Right now there's a post rapidly gaining traction elsewhere about men with so-called "broken dicks." OP, a woman, believes that porn addiction and death gripping has taken away men's sensitivity, which is frustrating her with sexual partners.

You'll notice this a lot. A woman's contribution to a man's pleasure involves the following:

[1] Being present

A man's contribution to a woman's pleasure involves:

[1] Providing her a situation in which she is comfortable

[2] Reading her non-verbal cues, no matter how subtle

[3] Constantly affirming/reaffirming consent whether it be active or verbal

[4] Being able to ejaculate not too quickly but not too slowly

[5] Performing emotional labor, which by definition, involves correctly guessing what she wants outside of sex

[6] Knowing exactly the right pace and positions that she favors

You see, I don't think that the men's requirements are all that ridiculous, but the fact that he can fail any one of them and be blamed for poor sex while a woman is simply never at fault is what bothers me. Deathgrip is absolutely a thing, but you know what else is a thing? A woman only being able to reach orgasm with a Hitachi Magic Wand set so high it needs an entire nuclear plant to power it.

Not all bad sex is men's fault.