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I’d break up with him on the spot and ban him from the delivery room. If living together, I’d either kick him out or just leave and stay with friends/family. I would not put his name on the birth certificate. This man is an abuser, plain and simple.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:06 AM
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Omg I thought I was the only one! That’s apparently not as weird as we thought. I physically cringe when someone tries to talk to me right when I wake up. Sometimes I get angry. I hate sleeping in bed with a man. My space is my space. They’re always trying to have gross, stinky morning sex. And they’re SO clingy when you wake up in the morning. I had one guy stand outside the bathroom when I got up to do my morning routine. He kept whining and wouldn’t leave. Finally, I had to yell out that I wa…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/03/21 11:00 AM
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Probably 13.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:12 PM
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Yaaaas sis. We hear how gorgeous we are constantly. The fact that these men think it’s somehow life altering for us is laughable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 11:12 PM
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Wow!!!! So much number 3. I asked my abusive ex who has 2 daughters what he would do/how he would feel if someone treated his daughters like he was treating me. He rage screamed at me to not talk about his f*ing kids. Why are men so predictable??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 04:28 PM
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Every time they talk about us, more women find us. I have no problem with their shit talk due to this. If we can help more and more women because of the “bad press,” it’s great. P.S. I have kids, so I think I must have had sex at some point. News to me that I’m a virgin incel. 😉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 10:53 AM
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I do too! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:22 AM
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Hey now. We single mothers don’t want them either!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 07:32 PM
47

How are those standards too high? They are simple things. Maybe I’m old at 35 but 99 percent of the men I’ve been on dates with have done all of this. Are the younger boys just not being raised right? I don’t get it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 11:39 AM
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Sis, I had to buy those exact same drapes off Amazon for the exact same reason...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 11:28 AM
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Rude and condescending. We don’t tolerate this type of behavior on this subreddit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/02/21 04:53 PM
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What I don’t get is all these men keep saying again and again how dating is so hard for them, they never get any matches, etc....Yet tell women that no man will want them if they don’t put out after x number of dates. The cognitive dissonance is strong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 02:01 PM
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Everyone needs to read this. It’s the truth. No single mother I know treats men like this, but every freaking single dad I’ve ever dated has treated me like this. No matter how gorgeous, amazing, sensational, loving, etc. you are, IT DOES NOT MATTER. My (ex) boyfriend who had 2 kids fully supported his ex wife during their marriage and afterwards, while expecting me to pay for our dates. He was the first man I had ever met who asked me to do that (after the courting phase, he lovebombed me befor…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/21 11:42 AM
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Great job, sister! Queen energy. I’ll be subscribing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:07 PM
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I’m not traditional either. (Been there, done that with marriage.) FDS supports all women. Marriage/kids isn’t an end goal for a lot of us. We just want women to make the healthiest choices and avoid harm if they choose to date and whatever they want to do with their lives. The problem is that Reddit is male dominated even on the supposedly female empowering subs. This is the one subreddit (besides the others run by FDS) where men aren’t allowed to go and they stamp their feet and cry. I do not …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 02:06 PM
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Men hate FDS because we spit the truth. We get banned off of all kinds of subreddits just by being members here. That kind of vitriol towards us means that we are scaring them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 12:57 PM
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Honestly, he is waving red flags left and right. He didn’t listen to you AT ALL even though he was sitting there smiling the entire time. That means he was completely zoned out. Then only commenting on your appearance and (even though you never agreed to it) trying to gaslight you into meeting Thursday by pretending you had a date set up? I’d run. He sounds like a stereotypical LVM or maybe even worse. Any guy I’ve met who pulled that type of shit turned out to be abusive. I wouldn’t even respon…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:19 AM
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I love flowers! I always wear flowers in my hair, beautiful dresses, sparkles, etc. I have always been complimented on my style. The people around you seem honestly really odd for criticizing the fact that you dress in a feminine manner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 09:01 AM
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Yeah this will get deleted unless you edit out the sub names. Quality rant though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:59 AM
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The feminist subs are run by men. Most of the posts are pandering to men. Many of our members have been banned from there when they support women. But yeah, gross logic, gross post. That’s why I don’t look anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/02/21 08:57 AM
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Sounds like a stereotypical LVM. Money doesn’t make a man high value. Good job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 09:40 PM
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Omg hahahah y’all crack me up. Love the imagery!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:02 PM
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Yup. High end places are definitely open. That guy is a complete LVM. Outrageous. So disrespectful taking a date to Burger King unless you’re like a 15 year old boy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 01:00 PM
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They always have to blame women for everything. That’s why I stopped caring what men think unless they are high value men and can see through all of the misogynist bullshit to understand what women are going through. I had a HVM recently tell me that he thinks women are just inherently better than men. Also, it really grinds my gears sometimes that they say that shit about us because it’s simply not true. I’ve seen pictures of many people off of here and they are all hot. I myself do modeling. W…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/02/21 12:52 PM
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I love her thoughts on this. And I know this is off topic but her hair is absolutely gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:51 PM
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Haha! My ex husband just bought me a new BMW last year for the same reason. He does it every other year. Generosity is non-negotiable!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 08:48 PM
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Men who ACTUALLY have money (whether low value or high value) freely and gladly spend that money on the woman they are dating, partially as an ego boost to their masculinity. When I hear these guys on Reddit whining about paying for dates and saying women are gold diggers, I automatically think they are broke. I’ve never dated a truly rich man who didn’t want to just throw money at me. I’ve had a beach house given to me, a corvette stingray, etc. Sorry that these whiners have no money. Sour grap…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:03 PM
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Exactly. We shouldn’t listen to a word they say. I wish we didn’t have to constantly post this stuff on here but I see the need for it. We need to fix the way a lot of women have been conditioned to think this misogyny is ok. The only way to do that is by calling it out and discussing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:24 AM
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I just died. Thanks for making me choke on my water. 😅😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:21 AM
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I’m actually glad men are putting their shit out like this. It helps me teach my daughter what to look out for. I’m actually thinking about making lesson plans for her that we can go over together. One of the lessons will be about “negging” and the insecurity behind why men do it. There are over 100,000 women on FDS as members. Some of you have daughters. Please, let’s all vow to teach our daughters pointedly how to have better self esteem than to give into this shit. I also have sons. Needless …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:19 AM
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This guy acts as if women haven’t been spoon fed these stupid fairy tales since birth showing us all we have to do is be pretty and sweet to find and keep a good man. I was beautiful, completely innocent, sweet, and wanted a traditional fairytale life when I was a teenager. The perfect woman as they would say. Where did it get me? Abused relentlessly by scrotes. Now, I’m still beautiful and nice. The only thing that’s changed is that I’m completely done with men’s shit. I couldn’t give a fuck ab…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/02/21 01:07 AM
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You should put an other section. Vetting a man and considering a serious relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 08:57 PM
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Sooooo...FDS is proved right again by men themselves. Shocker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:13 PM
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I don’t know the backstory here, but I’d just take the money and block him. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/21 06:11 PM
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Honestly, I’ve been FDS for most of my adulthood before I even found FDS. I can say for a fact that the principles work because that’s just how I naturally am and I’ve never had a hard time finding HVM. Just like all of us though, a LVM or two has slipped through my intense vetting process. You really have to focus on literally just NOT GIVING A SHIT about men unless they are improving your life. I honestly love being by myself and a guy has to fight to get into the beautiful world I have create…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 09:07 PM
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That’s complete and utter bullshit. I’ve had men literally wait over a year to even have the privilege of seeing me naked. The HVM guy I’m currently dated waited for like 6 months I believe. It was a long time. I’ve dated hot guys who were HVM (doctors, a famous actor, lawyer, models, etc) and they literally all waited for as long as I wanted and pursued me before and after we had sex. If a man truly wants you, he will wait until you are comfortable. Their dick doesn’t run their lives. They don’…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:33 PM
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The thing is, paying for some stuff is OK if you are in a committed relationship with a HVM. I wouldn’t do it, but to each their own. The problem is when it comes to women paying for dates with men who they haven’t properly vetted who are LVM in sheep’s clothing. That’s why we say to let the man put his money where is mouth is as an additional way to vet and weed through all the trash that’s out there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:17 PM
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They exist. Trust me. They’re hard to find, but they are out there. FDS principles are good for helping you more quickly throw away the LVM and weed through them to find those HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 03:15 PM
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I love seeing stuff like this! It takes a lot of mental and emotional work to de-condition yourself to the misogynistic, “pickme” beliefs that women are brainwashed into having. Another life saved partially by FDS! Congratulations on leveling up 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 02:14 PM
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I only date hot guys. In my experience, it’s the ugly ones who treat me worse because they are so insecure and want to bring me down to their level so that I won’t leave. The ones who are just as attractive as I am don’t have that same insecurity and treat me like a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/21 08:09 AM
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We don’t even get 50-50 orgasms. Screw this mess she’s spouting lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/21 08:39 PM
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Ding find ding! You are spot on. This is why I don’t even laugh at these “red pill women.” The ideology they are spouting is literally dangerous for most women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:05 PM
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You can’t break up if you were never together. “Poly” is code for man whore pretending like he’s woke but really just enjoying free pussy. I hope you have better self esteem in the future and know that you deserve more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 01:09 PM
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Oh my gosh! That is insane lol. Dying or not, I would have told him off.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 10:22 PM
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I have 3 kids. I have no problem dating. This guy is just lazy and entitled. He thinks women should fall all over themselves for the scraps he’s offering. I don’t date single dads for this very reason. They refuse to get childcare in order to see me and think I should be ok with it. Nope. Plenty of childless HVM who want to date me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 07:52 PM
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It has begun..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 03:03 PM
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Yes, it’s definitely a cut and paste to other women he’s trying to prey on then. I would block his number.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:33 PM
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I’m going to get Wendy’s this weekend due to that tweet! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:31 PM
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If he is a new person and you haven’t even met him yet, how does he know he feels so strongly about you? There are a lot of red flags here. That’s just one I picked out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 02:27 PM
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I don’t do any of this shit. I just show up and they fall over themselves trying to get my attention. She is way too thirsty lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 01:17 PM
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Dating is actually better in my 30s than in my 20s. Since I’m more stringent with my requirements and take no shit anymore, it’s easier to sift seamlessly through the LVM to find high value men. I also look hotter now than I did in my 20s and have much more money. 30s are great!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 12:26 AM
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Yay! Welcome! 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:23 PM
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No. Saying that is a “sweet gesture” feeds his delusions. Women are under no obligation to be polite and keep sweet when being stalked and harassed. In fact, we SHOULD NOT BE. Predators want weak prey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:09 PM
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Not blocking a predators number is signaling to him that he still has an opening and making his delusions stronger. She could block it after he said that and he might still show up because he’s deranged. Blocking this guy will give an even firmer indication to the police that she has no relationship with him and a restraining order is needed. I just got a restraining order under similar circumstances, so I know what I’m talking about.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:07 PM
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Call the police if he shows up. Get a restraining order. Living in fear of this man isn’t going to resolve the situation. He will just become more aggressive. I know from experience.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:39 PM
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Why haven’t you blocked him?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 07:21 PM
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It’s hilarious that even on the feminist subreddit you get banned for being pro female. Make it make sense 🤨 FDS is truly the only place women can talk about the real issues affecting us without being censored.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 01:09 PM
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Hilarious! Any press is good press. We have already made it into places like The Wall Street Journal too. Must terrify them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 11:25 AM
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Don’t ever lessen yourself to going 50/50. The reason I am actually saying that is because a man who TRULY adores and wants you will absolutely go to the ends of the earth to prove to you that he can provide for you. Even if he is poor, he will go without food to show you that you come first. I know this because of many, many life experiences with men. Only the men who don’t give a fuck about you will ever ask you to pay. It’s not about snagging the richest guy possible. It’s about the guy putti…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:11 AM
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Cringe. They always tell on themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/21 12:05 AM
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With my first child, I had a hard time trusting anyone. By the time the second one came around, I decided trusting a caregiver to help me out was better than the kids having a frantic, stressed out mommy. I tried the “care . com” site but all the people I found on there were very flaky even when fully vetted. My suggestion is if there is one available in your area, use a nanny placement service. My nanny agency always has backup care who can come in case my main nanny is sick. They fully vet the…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 06:10 PM
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My ex used to complain constantly that his ex wife “took his kids.” I said you make six figures a year and she doesn’t even have a job, why haven’t you just gone to court and fought for more custody. Crickets. They love a good sob story that doesn’t fit reality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:12 PM
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Oh my gosh. Lol. Guys basically say that shit to me all the time. I’m a single mom and absolutely thriving financially with my business, have a full time nanny to give me free time, and don’t find being a mother hard at all. They are absolutely stunned and can’t believe it. They ask me all sorts of ridiculous questions. I’m thriving because I don’t have a gigantic manbaby holding me back and making my life miserable right now, just my own actual babies giving me love and adoration.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 04:10 PM
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I didn’t even realize men didn’t pay for dates until semi-recently. I thought it was a given because no man had ever pulled some bullshit like this on me. I’d have been completely shocked, but I would have silently paid my portion, left and blocked him without any further conversation. Any attention is good to these type of men, even negative. What hurts is complete and utter indifference.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 03:39 PM
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Or, the woman actually just wants to be his friend, and men are so depraved all they can think of the woman as is a warm hole. Yet more proof that men will never be your friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:36 PM
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That’s EXACTLY what he was trying to do. Before we had sex when we were even discussing the possibility, I told him that penis size is an important thing for me. He said, “I don’t want to brag but mine is more than enough to please you!” So, with this in mind, I continued to become emotionally invested in this man until I felt it was time to do the deed. I pull his pants down and his dick is the size of my pinky fingernail. How the fuck would he have felt if he pulled down my pants and I had a p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:33 PM
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I rejected a guy because he had a micropenis (didn’t inform me until we were about to have sex and I saw it). He called me 3 months later (I didn’t block back in those days) and told me he’d had a penis enlargement surgery where they shove a rod into the penis and make it bigger or something. He said it “probably still wasn’t big enough” for me. Cool story, bro. Lol. Didn’t talk to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:23 PM
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I’ve found that with very few exceptions trying to communicate my needs and boundaries repeatedly to a man is pointless. If they don’t listen the first time, they simply will never listen no matter how many heartfelt “communication sessions” you have. Men will get away with what you let them get away with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 11:11 AM
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Yup. My ex husband is a model and he is also a depraved piece of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/02/21 01:43 PM
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I got sick reading those. Literally physically ill.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:29 PM
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Thanks for making me laugh so hard I spit out my tea this morning. Omg that’s hilarious. What a complete idiot. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 01:17 PM
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I have literally everything going for me but men on OLD treated me like this, and every other woman I have ever met. They have the illusion of having an abundance of choices on there when really they do not. So, even if you are a well educated, intriguing, gorgeous woman, they treat you like trash and try to get a free sex vending machine because most men are LVM. Then they cry because all they have is their hand at the end of the day. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/02/21 12:02 PM
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I outed a guy for trying to cheat with me on his girlfriend and everyone labeled me an insane liar even when I had screenshots of his texts. That’s why I don’t care to tell anyone if I discover something anymore. Not worth the risk unless it’s like my sister or very best friend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:26 PM
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Most men are liars but military men are the worst. 100 percent of the time when I’ve met a military guy, they have lovebombed me then lied and cheated on me. Most have anger issues. In my opinion, stay far far away from military guys no matter how nice they seem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 08:24 PM
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Wow. I need to read that! Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/02/21 04:50 PM
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Guys do this because it makes them look more respectable at work. I had a guy try to pull this crap on me once and I did the same thing she did, just way less politely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 05:33 PM
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I freaking love all of you 🤣 Whenever I am having a hard day, somebody’s comments on here always make me laugh.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/01/21 10:11 PM
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Read the handbook. Sex after only knowing a guy for a few weeks is a huge mistake. That wasn’t enough time to vet him. A lot of men come on strong at first to bed you and fade after they get what they want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 08:02 PM
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Sis, I hear ya. I also make 6 figures and I had a guy on online dating once upon a time say that all women use him for free meals so he wouldn’t be buying my dinner if I went out with him. I laughed so hard that I almost missed the block button in my hysterics but thankfully I got it. It must be great to have the delusions of a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/01/21 02:28 PM
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He wasn’t intimidated. He just didn’t care. Saying stuff like that is justifying his behavior in a way and trying to downplay the fact that he really just wasn’t that interested. A man who is interested will very obviously and very repeatedly both show and tell you. I’m glad you learned from your experience, sis. Keep leveling up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/01/21 06:22 PM
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Oh my! I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m not a fan of hers either. That’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:09 PM
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I just don’t understand why men on Reddit get so up in arms over what women on here want. They want certain types of women as evidenced over and over by the stuff they write, and you don’t see us caring or whining about it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:03 PM
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Oh my gosh. Your poor mom. That made me nauseated thinking about it. I feel for you. That must have been brutal growing up in that environment. I’m glad that you see the good in what we are doing here. Welcome 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/21 05:01 PM
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What LVM say to us is meaningless. Swat them away like the mosquitoes that they are. They are just trying to lower your self esteem so that you will feel unworthy and settle for their bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 03:17 PM
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This is actually only a view held by LVM (mostly ugly trolls online). I know a ton of very HVM (including friends, my brothers, guys I date, and my stepfather) who would gladly be with a single mother. My own stepdad married my mom when she had 3 kids, supported us all, they had 2 more kids, and still happily married in their 70s. And he’s a good looking, sweet guy. My brother (handsome and has a masters degree) married my sister in law when she had a 4 year old. They are still happily married a…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 02:13 PM
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Gross. As if any women, especially women with a kid, would want him. “On his way” to being financially high value that late in life? Yawn. Lol. I’m his age, have kids, and run a successful business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/21 12:32 PM
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An ex yelled at me once because I had to scratch my arm and stopped holding his hand briefly to do it. He raged at me in front of hundreds of people for “not wanting to hold his hand” (was at a concert), stormed off and left me there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 01:59 PM
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Gomez Addams was my ultimate crush growing up. He treats Morticia like a queen and is just the ultimate HVM. Their family was so sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 03:27 PM
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Lol. I’m 35. I live in a beautifully decorated, extremely clean, 5000+ sq ft home that I own. Drive a new BMW. Drink high quality craft beer and vintage wine out of my crystal glasses. No cats indoors, but about to get a new goldendoodle. I don’t play video games, prefer reading a new novel every night and not Netflix while I take a bath in my large, jetted tub. This is more like the 30 plus single man starter pack. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 03:41 PM
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You’re worth so much more than this. Do not even respond. Block his number immediately. There are high value men out there who will adore you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/01/21 02:17 PM
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I am parenting on my own and I actually enjoy it. No sharing custody, or switching weekends. Nobody telling me how to raise my kids, where they have to go to school, etc. If you are financially independent and have a good support system of friends, family, and caregivers/babysitters (I use a nanny agency), it’s actually a joy to solo parent.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 10:33 PM
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Wow! That’s an absolutely stunning ring.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/21 01:16 PM
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Oh my god! I have a guy pull that shit on me too. They are so predictable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 01:19 PM
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I’m a single mother raising my kids on my own. I make in the high six figures a year due to my thriving business, still look amazing, and my kids are well adjusted, well behaved, intelligent (both have skipped grades), and involved in their community. It’s time to take away the myth that single mothers are the devil. Placing the blame on the parent who stuck around and is raising the kids is utterly insane. Men neg women who are “prudes”, women who aren’t, single mothers, “spinsters” who have ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 09:38 AM
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I’m a single mother and men are all over me, just like every other woman. I’m curious as to why these guys lie to themselves and if they truly believe it. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/21 09:38 PM
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I’ve learned to never have sex or do anything sexual with a man if he is begging or whining and I do not want to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/20 12:52 PM
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That’s why I always carry mace! How frightening. That person sounds unhinged. I’m glad I’m not online dating right now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/20 11:14 AM
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Thank you for being a HVW and realizing that it was wrong. The guy I was dating was meeting up with his female “best friend” to tell her all about our problems and spill his guts, when he wasn’t telling me anything. I don’t know very many women who would put up with their partner doing that kind of crap. Emotional affairs hurt more than physical ones. It made me feel like I was just the fleshlight and she was the actual girlfriend. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 11:56 AM
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Yeah, I decided to stop dating a guy because he had a female “friend.” He hardly ever mentioned her until he told me one day that her mother was angry because she thought they were getting too close when she has a boyfriend. Record screech....huh? I then learned that they had been hanging out all the time, going on outings, and that he and she were very emotionally invested. I considered it fucked up, so I noped out. It turns out later he admitted it was an emotional affair. Before he admitted t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 07:53 AM
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I wouldn’t even look twice at this dude. Bald. Sickeningly skinny. All the audacity. I’m sure treating women like dogs to be rewarded and punished will go well for him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 11:04 AM
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So, who is going to pay for all these children that the men create and walk away from? The taxpayers, aka all of us. That’s what I don’t get about this argument. I’ve seen men make it before. We shouldn’t all be responsible for his inability to wear a condom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 07:01 PM
90

Right away. They will string you along for attention or free sex, though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 10:43 AM
30

Yup. Sometimes men have intentionally gotten drunk around me to try to force this exact same scenario almost. They want to try to force us to allow them to stay over. They know what they’re doing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/20 01:52 AM
7

A lot of us on here aren’t even single, or are single by choice. They project so much. Also, what’s up with the full head of hair comment? So random. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 07:46 PM
10

Men line up around the block to please you when you really don’t need them and show it. The guy who wrote this piece is so butthurt that all these guys want her, and she’s uninterested in anything more with him. It’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/20 06:48 PM
56

Yay!!!!! Congratulations on leveling up and starting a brand new, better life away from that LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:21 PM
322

Yes, we have discussed this before. I am actually a catalogue model. I need strategies for dating because, just like all women, a plethora of LVM exist to waste my time. Being beautiful doesn’t mean that you magically get a pass that excludes you from the antics of no value and low value men. This guy who wrote the article is clueless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/20 06:15 PM
19

Three c sections here. I support women who want to do it the natural way, but no way was I going to. I found a doctor willing to give me scheduled, elective c sections and I haven’t regretted it one bit. My vagina thanks me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/20 12:14 PM
48

Insufferable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/20 11:49 PM
13

My ex called me a gold digger even though I earned 4 times as much as him. Lol. LVM playbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/20 03:55 PM
19

I can relate to this a lot. I was dating a guy who literally just would NOT listen to my boundaries (don’t grope me without consent was the largest one). We’d have long, drawn out, heartfelt conversations about my boundaries, he’d claim he would never violate them again, and then he would go right back to doing the same damn thing. He would always make the excuse that he just wasn’t thinking at the time. At the end, he told me I have problems and need help and am the abuser, not him, because I w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/12/20 01:40 PM
41

This. So much this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/20 09:57 AM
34

Oh My God. This is so spot on that it is frightening. My ex constantly told me that I “broke him” and that I just thought he was the asshole when I asked him to not do simple things that hurt me. This triggered me so much. Pure emotional abuse and lack of accountability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 09:43 AM
161

Lol if some boy got my young daughter pregnant he definitely wouldn’t be allowed to come over and cuddle with her in bed as she’s having his abortion. This honestly made me laugh at how pathetic the mom is. This is beyond pickme.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/20 10:13 AM
31

Amazing! Definitely keepers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 10:08 AM
84

I’m glad you learned but that’s way too much effort to go through for a NVM. In the future I hope you just instantly block him out of your life and spare yourself the drama.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 05:12 PM
28

Whatever you do, stay away from him. My ex threatened my life and my children’s lives and ended up showing up at my house with a bulletproof vest on and a shotgun. Police swat team had to be called and I went through hell. You MUST take his threat seriously. No normal person says something like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 01:36 PM
48

You need to leave. NOW. Right now. It is your responsibility to keep your child safe. That was literally a threat on your baby’s life. No normal freaking human being says something like that. He isn’t even a low value man, he’s a psychopath. Do the right thing. I’m so scared for your baby.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/20 08:26 AM
20

No. They know exactly what they’re doing. He wasn’t flirting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:20 AM
39

Exactly. Don’t even reply after the dessert comment. Block and delete without another word next time. You won’t get through to him. He’s an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:19 AM
53

You got banned off of the feminist sub because you subscribe here? Lol. The irony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/20 01:15 PM
14

What a wonderful queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/20 12:32 PM
1

Lol. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/10/20 02:00 AM
33

Exactly. Abuse is never justified.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 07:57 PM
125

I wrote a post about this kind of topic the other day. Men change emotions and discard you at the drop of a hat. It’s heartbreaking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 01:42 PM
3

I meant, they only love women that provide some kind of use for them. If you outlive your usefulness or they find someone more useful to them, they instantly lose feelings for you, drop you, and move to the next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:47 AM
9

Wow! This is an absolutely amazing list. So many of those “relationship lists” just regurgitate the same things but this one was actually helpful to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/10/20 10:00 AM
1

I needed to see this today. You are a true queen and inspiration. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 12:19 PM
5

Are you dating my narcissistic, affluenza, controlling, abusive ex? The only thing that is going to stop him will be when he gets tired of the game or he is in jail. Mine has been pulling this bullshit for years. Just last weekend, he lured me outside by turning on my fire pit and then forced me to sit there frightened and listen to his insane rantings about how dumb I am to not be with him. He then tackled me when I tried to run before eventually letting me go. Restraining orders and the police…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 01:57 PM
6

What a piece of flaming shit. I have had so many men do this to me when I reject them. I should start posting their insane rants on Instagram too. If they start getting fired then maybe they’ll think twice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 03:22 PM
15

Lol I love the ladies on this sub. Y’all always crack me up. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 11:10 AM
187

Exactly. The women on this sub are SOOO supportive and kind to each other. That’s true bad bitch energy. Not knocking women down to please men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 01:19 PM
58

He didn’t spend three days rearranging his office on the weekend. That’s a lie. He probably has a wife he had to spend that time with. He’s also an emotional abuser since his response was “sorry that you’re overreacting.” Next time, block and delete.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 10:16 AM
13

Thank you for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:47 PM
9

I needed this. Thank you. The worst part is men constantly accuse ME of gaslighting when they are the ones doing exactly what you described. Making me go crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:05 PM
73

I love this man. ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 06:59 PM
39

Huh? That’s actually hilariously sad. I wolf you lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 08:25 PM
103

What the fuck. She’s model hot, seems sweet and articulate. Dump the clown and get with a real man. The guy I’m dating now is a millionaire and literally forces me to take his money and go on shopping sprees with his credit card. This dude is a clown 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 07:30 PM
6

I know. What a life lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 06:51 PM
15

I love Paris. She’s a queen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:17 PM
16

That article was disgusting but also proves why FDS is correct. Make him wait a long ass time to have sex. Vet, vet, vet. I would rather be alone forever than be someone’s human flesh light.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/09/20 04:04 PM
43

I constantly tell men I’m not easily impressed. They think I should be impressed that they drove 2 hours to see me? Lol. It happens all the time, why would that impress me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 05:58 PM
44

Hahah. I wrote that at like 3 am when I woke up to get some water so I was kind of bleary eyed. It does fit though!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 11:45 AM
166

I only had c-sections and you still have to wait the 5 year period because you are still bleeding, which can cause an infection in the uterus if you insert something up there. This guy is trash. Even asking her to give him head every day after she will just have pushed an entire human out and is exhausted? 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 07:29 AM
4

Maybe he’s gay and doesn’t realize it?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 02:26 PM
14

Lol. I’ve never been, but definitely not being pushed off a cliff by a dude on a first date. That’s a sign of bad things to come. He also told me his friends were coming. Ask me out on a real date or go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:58 PM
10

Literally, he wanted me to go ziplining as a first date. Where you strap yourself onto a harness with a wire and just get pushed off some height to sail to the next destination. South Park had a hilarious episode about how boring it is. No way I’m messing up my hair, outfit, and being bored to death and potentially die on a first date to some scrote. It was funny how he tried to save face though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:52 PM
17

I’d like to do that. Did you do it through a website?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:01 PM
41

This isn’t a compliment. This is a low key neg and a power play. You’re supposed to prove yourself to him. Men on OLD are so dumb. I just told one I’m not interested in a zip lining date and then he said due to hurt ego: “we aren’t compatible anyway. I am into music and fighting.” I’m literally a black belt in taekwando and can kick his ass. I also play 3 instruments, which are both facts on my profile. I hate these dumbass power moves. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 05:11 PM
13

It’s the male ego. They can’t handle rejection. So I don’t even say anything, I just ghost them and delete their number. It’s not worth being called curse words and having my day disrupted. I suggest all you queens do the same. Even a seemingly nice guy can change into a demon with a shattered ego if you reject him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:36 AM
30

Men think it’s “mean and heartless” that I am so ruthless with boundaries and move on so quickly if a guy isn’t giving me what I want. However, it’s just accepted and expected that men do this. Only caring about my own happiness is the best personal improvement I’ve ever done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:33 AM
18

It’s funny how huge the male ego is. Absolutely hysterical.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:25 AM
9

I mean I’m fine if low value men want to fuck sex dolls and take themselves out of the gene pool. In fact, I encourage it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:18 AM
68

So you are 23 years old and he can’t stay hard while a beautiful woman is giving him oral sex? Throw the whole man away. It’s not normal for a guy his age. Trust me, I’ve been there, done that. He should be working on his issue, not you trying to fix him. And yes, if it makes you feel like shit then it’s an issue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 10:08 AM
16

So she won’t leave them because they aren’t as good as her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 05:50 PM
7

Wait, so there is no official child support and he’s only paying $300/month? Sounds like he got off easy. This pickmeisha is in for a rude awakening. I have kids and get thousands a month in child support. They both (the guy and her) sound like awful people to be honest. Maybe they deserve each other.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 02:47 PM
8

Yes mine paid for everything. And I mean that, everything. My money was mine and his money was mine. And he was fine with it. I don’t get with cheap, poor men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 12:46 PM
37

And why does the yard need to be swept? And what does filling the water filter every day mean? Why does she need to bathe a grown man? This reads like someone who expects a 10/10 supermodel robot to live in an 18th century cabin in the woods.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:28 PM
77

Wait...so he wants a woman that sleeps from 1:30 am to 2:30 am only every night. I mean besides the dumpster fire of the rest of it, it sounds like he legit wants a robot that only takes an hour to charge.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:15 PM
11

Yeah, but he could afford to buy a beautiful young playboy model who was only with him for his money, so he did. That was my point. Only broke dudes complain. I’d never be with a rich guy just because he’s rich. However, that’s a requirement for being with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 09:24 PM
77

Have you ever noticed that no rich guy with actual money says he doesn’t want gold diggers. In contrast, I’ve had dudes with money tell me on a first date I’d make a good trophy wife. (Eye roll). It’s only these broke losers who can’t afford it that say this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:43 PM
24

I’m so glad, Queen! We have so many posts on here saying how the FDS community changed their life for the better, and they always make me smile! I will be introducing it to my daughter as soon as she is old enough to even think about dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:28 PM
44

I’ve been married, and engaged multiple times. I broke off all of them. I also love sex. I used to have a stripper pole in my basement that I happily looked at myself in the mirror twirling around on in my lingerie. (About to get a new one.) Red pill women call their masters (oops husbands/boyfriends) their captain. Yeah, no. A man better be calling me Goddess, Queen of Amazingness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 11:04 AM
47

Here’s the deal. I don’t need strategies to try to find men to buy me things or take me on trips or out on a date. (I haven’t heard anybody on here say that they do.) I’ve had men fly 3 or 4 hours each way to take me out on an hour date, and do it again and again to try to win me over. I’ve had a man present me with a corvette stingray as a present just for the possibility I’ll become his girlfriend. I’ve had men wait a year to have sex with me. I even wrote a comment that triggered men about ho…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:53 AM
26

I’m very happy for you. You didn’t deserve that treatment. Hopefully in the future you go forward with the knowledge that you’re too good for that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 08:37 PM
18

Thank goodness you found us. Please as others have said, read the handbook. We have ALL made dumb mistakes with low value men before leveling up. Also, a man with any money is meaningless if he isn’t spending it on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 07:35 PM
3

You have to be patient because you even with vetting, most men are just low value. They are out there though because I’ve found multiple really high value men. And I’m glad you learned from the mistake of sleeping with a man too soon. They have to earn that privilege.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 01:00 PM
50

I watched the entire thing. This is definitely a typical OLD date unfortunately. I have kids, and I disclose that I do on my profile. One guy showed up and failed to disclose that he had any kids, and that he actually had 4 by 4 different baby mamas...😒 Then he said he thought I’d be ok with it since I have kids. No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 10:17 AM
6

I actually am a catalogue model with a six figure business I own, and I have gotten relentlessly treated like shit by men before I leveled up. Queen, have ALL the standards. Have every single one and stand by them and give the finger to anyone who says you don’t deserve to have them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:51 PM
6

I just assume the man is a complete idiot if he rejects me, and I don’t have time for stupid people in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:47 PM
6

I totally do this too! I have a block list of Idiot 1, Shithead 2, etc haha. I have no idea who any of them even are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:19 PM
73

Marilyn always coming with the truth bombs. This is why I married a millionaire. I wasn’t about to have to struggle through life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 12:45 PM
6

Sweetie, we are spirit animals. I am completely baffled and dying laughing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 01:44 AM
6

I was told I look exactly like the woman from The Love Witch. I watched the trailer on YouTube and I do! I need to watch it. Looks hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:34 PM
10

You ARE a love witch, you bad girl you. 😋
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 09:32 PM
23

Queen, he would have tied bricks to me and thrown me into a lake to see if I floated witch-style. Dude was bonkers. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 06:59 PM
29

Wow. Don’t even respond. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 02:22 PM
2

Yay!!!!! I’m so glad our group helped you on your journey to healing and become the queen that you are. Happy divorce! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 01:05 PM
42

Exactly. That’s why I don’t trust a guy when he says he has female best friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:02 PM
19

That’s horrifying! Stay safe and thankfully you didn’t get hurt. I’m glad that piece of garbage is out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:43 PM
71

Most of them never grow mentally past that age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:38 PM
325

I’ve often gone from “the most gorgeous woman ever” to “ugly bitch” at the speed of light it’s the LVM way!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 11:03 AM
361

Using redpill/incel terminology with the “Becky” comment. Nobody I know talks like that in real life. Bullet dodged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 10:42 AM
11

We are here to support you in your journey to accepting and becoming the queen that you already are! Welcome 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 02:14 AM
5

When my ex abuser was in my face threatening me and had just picked me up by my throat, I took my palm and pushed his face away in self defense. He acted like I was the biggest abuser in existence and looked at me and said, “I should knock you out for that.” Men who say that they want to punch a woman who slap them are degenerates and just want power through violence. Even when I was literally being abused, I couldn’t bring it in my heart to ACTUALLY hit him back, and I am only 5’2 110 pounds wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 10:06 AM
82

Right?!!! I have a 10 year old daughter and like hell would I let her marry an old man 6 years from now. That’s insane.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 12:38 PM
42

He is uninterested. It’s been too long. No man who actually wants a woman would not even shoot a short text. All this bullshit about “he is really busy” is just that, bullshit. My boyfriends and my ex’s were rich businessmen, doctors, etc who worked constantly and they ALL had time during the day to actively seek me out to talk to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:54 AM
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When I was pregnant, I had many, many men hit on me. Well, I always do, but it was disconcerting since I was so visibly pregnant. One disgusting LVM (total stranger) in a store told me he would like me to spread my legs and deliver the baby right there so he could watch.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:49 AM
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Lol, yes his attraction to her was sexual. Shocker: men are attracted to pregnant women. Also, he missed the point of the movie. It showed that the married man was a douche and an eternal teenager, which even a teenage girl came to see and think was disgusting. Hence the end of the movie when she writes the lovely letter to Jennifer Garner and gives her the baby still.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 09:47 AM
5

Prove that I’m real on OLD sites. I don’t need to prove or justify my existence to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/09/20 01:02 AM
13

Her statement that she doesn’t want to take care of his kids is the indicator she doesn’t want to marry him. You can’t marry someone and not have that be your responsibility. I said nothing about him being justified in having anything to do with her money. Just wanted to give a friendly reminder that maybe she wants to be a forever girlfriend without marriage and that’s ok. It’s only not ok when a woman wants to be married and the guy is stringing her along pretending like it will happen.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 09:57 PM
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Some of us don’t want to be married again. She likes the arrangement because she has 2 kids and likes having her own home. FDS is about each women doing what is right for HER, not about forcing marriage on those of us that don’t want it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 08:02 PM
11

Exactly. A woman, any woman, no matter who she is or what she looks like, can get laid, and extremely easily. I have no clue how the mythology that we are female incels even got started. I personally have had more sex than they can even fathom, unless they are counting their palms as partners. Then they’ve beaten me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:26 PM
7

They’re just projecting. Any female can get laid at literally a snap of her fingers if that’s all she wanted. Whereas that’s what they crave and can’t get. Sorry boys, there’s no such thing as a femcel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 02:22 PM
19

Exactly! That’s partially why this sub is so empowering! When women stand together and support each other, we are a force to be reckoned with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 12:15 PM
13

Lol a comment I made was posted on the fds red pill! I’ve made it girls! 😂🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/09/20 10:12 AM
11

Men are notoriously hardheaded about the word no. It coincides with lack of respect for women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 07:20 PM
31

Exactly what I was going to say. He’s making up an elaborate lie for the fact that he probably is actually not legally allowed to drive. I call bullshit on his story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:41 PM
148

That for me (him viewing her son like that) would be the “get the fuck out of my house and never contact me again” dealbreaker moment. Your babies are worth more than any man. But goddamn, he views her son like that AND tried to cut the implant out of her arm? I’m worried he’s going to be one of those men who murders both her and her kid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:54 PM
10

He could barely make it on his own? Next. I don’t want to be with a loser who can’t even provide for himself, let alone a family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 11:13 AM
35

Exactly. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:43 AM
228

This totally happened in real life. 🙄 Their role plays are a horrifying peek into their tiny pea brains, though. One I would rather not see.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 12:18 AM
15

Yes queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 09:01 PM
15

If he wanted to be with you, he would. Men are simple. He didn’t want you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/20 03:03 PM
33

Yup. I graduated valedictorian from my high school, graduated with 2 degrees then a masters from college with a 4.0, and I was catalogue modeling during that same time. It didn’t save me from being used and abused by LVM. The only thing that has saved me has been realizing I’m a queen and not putting up with bullshit anymore. LVM will be LVM no matter what you bring to the table!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 03:12 PM
18

They ALWAYS come back. I have received multiple texts like this from different men in the past couple of weeks. I wish I had learned about the importance blocking before now, but my block list is slowly but surely growing!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:43 AM
23

How are these non fds standards? These are mostly pretty standard for the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:34 AM
5

Exactly. Him being rich doesn’t matter if he isn’t spending it on you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:09 AM
7

If a man really wants you, especially if he’s that rich, he will pay for everything. My long term relationships (husband, fiancé) paid for everything, rent, utilities, food, etc. I would have laughed them out of my life if they expected me to. I just don’t understand why any woman would put up with this nonsense behavior. He clearly doesn’t love or respect her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:08 AM
5

Didn’t you know? Men are the logical sex! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:45 AM
3

She’s having sex with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 09:44 AM
7

He’s not even hot enough to be that big of a douche. His picture is in black and white to hide the giant scars on his face (still clearly visible) because he knows it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:27 AM
7

We are here to support you on your journey of becoming the queen that you are!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:56 AM
11

I have! I sometimes give them to my ex husband who is a doctor to donate to the nursing homes he goes to, or just ask friends if they want them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:44 PM
52

I guess my secret is I just truly don’t care about men until they’ve proven their worth over a very long period of time. They can fuck off if they aren’t up to the challenge. I just care about myself (other than my family and friends of course). Drives them crazy to see a woman who is so confident and secure in herself that she doesn’t need them, doesn’t care about having a relationship unless it benefits her, and won’t give them the time of day if that act up. They have to win me over and will …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 06:43 PM
7

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:53 PM
4

The sad thing is that they are completely serious. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 02:48 PM
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I get so many flowers from my guy rotation that my house starts looking like a funeral parlor each week and I have to throw them out. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 01:30 PM
9

Great tip! I made my ex husband do that. When I eventually discovered he was low value in other ways (aka a cheater), at least I had gotten that out of the deal.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 04:59 PM
15

Rumor is he’s gay and using beards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:08 AM
53

I love makeup, jewelry, nail polish, dresses, and heels. I don’t care if a million LVM would “prefer” I don’t wear any of those things. You are spot on. They are just insecure and know they can’t ascend to our level. When I was younger, I would get so offended when a guy asked me to not wear makeup or to put on sweats when I was clearly comfortable in my lipgloss and summer dress. I rock whatever I want and strut now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 08:30 PM
18

Yup. My ex husband was a doctor and this is spot on. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 06:53 PM
9

The most important thing is that he seems like a pretty HVM. Sarah Michelle Gellar is THE vampire slayer though, so I wouldn’t expect her to deal with anything less 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 02:59 PM
19

This! Thank you. I was trying to find a way to put this in words. I didn’t want to be called hypocrite for not wanting to deal with men who are dating other when when I am, but this sums up why I don’t want to perfectly!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 12:13 PM
30

This is spot on. I’ve been guilty of this in the past. A man should know how to treat you without you mollycoddling him and telling him what to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 09:16 AM
5

Lmao. I just laughed so hard my sparkling water came out my nose. Thanks. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 01:22 AM
44

Oh crap. I didn’t even see the second screenshot! This dude is psychotic. I guarantee you he wasn’t even actually going to deploy anyway and was just messing with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 11:33 PM
121

Military men aren’t worth getting involved with. Every single one of them I’ve dated has turned psychotic and abusive. It’s a common trend.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:53 PM
143

Men always think they are right even if they are 100 percent wrong. You’re right, there is literally no benefit to arguing with them. They never listen. I would rather take a long bath and paint my nails.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 09:19 PM
8

Lmao. I’m 35 and scrotes are lined up around the block. Another lie, as usual, to try to make women settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 08:31 PM
37

I hold out because I’m not doing the most intimate thing in the world with a man who sees me as nothing and sex as just something he’s doing to me. They can die mad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/08/20 10:48 AM
10

My ex was a millionaire and a LVM. I only date rich men, but not because they are by default high value. Most men want their partner to make less than them. All you should worry about is his behavior and how he treats you. Act like his money doesn’t mean shit to you and it will make him even more attracted to you as well.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 10:15 PM
39

I have an 8 year old and a 2 year old son. If I ever find them talking to girls like that, every single privilege they have will be revoked especially computer and phone privileges. This is absolutely disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 08:45 PM
25

Omg that’s so true! The polite clean cut ones are from my experience more likely to be closet fuckboys and liars. They use their clean cut look to trick women into thinking they’re honest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 07:55 PM
37

Cuddling with a stranger I have no emotional connection or future with. Sounds like a great way to beat loneliness and feel wonderful at the same time!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:43 PM
7

This is the best advice! And totally do-able! Get it, sis! Live your life. Also: Jammies is the best! 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:49 AM
10

End this now. Every other woman has given you solid advice. We have been there, done that, and don’t have a pony in this race. You’ll regret it if you don’t. He’s abusive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:43 AM
4

I watched it 3 times lollll
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:39 AM
2

Thank you for sharing this. I will be bookmarking! Queen song!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 01:33 AM
6

Not liking to eat pussy is automatic next from me. I don’t even care about all the other red flags, although yes there seem to be many.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 04:15 PM
7

Thank for the advice!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 12:24 PM
20

Huh?.... This is just so depraved I can’t wrap my head around the fact that a man thought this up. Are there no depths they won’t sink to?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:23 AM
121

This is excellent advice! I do the same thing. If a man becomes a raving lunatic if I haven’t responded to his text in several hours or a day, good riddance. Everyone should do this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:18 AM
28

Lmao I’d hate to see my inbox on OLD. I haven’t signed in for weeks. Probably a lot of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 11:16 AM
7

You all sound awesome!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 02:04 AM
36

I am so sad for you reading this. This sounds like my ex who had BPD. He was an abusive narcissist that made everything about him. Even after I was raped, he used it as an excuse to yell at me and make it about how upset HE was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:51 AM
31

God this has to be a joke. Men are in constant need of emotional support and that’s why they drain the women around them. Most men I know are pure drama queens, Maybe men should work on going to therapy, or actually making long term friends with other men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 01:44 AM
23

Older men aren’t any better about wanting to settle down. They will string you along because you are young and they think they can manipulate you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 01:02 PM
46

God she’s beautiful. What a queen!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 12:56 PM
100

Haha! I’m 35 and feel the same way. I have actually been living that dream for awhile now, and it is the freaking best! I get company, sex, money, whatever I want, and then they have to just go away and let me have my pumpkin spice scented, immaculately decorated, no gross man underwear on the floor home. They are actually begging me to commit and move in, etc, because like everyone else said men need us way more than we need them.💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/20 10:29 AM
31

Queen, those of us who have been married a lot of the time feel the exact same way. I was also married, am very financially well off, and actually enjoy raising my kids on my own. I have no desire to be legally entangled to another man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/20 12:03 PM
6

role playing online and making up stories sure must be fun for LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:39 AM
33

Men constantly ask me if I’m real on OLD. I don’t respond to that question. I just block them. They are just looking to try to control you and get you to PROVE your existence to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:38 AM
20

Me! Me! 😆 yeah it’s super adorable and sounds heavenly
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/08/20 10:35 AM
19

Coming from experience, don’t get into a relationship with a guy who has previous kids if you can help it. Here is why: 1. Men are horrible at managing dating and kids. Be prepared for him to tell you that he can only see you at 5 pm on Wednesday once every other week. I’m serious.; 2. They usually either aren’t over their baby mama or they have serious hang ups due to the fact that she left him.; 3. You will always be second place to the other kids’ mom, even when or if you have a kid with the …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 08:29 PM
16

He’s cross eyed and looks like he has messed up teeth. He could use some makeup.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:54 PM
159

What a lying loser. All of the ladies his age I know are fantastic looking. They just won’t put up with his ass, so he is looking for young women to prey on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 02:46 PM
31

Yes queen! If I could only tell you how many times men have sent me this exact message, almost word for word! One just did last week. It is like it comes out of the LVM handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 07:25 PM
11

He was calling her ugly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/08/20 01:14 AM
2

I refused to give my baby his dad‘s last name. He can die mad. IDGAF! Especially when unwed, never give a baby anything but your last name.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 10:31 PM
110

Wow! Why do men always beg to go on a date with us, beg for our forgiveness after we reject them due to their idiocy, then have the utter audacity to call us ugly? It’s actually amazing. My 7 year old is more mature than a LVM. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:40 PM
7

Insanely rude for him to do so, especially after 3 years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:17 PM
10

I know. Mods: I really think some of these recent posts are too pickme for this sub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:14 PM
11

Men aren’t your friends. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 08:13 PM
9

You aren’t older than us. I’m a grandma at 35 then. 🤣 The guy you described had red flags all over the place. A complete low value man. You just need to use a better “picker” and not entertain idiots like that. I completely cut off men who even give off one red flag. There are always hundreds more lined up to prove their worth. Level up, know your worth, and cut them off if they act like trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:29 PM
78

He’s so fat and disgusting looking, and he tries to “accidentally” rape her butthole. What is even going on here? The bar really is in hell.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/20 05:24 PM
3

No
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 08:38 PM
6

Just last night, I had a previous guy “friend” who I thought I was close to hit me up via text...after 4 years of him ghosting me. Then, he had the audacity to call me rude when I told him to delete my number. Men aren’t our friends. That’s why good girlfriends are so important!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 02:14 PM
16

Men the overwhelming majority of the time cannot be real friends to women. This sub proves that over and over again. How could they? The majority can’t even be respectful partners.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/08/20 11:56 AM
18

I feel the same way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/20 08:02 PM
74

Congratulations on beating cancer! You look beautiful and fabulous. These LVM on reddit just resort to grade school “tee hee you just must be UGLY!” due to the fact that they are so simpleminded they think that is the worst insult ever for a woman. I do catalogue modeling, and have been called ugly multiple time by dudes on here who haven’t ever even seen what I look like. 😆
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 05:18 PM
14

I’m doing it for my ancestors before me and also for my daughter. No more!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 03:35 PM
11

He was just negging you to try to get you to lower your standards and be a pickme. He knew you weren’t a hooker.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/08/20 07:42 AM
5

This is cute. I make bank on my own and am not about to go out with a dude and waste my precious time if he isn’t paying. Time is money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/08/20 11:11 AM
9

Exactly. He got way too butthurt and defensive when she asked him about his living situation. Something shady there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/08/20 03:10 PM
5

I know! I’m reading all these comments and they don’t ring true for me. I have had several men willingly and gladly pay all my bills when we were dating seriously. If they’d expected anything, I would have laughed in their face. It is not just a fantasy! Maybe I’m just a bitch 😂 P.S. I don’t advocate being finally dependent on a man. I make 6 figures. I just like being spoiled and expect it if they want to be with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/08/20 09:17 PM
16

I have 3 kids and have no problem having endless (really hot/rich) guys trying to beat down my door. A lot have turned out to be very high value, but I have no desire to ever live with or marry a man again so I’m just having fun dating. Trust me, you’ll be GREAT!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:04 PM
13

Worst dumpster fire app ever. I have never met one normal guy off of there
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 07:02 PM
80

That made me so sad to read, but also I’m glad that I’m not the only one in a way. I am an amazing woman and kept getting treated like shit by men who were nowhere near my level. I’ve had men beat the shit out of me, cheat on me, emotionally abuse me. I learned that I don’t really want a relationship due to all the dumpster fires out there (unless that unicorn guy comes along), so now I just use men for what I can get out of them. Whether it’s some company then leave my presence, or money. I don…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 01:11 PM
4

Don’t make us date men with children. I’m a single mom who makes a great living, beautiful, and has a live in nanny to help. I refuse to date single dads for the same reason you dislike them. In the majority of cases, their wife/baby mama left them for a legitimate reason. Or, they left the mother of their child out of selfishness. Also, they fail at multitasking and ask to only see you every other weekend when they don’t have kids, no thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/20 10:17 PM
25

Self deprecate? The fact he went out of his way to spell defecate because he thought that is what the word is made me laugh the most.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 06:40 AM
7

My ex said the SAME THING when I was pregnant with my now 2 year old. He then also told me it was just said in anger but later in the pregnancy said it again and I ghosted him. You need to run, sis. He is not married to you so whatever you do DO NOT put his name on the birth certificate. DO NOT give the baby his last name. Doing this will ensure that he actually has to fight tooth and nail for any rights at all, because he won’t have any claim whatsoever. Truth be told, he is trying to emotional…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 12:03 PM
80

Exactly. My ex husband cheated. Thankfully, he was also a millionaire. I went into marriage knowing most men are very self interested, so I refused to marry or date anyone who didn’t have money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 03:27 PM
226

When a man asks me to hang out on a dating app, I say that I don’t have much time to make new friends as I am busy dating. He usually gets the hint.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 03:55 PM
11

I have men lined up around the block, as most of us do. Most of them just aren’t worth my time. Also, I have kids. I’m pretty sure I didn’t have them through immaculate conception.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/07/20 01:23 PM
123

I don’t know. But I’m a very girly girl. I love to wear dresses, makeup, long hair, glitter. I dance ballet, paint pottery, etc. I’ve had so many guys I’ve dated tell me that they want to see me in sweat pants looking frumpy. I think it’s because they’re intimidated by my femininity.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 08:13 PM
6

I applied over a week ago. I don’t understand how I wouldn’t be considered female since I have been here since almost the inception of the subreddit lol. I guess I can sign up for Instagram but I’m not going to post a bunch of pictures on there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/07/20 05:30 PM
41

I used to spend time crying, anxious, upset due to a NVM. Now I spend my time taking long luxurious baths, laughing with friends, and at ease. They really do suck your soul, but when you are in the black hole you don’t realize it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 10:16 AM
25

This made me remember that story of Jim Carrey and Cathriona White. He is wealthy and I guess attractive (not my cup of tea) but insanely low value. Gave her stds and gaslighted her. She killed herself partly due to this. Yeah, there is no benefit for a woman to just “give it up” to a man like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:56 AM
219

I block and delete instantly if a guy suggests I meet up that day with no notice. I just find it very low value. They don’t value your time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 09:50 AM
6

Many successful men have waited years to even have the privilege of going on a date with me, much less have sex with me. Just because LVM think it isn’t possible doesn’t mean it isn’t going on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:12 PM
18

I’m a catalogue model. 👍🤗
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 03:30 PM
49

He’s not even hot. What’s with the fucking ego on this dude?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:44 PM
19

I block and delete left and right. Frankly I don’t have time for any man’s shit. And this behavior is shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:42 PM
42

They ALWAYS ask for more pictures! I have like 20 pictures up on my profile and it never ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:34 PM
6

Lol. They’re kids being kids. My daughter rides my son like a pony.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/20 12:31 PM
50

I am solo mothering my kids and it is glorious. I paid an after birth doula to be my night nanny so I could get rest. Way more reliable than thinking a man will help you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/20 12:49 PM
2

I love it! This makes me really happy. Reddit is so misogynist that literally the only reason I come on here is to come to FDS now, but I still have to see all the gross stuff on the front page sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 06:13 PM
11

When I got here, it was still in the hundreds. It has positively exploded and I am so glad to see all our new sisters leveling up! Welcome! 🎉
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/06/20 01:41 PM
12

Precisely. Every man IS trying to sleep with us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 04:06 PM
25

I hope she gets picked! 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 02:40 PM
9

Disgusting. What a pig. Honestly though I’m scared for her. He sounds abusive and like he will end up hitting her. My abusive ex used to talk to me like that before he invaded my home with a shotgun and tried to kill me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:47 PM
10

I just chuckled. Good job 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 12:31 PM
16

I had one show up who looked pretty hot in his pictures, but he turned out to be fat, balding and OLD. He had hatfished, fatfished, and agefished me all at the same time. Some of these guys are miraculous at taking selfies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 09:53 PM
38

Girl, I’m 34 and I commiserate so much. Ugly, gross, low effort guys just want to “hook up.” They have all the audacity in the world. The few I have an ok conversation with on OLD turn out to catfish me so hard and look old and busted. I honestly have been getting headaches wondering if I am even straight (slight sarcasm) because most of them are just downright gross to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 08:44 PM
147

I keep trying to explain this to them, but gave up. We would ALL be paying for everyone else’s kids. So a man can choose to cum wherever he wants and spread the responsibility out among all of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:10 PM
17

All I’d be able to think about as I looked at him is “shit breath.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 03:05 PM
63

I love these HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:06 PM
22

I legit laughed out loud when I read that he blamed the big city. What is this, some LVM version of the Beverly Hillbillies? 🎵 “Let me tell ya a story ‘bout a low val man, a real piece of shit, couldn’t keep his dick up in his pants. He said Californy is the place he gotta be, so he signed onto his tinder and he pulled some fuckery.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 11:58 AM
44

You’ll never get the chance again for what? To deal with his idiocy? Lol. Good riddance. He is full of shit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 01:36 AM
96

Wait. He is too busy to call you, but wants you to call him? Lmao. That’s a new level of LVM douchebaggery. I honestly believe some of these guys lost their nuts in an unfortunate wood chipper accident.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 12:46 AM
12

He sent me messages on match, repeatedly over the course of months. I finally said fine, I’ll do a Skype date with this dude. He completely catfished me. On Match, he looked average. His match profile said he was looking for a relationship. On Skype, he was balding (tried to hatfish me) and literally looked like a potato. I’m not joking. I only spent 5 minutes talking to him. ALWAYS video chat with men before agreeing to a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 01:47 PM
16

Well, since I literally was throwing a small get-together birthday party Saturday night and used that as an excuse to escape the Skype call with him, I assume he was using that to reference how wild I am! 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:04 PM
219

Just so you know. I am in my mid 30s, with a business that makes over 6 figures, an active social life, and I am hot. I usually don’t engage with these texts but “Andy” didn’t tell me he 1. Lives with his parents, 2. Has no job, and 3. Looks like Mr. Potato Head...until our Skype call to weed him out. That’s why I had not replied after Saturday. Forgot all about Mr. Potato until I randomly got sent this. Blocked, deleted of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 12:32 AM
64

Read the reply underneath from the “stem educated 18-25 year old Indian woman.” She’s hilarious and on point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 03:03 PM
85

For an ugly dude who is very boring, he sure has insanely high standards for a partner. And yes I managed to scroll through the entire “manifesto.” Good luck with that, bub.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/20 02:53 PM
36

Exactly. But I give her props for knowing her market and chumping them out of money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:28 AM
117

If there is anything I have learned from my 34 years of dealing with men, they are always looking for the “BBD” aka the bigger, better deal. The grass is always, maybe in their minds greener for them somewhere else. This “on the big side” companion of 1.5 years would be dumped in an instant if this chump thought he had any chance with an instagram model. Therefore, ladies, we always need to at least have our minds open to the BBD. We have more options and can get one more quickly. I don’t care h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/20 03:27 AM
19

Red flag. He should have asked you to marry him, and you two should have picked out the house TOGETHER not him making a unilateral decision. Also, you won’t legally own the house if he buys it now. Abort mission.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/06/20 02:20 AM
18

It seems like if he had any brain he’d go about it in a slightly different way. I am not a pickme though, so I’m not sure if this works on them. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/20 01:07 AM
91

Exactly. Completely perplexing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 07:27 PM
68

I’m 34 and men are all over me. I mostly ignore my phone during the day because they’re all so thirsty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:26 PM
2

What a complete toolbag
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/20 03:20 PM
32

I dated a German guy and he paid for everything. I don’t care where you are from, up your standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 09:45 PM
102

I have a daughter. If that shit happened, my boot would go so far up that guy’s ass to kick him out of my house it would disappear. Thankfully my daughter is only 9 and is already displaying an FDS Queen mindset.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/06/20 07:51 PM
60

I’m so glad I didn’t have to work during my horrific pregnancies or afterwards when they were newborns since I picked a provider for a partner. That chick is a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 08:07 PM
18

Oh god noooooooo 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 06:36 PM
64

I thought it was insanely sexist. She started acting happy because her kidnapper took her on a shopping spree. She kept “teasing” him with sex and obviously being turned on by him when he grabbed her violently by the neck and acted like a disgusting pig. He mouth raped a woman on the plane. No amount of hotness makes up for how vile he is. Thankfully, [SPOILER ALERT If you haven’t watched this gross film] .........she dies in the end due to his stupidity and they don’t get a 50 shades of grey we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 04:32 PM
12

Yes. If we admit we are hot, we get called arrogant. If we are humble, men try to take advantage of us because “yay a hot doormat.” Therefore, I loudly and proudly now say yeah I’m beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/06/20 12:16 PM
5

Love this!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/20 08:38 AM
27

Don’t do it. Low effort. Last choice. Even if you are free, say nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/20 02:52 AM
18

He doesn’t like you, girl. You are acting foolish. I literally sit back and have guys blow me up begging to spend time with me. The sperm swims to the egg. In fact, men get resentful of you when you’re the one chasing. Block him out of your life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/20 02:37 PM
25

99.9 percent of the time, pedestrians who are run over are run over by automobiles. 0.1 percent of the time, a random plane crashes into them. We should really be talking about the random plane crashing into people more. What are we? Not inclusive enough? We need to get with the program.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/20 12:04 AM
131

Because exchanging bodily fluids, possibly getting an STD and and unwanted pregnancy, that’s OK. But actually having to get to know someone on a mental level, too much work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 01:17 PM
240

Block. Delete. He just doesn’t want to spend any money on an actual date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:05 AM
45

I am 34 and my phone blows up with texts and calls from from men 24/7. I ignore them until I feel like talking, and then I have guys fighting for dates with me. This post stinks of the manosphere bullshit. In reality, they know women of any age are higher value than they are. Hell, my own mother is 71 years old and she still has thirsty men trying to hit on her. She got married for the last time when she was 38 and had 3 kids and my stepdad (very handsome dude) fully supports her and has for ove…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 11:03 AM
6

Well, I have kids. I also own a successful business and had them with a rich guy (wouldn’t settle with anything less since kids are so expensive). I wanted them because I simply just love having a family of my own. Kids aren’t hard for me. They’re a joy. However, I can see why some of you are scared to have them based on financial issues because they require a lot. I wouldn’t have had them if I didn’t have a lot of disposable income.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/20 12:15 AM
209

An example of a man who definitely is never getting laid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 11:26 PM
52

So, who is going to be footing the bill for the baby that the man helped to create? All of us. The taxpayers. She’s completely delusional.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 08:39 PM
20

There are actually sex toys that will ahem..fulfill your needs. I own a “toolbox” that does it better than any man I’ve ever been with. Trust me, sex with a low value, low effort, pump and dump dude is less satisfying than a good toy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 01:22 AM
14

Exactly this. It is better to find one HVM than waste your time interacting with 100 losers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:23 AM
33

This is just typical LVM behavior. It doesn’t matter how hot you are. They are just lazy and their brains are permanently half-baked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:22 AM
42

Why do they think this is sexy? I can’t. No words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 10:44 PM
47

Men are honestly looking more and more hideous to me. They don’t take care of themselves at all. Then they put in the lowest value effort and think that hot women should be crawling all over them. Frankly, I wish I was a lesbian. It would be heaven.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 05:04 PM
16

I mean frankly, 99 percent of men just aren’t worth my time. As soon as I see any red flag now, I’m out. It can be as simple as them asking me on a drink date, mentioning that I’m sexy, or asking for a “no makeup” selfie. Instant block. I think FDS has been good for weeding out all the bullshit. If they can’t even be a gentleman with texting, they definitely won’t treat me well so why bother.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/20 01:19 PM
44

This guy said he hates women and cleavage. He’s obviously gay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/20 01:40 PM
181

You need to block him. They always come back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 01:09 PM
30

I agree to some of those points. While we all adhere to the basic standards set forth in the FDS guidelines, we are all different women from various cultures, ethnic backgrounds, ages, and locations and we all need to be aware that there is no fully “one size fits all” approach to dating. We all need to support each other as fellow queens and sisters in our leveling up journeys. While pickmeisha behaviors that are toxic should be called out to help each other, some of the things listed above are…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/20 12:57 AM
26

He doesn’t want you leaving girl stuff at his house so that when he is cheating on you and bringing other girls over, they won’t suspect anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/20 05:12 PM
15

I bought that awesome house and have a golden retriever. It is absolute heaven. I got to decorate it however I wanted and made it into my own personal paradise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 02:58 PM
172

My ex was also angry that I was rich and successful. He would constantly talk shit about me being spoiled since I could afford to buy myself a new BMW or computer if I wanted. That’s why he’s the ex. This dude is so butthurt that his much younger girlfriend has family support as she’s going through freaking MEDICAL SCHOOL. It’s not like she’s sitting on her ass doing nothing. He has no concept of how hard medical school actually is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/20 12:50 PM
45

That can’t possibly be a real woman. A real woman would know female orgasm doesn’t work that way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/20 06:41 PM
6

The most important men in my life know about FDS, have even read or read the posts here, and support us. Only low value men have a problem with caring for the woman they love and paying for dates. High value men insist on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:16 PM
18

I have 2 sons and a daughter. It’s true that male babies get sick more often and even are less likely to survive infancy than females. It always scared me when my sons were babies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/20 03:14 PM
34

I needed this today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/20 08:12 PM
48

What amazing men! A great idea.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 04:52 PM
25

One guy I was talking to online wanted me to go on a date, but premised it with the fact that “all women are after a free meal” so he wouldn’t be paying. Bitch, please. I laughed him right out of my DMs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/20 01:24 PM
17

He will lose his looks quickly. Take comfort in that one day, sooner rather than later, he will be old, alone, looks gone, just a shit personality. Nobody there to wipe his ass when he’s a broken old chode in bed. Whereas you are going to find a man who adores you, have a kickass family, and grow old surrounded by your loved ones who worship you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 09:24 PM
28

My partner better be texting me good morning, goodnight, multiple times in between and at least a phone call a day or he can walk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 08:50 PM
26

I’m practically see through I’m so white. I’m just so sad for women of color that they have to deal with this bullshit from these bottom feeders. Some of the most gorgeous women I know are black.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 06:04 PM
230

This sub has exploded. No matter how much the trolls try to slander us, women are waking up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:51 PM
224

Why are they so racist? It’s disgusting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 02:49 PM
58

No hot guy says “I’m Chad.” Just like no hot woman says “I’m Stacy/Becky” (whatever the lingo these dudes use).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:58 PM
16

Ah yes, the old “female incel group” con to keep women away. I’m glad you looked past that and found your way. The more men try to push women away from the realistic mindset of this group, the more flock here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/05/20 03:44 PM
125

I left my kid’s father because he was lazy and annoying. He never would have left me. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 07:19 PM
97

When I had my baby, I didn’t give him the dad’s last name and he had an utter fit. I asked him to prove to me why the baby should have his name, and not mine. I did all the work. His logic was that it was just how it should be. I laughed at him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/05/20 02:45 PM
26

Not worth it. I did it once and she was a total pickme and tried to fight me/ told everyone I was crazy. I had given her screenshot evidence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 12:17 PM
3

These are all good questions. I own my own business, have a masters degree, my own home, cars, etc. I also happen to have three kids. Many HVM find it an added benefit to see that I am such an amazing mother. My brother is a HVM and he married his wife when she was a single mother. They have happily had 2 more kids, and she is a professor at a university. My mother was a professional ballerina with 3 kids when she met my father. They have been together over 20 years and had 2 more kids. I think …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:54 AM
2

My mother had 3 children and got a HVM who is my wonderful stepdad. They went on to have 2 more kids. I also have 3 and have HVM fighting over me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:49 AM
136

He texted you that because he was butthurt that you didn’t respond. Just the fact he took time to message you that shows how pathetic he is and that he didn’t actually match with anyone. He just wanted to bait you into talking to him. Negative attention is still attention to a low value man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/04/20 10:38 AM
34

So, I have to be content with the man doing the bare minimum of not selling drugs on the street and working to provide for his family. The BARE minimum it takes to not be a flaming asshole. If he does those things, he gets to ignore his wife and kids by playing video games every night? Pass. I have higher standards than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:12 PM
41

It doesn’t matter. He screwed her without a condom and conceived a child. He is responsible for that child’s mental and emotional well being as much as financially responsible. I hate when people think “oh I didn’t want the kid so I don’t have to have anything to do with it.” Nope. Nah. You created a life. Don’t be a gigantic asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 06:09 PM
136

No. He is treating her or will treat her exactly the same way. What you stated in this post is actually a negative value man. He was emotionally abusing you. An abuser doesn’t change his stripes. If I were you, I’d count my lucky stars I was out of that relationship and forget about that piece of trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/20 12:59 PM
57

I would rather be single forever than take care of a man baby. I want a partner, not another child. Unfortunately, man babies seem to be the norm now. I haven’t found one who isn’t too clingy and doesn’t whine too much. I am very independent and men just don’t get that. I need one who makes at least near the same amount of money that I do. I’ve tried to date men who make less but they always resent me in the end. Unless I find the perfect person for me, I’m not moving in with a dude. I’m perfect…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/04/20 11:28 PM
61

This is why I’m ruthless with men. I walk immediately if they give me any shit whatsoever. Man babies like this are common no matter how old they are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 02:02 PM
19

Yeah total bullshit. Lol. He has a live in girlfriend or wife.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/04/20 01:57 PM
138

My most recent ex would constantly call me a gold digger...but I make six figures a year and he made substantially less than me. At the time, I was still in a messed up headspace so I kept asking myself what I was doing to make him believe that. Then, I leveled up, realized he was just jealous I’m so much better off than him and I didn’t have to make sense out of something so nonsensical. I did tell him as I broke up with him that if I was going to be a gold digger I’d dig the gold of someone wh…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 06:20 PM
50

LOVE the “NO RAGRETS” tattoo. Really seals the deal for me. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 03:52 PM
23

Yes. Many LVM I’ve met have severe issues with women. It doesn’t matter who you are, they will treat you like they would any woman, because they don’t trust or respect us. It’s a losing battle thinking that you will somehow change his point of view. That’s why I stay away from men with bad past relationships, separated, or recently divorced.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 11:04 PM
13

I have dated 2 different military men. They were both overly sensitive and had issues with trauma from the time they served, which came out in the form of aggression and anger mixed with bouts of crying and love bombing. The first month or two they were “fine” but still set off my spider senses that something was not quite right with them. Trust your intuition. If you’re not sure if he is high value, he probably isn’t. His overly sensitive response to the std test question and his lack of lockin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 12:59 PM
2

The answer is simply, yes. It is a red flag. He is a LVM. Block and delete. A man should pay for every date if he wants the benefit of your company.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 04:51 PM
4

The vast majority of men I have met have been so melodramatic, sensitive, and emotional that it makes me feel like I’m dealing with volatile toddlers.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/04/20 11:32 AM
16

Hell yeah, sis. I’m also 5’2 and if a guy isn’t at least a foot taller than me, he can go right the fuck away. Men are so shallow in general that that is just the minimum we can do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:15 AM
14

We love and welcome you here. I’m glad you found us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/04/20 03:07 AM
10

I get a lot but I never actually read them. I have hundreds of unread messages from them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:16 AM
28

I don’t understand how any female can be a “femcel.” I’ve seen legitimately the ugliest women ever in real life with loving husbands because they knew they were queens. I was even watching a YouTube video the other day of this very unattractive women who has 4 husbands fighting over her, lol. You need to drop that mentality and level up. Simply being female is power.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 10:11 AM
85

I cringed so hard for you just now. I have no words.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 10:01 AM
51

Ok. There are only like 65k subscribers here. How is he meeting so many FDS members in real life? Oh wait, they’re just women with standards. I make bank, hun. I’m not going out on a coffee date with a dude. Time is money, and there is a queue trying to earn my time. 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/20 09:04 PM
13

Honestly, it sounds like he sexually assaulted you. He cornered you in his car and forced your head towards his dick until you gave in. Please never talk to this vile scumbag again. Any “explanation” he gives you will be meaningless and unfulfilling. Your best way to heal is to move forward and if he does somehow get in touch, block him immediately. If you still have his number, block him now. You are worth more, but until you see your own worth he will still have power over you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 12:51 PM
5

He’s not hot enough to be this big of a douchebag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/04/20 12:51 PM
63

Exactly. No woman writes like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/04/20 12:36 PM
194

Exactly. The only place I hear guys complaining about paying are on Reddit. Anytime a guy asks me out in real life, he gladly jumps to pay. Reddit is just bizzaro-land of LVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 01:13 PM
24

Wait..how do we need them more than they need us? Hahaha. Most hilarious thing I’ve read all day.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/04/20 06:44 PM
45

It’s like dealing with my toddler.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/04/20 02:44 AM
17

I have 2 sons. If either one of them ever said such a thing, my fury would be unmatched.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 10:46 AM
484

How is this better for these women than being single? It sounds like my worst nightmare/hell come to life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/20 01:06 PM
7

Me too. I feel you..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:04 AM
11

I’m an INFJ
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/03/20 11:03 AM
156

He’s being perverted in a way that has you questioning if he’s being perverted. He’s manipulative. Block him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/20 12:16 PM
51

Yeah, a bunch of manbabies as well as racists. I have seen that many, many times in their forums. I was literally just thinking about this today and fuming. This is coming from a white woman. They have literally no redeeming qualities.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 06:00 PM
52

Not having to deal with a man’s whining. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 03:30 PM
10

Listen, none of his douchebaggery is about you. He has the emotional depth of a tuna fish sandwich. Fuckboys will be fuckboys no matter who you are! I’m very beautiful, successful, talented, the works..and I still have had many many low value chumps try to treat me like this. Block and delete him, sister. You’re worth more than even acknowledging his existence. P.S. just the low value way he talked to you about “titties in mouth” or whatever shows you how low value and trashy he is
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/03/20 01:29 PM
43

My ex had BPD like Pete. This entire video seemed like it could be exactly about him as well. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 05:57 PM
20

Aaaaaand he spelled “retarded” as “retarted.” Maybe he really is and we shouldn’t make fun of him. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/20 09:50 AM
16

I married a doctor and our first date (he was a resident) he took me to a nice restaurant. You need to hold to your standards and not feel bad for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 10:23 PM
2

I would never hire a man to watch my children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/20 04:12 PM
3

Lol! That’s where I was thinking this conversation would go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:51 PM
41

Was this through an online dating app? No offense, but if a guy was talking to me like you were talking to him, I would view it as pretty condescending.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/03/20 02:09 PM
10

I loved this! Thanks for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/20 03:39 PM
7

Yes, sweetie. Men are men. Stick around here and we will help you out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 08:56 PM
12

Yes. Although take anything this dude has told you with a grain of salt. Sometimes men say they did that, when she was really the person who dumped him. Like I said, the male ego is immense and can’t take rejection well. If it is true and he dumped her then went on to just pump and dump other women, he’s also a fuckboy. So a fuckboy either way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:27 PM
38

Yes. Breakups hurt a man’s ego. You can literally be an angel sent from heaven with the body of a Victoria’s Secret model with a personality to match and he won’t see it. His ego and pride is too hurt. I refuse to date men who just got out of breakups because of this. The last one I dated started crying on my shoulder because he was so fucked up over the breakup, and “didn’t know what he wanted” with me. I told him I’m not his therapist and booted his ass out of my house.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 02:09 PM
45

No matter how amazing you are, a fuckboy is going to be a fuckboy. He lost interest? So what. It doesn’t matter why. There are literally millions of guys who would grovel at your feet for even a chance at a date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/20 01:46 PM
54

Lol. Of course he looks like that. Of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/20 04:03 PM
9

🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/02/20 09:18 PM
7

There’s a video of him in that article being violent towards the kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 09:16 PM
4

What a piece of shit! Dude, I can’t believe how low some men have sunk. To top it off, he had to utter nerve to call you ugly after he did all that? Lol. What an idiot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/02/20 04:59 PM
39

Pickmeishas have no dignity. 😫
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 09:41 PM
28

I manned the suicide hotline for many years. The amount of men who would call up every day just to masturbate to my voice was sickening. Luckily, we had a badass female running the center and she told us to just immediately hang up when that happened. I feel for you. Men’s perversion and debauchery knows no bounds. Imagine being such a degenerate that you call up the suicide hotline to jack off?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/02/20 07:26 PM
4

Most men lack ability to be introspective.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 05:46 PM
80

Yeah, what LVM don’t seem to understand is I’d rather stay home, order food and watch Netflix in bed than endure their presence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/20 10:41 AM
22

Exactly! I adored Jane Austen growing up and have modeled my life off of a lot of her teachings.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:11 AM
18

Wow! What an utter queen. I hope I have her dignity and class if that ever happened.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/20 12:09 AM
48

Nope. Never. Bearing the kids is work in itself. Having to work while you’re pregnant and he’s staying at home? My worst nightmare. When he ultimately cheats (read above about cheating rates), he will get alimony and the kids. Plus, women always do more than men, so I would expect to come home from work and still have to clean up after everything. Nope. Nope. Nope.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/20 02:00 PM
6

I personally like telling the man exactly where I want to go/do, especially if it’s a first date. I like to know my surroundings for safety reasons. I’d never ask the man out on the date, though, of course.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/02/20 01:45 PM
3

Oh, yeah. I feel you here. This post struck a nerve.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:39 PM
10

Yeah. They get sooooo overly emotional at the drop of a hat. I’ve had some send me paragraphs of texts after I went on ONE date with them professing undying love, then more paragraphs upset when I didn’t reply because they’re weirdos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/20 07:37 PM
428

Ladies, c’mon. Every single one of us is worth more than this crap. If you don’t think you are, I challenge you to become my friend/or the friend of any boss bitch we all love from here....And level up. You are beautiful and amazing. You deserve so much more than this. It’s a failure of of culture that you think you don’t, and frankly I want to knife fight it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/20 08:03 AM
17

I was engaged to one. Cheating, misogyny, drug/alcohol abuse, violence, and mental illness is rampant among them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:52 PM
8

We are famous, y’all! Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/20 01:49 PM
14

I don’t get this. I’m wealthy and LVM are scared of that/intimidated (thankfully), but LVM also seem scared to spend money on a woman. What do they actually want? I guess it doesn’t matter. It’s just bizarre. Anyway, I don’t accept anything less than an actual date. I’m not leaving my house for anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 07:07 PM
31

I’m a single mother. I am also beautiful, successful, and talented. I really do hope low value men protect themselves from all I have to offer and make way for the high value ones. So far, so good, because LVM are intimidated and HVM flock to me. All this shit talk about single mothers is just another negging tactic, just like men telling women we hit a wall after 30 so we better settle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/02/20 11:34 AM
1

Yeah, please let us know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/20 10:01 PM
10

Never in a million years.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:59 PM
34

I just had a large, perfect baby and I’m 34. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 01:47 PM
103

I didn’t want to have sex with him that night because I was tired and sick. Him (while whining): “I cried myself to sleep last night. You could have just laid there and taken it.” It being his dick.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/01/20 11:07 AM
31

When I was pregnant, I was on pelvic rest for a long time. These guys are complete idiots and yes, they next themselves with their “logic.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 05:15 PM
77

So, there is a huge portion of guys who identify as incels yet they think that men just can’t possibly go a few months without sex. Men are lucky if they get to have sex with a beautiful woman at all. These dudes are hilariously dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:57 PM
8

I have 3 kids and have no problem finding HVM who adore all of us. However, I have trouble finding a man good enough for me because I have ridiculously high standards lol. Not due to lack of options.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/01/20 03:45 PM
16

Honestly, we shouldn’t keep protecting these people. You know how people act shitty/racist/misogynist in videos and they lose their jobs/friends after it goes viral? These complete OLD scumbags should go viral.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 11:15 PM
110

He doesn’t care about you. Period. You’re sitting there wasting your time crying over him and he hasn’t given you a single thought. What benefit is it bringing to your life to be sad over a man who clearly is uninterested and selfish? You’re worth so much more than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 08:10 PM
31

I play several instruments. How does being a musician equate to being so self righteous and assholish that you think that you’re god’s gift to the world?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 07:24 PM
3

Lol a dude who is starving shouldn’t be dating. He should be focusing on finding a way to work and be self sustaining. They have such idiotic logic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 02:51 PM
411

It seems good in theory. However, I’ve told a woman her fiance was cheating on her and included all the screenshots of the texts he’d sent me. I was trying to be nice and it backfired. I was labeled “crazy” and she wanted to kill me. Of course her man would never cheat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/01/20 12:44 PM
22

I absolutely won’t go on a date unless he calls me first. I’ve screened out so many guys just with one phone call.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 06:21 PM
61

One of my exes was short. I don’t have any problem with short men and think they can be attractive. However, he had suuuuch a complex about his height. He referenced it constantly. I have found a lot of short men just can’t get over their own height. 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 04:25 PM
15

I got you. I understand, totally. I am an amazing woman: hot, educated, successful business, hobbies that are sweeeet. You, honestly, sound like someone I’d love to know! You have to understand that most people are just low value, male or female. If you are an amazing woman, you have to understand that most men will either: 1. Be so scared of you that they run (who wants to be reminded again and again they are inferior) or 2. Think omg this woman is so amazing I want to try...for awhile..,until …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 03:39 AM
13

You have to be more discerning. If you don’t like those men, they warrant a restraining order. What kind of men do YOU want is my question. If you aren’t attracting those men, maybe you need to be in a different environment or have a different mindset. Because I guarantee you, queen, those men want you too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/20 01:12 AM
43

I just don’t get Pickmes. Right now, I have men who would literally chop off their legs to have even a chance to see me tonight. Fucking around with a dude like this and trying to convince him to marry ME? Haha, nah sis. I just wish I could pick all of them up and give them big hugs and a huge dose of reality pills. We are worth so much more than this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 08:27 PM
3

On it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/01/20 04:06 AM
64

I loved this. I get so pissed off on reddit when I see all the male hatred towards single moms, while they simultaneously give all the deadbeat dads a pass. If a man is a full time single dad who gives a shit, he is a saint. Whereas women do it every day, and we are spat on for raising the next generation while the lazy fathers don’t do anything.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 03:13 PM
20

Lol. Danny Tanner was widowed! I think they need to be in a special category.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:44 AM
131

What’s up with these ugly trolls (looking at his profile picture) thinking that they can get a hot woman to give them the time of day with this mess? I’m just done with it. Fully done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:37 AM
68

I’m sorry to say this. I really am (especially since I’m a single mother)...but...every single father I’ve met has been a LVM. It doesn’t matter how much money he makes, how hot he is, how sincere he seems...every. single. time. he has turned out to be insanely low value. What I’m thinking is that women don’t just up and throw away high value men (especially if there are kids involved). So, as much as I hate it, I’m going to just say...stay away from single fathers. They are usually emotionally …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/20 01:35 AM
131

They don’t want women to actually be aware of how to make the most of the dating game and have high quality, fulfilling relationships with good men. If it doesn’t benefit low quality men, it is “toxic.” I kind of like knowing I am among the 47,000+ rogues and counting going against the current system that devalues women and promotes abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 07:37 PM
12

Lol. Wrong. As usual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/01/20 03:49 PM
119

Just tell him that you have plans with your friends. You aren’t required to tell him you are dating other men, and I would advise against it. Unless you both have deemed you are exclusive, it’s none of his business.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 10:43 PM
38

Wow. I am so sickened. When I got to the point where she was talking about how her own brother was raping her AS she was having a miscarriage from another brother’s rape, I had to stop for a breather before I could continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/01/20 04:17 PM
62

LVM want to be chased and be the woman in the relationship. Don’t get discouraged or give in. You’ll eventually meet some HVM who love to pursue. I’d bet it doesn’t have anything to do with how great you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:18 PM
67

I have men who do this constantly in OLD. Give me endless compliments, ask what I’m doing on the weekend, but never ask me out. They are just getting an emotional high from capturing your attention. Don’t bother with this one. They just get more and more frustrating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 09:16 PM
14

My ex had BPD and acted just like the guy you are describing. It can be a real mind fuck for the people around them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:34 PM
13

Sounds like a borderline.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:26 PM
11

Fellow lioness here. I don’t know where he got this bs from. Oh wait, men hate strong women 🦁
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 07:21 PM
32

He wanted to make sure he had you as a backup still while pursuing the other girl. Monkey branching is something most, if not all, men do. My ex did the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:35 PM
94

They find someone else who may be more of a pickme and they think will put out. When that doesn’t pan out, they cycle back around to try to get to you again. Happens to me constantly. So many numbers pop up on my phone, and I have. I clue who they are. Once you exit my life, it’s a locked door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/20 01:30 PM
32

He’s an ugly brodude with a pissy personality and homophobic to boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 11:49 PM
27

I’m beautiful and very successful, but I am still kind, do volunteer work, and treat every human how I want to be treated. I have met very few men who are as hot as me with as much money who show any level of basic human respect and kindness, much less who want a loving, long lasting relationship. It’s so disheartening!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 08:19 PM
5

Utter queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 06:17 PM
174

Yes, I would look down on a guy who 1. Got a “drunken hookup” pregnant and 2. Cared more about what people think than, you know, caring for his child. One is bad enough, but both facts put together make him the most epic of low value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 06:13 PM
1

Thanks! This is what I’ve been looking for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/20 01:48 AM
13

Exactly. This is so common! I have it happen to me on a weekly basis!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 01:56 PM
7

Honey, that was so much bullshit that I had to take a snack break in between reading it. It’s clear that this dude only wants to fuck you. You knew that almost instantly. You’re too good to keep engaging this trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 02:48 AM
109

Wow. He hit your ten month old baby too? What a complete piece of shit. I’m glad you got out of that situation, and I hope great things come your way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/01/20 11:09 AM
74

Most men don’t have an abundance of choices. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 06:58 PM
168

They hate us because we are standing up for ourselves and not taking shit anymore. It doesn’t benefit the patriarchy in any way if women rise up and become unified against bad treatment.. That’s why we have had to fight for any form of equal treatment. The right to vote. The right to own property. The right to not be sold off in marriage. The right to not be used as sex toys and discarded (FDS). Strong women are SCARY and powerful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 03:50 PM
26

Thank you for this post. It needed to be said.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/01/20 01:54 PM
20

Ain’t Your Mama (Jlo), My Name Isn’t (HOVA), You Should See Me in a Crown (Billie Eilish), Queen (Loren Grey), 7 Rings (Ariana Grande), Thank u, Next (Ariana Grande), Don’t Call Me Up (Mabel), The Man (Taylor Swift), Irreplaceable (Beyonce)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/20 09:38 PM
18

Or they just can’t fathom a woman who isn’t a submissive who bends to their every whim. So many men are like this. A lot were genuinely shocked when I didn’t do whatever they asked me to do. Pickmeshas have messed it up for us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:41 AM
21

I think they just can’t understand the fact that a woman won’t bend to their will. It’s not even fully about sex, at least not in the contexts I’ve been asked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 02:27 AM
7

I’m a ballerina and looooved this! Thanks for sharing. Such a great message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/01/20 01:44 AM
36

Gosh, so many men 30 and up are just HIDEOUS on these dating apps. I spend my time on there making disgusted faces and going “ick, ugh, geesh” out loud. I don’t get how they even think about messaging me for hookups when they are fat, balding, and pock marked.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:56 AM
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They are out there. I’ve met many of them. You just have to keep your standards extremely HIGH to weed out those LVM. As soon as they suggest a coffee date, ignore and block. As soon as they show any low value tendencies, ruthlessly ignore and block. Your life and your time are valuable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/01/20 10:39 AM
9

My business is based on my passion, which is dance and choreography. If you’re passionate about something, it’s easy to get really invested and charge full steam ahead! Advice would be different based on what kind of business you aspire to run. I actually went to university for something completely unrelated to what I do now (and more practical), because I thought there was no way I would make it in the business that I do. It seemed like a pipe dream. I had to start by networking A LOT with othe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:24 PM
73

I am constantly asked”what else” I have to offer besides the billions of other things I’ve been upfront about. I make in the upper six figures a year with a business I’ve built from scratch. I’m 34 years old but barely look 21 due to the extensive workout/self care routine I’ve done for 15 years. I have a black belt in taekwando (many times over). I play acoustic and electric guitar, as well as violin and piano. Etc. I just don’t get how these utter scrubs keep questioning my worth. I can’t take…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 07:28 AM
28

Hell yeah, queen shit! 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 02:21 AM
42

Girls, this happened to me with a guy I was dating once. I have a very unique first name. This guy found a porn star with my first name who kind of looks like me if he was drunk/high and partially mentally incapacitated, then called me up to tell me I’m a tramp. I said “huh,” watched the link he sent, then proceeded to laugh my ass off and send it to everybody I knew.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/01/20 01:52 AM
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This summed up a lot of my life in the past before I became ruthless. I kept asking friends and family what is wrong with me, but nobody could name a single thing. In fact, everything was TOO right. Ladies, if you have everything going for you, you will scare off a lot of men...but those men are LVM anyway, so you are actually winning!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/12/19 11:22 AM
9

I’m 34 with 3 kids. My youngest is 16 months old. I both feel and look like a queen. You just had a baby, so you need to be easy on yourself. However, you want some advice for queening it up. I know I could give you a pep talk or some nonsense, but I thought maybe I would just show you some of my morning and night schedule for inspiration. I will leave out work and during the day. 5:30 - 6:30 AM: wake up and get in a 30 minute to an hour workout before any of the kids are awake 6 - 7:30 AM: beau…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/19 11:44 PM
2

She’s not desperate. She’s been with this man for over a year.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:39 PM
10

Why would you feel like garbage? A guy taking you on vacation or spending money on you isn’t an open invitation to sleep with you. I’d feel nothing. It would be his choice to take me on vacation as a fun activity partner.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 07:14 PM
21

Men know if they want to marry you or not, especially after a year. If you were his dream girl, honestly he would have already tried to lock you down with talk of imminent marriage. None of us have any ponies in this race, so we are being truthful with you and just trying to help. Unfortunately, many of us speak from years of experience with this kind of man. I hope you wise up and save yourself a lot of pain and potentially not having any children.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:31 AM
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It took me a long time to come to terms with everything you just wrote. I have a daughter and will be teaching her these things early. Luckily, she doesn’t like Disney princess movies, so I won’t have that to combat. If I had known the nature of men when I was growing up, it would have saved me so much heartache and pain along the way getting to this point in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/12/19 11:24 AM
60

Yep. They keep saying that courts are screwing men out of custody rights. The majority of deadbeat dads I know either didn’t even go to court to attempt to get custody, just let their ex have the kids, or outright tried to avoid paying child support. My ex would constantly complain his ex was keeping him from the kids, and I would ask: “You make six figures a year and she is unemployed. Why haven’t you hired a lawyer and gone back to court to get more custody?” Crickets. I have two sons, so I am…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/19 10:32 PM
36

I made a post about not trusting first impressions just the other day. It’s so true. A LVM cannot masquerade as a HVM for too long. The deception is too hard for them and their true colors always come out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/12/19 06:25 PM
61

Ok, sweetie. This is more than him just being a LVM. In fact, he is a Negative Value Male. He is an abuser, both physically and emotionally. You need to be very careful about how you leave him, but you need to do it now. I assume you don’t live together since you don’t know the WiFi password. This is good. I would tell him, short and sweet, over the phone that it isn’t working out, not to contact you again, and to stay away from you. Then, block him. On everything. When he inevitably tries to se…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/19 10:59 AM
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I only date rich men in my social class. I understand you all may think it is strange, but is just isn’t weird where I am. It’s a drop in the bucket to them, so jewelry is like a handshake. As I’ve said several times though, that wasn’t what initially impressed me. It was his other HVM traits he had on as a mask. Planning the date and paying for dinner. Gentleman behaviors while on the date. Very quickly setting up the next date with little prompting from me. The point of this post was NOT to le…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:13 PM
20

A guy who doesn’t spend money on you isn’t high value either.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:00 PM
12

I consistently have men bring me expensive presents on first dates. Maybe it’s the culture where I live. Like I said though, I am not big on jewelry to begin with, so that in itself didn’t impress me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:16 AM
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He was a gentleman as well. Scheduled the date. Did everything right. As I said, appearances can be deceiving. I did not actually call him a HVM in this post. I talked about the HVM traits he was expressing to show the mask men can wear. I wasn’t impressed or fooled by gifts. I had a pleasant time and thought there was potential.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 10:14 AM
10

Welcome, queen! 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:15 AM
27

When a man is interested in you, he will often try to monopolize your time. I usually don’t say yes to dates so close together, but I’m going out of town for a week for the holidays, so I consented to another dinner since I am off today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:07 AM
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It was ok. A few hundred dollars worth of ruby jewelry since my favorite color is red. Nothing to get overwhelmed about. I am not really big on jewelry to begin with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 03:04 AM
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Yeah, I just posted that so that everyone can see through the expensive gifts or nice dates. If a guy is a low value man, it doesn’t matter what he gives you. When you see his true colors, instantly next him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 01:53 AM
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Girl, you’re beautiful. We actually look pretty similar. It doesn’t matter how amazingly hot and accomplished you are, they are complete imbeciles. Fuckboys will be fuckboys no matter what. They don’t have the mental or emotional capacity to actually care about another human.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 02:42 PM
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Men do this to me constantly. It’s so pathetic. I am a busy woman, a business owner, mother, friend, daughter, etc. I am a 6th Dan black belt in taekwando. I dance ballet. I have a band with friends in which I play lead guitar. I have other priorities than sitting around texting them 24/7. I think the problem is most of these men have no real friends or actual lives. No hobbies or passions. They’re just so dull. I agree, it’s a huge turn off and I usually just block one of them instantly for it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:32 PM
7

Yes. I went out with a philosophy professor and he was just the worst. He loved to hear himself babble on about nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 01:49 PM
6

Congrats on leveling up! You only get haters if you are rocking at life!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:06 AM
13

We got your back! You are freaking amazing! Keep leveling up! Onwards and upwards. See ya, fuckboys!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/19 02:05 AM
9

I have over 600 unread private messages. I haven’t looked at any of them recently. Last time I looked it was a bunch of men hitting on me. Men love bitches, and I’m proud to consider myself one. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:15 PM
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You need to completely obliterate them with witty comebacks. This is what I do, and it hurts them so much that they go back into their hidey holes. Why should you, a queen, care what these people have to say? Show them you don’t. Edit: If you PM me by the way, I can help you with comebacks to obliterate their spirit and make them stfu.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:11 PM
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Girl, it totally works. Right now, I have several HVM (hot, rich, great personality) completely in love with me. They are the ones waiting by the phone for MY call and begging for scraps of my attention. I will choose one when I’m sure that he is going to treat me like the queen I am for the rest of my lifetime. I’ve been married before (hot, millionaire) and know even HVM men can get lazy. I refuse to settle, and men crave it!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 08:15 PM
13

It’s amazingly funny. A complete parody of pickmeshas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 07:48 PM
20

I’m a hot as hell, 34 year old, successful single mother and no way in hell would I date this creep. I hope for the woman’s sake she sees his post somehow. What a delusional prick. Nobody wants your old, defective sperm, bro!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 01:58 PM
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You did the right thing. I no longer consent to sex with anyone unless they go down on me until I orgasm. It’s always a given the man is going to orgasm. Let’s make it a goal this year that WE are important too and ladies first!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:36 AM
6

He can definitely lie about it. He may be a psychopath. She doesn’t know. She’s never even met the guy. He could just be playing a sick, twisted game. I for sure wouldn’t be all aboard on meeting a complete stranger a few days after my parent died. Nor would I even care about texting that stranger as my father was dying. Something is rotten here. Go into this with extreme caution, OP. I hope I’m wrong.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 01:12 AM
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I have a daughter and 2 sons. My daughter is the calmest, most emotionally mature little person ever. My sons...not so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:55 AM
4

We are here for you, sister! We have your back. Onwards and upwards! He sounds like pond scum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/12/19 12:52 AM
141

Oh my god!!!! This happened to me, girls. I was dating a HVM. He was amazing in every way. However, a few months in when we started getting hot and heavy, I finally pulled his pants down to reveal...the smallest penis I have ever seen in my life. It was the size of my pinky fingernail. I halfheartedly touched it, then pretended I was not feeling well from the beer I just had and asked him to leave. I couldn’t bring myself to tell him that his penis was legitimately the only dealbreaker. The next…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 07:50 PM
36

So, she completely owned and degraded herself basically. Of course 20,000 fuckboys liked it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 01:29 PM
53

I love this! A little FDS-er in training. My daughter is 9 and yesterday I found her in her room bouncing around singing along to JLO’s “Ain’t Your Mama.” An example of the lyrics for you guys who haven’t heard it: “Boy, I ain’t your mama. When did you get too comfortable? I’m too good for that, just remember that.” I was so proud. LOL!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 11:00 AM
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The more women we get to follow FDS strategies, the less that these type of women are going to be available for these low value males. They are either going to have to level up or be booted from the gene pool.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 02:58 AM
15

Aka he’s poor or even worse, stingy and ungenerous. Thank you, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/12/19 10:33 PM
22

Exactly! I too and beautiful, highly educated, etc. and have been hurt and abused by men countless times. I also at one point thought: “Why me?” The fact that they’re doing it to all of us was eye-opening.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 04:26 PM
18

Yay 🎉 Girls, we can and we WILL do better in 2020.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/19 07:44 AM
40

I’m half Native American and one LVM went on a rant about how we are all savages when I turned him down. They read from the same loser, racist manual.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:24 PM
9

I’m serious here: are all the RPW supremely sheltered and unattractive? Hot guys practically fling themselves out of the water at my feet like fishing without a rod and I’m in my mid 30s with 3 kids. Sometimes it gets exhausting tossing them back. Why do they have such a scarcity complex?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 01:21 PM
11

Exactly. When do these “options” run out? My mother is in her 70s and still has men hitting on her left and right while she ignores them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 12:13 PM
21

Amazing post. I’m saving it to reread. Yes, if a man is not adding positive value to your life, there is no reason to have him around. You’d at least be at equilibrium single.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:58 AM
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Oh my god! Damn! He ACTUALLY said that to you about the Jewish thing? I am stunned. What a complete sack of shit. Sometimes looks match a personality and this is one of those times.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:48 AM
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I honestly didn’t even know men not paying for a date was a thing until I was 29. I am now 34. I don’t know if it’s more recent phenomenon, I am just lucky and spoiled, or what. Even now, it has happened only 2 times in the countless dates I’ve been on that the guy doesn’t instantly pull out his wallet. I guess I’m asking, is this really that widespread now? What do these guys say to you when not paying? Do they ask for separate checks or what? It seems like it would be humiliating and emasculat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/12/19 11:44 AM
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Yeah, they don’t understand that this stuff happens to ALL of us. You could be the hottest babe imaginable or ugly, it doesn’t matter. Guys creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 08:17 PM
4

Honestly, I’d charge a lot because my time is valuable.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 05:13 PM
26

After I got out of a toxic relationship, I asked my ex why he had treated me in such a horrible manner. His response is something I never forgot: “Because you let me.” Never let anyone treat you with disrespect or get away with any bullshit.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 03:09 PM
6

I saw that. Why would they do this for a couple bucks a day? Very confusing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/12/19 02:23 PM
2

Beautiful. Typical low value male bullshit. You’re basically saying that your gender doesn’t have the ability to love or feel. 👋
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/19 12:54 AM
2

Bullshit. I’ve had high quality men wait months or even years to have sex with me. I married a man who makes millions a year and is hot that waited 9 months to even see me naked. This is what low value men want you to believe, girls. Utterly false. If a man is truly invested in you, he will wait as long as it takes to make you his.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/19 02:02 PM
10

I think she means like water bottles, Dasani, etc. All the same person inside, just packaged differently.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/12/19 01:27 PM
43

Typical redpill male nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 10:51 PM
3

🙄 Pickmeisha, reread what I wrote. As a man, punching out a woman is going nuclear and not protecting yourself from abuse. How many videos have you watched where the man has been slapped by a woman, barely flinches, then they punch her in her face and she goes down. I have seen quite a few, and it’s sickening to see these young, idiotic men cheering them on. I never said anything about supporting women slapping or punching men, and in fact spoke out against it. I have a daughter as well who I te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/12/19 09:31 PM
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So, you get naked with your male family members and have their asshole in the vicinity of your face? I’m assuming you’re very close.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:00 PM
18

My exes include multiple physicians, a real estate mogul, engineers, a small business owner, etc. How about encouraging your fellow man to not be complete scumbags? 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:48 PM
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Hahaha. Reading comprehension is key, bud. It’s easy for you guys to say “Wah, wah, you women are naggers. You hate all men!” It’s far more of a challenge to actually listen to what we are saying here. Most of us are educated professionals who aren’t sinister creatures hoping a man comes along to take care of us. In fact, our tenets are NEVER fully depend on a man for your financial stability. Make sure you don’t disregard and cast aside your own passions/talents/career/friendships/family when y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 10:42 PM
10

I love it! I think we should.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:42 PM
22

Amazing response!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:19 PM
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What DON’T we provide for men would be the better question? Most men treat women like free maids, nannies, sex-bots, and therapists rolled into one. I’ve yet to meet a man who doesn’t spout out all his problems onto me, expecting me to listen patiently and mommy him, because they don’t or can’t do this will their guy friends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:17 PM
52

Oh, girl, I know. It’s so sad and pathetic. Honestly, it’s hard to find a working penis these days.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:05 PM
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Yes, I’m proud to be called a bitch at times, but I don’t treat men in the horrible fashion that they’ve treated me over the years. I’m called a bitch when I don’t put up with their bullshit, like gaslighting, negging, and just in general being assholes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 09:03 PM
3

Thank you for this! It makes a lot of sense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:57 PM
48

And those thumb creatures are usually the ones who act like douchebags to me online and have “non-monogamous” in their profiles! I’m a 10/10 and they look like a gangrenous toe, but they still have the egos of Brad Pitt in his heyday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 03:52 PM
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Yeah, this is ok and all when girls and boys are about the same physically as children. The problem is when that son grows up and thinks it’s ok to punch a woman in the face who slaps him. I don’t advocate violence from either gender, and certainly don’t advocate for women hitting men. However, I am teaching my sons to never hit a woman because I won’t have them grow up like one of these douchebags on reddit who laugh and clap at videos when a man punches a tiny woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 02:15 PM
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Oh my god. This is me the other day. I got on one of the apps for the first time in awhile, had thousands of matches, and spent some time swiping. I was repulsed. Ew, ew, ew. Why are most of them just so...ugly?? The poses they choose and the clothes they wear certainly don’t help, but most are legitimately unattractive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 11:50 AM
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You can literally be an angel sitting in front of them who looks like a Victoria’s Secret model with an amazing personality to match, and they are so focused somewhere else that they won’t ever see it. DO NOT progress with a man with ex issues. This is an absolute dealbreaker for me after having dealt with it several times. Talk about an ex excessively, get the boot.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 06:58 PM
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“You’re like really pretty.” “Thank you.” “So you agree? You think you’re really pretty.” Lol. Anyway, I hate when LVM spout this bullshit at us. Brah, I know I’m hot. I’ll say thank you, I know, when you’re the 15th guy by 10 AM to compliment me on my looks. If you don’t want that answer, first of all, go to hell, and secondly start talking to me like a human and bring something other than that bs to the table.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/12/19 03:08 PM
5

This is me as well. At this point, I’ve just realized that I’ll keep the fun ones around and instantly ghost any of them that give off red flags. Not needing one of them is a blessing. We can be as ridiculously picky as we want.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:18 PM
23

Most healthy adults desire some level of physical intimacy in a relationship. You will have an especially hard time finding anyone that is OK with being celibate the rest of his life. (I wouldn’t be, and I’m a woman.) You didn’t want to go on the expensive trips, etc. when he offered them, but are now nostalgic and wish you had when the opportunity is gone. I’m not a psychiatrist, but there is definitely something amiss here, either with your self esteem or some kind of trauma you haven’t confro…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:53 AM
20

Yes. This. You need help that we can’t really give here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/19 12:33 AM
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I wish she’d private message me because I will definitely help. I’m scared for that child and her. I can barely even reply because I was so stunned at what I read. Girl, if you’re reading this, we care.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:20 PM
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Universities, business conventions, living in a nice/rich neighborhood and attending neighborhood events. Never online or at bars. Even if those men have money, most of them are either players who think they can constantly swipe and get something better or have some kind of mental problem. Men with a lot of money don’t need online dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:15 PM
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Red flags: Hates his mother. Talks about how broke he is. Wants a relationship but “not right now, may be ready soon.” Calls you by anything other than your name when you first are getting to know each other-baby/cutie/princess. Becomes overly emotional when he feels like you aren’t giving him enough attention.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 11:36 AM
12

I just snorted out my green tea laughing. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:26 AM
5

Swoon 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/19 12:12 AM
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But...but he’s not even good looking. 😅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:40 PM
6

Holy shit! She completely cucked herself. She allowed her husband to become a polygamist and move some chick into their home. What the hellllll no😦
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 05:27 PM
10

I have only been in long term relationships/married men who at least make in the upper six figures if not more. I also make 6 figures. I feel no shame in it. All my children have the best in life and life is easy street for me. I hope the young unmarried FDS women who desire kids heed this advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:24 PM
10

I’ve been dating men for longer than this and have declined exclusivity until I’m ready. This is on her terms, not his. He seems perfectly content to keep trying to woo her. Why is this a problem?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/19 03:17 PM
36

Most men are far too dramatic and overly emotional for me. I wish the no drama would extend to their behavior.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:53 PM
8

Hahaha! Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:13 PM
29

Girl, some men are just so stupid it’s unbelievable. They really have no idea how much male attention we get constantly. They always think we should worship the ground they walk on because they said we are pretty.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 08:44 PM
18

I still don’t know who that was, nor am in any way blonde. (I’m dark brunette.) I saved some other woman a bit of trouble though, lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/12/19 10:25 AM
20

Men say “I love you” so quickly, and I’m left just going “Uh, thanks.” I’m talking after knowing each other for a month or less. It is a particularly funny male trait to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 09:24 AM
9

Sounds like a loser. Complaining over $150? Thank you, next.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/19 12:04 AM
181

They’re angry at us because women knowing their worth and demanding respect is horrifying to them. I have two sons of my own, multiple life-long male friends I’ve known from childhood, a brother/father/male family members I adore, etc. I don’t hate men. I hate fuckboys and men who disrespect me, which, unfortunately, is an overwhelming amount. The high-quality males in my life personally have no problem with our ideology about dating, and, in fact, agree with it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 10:57 PM
25

This exactly. Damn, they’re dumb. Lmao.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 09:57 PM
3

Lmao! I remember your initial post. Classic. They all do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/19 08:29 PM
3

God damn this is stupid. You said women don’t understand men, but supposedly you understand exactly what women are thinking and feeling even when this chick literally laid out the truth for you? Wow. Amazing. Bravo!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/19 03:26 AM
21

I wrote a comment on this the other day. Yes, if a man calls you cute, it’s him negging you by saying you aren’t good enough to be truly beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:20 AM
27

Those responses are dumpster fire. It reinforces my opinion that so many men are trash. If a guy gets upset that I won’t sleep with him after x amount of dates, l literally block him and move on. Sisters, respect yourself enough to do the same. You are the prize.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:19 AM
42

It’s ok, sis! I too leveled up in my 30s. It’s never too late to respect yourself and expect nothing less than respect from the men to whom you chose to give your precious time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/19 03:09 AM
26

Yeah, I have ghosted dudes like this before. If you tell me your only available time is Monday and Wednesday from 4 pm to 6 pm, why would I date you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/19 12:46 PM
46

I feel the same way. I don’t understand how it got this bad. I am very girly and get absolutely disgusted when a guy thinks I should throw myself at him, text him first, or pay. I always have. It comes across as so feminine and unattractive to me. I personally am teaching my sons to know that they need to prove themselves and trying to instill in them those high value qualities in the thread that was up previously today. People are failing their sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:45 PM
14

I know, I could only read the first comment before I got too disgusted to continue.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 08:33 PM
3

It’s so sad. Same here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:32 PM
44

Yup no princesses here. Just queens! 👸🏻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 03:04 PM
47

God, these men are so pathetic. Not boyfriend or husband material, period. Who wants to be with a dude who is so cheap that they won’t even pay for a date? Can you imagine what kind of partner they’d be in a long term relationship? What about when you have kids? Women who don’t require men to pay for the dates are setting themselves up for long term failure.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:56 PM
121

It’s so difficult to find a man with even half these qualities, yet most women I meet possess the majority. It’s very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 02:52 PM
6

He’s full of shit. My ex had a large dick and lost his libido around the age of 40, because, like I said, that’s when most do. It doesn’t matter how large the dick is if it’s limp and won’t screw you. Useless!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/19 04:24 AM
18

Wow! What an idiot. Hopefully no other women fall for this mess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:27 PM
16

Poor thing. She needs psychological help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:27 PM
54

No, hun. Just no. It isn’t temporary. Did you know a significant portion of men have erectile dysfunction by the time they reach his age? It won’t change. He’s even told you it won’t change. He’s just dangling that carrot so you won’t leave him. As a woman who also has a high libido who has been with men who have lost theirs, please don’t put yourself in that situation. You start to resent him, feel insecure in yourself, and frankly get so horny that it’s impossible to concentrate. Lol. Find a m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:24 PM
20

Yep. Great advice. I’m a single mom of three with a high income and my kids have every advantage known to man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 04:19 PM
20

We aren’t cute. We are gorgeous, stunning, and beautiful. Cute honestly sounds like a neg to me. Like you aren’t good looking enough to be truly beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:30 PM
59

A high value man doesn’t care about spending money on you. I only date these men, and after having had conversations about this very topic with one of him—his response was: “I don’t get it. There are really men out there who act like babies and have women pay for dates? How embarrassing for them.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:26 PM
30

Low effort. If a man sends me this as his first message, I delete it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 11:18 AM
10

Thank you!!! Truth spoken.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 03:46 AM
30

He sounds like a low value fuckboy. Say nothing and ghost him. I guarantee it will get worse and you’ll wish you heeded this advice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:44 AM
40

Please be careful meeting anybody at a motel for the first time. I’m saying this with genuine concern. You don’t know this person at all. Stay safe, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/19 01:43 AM
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One time I told a guy I was dating I was uninterested in sleeping with him right then because I was tired. He said “If you’re tired you could just lay there and take it. No woman has ever said no to me before.” Needless to say, last date. I’m not anybody’s hole that should just lay there and take it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 10:34 PM
4

Lol. This exactly. The more you do for a man, the more they get complacent, lazy and do less and less for you. Take it from someone who has been there, done that. My advice? If you absolutely do have to get married, don’t focus on pleasing him. Keep focusing on yourself. It keeps them on their toes. If you act like you care too much about him or do too much for him, he turns lazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:07 PM
85

I’ve been married. Never again. It’s a trap for women, not the men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/11/19 04:01 PM
7

You won’t be alone forever. You could snap your fingers and have guys come running. However, you know it’s better to be alone for right now than with one of those chumps who adds no value to your life other than being a warm body. I’m actually happier and healthier single now than I ever was married or in a relationship. Men are just cute, fun toys to play with for now until I find one I want to keep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 02:54 PM
2

I feel you, sister. My ex also has BPD. If you look at my post history you can see just one of the kinds of threats he made. Your story sounds exactly like crap he used to do.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 02:13 PM
24

I have danced ballet for over 30 years. I play several instruments. I am also a black belt in taekwondo, which I still practice. And yes, definitely, all of these hobbies have helped me be more distant towards guys in the early dating phase until they prove themselves. I have a full life. He needs to enrich it or gtfo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 12:11 PM
11

I love this girl. Lol. Looking for more of her videos.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:54 AM
37

Absolutely tell him you’re leaving if he doesn’t marry you before having children. And you want to have children in X years. Where women go wrong is we aren’t forthright enough in what we require to be happy. You’re so young. This guy may be the love of your life for now, but if he isn’t going to be the love of your life (happily married with kids) 5 years from now, why are you wasting your time on him? You could be out meeting your real husband.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:39 AM
27

This is what I’m teaching my own sons. It should be common knowledge but common sense isn’t common. Be a good man. Be someone worth someone else’s time. A woman’s LIFE is literally the biggest present she can ever give you. You haven’t earned it from simply being “OK.”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/11/19 04:35 AM
22

Hahaha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:43 PM
26

I just smile and wait. Makes it awkward for them if they were not intending not to pay.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 02:10 PM
37

It’s a troll post meant to convince people that this subreddit is about gold digging. My ex husband is a millionaire and he didn’t even mention any kind of prenup nor did he care about money. If he’d given me a list like this dude made, I would have died laughing at him and left. And he knew that. Know your worth, girl, whoever you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/11/19 08:57 AM
38

I keep thinking of that song by JLO called “Ain’t your mama.” Highly recommend lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:46 PM
68

“I didn’t like him as much as he liked me.” This gives the new guy a goal to outdo the old one and make you like him. You got this, sis.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:23 AM
39

They always do that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 04:21 AM
244

Please, young sisters. Read this. I’m begging you. I need you to know that this is the truth. I have a daughter and I will be teaching this to her. I’m only 34 but it took me far too too long to realize this blatant truth. Men want to feel superior. They feel superior and like they are your white knight if you tell them that a man treated you badly. Only let the dudes you are dating know that other men have treated you like the queen that you are. (Even if it’s a lie.) This requires them to step…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/11/19 01:41 AM
30

My ex did that all the time. He’d bitch and complain that she was keeping “his” kids from him. I said uh then why not go to court and get more custody? Crickets. They just want sympathy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:33 PM
4

Lol this looks like my inbox. Queen. 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:06 PM
32

I’m 34 and have men beating down my door. Frankly, there’s so many of them that I’m bored of it and pick and choose when I engage.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 07:05 PM
67

Haha balding and fat but rates himself an 8. Also 300k In the SF Bay Area is nothing. I make way more than him and live in the rural south but am not living like P Diddy. Amazing the amount of self esteem these guys have.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 06:54 PM
2

You’re amazing. Never forget how strong you are.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/19 04:16 PM
6

I have told the men I’m dating that I post here. I even link posts to them. They all support and accept our views on low quality vs high quality men—probably because they’re all high quality. This dude in the post is better tossed in the trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 09:05 PM
11

This fits my ex boyfriend perfectly. We have to be very careful who we get involved with.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 11:13 AM
29

Being terrible at communicating between dates means he wasn’t into you from the start. I’m sorry to say that it looks like he was just using you for sex and not he has found his new supply. My ex husband is a millionaire who runs his own company and he positively beat down my phone with texts/calls during the courting phase to try to get me to notice him. I actually ignored him for awhile at first. It sounds like your dynamic was backwards from how it’s supposed to be. He doesn’t value you but I…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/19 10:57 AM
19

Yeah, I wish I was gay to be honest. My sister is and is so happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 10:41 PM
46

Yeah, I constantly have couples approach me in real life. It always starts with the woman approaching me to make me drop my guard, then introducing me to her husband. After that, it’s always predatory in how they try to persuade me to go home with them. Makes my skin crawl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 08:17 PM
38

Sounds like an emotional vampire, like many men. He would have sucked you dry. Thank god he showed his true colors before you even met.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 06:43 PM
2

Girl, please don’t go to dates drunk. That’s such a huge turn off. If you feel the need to get drunk before dating, you need to work on yourself before meeting anybody else. Pregame with a glass of wine, sure, but to show up to even one date plastered isn’t going to get you where you want to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 06:42 PM
3

Honestly, he sounds like a loser. No way would I consent to a dude being my boyfriend after 5 dates. Many men ask me to be their girlfriend even after 1 date. It’s a red flag that they just want that “title” so they can get pussy. You dodged a bullet in my opinion.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/19 05:44 PM
29

I can’t believe these women truly believe that this shit is the way to have a good relationship. They are basically making themselves into slaves. Why do that to yourself?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/19 01:24 AM
70

My mother is 70 and men are still lined up hitting on her. More importantly, she has hobbies and passions she loves, a family who adores her, and is very healthy. Most 70 year old men I know are miserable and lonely if unmarried.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 09:07 PM
3

I always wear a sexy little black dress and heels during the summer or knee high boots during the winter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 08:41 PM
9

I have male friends and family members who know I post here and fully support our ideology. Only weak betas who want to use women dislike it. Real men who care about women have no problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:26 PM
17

This. I’m a very petite, cutesy woman but I’m a complete type A boss. Guys are so shocked and emasculated sometimes. I don’t deal with those types.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 06:19 PM
26

That’s just their way of trying to insult us. A very odd way, because this is a dating sub and women are constantly posting screenshots of stuff from their boyfriends/husbands/dates. I will raise my hand and say I also have the sex. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 11:50 AM
43

I’ve seen genuinely ugly women with loving, doting husbands. You avoid letting men use you for sex by not having sex without commitment. You may have to weed through many toads using this method, but the guy you do find will stick because he genuinely likes you. This is the same strategy for beautiful women as well. Honestly, I think you’re prettier than you think you are because as women we are our own worst critics. Without even seeing you, I know you can find many, many men who would adore yo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 11:46 AM
4

What the heck is this sub? I just moseyed my way over there, saw some amazingly beautiful chicks being rated a 6??? Hahaha. Is that a covert incel subreddit trying to give those women self esteem issues? Also, it looks like you get immediately banned if you say they’re full of crap and those women are gorgeous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 02:40 AM
5

She was talking about renaming the linked subreddit “bad women’s anatomy” to that. Not this one. I too love men. I have 2 sons.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/11/19 02:31 AM
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Don’t you have to undergo a new surgery every decade or so to get them replaced? No freaking thanks. I know a lot more guys who could use a penis implant than women who could use fake boobs. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/11/19 01:29 PM
3

If a guy said some bullshit to me like that my only response would be... Hahahahaha hahahaha What a fucking dork.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:28 AM
7

Yay! Happy for you sister. Just remember, you’re the prize. Not him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/19 04:21 AM
51

Lmao. Sounds like the last dude I dated. He claimed his ex wife was keeping him from his daughters. I kept asking him why he didn’t just take her to court then and get more custody, but he never would. They want to bitch and get sympathy without actually taking on any responsibility. I guarantee you no man would ever keep me from my kids.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 02:59 PM
20

Hahaha girl! This is so me. I get a billion texts and just put my phone on mute and relax in a hot bubble bath for a few hours at night, then get my 8 hours of beauty sleep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 02:00 PM
1

He didn’t even use the word “you’re” correctly. Pet peeve of mine. But yeah in actuality, he should have been the one blowing up your phone with texts if he was interested. He seems like a manchild and easily defeated. Not a HVM. I rarely text any of my dudes back and they’re still blowing me up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 10:01 AM
5

Yes to all of this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/11/19 09:53 AM
6

Thanks for posting this. I am saving it to reread.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/11/19 02:38 PM
58

I went out with a couple dudes who started talking about all the hot chicks that they get to date. One of the guys was so ugly that when I saw him standing outside the restaurant as I was pulling up, my instinct was to just keep driving lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 02:45 PM
25

I just blocked a dude like this. Thanks sisters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/19 06:02 AM
3

Same here. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 07:04 PM
24

He wants a good woman who puts out for a fuckboy. Sounds about right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 02:10 PM
32

I just...omg. I just can’t even fathom the mindset going on here. I feel so bad for this girl. I want to take her under my wing and help her like a mama hen. Girls, never give your body to a person who doesn’t deserve it. It won’t make him like you more. It won’t make him stick around. A guy who truly adores you will wait months, or even years to have the privilege of being with your naked body. I know this for a fact from experience. Don’t let anyone convince you otherwise.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 04:08 AM
13

Hahahaha, exactly girl!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/19 01:45 AM
13

Because he’s a piece of trash. It doesn’t matter how fake nice to you he is at other times. If he is disrespecting and hurting you it is fake nice because someone who truly loves you doesn’t treat you like that. Glad you threw him in the dumpster and he’s your ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 01:44 PM
6

I can tell you from experience that if he’s a higher level drug trafficker, you won’t see any of these red flags. However, you may be right and he’s some other kind of rich. If he wants to be exclusive with you, he needs to tell you where he gets his money from, though. End of story.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 12:18 PM
14

Keanu seems like he has found the connection that he really wants on a soulful level that these heathen manchildren just can’t understand. Keanu is exactly the man they should be looking up to and trying to emulate, but they are so shallow that they hate him now that he has found true happiness and not the Leonardo DiCaprio way (dating an endless stream of models young enough to be his daughters). His new girlfriend is actually younger than him by quite a few years and is very attractive. She ju…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:34 AM
2

That’s awesome! Ballet is one of the best ways to keep in top shape. I actually teach lessons to adults, and everyone always has a lot of fun while getting in an amazing workout.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/11/19 10:18 AM
59

One time my ex told me I looked good, so I said “yeah, I always look good.” He said, “no you don’t.” Instantly, I said “Oh really? When?” He got a surprised Pikachu face and struggled to figure out what to say, then told me I was crazy for being offended since what he said was just a joke. So, I said “You could stand to lose 15 pounds and you’re going grey. I wouldn’t be talking.” That same guy who told me I shouldn’t be upset got insanely angry and freaked out, screaming and acting like a child…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:21 PM
7

I have three kids, and at the moment I have multiple high quality, successful, hot men trying to wife me up. They all treat me like a queen. I do keep myself fit, and I look much younger than my age. I own a business, have multiple degrees. I’m talented (ballerina for 30 plus years, play multiple instruments). The manosphere betas saying that we are used up and no one wants us are so hilarious to me as I sit in my big house with guys throwing money and attention at me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 09:06 PM
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Keanu is literally a king among men, a true example of what a man should be, and I hope I find a man like him one day. I don’t know much about her, but I know she has to be an amazing woman. She has such a warm smile.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 03:35 PM
47

I was that sweet, loving wife who never refused anything. I hope the girls over there one day realize it doesn’t make a difference. He still cheated on me with multiple women. I learned to stand up for myself, got into the queen mindset, and now I have guys worshipping the ground I walk on. I know which woman I’d rather be!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/19 10:58 AM
29

I absolutely adore Keanu Reeves. This makes him even hotter.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 01:10 PM
3

I married a doctor. I was with him while he was still in med school/residency. He always texted/called every day. Some days nonstop if I wouldn’t answer him. There is never an excuse for a lack of reply other than they aren’t into you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/11/19 12:27 AM
22

This. It doesn’t matter either way. Guys want and respect the prize they have to go after, not the pot of gold that just shows up randomly on their doorstep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:45 PM
4

This. You should be talking to 5 other dudes in the second he took to block you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/11/19 03:37 PM
14

I have a daughter and this makes me sick to my stomach.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:29 PM
3

Utterly hilarious. Keep up the good work lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:28 PM
65

Hm, unattractive human trash? Odd since I’m too busy with running a business, working out, hobbies, and dating multiple men to plan a weird, passive aggressive raid on a subreddit. These guys have far too much time on their hands.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 05:26 PM
12

Goldie Hawn is a boss!!! I’m 34 but I hope And pray I’m as awesome as she is when I’m her age. This dude was a piece of garbage. Glad you sent him to the dumpster.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/11/19 03:37 AM
12

Honestly, that thread is so retarded that it’s hilarious. I was cracking up. They refuse to take responsibility for anything and call the moms horrible people for taking on that responsibility and raising their kids. Wow. Just wow. Incredible! By the way, I’m a single mom of three. I am also very successful and still hot. My kids have all skipped 2 grades. These guys are pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 06:32 PM
1

Oh my god lmao. This crap is priceless.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/19 06:25 PM
2

He’s lying and manipulating you to get you to have sex with him. Saying that he can’t develop feelings for you unless you have sex with him is a classic douchebag behavior. It didn’t take sex for you to form your attachment, right? Please boot this guy out of your life. He is NOT even your friend. A friend wouldn’t treat another friend like this. He is never going to be your boyfriend and you’re just going to keep being manipulated if you don’t let him go.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 02:30 PM
23

I’d be talking to five different guys before the “again” came out of his mouth. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 02:27 PM
10

It isn’t rare at all lol. My ex husband is a doctor and guess who he cheated with? A lot of his fellow doctors also did the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 01:19 AM
10

My ex husband is a doctor and he was all of the above. Don’t marry a doctor, girls.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 01:15 AM
10

You’re not the only one. I’ve been married and it was so boring. I can’t imagine spending my entire life with just one person anymore at this point. They’ve given you some great advice above.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/19 01:13 AM
27

I dated a dude who was 5’5 and he had the biggest insecurity about his height. He referenced it constantly to the point I was just like stfu! So incel male lurkers, it’s not always the women rejecting you for being a little guy, it’s that being little makes you have little man syndrome.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 10:24 PM
7

I’m sorry but In my experience this isn’t true at all. I’ve only dated/married men who make at the least 6 figures and none thought twice about always paying for the dates. If he runs away because he’s paying for the dates, he wasn’t going to stick around and wife you up anyway. They’re supposed to be impressing us, not the other way around. Competing for a man is self-defeating and lowers your value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 08:55 PM
11

He should be paying for everything. Why is he making you pay if he’s that much more wealthy than you?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:58 PM
20

I’m upper middle class. Sorry, not marrying a dude who works part time at Home Depot. They want to make us the bad guys, but in reality life takes money. Why would we want to get serious with a guy who makes 1/10th of what we do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/19 01:00 PM
20

Why do they so desperately want to be treated like a doormat by men? Why do they want men to control them? Is it daddy issues? It actually sounds like her captain is even uncomfortable with what she’s saying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/19 03:23 PM
6

I’m going to be honest, my bio looks even more stringent/hardass than yours and I get an overflow of matches. Most guys don’t even read it. They look at the pictures. I’m not saying you’re not beautiful, but I’m curious what kinds of pictures you have up if you aren’t getting any matches.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:20 PM
39

If we are so “dumb,” why not leave us to our own devices. Oh wait, it’s because we scare the shit out of them since we aren’t doormats.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 02:12 AM
6

34, so the old wise one here. Kind of like the FDS Gandalf except sexier. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:57 AM
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I have been in your place. I’m a beautiful, successful woman who fell in love with a troll. I was so devastated at times over what he did that I even considered suicide. It takes time, a lot of effort, leaning on friends, and honestly just going to meet new, nicer, hotter guys. Your self esteem is in the gutter right now, but you’re amazing, so don’t let that piece of trash steal your light. Guys like that just get off on feeling powerful if a hot chick even gives him the time of day. You gave h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:44 AM
5

Hahahahaha. I’m dying.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/19 01:31 AM
6

Yay! Happy for you. I love your post.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 07:12 PM
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You need to get that loser out of your head. He isn’t your problem anymore. And do you honestly, honestly think he’d listen to your advice even if you gave it? You’d be sending that anonymous text for no reason. A frumpy, unhealthy guy like that isn’t that way because he doesn’t know that eating Doritos for breakfast is bad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:22 PM
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Wow! That post was just...horribly sad. If it was a woman, and I’ll go by the premise that it is, she has so low self-worth and value for herself that it honestly makes me feel bad for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:12 PM
20

I remember before online dating was a huge thing and there was still an overflow of penis trying to sling themselves my way.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 06:03 PM
2

Lol!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 02:20 PM
2

Amazing post! I need to reread it more. I agree. Thank you for sharing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:20 PM
7

I’m really attractive and get a ton of male attention. Always have. Been married before, engaged twice and currently dating a few guys at once (all begging me to commit). So, nah, no femcel. Honestly all the ladies on this sub seem like ferocious lionesses so I’m surprised you’re saying there are any here at all lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/10/19 01:05 PM
4

Guilty! Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:18 PM
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Yup. Definitely not ugly or deranged here. Nor do I hate men. I have 2 sons of my own and one of my best lifelong friends is a guy. I dislike fuckboys, period. I believe this sub is about self-love and standing up for ourselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 02:16 PM
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Yup. Men are visual creatures. I usually only wear dresses with heels in the summer or sexy boots and knee high socks in the winter. Drives them crazy! I had a few guys approach me just this past summer to tell me they wish more women would dress that way. Clothes are a quick and easy way to maximize your looks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 11:16 AM
9

Hahaha. Female incels. Hilarious. Most of us here have men throwing themselves at us left and right. I’m glad you love our sub and welcome sister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/10/19 11:03 AM
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I make 6 figures a year. I’m not sleeping with a guy because he buys me anything, much less a fucking salad from Applebee’s.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 07:23 PM
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No, they absolutely do not. I’ll never forget what my ex husband said when I caught him cheating on me: “You were too good to me, took care of me too well...and I started to see you like my mom.” Men don’t want mommies. And we don’t want to be their moms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 12:59 PM
5

Looooooserrrrr! Block his dumb ass. He sounds like a rapey asshole trying to coerce you into sex. Don’t even respond! Block and move on, sis! You’re worth more that that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 06:04 AM
3

If he disappears on the weekend it’s because he already has another woman. He’s a liar. Been there, done that. You probably won’t believe me, but will be back here in a month when you discover he has a wife or fiancé or serious gf. Don’t be that girl.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/19 05:54 AM
10

A lot of the time it’s the same people making posts like the one above who compare us to them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 01:35 PM
2

Don’t approach, but be available. Make eye contact and smile. If he doesn’t approach you, he wasn’t interested.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 12:34 PM
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They have to do something with their Saturday since they don’t have dates lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 12:29 PM
6

Yes! Confidence is key. When you enter a room, keep your head up, smile, make eye contact, and strut. Haha. It always works for me. I’m sure you’re beautiful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:36 AM
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Don’t think of any man as out of your league. Flirt. Smile. Have interesting hobbies that spark conversation. The main thing though is that men are visual creatures so if you can work on your looks even more, it will always help with the attention aspect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:28 AM
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A piece of shit? Possibly. That’s why we use it to weed them out and see their level of interest. If you prefer to pay on dates, go ahead. It is not in our best interest, and that is why we don’t condone it here. You may be mistaking our dating advice for advice after a solid relationship is already established. Most of us have wonderful careers and are perfectly able to pay for our own meals and contribute to a household. However, if you establish while dating that you will always go dutch or p…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/19 11:22 AM
1

Once again, it’s about dating strategies to benefit women looking for long term, stable relationships with good men who are interested. The overwhelming amount of fuckboys in the dating scene makes it necessary for women to actively screen men to gauge investment. If a man is so uninvested that he thinks a dinner at Chili’s is gold digging, he is not suitable husband or father material and was not looking for the role.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 06:53 PM
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They only have power or an effect on your life if you let them. Ignore them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:49 PM
2

You fucked up for sure but the only thing you can do now is not care what those people think. Unless they’re messing with you in some way. Are they?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 05:20 PM
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Yeah, it’s a little mushy for me as well but he’s trying. He’s not my boyfriend (yet). Although he’s overly romantic, I am big on making men communicate since it’s usually so hard for them. I made another guy I am dating right now send me a list of 30 reasons he is into me. Lol. Of course, if they don’t treat me like a queen as well, they’re out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 03:19 PM
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He does show me through actions as well. If a man isn’t telling me how he feels as well, then I move on. They should be able to show as well as tell you or they just aren’t that into you. I posted this to show the difference between awful texts from most of the guys who are posted and a man who is truly enamored with you. Too much negative, not enough showing the positive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 02:55 PM
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Drop him. Get a man who treats you like a queen. He’s a loser.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 02:23 PM
2

It gives men less ability or incentive to be fuckboys when they have to put a down payment on every date they go on. It doesn’t only benefit the woman on the date, but all women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 02:07 PM
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I think you’re mistaking this sub with being feminist. We are about using dating strategies that benefit females. We believe that all men, hot or not, should be paying on dates.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:42 PM
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Wow! He is so butthurt that you don’t like him, girl. That’s hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:03 PM
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I think it’s because women are insanely powerful and strong. We live longer than men. We have a higher pain tolerance. All of the amazing things about us paired with our sexual power over them can be pretty darn scary for the average male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/10/19 01:01 PM
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Get it girl! I feel the same way. They want us to be humble or feel bad about bragging as a way to control us. Whereas every guy thinks he’s the best thing ever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 09:00 PM
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My mother is 70 years old and still has younger guys throw themselves at her. I’m in my mid-30s and it’s the same. I think they just like to fool themselves into thinking that women have a “wall.” You can see his insecurity seeping through just for the fact that he wrote a stranger such a long message.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 12:39 PM
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I’ve told you what I think from having been there through experience. However, since you’ve come on here for advice, I’ll give you advice. Try NOT initiating any communication. Wait. See what he does. If he doesn’t ever talk to you again, you will know that he never valued you, you were not his dream girl, and you can chalk it up to time wasted. Then come back on here for some good advice about how to snag a man of the same qualities/caliber. You’re very young. Trust me, there is not a scarcity …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/19 10:42 AM
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Because you aren’t his dream girl. I’ve never been in a long term relationship with a guy who makes under 6 figures and my ex husband is a millionaire. They all chased me. Men only don’t initiate communication if they aren’t that interested. I know it sucks to hear, but it’s the truth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 11:18 PM
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That’s not him initiating communication. Initiating means he is the one sending the initial text for you to reply to. You are sending him texts and he won’t even respond until the next day? I hate to see someone so in denial, but I repeat he is not that into you and doesn’t feel the same as you. He’s using you for sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 11:16 PM
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It’s true. A guy said that to me once. “I don’t know if I want a relationship right now.” Again, the “with you” was silent. So I ghosted and blocked his ass. He created/got a different number just to try to say that I took it the wrong way and he messed up. Yup. He messed up and lost me forever. Don’t let a guy string you along, ladies.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 04:05 PM
13

Strong women terrify men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 03:03 PM
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I feel like this is the main message of this subreddit. People getting angry over this is because thinking and living this way creates strong, independent women. Strong women have always and will always be terrifying to the average male.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:53 PM
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He isn’t organizing times for them to hang out. He’s ghosting her until she initiates communication and then is saying “come hang out with me at this time” for sex. If she didn’t initiate communication each time, he’d completely ghost her. A guy that’s into a woman doesn’t act like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 02:37 PM
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He’s not that into you. Straight up. Both of my long term relationships were with workaholic/rich guys, and they pursued me just like any truly interested man would. I ignored them at first, and they blew up my phone. It’s a cop out for him to say he’s too busy to text. You’re just making it easy for him to get laid by initiating all this communication. If he’s not contacting you for 4-5 days at a time until you finally contact him, do you really think he’s just not talking to/seeing other women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 09:01 AM
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They’re angry because we are onto their games and advocating for women to take a stand against fuckboys like these. If we want long-lasting, loving relationships, we have to be smart, girls. I wonder how many clueless women he’s hurt through being a scumbag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 08:48 AM
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I’ve done this before. This makes them more obsessed with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/10/19 03:40 AM
6

Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:57 PM
11

Preach it, girl! I actually read your original post and enjoyed it. Lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/19 08:53 PM
14

I’ve had bad dates. I get up and leave. Your time is too valuable to waste on trash. Don’t be too polite to take a stand for yourself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 05:25 PM
22

A ton of men even below that age range are emotionally messed up. I’m in my 30s and it’s like weeding through a garden of complete nutcases. And they say women are the emotional/crazy ones.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/19 05:22 PM
6

Lmao! Love this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 05:38 PM
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I’ve honestly started thinking that too. Most men I meet are all emotionally volatile like toddlers, and I have tried a wide range of men from different backgrounds. I don’t need another child to look after. Edit: I thought I’d add some examples for you guys to laugh at. One dude started crying because I didn’t want to cuddle him to sleep. Another dude started screaming on a date because I refused to hold his hand. I laughed at him and then he started crying. Yet another started crying during di…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/10/19 01:02 PM
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There are so many penises. Why use this idiot’s?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/10/19 11:04 AM
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