The thought crossed my mind how feminists generally hate non-feminist women more than they do anyone else because they perceive them as traitors to the cause.

Yet I find that some men's-rights activits hate feminist menin a similar fashion.

Though I reject feminism myself, I think the men's rights movement should show more respect towards feminist men. We might disagree with them but we can still try to understand them. Some might have experienced extreme abuse from other men and maybe a women helped them out of that abuse. Maybe they've been lucky enough to never have yet experienced injustice at the hands of a woman. Maybe these feminist men are more middle-to-upper-class themselves so genuinely don't understand less privileged men. Maybe they'd been abusive towards a woman themselves and so identify as feminist in attempt to make atonement.

We can disagree with them without calling them soyboys.