. She's having a good time, not thinking about you at work. It shouldn't seem like you're busting your ass. Everything is effortless for us badass Alpha males, remember?
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:11 AM
2

Second this. Delve deep into sidebar. Read the books mentioned here. Do not think for a second that she is special, different, or "the one". All of us have been through this before with the same intensity of feelings. You are one of many. Welcome to the club.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 02:09 AM
2

Girls flake out for a variety of reasons. Maybe her ex came back in the picture, maybe shes contemplating becoming a lesbian. It sounds like you're playing your hand pretty well. You can't get 100% success. Start cultivating more options; other women.
/r/askTRP10/09/16 01:32 AM
2

Your response was just too long. It comes off as over-invested and you don't even know her. She should sense that you're screening your options because YOU HAVE OPTIONS. Your response reads more like, "Oh boy! A girl messaged me!" Next time just respond with something like, "BRB, climbing a mountain. Meet me at the top with a sandwich?" You gotta fuck with them. Make them laugh. Don't take them too seriously. Chad doesn't.
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:38 PM
1

When she says something like, "What is it that you want? quick fuck, fwb...etc" she's trying to get you to show your hand and lay all your intentions on the table. Never make it that easy for them. Let it all roll off your shoulders. Don't even talk about "what happened" with her because you are giving credence to the fact that she has the control. Tease her. Change the subject. Ask her if she has a hot sister. Fuck with them. Be the boss. Never let them affect your state, your frame. Continue o…
/r/askTRP09/09/16 03:43 AM
3

What I'm saying is you must adopt the mentality that you don't care where this date goes because there are plenty of other girls. Women can immediately and instinctively detect a desperate man with few options. Don't be that guy. You have to detach from the outcome of the date.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 10:25 PM
12

Just get straight to logistics with her. It's gotta seem like you do this all the time and aren't fazed by anything. You are outcome independent because you have abundant options.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:48 PM
1

I believe this is just the curse of high intelligence. You will probably never really feel like you're part of the crowd. I also find myself straddling that fence between blue collar guys and nerds. I see parts of myself in both crowds. The blue collar guys are a little shallow for me and the nerds are a little...well, nerdy for me. What I try to do is enjoy my time with both, knowing I'll never really be JUST LIKE any of them. You can only be you. Be honest with both crowds, while at the same t…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:46 PM
2

Don't be so hard on yourself. You're doing everything right. It's a numbers game. Keep it up. Remember, be irrationally self-confident. Be outcome independent. There's always a bajillion girls right around the corner. Feel free to keep fucking up. You will succeed because you are putting in the time and getting the dates. Just keep pressing.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:41 PM
3

You have to look at the numbers realistically. Do you honestly expect 100% success? I'd say 70-80% is pretty damn good. These girls will put out LMR for all kinds of reasons, not all of which you can tackle. Do not let it affect you. You let them be and they'll hit you up later if they really want the dick. This is the beauty of abundance mentality and having options.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:18 PM
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It's a shit test really. She's going to use this slapping incident to see if she can make you bend over and take it up the ass; she's testing to see if you're a little bitch. Play it off and joke about it. It doesn't sound like you struck her. Do not get heated and escalate along with her. Stay calm and totally rational.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 09:14 PM
2

My best success comes from hitting on them early. Get them before they have been hit on 55 times and enter auto-reject mode. Chat em up early, bounce to another venue and then take them home to check out something cool in your apartment or "watch a movie."
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:06 PM
3

First of all, she needed time to herself because Chad was knocking at her door. Girls don't like to be alone. Second, you pine for this one because you can't have her. Human psychology works this way. Picture her sucking Chad's nuts and him cumming on her face. She's nothing special. You will meet plenty more. You just need time. Forget her.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 05:04 PM
2

You have the chance of contracting even if a sore isn't present, but it's minor. You've probably already been exposed to the virus numerous times so I'd say don't worry about it. Just don't kiss her when she has an active sore. It's a super common virus and not that big a deal anyway. Now, genital herpes on the other hand... EDIT: Oh, and DO NOT receive oral sex from her during a breakout. It CAN spread from mouth to dick. If you kiss her while she has a sore, don't go down on her either.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:59 PM
2

As always, the best litmus test to see how much a girl likes you is to try to stick your dick in her. She won't let you escalate? It's time to move on to other prospects. How? Approach hundreds of women, eating rejection like it's a nutritious meal.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 04:56 PM
2

Second this. Don't really bother with women you are paying. It's too confusing. Hit up more random girls who are out and about.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:27 PM
1

You don't need to open up. You just need to chat and connect. You have to remember that, "I'm not having sex with you again" is a shit test to see if she can get more intimacy/commitment out of you. It's also a numbers game; not every girl can be plated.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 03:25 PM
5

It's hard to see how different the future can be. The truth is that nobody knows what "the point" is. Not everyone will make it. You have to decide if you want to be in the camp that pushes on or the camp that gives up. We all die in the end, so you may as well try while you are here. You will be dead one day either way. Giving up is easy. Pushing on in the face of large obstacles is difficult but rewarding. You may need to think of it like this: What do I have to contribute to mankind?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:39 PM
0

I think you're being a little too sensitive. She's liking guys pics. If you find that she's chatting with one or two in particular secretly and sending pics, then you have an issue.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:35 PM
2

They feel like you are using them. You are getting the ant-slut defense. You probably need to make more conversation, text them afterwards. I think too many people who are new to TRP think they need to be all cold like "fuck you bitch I got million options" but it isn't quite this black and white. You need to touch the feelz in their brain a little bit. Make them feel a little special is what I'm saying. Does this help?
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:34 PM
5

Your mistake was asking what she meant afterwards. You should have just made conversation about other things after the sex. She just wants to feel connected; intimacy. It doesn't have to be logical or about real life. She just wants to connect emotionally. Nothing beta about talking with her. When you go "What did you mean by..." it comes off a little insecure, like you've been worrying about it for a little while.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:29 PM
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No. Do not try to punish her by removing a pic. She will see you as butthurt and whiny, insecure. Fuck that. Completely ignore whatever she is doing on social media. Why are you spending your valuable time studying that shit anyway? Go work on a project or hit the gym. This girl has too much command of your attention.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:26 PM
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Sounds like you are pissed off. I know it's hard to imagine things will get better but several years from now you will be in a completely different place. So far, 30s have been the best decade for my mental health. Don't give up.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:16 PM
1

Wait, you are listening to what women say? You're doing it wrong. Watch what they do instead.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:14 PM
2

You can't zone it out when you are studying and have no sexual options. Put some effort in free time to get new women in your phone.
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:08 PM
3

The way you are attempting to approach feels terrible for you because you are aiming to reveal too much of yourself right off the bat. You feel too vulnerable. Try approaching using speech that has nothing to do with you. Saying, "I like that bag you have on" starts with I and is about your feelings. Don't do that. Just ask her a question about the bag. You say you are great at talking to people because when you are casually chatting you aren't aiming to gain anything from them. When you think o…
/r/askTRP08/09/16 02:07 PM
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I give you a lot of credit for addressing an issue that is so often lambasted here. It's easy for everyone to say, "fuck having kids, life is about me!" I agree with your assertion that the most alpha of alphas have children. It's one of those truths that's really hard to swallow; even for TRP peeps. People here are happy to pursue their "mission", lift, and fuck bitches because all those things are about serving themselves. It takes a different kind of person to create for others. Not everyone …
/r/TheRedPill08/09/16 01:41 PM
0

She'd like you to be her betabux. Next.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:13 PM
1

Lesson learned: Don't live with woman who is not going to bear your children.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 02:12 PM
1

How can anyone answer this question for you? We don't know anything about you. You're the one who knows where your interests and strengths lie. Career is a personal choice.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:43 AM
0

This girl sounds incredibly insecure and immature. I would probably tell her that I don't feel like talking about it and if she insists on bringing it up that it's going to strain our relationship. She can't force you to talk. Is she holding you captive in Guantanamo? Let her throw a tantrum and just look at her with a blank stare. Do not be manipulated. You call the shots.
/r/askTRP06/09/16 03:36 AM
1

Next month is too far away. She will be banging some other dude by then. Invite her to do something within the week. She gave you the #. Absolutely call/text. In my experience, I get better success when I call them. Remember, don't do what all the other schlubs do. Meet up, escalate, etc etc.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 08:13 PM
2

Sure. Like Phyzis above said, you have a scarcity mentality. You have to remember that women are generally far more adept at this dating game then we men are. She can naturally sniff out weakness. Since you've been associating with her for this length of time and she hasn't let you get very far, she's most likely already categorized you as beta orbiter. You'd be far better off gaming new chicks, getting them naked, letting this girl see your success, making her jealous, and getting her that way.…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 08:10 PM
3

This is all male hamstering. You're just afraid of failing; being rejected. Get crackin' on those approaches, buddy.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 08:05 PM
2

You've already fucked up your chances with her. Next.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 08:02 PM
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Everyone posting here is right and we are serious. You need to hard next her and no contact. Move on. Anything else is a mistake. We speak from experience. I've been EXACTLY where you are before. I tried to rationalize it, stayed with her a few months longer and she DID IT AGAIN. This relationship is over. Not to fret, however. Luckily for you there are 4 billion women in the world.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 04:22 PM
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The only reasonable response to a girl breaking up with you is to say, "Ok" and get up and go back to living your awesome life. Fuck her. She's trying to manipulate you and you are falling hook line and sinker. Been there, man. You think I'm being callous and cold but these women are far more calculating and manipulative than you give them credit for.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:59 PM
2

I believe in heavy lifting (5x5 program). Add some hiking or stair climbing in there and I think that's the best you could do. I don't have a lot of cardio experience (treadmills etc) so I can't advise on that. Like I said before, I believe diet is the key to weight loss. Maybe you haven't been on your current diet long enough.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:55 PM
2

Women come and go. Focus on yourself. You're the prize, remember?
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:53 PM
8

This was a shit test. You pretty much failed. She is attempting to betafy you. Remember #15 in the 16 commandments of poon, "XV. Maintain your state control You are an oak tree. You will not be manipulated by crying, yelling, lying, head games, sexual withdrawal, jealousy ploys, pity plays, shit tests, hot/cold/hot/cold, disappearing acts, or guilt trips. She will rain and thunder all around you and you will shelter her until her storm passes. She will not drag you into her chaos or uproot you. …
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:50 PM
1

First of all, I should say that you should probably check with your doctor before enacting any serious changes. Also, and I'm sure you wouldn't do this, but don't take anything I say over what any professionals may have advised you. With that out of the way, I will say this: cut out the bread. What purpose does it serve? You are already eating fruit which provides carbs. I believe a large part of the reason the Western world is so fat is because we have justified eating bread at every meal. It j…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:45 PM
1

Look, you have to make a choice. If you're choosing to wait for a better job and stability, then accept your position and feel confident knowing you will be in a better place by next year. If you aren't happy and just can't wait that long, then fuck the stability and move out now. It's up to you. Girls like men who are happy and confident and joke about life. They don't like men who take it too seriously, get upset and anxious all the time or reek of desperation and sadness. Also, why the fuck d…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:41 PM
2

Mainstream society/media has programmed most people to think that if you aren't a yellow-bellied, betafied, ass-kissing feminist then you just must be a wife beater. Masculinity has been vilified and TRP reeks heavily of masculinity. When you mention TRP, the ignorant people (i.e. almost everyone) just lump it in with wife beaters. They don't care to learn. You have to remember that in Western society, all men are just inferior women with dicks. If we start thinking for ourselves and go making o…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:32 PM
2

I think it's good that you're seeing where diet/exercise take you before getting surgery. I would definitely give the diet/exercise route 3 years of hard work before considering any kind of medical intervention. In my experience, and I'm no doctor, but I am in pretty damn good shape, body fat is related to diet and muscle is related to exercise. So, I advise low-carbing to those looking to lose body fat. I follow a paleo diet and maintain a fairly low body fat %. To gain the skeletal muscle, you…
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:25 PM
2

You need outcome independence. Badly. You already have way too much riding on this chick and you've never even met. She is bound to disappoint you. Lower your expectations. We all know this is a numbers game and most dates don't lead to anything spectacular. Just look at it as fun and something to do to amuse yourself. Detach...
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:14 PM
2

In my experience, you don't need to lose weight before building muscle. You can do them simultaneously. Eat a lot of protein and fat, keep the carbs relatively low, and lift heavy weights. Also, remember that it's going to take time to reach your goal. Like years. Keep at it. Never give up.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:11 PM
1

This man speaks the truth.
/r/askTRP02/09/16 03:08 PM
-1

It's never too young to start spilling RP onto the young. The feminists and BP manginas don't wait ..
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:33 PM
1

Um...are you interested in finance?
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:31 PM
1

They are sensing something. You may be giving off a vibe that you are inexperienced with hot women. You probably come off as uncomfortable or desperate. Your best friend is irrational self confidence. You should not give a fuck how you come off to these bitches. Play the numbers game. Talk to hundreds of hot women and you will become a natural.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:30 PM
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Abundance. Cultivate more options. This is far more important than any other RP strategy. Fuck HOW you talk to them. Talk to MORE of them.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:28 PM
1

There are pros and cons to both settings. Most guys assume a city is best because of the larger number of women and this is true. However, it's also true that you will have far more competition in a big city and all women within it raise their standards. Out in the sticks, you won't find as many hot women but when you do, they haven't been hit on 65 times that day. They aren't QUITE as picky.
/r/askTRP01/09/16 04:25 PM
1

Abundance mentality. Achieved through actual abundance. All your charm, smoothness and DGAF attitude will flow naturally from a genuine abundance of options. Oneitis is cancer and the kiss of death affecting the vast majority of men.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:42 PM
1

I just fuck them rough and like an animal and get no complaints. Not too worried about being "normal" or like a pornstar. If they seem satisfied, you're good.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:39 PM
1

It's not a job so you won't lose future income over being a dick. Say whatever the fuck you want. It's just school.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:37 PM
4

Is this some kind of humble brag? Why would you want to downgrade to "normal" sex? Were these girls complaining?
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:35 PM
1

Why do you say most here don't have any experience like this? Anybody in this sub over the age of 22 probably has EXACTLY this experience somewhere in their lives. It's bullshit like this that we found TRP in the first place. Pick yourself up. I'm assuming you are young. You have plenty of time to start over. Forget that one girl. There are no soul mates. Chat up dozens of women at a time. It's not shallow; it's effective. Read the sidebar. You have a long way to go but you are in the right plac…
/r/askTRP31/08/16 08:32 PM
1

You could do that but then she may lose her shit and start stalking you. Sometimes it's better to gradually ghost them and let them find a new victim.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 03:10 PM
4

It would be kinda funny.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:36 AM
2

This is the wrong mentality to have. Do you see it? You are concerned about how you come off to this girl. How should you behave around her? Do you see how much you are pedastalizing her? Fuck her. Ask her if she has any hot friends that aren't busy that night. You should be too busy with your own life to worry about how you come off to this chick. This is exactly why you need to start over with (several) new girls and delete this one.
/r/askTRP31/08/16 12:35 AM
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Next her and move on. You have oneitis and will only fuck up your life by associating with this chick. Don't go looking for just sex, because you aren't capable of leaving it as just sex. You probably text her too much. Forget her. You probably think I don't know how special she is and what a special relationship you guys have but I do and I still think it doesn't matter. You can only save your own life by moving on and developing abundance mentality. Delete this girl out of your phone. You do n…
/r/askTRP30/08/16 10:55 PM
2

This. For your mental well-being, just assume some shit happened.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 09:41 PM
1

Dude, where is the part where you went and chatted up 12 other women? Why so much concern over the feelz of one chick? This is a losing strategy. Diversify your portfolio.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 09:00 PM
2

If the weakness is buried in a sea of strength it will not matter. You cannot be the man 100% of the time so just forgive yourself and learn from the mistake. No one is perfect; none of us either. We all fuck up.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:57 PM
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If you think you can maintain the same level of sex after you move in together, you are delusional. Do not move in together if you don't plan on marrying her. This is a huge mistake so many guys make. What do you hope to gain by killing all the mystery and revealing every little detail of your life to her? Is she your wife?
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:51 PM
4

For me? She needs to be very hot. She needs to have her own life, so she isn't desperate to see me all the time. She need not be in a rush to get married or move in together. She needs to be at least 5-6 years younger than me. Low to moderate N count. Some morals, has some value for honesty. Then as soon as it becomes more trouble than it's worth, I slowly start backing away.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:46 PM
11

Forget using any kind of words. Your actions will say everything. Just ghost the bitch and she'll come crying begging for you to stick it in her.
/r/askTRP30/08/16 08:42 PM
13

What you're facing is the pressure of the collective sheep to turn you into another beta worker drone. It is part of their programming to try to turn others. Say whatever you want to them.
/r/askTRP27/08/16 04:40 PM
1

This is a good tip. That swipe limit crushes your chances. However, this only applies in cities. If you go for Tinder plus in rural areas you will quickly run out of people to swipe on.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 04:09 PM
2

This is a troll, guys. Don't feed the troll.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 03:38 PM
2

Own that receding hairline. Whenever I see a dad-looking hairline on a guy who makes no effort to hide it or mitigate it, I think "that guy doesn't give a fuck". Why try to keep up with what is trendy? Receding hairlines are natures way.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 05:02 PM
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She's creating drama for the thrill of it. This is one way women play out their movie fantasies; no doubt she's witnessed this scene hundreds of times on a screen. As soon as she starts losing her shit either tell her she needs to go home if she's at your place or get up and leave if at hers. Best communication is action and when a woman sees zero tolerance for drama she's very careful about pulling that knife from the drawer in the future.
/r/askTRP16/08/16 04:58 PM
1

She's not good LTR material and she's still deeply involved with her ex. Keep her as plate and don't promote. Nothing good will come of LTR with this woman.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:49 PM
1

The problem is he's gotta want to do it and there's no way for you to make that happen, really. It has to come from within. That's the problem with dealing with adults. Sometimes we have to just watch them make bad decisions. You have to assume he's smart enough to understand what he's doing and the implications. I feel for you in this situation, though. I wouldn't give up entirely and it's good that you're trying not to bear down on him about this. Maybe just more time is needed.
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:41 PM
2

Sounds like maybe there is something that scares him about the procedure. I know how frustrating it can be to be in these positions. It's like dealing with alcoholics. You can sit back and have this long conversation with them where they acknowledge how important it is that they quit drinking and then you leave the room and they pour a drink. I doubt that repeating yourself to him will help. Does he have a parent or sibling you think should talk to him too?
/r/askTRP12/08/16 04:16 PM
1

He's saying date the ones who've had 5 dicks inside her not 50.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 09:11 PM
1

I think we're looking at this the wrong way. I think sex takes precedence in nature over commitment. The act of sex will occur no matter what, god damnit. Unfortunately for women, I think men have the upper hand. If she doesn't put out in a reasonably quick time, she WILL be nexted by most guys. That's the harsh truth. I think women have to put out at a certain moment and then really prove themselves as quality material over time and hope he commits. Commitment is a 2nd tier, luxury pursuit in t…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:16 PM
3

Big time yes. I'd say just about all.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 05:03 PM
6

The cuddling is very intimate for them and if girl 1 doesn't cuddle she can better rationalize in her head that it "just happened" and didn't really mean anything. The 2nd girl is allowed to date other guys and so doesn't mind the intimacy; doesn't feel guilty because she's not trying to hide it. It all comes down to how they justify/rationalize it to themselves in their own head. It has nothing to do with reality.
/r/askTRP11/08/16 04:45 PM
3

"All truth passes through three stages. First, it is ridiculed. Second, it is violently opposed. Third, it is accepted as being self-evident". - Schopenhauer
/r/askTRP11/08/16 04:37 PM
2

Remember that your mind is going to begin editing her so that she seems perfect in retrospect. In reality, the relationship did not work and you broke up for a reason. I've been exactly where you are a few times and it always hurts like a bitch. There's nothing wrong with loving the girl but you have to acknowledge that you cannot be together. In a few months or years you will look back on this time and realize how good a thing it was that you broke up, as you lay there in a bed with a hotter ch…
/r/askTRP11/08/16 04:26 PM
-1

She came here to ask red pill men, not you blue pill beta fucktards.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 08:46 PM
1

When I listen to REO Speedwagon these days, I am blown away by the beta-ness of it all. I still enjoy the melody but the lyrics make me wince and shake my head.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 04:52 PM
2

The wall of text immediately tells me you have oneitis. The second thing I will tell you is that if you are with a girl who frequently mentions being raped/abused, you should probably get out. It is going to cost you a lot of pain/agony when you could be dating all the other billions of girls out there. There are girls who are more mentally stable and healthy. Trust me, I've been with both types and the relief you get when you find a somewhat stable girl is glorious. Don't waste time on the nutc…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:47 PM
3

Look at it this way: Men give out as much commitment as necessary to get the sex they want. Women give out as much sex as necessary to get the commitment they want. The fact is she thinks she can keep you and give you less sex than in the beginning. Don't verbalize anything. Start texting her less, call her less often. Get involved with other hobbies, gym, friends. Joke about talking to other girls. Fuck with her. Apply the dread. If this fails (as in, she's not buying that you could actually fu…
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:41 PM
-5

You married the guy. Why do you want to try to upgrade him? You knew who you were marrying I presume. I think it's a mistake to think we can change our partners. If you don't like the way he does things, why marry? If you want him to be happy, don't criticize or offer suggestions. Just tell him he's the best man on earth and then suck his dick. Either you trust him with your life or you don't. He is flawed like all of us.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:24 PM
1

This. You speak with your actions. She will definitely understand kissing.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 03:20 PM
7

Agreed. I have daygamed plenty and it's fun and leads to numbers. The more numbers, the more chance of sex. I don't get why this is weird. I don't really care what random dudes like OP think of me while I'm doing it.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/16 06:29 AM
2

Without knowing very much about you or your situation, I would say to stay the course. It's something my Dad told me when I was in school and having all kinds of second thoughts. 4th year? Finish the degree if it's a 4 year degree and then get another degree later if you want, after you have some work experience. That's my 2 cents.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:10 AM
1

I would tend to agree with your premise. We are just creatures of the earth after all, aren't we? You see birds putting on crazy displays just for sex. I don't think we're much different. From an evolutionary perspective, what would be the point of self-actualization without sex anyway? Thought provoking post either way.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 06:04 AM
3

For a newbie it sounds like you are doing very well. Take a break. There's nothing wrong with pursuing other things like archery or bullfighting for a while instead. You will naturally return to women like a boomerang.
/r/askTRP10/08/16 05:59 AM
1

Figure out what cars she is interested in first. Find out their true value online before you go to the dealer. Be willing to walk away at any moment. Make sure it's obvious you are in no rush to buy and not even set on buying at all. They exploit ignorance and desperation.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 09:14 PM
1

IF you only get into LTR's with women you find extremely hot, it is much easier to maintain your attraction to her. If you are so-so upon entering, it will die for sure.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:20 PM
14

Do not slut-shame in front of her. You are going to make her hide her dirty past and any future shit. You need to act very accepting of slutty behavior so she doesn't feel reserved in sharing it with you. You want the truth don't you?
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:16 PM
1

Was going to write the same thing.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:14 PM
2

Did I miss something here? Does your ex have a golden vagina? Your mind is editing your ex for you. This is common. You are remembering all the great times and editing out the bad. You will eventually find that everyone is expendable. There are plenty of smart, beautiful women out there including in NYC. You just refuse to go shopping, instead idealizing your ex while she's out sucking some other guys cock. I know you think she's special and different but we've seen this a billion times. That's …
/r/askTRP09/08/16 05:12 PM
2

And? Don't you have any self respect? You want a girl that wants nothing to do with you? Do you have any idea how many women exist out there in the world? You say you live in NYC. You live in a fucking gold mine. Get diggin'.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:54 PM
2

Remember that she doesn't want to be with you. Don't waste your time moping about a girl who doesn't want you. Fuck that bitch.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 04:45 PM
3

Why are you trying to hide the fact that you want to fuck as many women as possible? Who cares what the sheep think. "that guy who uses tinder to get laid" is every guy that uses Tinder. Everyone knows this. Fuck them. Girls in your class? That just makes it easier to fuck them. You have got it made my friend.
/r/askTRP09/08/16 03:47 AM
2

I find more damage is done with porn than fapping.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 07:04 PM
2

Any hot bitches there? Dude, it's Manhattan. You're golden.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:50 PM
1

Women are looking for commitment/security/relationships the way we men are looking for sex. If they can't get it out of you, eventually they look at you the way you look at a girl that won't put out. They go back to the market and start shopping again. This is nature and the way we produce babies. Sucks but that's life.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:43 PM
1

Because men who pass laws think that passing feminist laws will get them laid. They are pussy whipped.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:40 PM
2

If he's a man and your friend, can't you just ask him what the deal is? Also, "she was driving"....da fuck?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:38 PM
1

Next that ho. Why bother when there are billions more to play with?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:37 PM
1

In my experience, most women like a little stubble. Clean shaven is one extreme and a beard is the other end. It depends on the shape of your face but you should experiment and see what kind of comments you get. You usually can't go wrong with a little stubble though.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:36 PM
2

I'll tell you from experience; they are all really "cool" in the beginning. You know nothing about this girl. She's hiding any psychopathic behavior right now. Don't change up your game. You treat her like any other prospect. Arrange logistics, meet up. Text on a screen doesn't get girls wet unless they've hooked up with you before.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:43 PM
2

You are bothered by her seeing someone else because you have no one else. This is oneitis. This story should have ended with "So, I've been seeing these 3 new girls and don't care about my old bitch anymore. The end". Go meet more girls. This is the only answer.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:38 PM
1

Even though this is somewhat good news, I'm a little worried about your reaction. It seems you care a bit too much about this one prospect. I'm happy you still have a chance with her but I would still get in touch with new prospects. Still, you should fuck with her a little. Msg her in a few hours something like, "Who is this?" and then carry on and set up a date if you like. Just don't be surprised if she falls off the face of the earth again. You need to develop abundance. She's just a silly g…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:31 PM
9

If you're intentionally treating a woman like crap in order to make her like you then you are still pedastalizing her and caring too much what she thinks. Women can smell this like a predator smells fear. Talk to tons of women and develop abundance mentality. Then you will not give a fuck and start naturally (sort of) treating her like crap.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 06:26 AM
1

Click and read the stuff on the right hand side of the page. It is for people who are new and provides a deeper understanding of male-female dynamics.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:32 AM
3

Have you read the sidebar?
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:08 AM
1

I mean girls know what guys want. If you contact her at all she knows you want to have sex with her. I doubt it matters very much what you say. Leave her alone a while and in the meantime cultivate new numbers. What's to stop you from chatting up several girls in the next week and getting them to put their numbers in your phone? Focus on that, not her. Maybe her ex-bf came back into her life or she decided she's a lesbian. Move on. Find a girl who can't wait to see you again.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 04:02 AM
1

Man the fact that she "wasn't sure" about the date anymore means something happened and she isn't interested anymore. You could hit her up in a couple weeks but it's probably a lost cause. Much better to hit up dozens of fresh prospects. I know it can be hard but you need to get new numbers in your phone every week. You will eventually get very distracted with new faces.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:48 AM
4

Not having kids also pretty much guarantees you'll have to spin plates your whole life because most women want children and will find a man who will impregnate them. The relationship often falls apart in the absence of children. They don't get off on just sex. They want make babies.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:41 AM
8

All I see on asktrp is questions regarding getting a specific girl to do a specific thing. No understanding of abundance mentality and not giving a fuck. They want easy answers the way people just want pills to fix health problems.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/16 03:35 AM
1

Dude she honestly sounds like a lot of drama. Fuck that noise. Bitches like that mess up my zen.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:32 AM
5

Beta writers creating content they hope will land them pussy. Pussies.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:30 AM
3

Why are you so caught up in this one chick who is not responding anymore? Next.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:28 AM
1

You still care too much what these girls think about you. Approach with the mentality of amusing yourself, not impressing anyone. It's a numbers game. Just keep approaching and DGAF.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 03:26 AM
1

Are you worried that everyone's going to find out that you asked out a girl? God forbid...
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:58 PM
5

Always now. No benefit in waiting. Fortune favors the bold, young sir.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:42 PM
4

Dump her. I've been through this wringer and it gets worse, never better. First it's your ex and then she's accusing you of wanting to fuck every girl you see. It really sucks dude. Abandon ship. You won't do it because you like her a lot and think it'll go away. It won't.
/r/askTRP03/08/16 04:35 PM
1

Profile pics were good. Didn't write out any info so maybe that area was lacking. Swiped right on everyone and got a lot of matches. The catch was almost none of them would respond. Tried a bunch of different openers (boring, funny, overtly sexual, etc). I read lots of RP guides on tinder but...I just found none of the bishes would respond.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:49 PM
2

Maybe it works great if you're under 30 or something but I've never had great luck with it. IRL approaches on the other hand...
/r/askTRP02/08/16 11:28 PM
9

You're just afraid of being rejected. You know deep down that you see plenty of girls all the time in public that you'd love to approach and talk to. The fear inside keeps you from doing it.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:15 PM
6

I think internet dating has made men timid and lazy. Try the old fashioned way of just talking to any hot girl you see. Malls, grocery stores, airports, bus stops, etc. You will have to conquer approach anxiety but it is not that bad. Once you get good at it, it's super easy to end up with 10 numbers in your phone at the end of every week. Play the numbers game my friend. The more new prospects in your phone every week, the greater your chances of sex. All the girls you talk to online are gettin…
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:10 PM
13

Tinder sucks. Online dating sucks. Those chicks are floating in a sea of dicks and even if you are Chad, you are just drowned in all the noise. Much better to daygame. Are you out on the streets or malls in your free time chatting up hot girls? Are you going out on weekends to bars/clubs and chatting up hot girls?
/r/askTRP02/08/16 10:01 PM
0

Anger phase. Keep at it and you will break through.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:52 PM
1

You don't really have a choice. People will argue with you and cut you off if you try to correct all of them.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:50 PM
1

Negative. A leopard doesn't change it's spots. While a human could change their dress, don't expect it. Never expect people to change. Keep nexting bitches til you find one that's your style. You're getting oneitis.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 09:48 PM
2

If you're in real good shape (and I mean buff, ripped) and not talking to several girls then you are simply not opening enough of them. You need to meet new prospects. Do it in real life too. Fuck the internet for dating.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 05:04 PM
2

I second this.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:54 PM
3

Girls like to have orbiters that shower her with praise and attention whenever they feel down. Obviously you should be chatting up plenty of other girls and leave this chick on the back burner a while.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:52 PM
2

Are you hitting the gym regularly, packing on muscle and getting a little sun once in a while? You need to be constantly pushing yourself. It is a struggle and the burden of all men. Some take the challenge, others drown in self pity. Choose.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:49 PM
1

You don't seem to understand. None of your efforts will keep her from cheating. You need to read more sidebar. AWALT. You gonna go install this spyapp every time she gets a new phone? You're only punishing yourself. Let go, they all cheat. It's not really your problem. You only have control over yourself. Plus, you say you are already cheating on her. So you are just punishing the both of you because of your own guilt and paranoia. Let go...in a couple years you will look back on this situation …
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:47 PM
5

Dude it's a shit test. Say, "Sure but all my real friends suck my knob."
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:37 PM
8

If you haven't had sex in 2 years, sure go ahead but use protection and don't sleep over there. If this is srs and not trolling, you really need to work on your SMV and getting out there and talking to the womenz.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:34 PM
2

Have you read any sidebar? You're going to murder the guy and torture her? I'm not sure if this is trolling or for real. How can you keep a girl from cheating? It seems you plan to do it through fear. You know she is just going to resent you and find you annoying and creepy and hide her cheating better. That's what will happen. Did you come here for help? Do you trust that maybe some of the guys here might know what they're talking about? How old are you?
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:32 PM
2

Ok first of all these girls have way too much control over your emotions. Settle down. They are just bitches. You are the man. Relax! Second, you do NOT know she would never cheat. Anyone is capable of cheating. Accept that she has already cheated; the glass is already broken. Your happiness and contentment should not hinge on the behavior of these irrational females. Let 'em do whatever the fuck they want. You are the man. Hit the gym, talk to more girls, eat healthy, pursue your mission. Quit …
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:19 PM
4

If you're looking to convey your displeasure it's much better to show it with actions than words. Get up and leave or tell her to leave. She'll get the point and be calling you all night trying to apologize.
/r/askTRP02/08/16 04:13 PM
1

When conversation stops or gets awkward and she's giving you that look just grab her and kiss her like you don't give a fuck.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 11:08 PM
5

Best bet is to already be a gym guy who gets attention from lots of women when she meets you. If you're starting a new lifestyle a year or 2 into the relationship, she'll just try to shame you out of it. In the end, she isn't a puppet and you can't really get her to do anything if she doesn't want to do it.
/r/askTRP01/08/16 06:23 PM
2

It's going to be funny/sad when women have to compete directly with droids. They will undoubtedly have to tone down the bitchiness to even have a shot.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 06:17 PM
2

I don't even consider attaining women that much of an accomplishment. Getting pussy is very easy compared to painting a masterpiece, directing a movie, or building an airplane. The more experience I get, the more I realize TRP starts at getting pussy and expands much, much further.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 06:14 PM
81

Couldn't agree with this post more. Sex is men's weak point and it's pathetic to watch how so many will compromise their integrity for scraps. What really gets us is when it's been a few weeks/months and we start getting desperate and thinking "Anything. Give me anything for tonight." That's when we're at our weakest.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 04:41 PM
3

"I doubt none of you could go past 21 days" and I've stopped reading.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/16 04:22 PM
1

Tell her, "At this rate, you're never getting a green card out of me".
/r/askTRP31/07/16 04:42 PM
14

No need to slow game the girls. You are still pedestalizing them by saying you're not "ready" to ask them out or whatever. They're just bitches and there's 4 billion more right around the corner. No one knows how much time they get on this planet. Hit on girls today. You won't find the answer to your problem with the maths. You will find it by trying and failing and trying and failing until you begin to succeed. That is where true confidence and more success is born.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/16 04:25 PM
9

I scan this wall of text and see the same girl's name over and over. It was classic oneitis, probably the most common relationship problem we see in any man.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:40 PM
27

Went looking to get married. That's where he done fucked up.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:25 PM
1

I think you're being a little too left-brain and literal about the whole thing. Better to just continually try to improve, rather than aim for 9. Also, I believe the word you meant to use was deduce.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:21 PM
16

It's because he's trying to prove something.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 04:17 PM
2

It's so try hard; like he's crying out to the world about how worthwhile he is. The shit really gets pathetic and confusing when you've been unplugged a while. So many men lead such pathetic lives.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 03:57 PM
3

I agree with everything except leaving people behind and telling them what to do. A true leader, or alpha male, will generally try to help people, not simply leave them behind, as you say. I also would never tell my friends what to do. And since when is it Beta to ask opinions or find out what your friends want to do? Is it being a big pussy to feel neutral and see what ideas some of your good bros have? I just enjoy their company and that's why we're friends. I don't feel the need to be in cont…
/r/TheRedPill30/07/16 03:52 PM
1

It's just the way I prefer to play. Sober. Hard mode. That way I don't have a day where I go "Shit, I'm all out of Phenibut, guess I'll go approach next week when I get some more in the mail." I'm also someone who's very prone to addiction and I really prefer not to play with new, unnecessary substances. You go ahead and have fun though.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/16 04:19 PM
4

Your story may be true and yourself well-intentioned but I'd rather learn to play on hard mode. I will give another real life example. When I first bought my car, I noticed it has a button to turn OFF traction control. Since I am a driving enthusiast and was using this car on the track, I decided I should learn the "hard" way all about the behavior of the car. From day 1 I never used that traction control nanny. Now, years later, it is almost an extension of my body and I'd have no idea what wou…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 04:21 PM
6

Sadly, most men posting relationship questions on the internet are not at all ready for something like the Red Pill. They don't want the Red Pill. They are looking for quick validation so they can make the easy choice they already know they are going to make. It takes a certain person who really trusts themselves and generally strives to be fully independent. It's sad to watch all the men headed for slaughter, but I can't force the horse to drink.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 04:15 PM
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This is a good list. I might add to avoid marijuana if you want to approach that day as well. It always makes me go into my shell. I think the #1 point in my success has always been outcome independence, which you mention. You are interacting with these women for fun; your own amusement. You are not TRYING to land her. You are also playing a sheer numbers game. Expect to be blown out 70+% of the time and you will have more fun and get more numbers. It's really just a fun game. The moment you han…
/r/TheRedPill28/07/16 03:47 PM
10

This is a very unpopular way of looking at life. We've all been trained (in the west anyway) to absolutely chase material wealth. Your proposed stance is a more eastern, buddhist stance and one that many people adopt later in life. I think a lot of the money humping and status chasing you see on this sub is due to it drawing a younger crowd. I look at status mongering and dollar chasing as compensation for feeling like a loser deep down. It's a way of seeking validation from society and I don't …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:27 PM
10

Congrats on being a doctor, now don't forget to teach your patients about diet over medicine.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/16 04:23 PM
7

I don't know why you're getting downvoted. These are the kind of hard-to-hear RP truths that got me interested in TRP in the first place. I think it's hard for many men to face the fact that a good chunk of the female population will cheat no matter who they are dating.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/16 09:55 PM
2

Lift brah
/r/askTRP24/07/16 06:23 PM
1

This is excellent. Too much money worshipping on this sub anyway. It's almost as bad as worshipping pussy. I enjoy your posts.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/16 05:02 PM
26

As a caveat, I have noticed that if I treat a woman like I REALLY don't care and she means nothing to me, she can get really down about it and stop chasing. There is some kind of balance. You have to give them a little here and there to keep going. Good post.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 09:42 PM
1

I think you're referring to a spirited discussion or debate whereas the OP is talking about more of a situation dealing with bullies and dickheads. Read some more sidebar and familiarize yourself with amused mastery. You will love it.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 09:32 PM
9

Exactly. One way makes you look sensitive and validation seeking while the other makes you look content with yourself.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 08:27 PM
6

What I posted here is purely my own opinion and is borne of my own experience in life. Any time I've had guys try to bully me or AMOG I just sarcastically agree with whatever they're saying and amplify. Generally, these types of people look for easy targets, people who get upset. If you simply don't give a shit and aren't a fun target for them, they move on. I don't try to change their mind or teach them a lesson. I have better things to do. I'm not trying to be more alpha. I'm trying to be happ…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 08:24 PM
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Treat them the same you would a shit test. Agree and amplify. They won't continue very long. The worst you can do is try to argue with them or prove them wrong. Remember AMUSED mastery.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 03:27 PM
3

Don't trust ANYONE? That's nonsense. I trust plenty of men. You're recoiling and you will learn to come out of your shell again in due time.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:54 PM
3

I love how these newbs always think that having sex with their female friends will "ruin" things. Meanwhile, my closest female "friends" are girls I have fucked. It's clear from the red side that these incels are rationalizing their lack of sex just like every person on the planet rationalizes bad decisions. Poor guys like this have no idea how much better it is on the other side. They have no idea the kind of stuff more masculine guys can get away with.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 02:49 PM
3

You have the self awareness to make good progress. You have to learn to forgive yourself. We've all made these silly mistakes. Just don't make mistakes you can't walk away from. Use a condom, don't live together, don't get married. You are young (19? 20?) I went into college as a virgin as well and ended up bedding plenty of girls and dating a gorgeous one. I'm now 31 and slaying it. I always get a kick out of seeing how much you young guys expect from yourselves so early. Give yourself time. Fo…
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 05:42 AM
4

Agreed and this is why I think women also make terrible voters. They value comfort/security over freedom/liberty.
/r/TheRedPill25/06/16 05:18 AM
257

It's funny because it's true. Western society is attempting to heavily feminize men but when you cling to traditional masculine behavior and display it prominently, women love you and people generally treat you better. It is one big shit test. Knowledge is power gentlemen.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 08:09 PM
3

Of course he's "married to a perfect 10"...Pics or it didn't happen.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 04:29 PM
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