At a NYE party I attended, someone brought a random scrote from an app over. He was 10+ years older than the average age there. This scrote chats along until he suddenly asked the group if anyone knew Queen. "Why yes, she is my neighbour!" I reacted. He immediately answered, quite casually: "She's my ex. Where does she live nowadays anyway?"

Had it not been for FDS, I probably would have answered his question and thought nothing of it (it is not uncommon where I'm at, to ask in which building or part of town people live as small-talk). But because of FDS, a voice in my head immediately screamed RED FLAG! 🚩and I shut him down, quick as a flash: "I don't think you need to know where your ex lives."

His mask dropped. He got angry and demanding to know where she lives, it's not a weird question to ask, how dare you be so rude, blah blah blah. I walked away and ignored his presence for the rest of the evening. Until eventually, I demanded him to be removed from the party. He tried to manipulate his way into staying for over half an hour and finally left, when it became clear EVERYONE wanted him out and things might escalate if he didn't go.

Turns out he has been stalking Queen for the past four years. He has also tracked down some people who attended the party through social media and threatened them (writing whole rambling essays the way only triggered scrotes can), saying he knows their home address and has the means to enter their homes. Along with proclaiming he'll discipline us if he runs into anyone of us in public, listing information he'd gathered on us during the evening, vague descriptions of our physical appearance, the names he remembered, going on and on about how we should be deeply ashamed for the way we treated him, we're neurotic fools showing unacceptable behaviour, we should be thankful of him because he brought a portable speaker, we won't get rid of him anytime soon if we don't apologise for being rude to him, etc.

Safe to say I will be filing a police report with my Queen friend tomorrow, and have removed any means for him to track me down online. I have also warned my social circles to never, ever give out personal information of others to anyone. Asked a bar I frequent to deny him entry if he ever shows up there. I've contacted the person who brought this scrote along to block&delete his ass without explanation, and to never bring a rando to a party ever again. I contacted the company that he claimed to have worked for, which 'give him acces to the keys of their appartments', to make sure this is either an empty threat or he is denied access immediately. I am also doing everything in my power to make sure my Queen friend stays safe.

Had it not been for FDS I might have given this scrote the benefit of the doubt. I would have been nice and answered his question about her living area. He would have abused this to harass my Queen friend further. Had it not been for FDS, I might not have pushed to file a police report and downplayed the whole thing. But my new iron boundaries will not stand for this threatening behaviour. I will have this scrote locked behind bars with a criminal record longer than the Bible before I let him come near my Queen friend or me.

This will be the first police report filed against him after four years of harassment from his part. Thank you for inspiring women to stand up for themselves nd tolerate zero abuse, FDS.