Do y’all realize there’s hundreds of local Facebook groups with 23k+ women, where they can anonymously post your photos and other women can reply to gossip/shit talk/spread defamation?

Reddit1984Censorship · 2022-10-18T18:16:42+00:00

Literal hate groups

AshookaNaga · 2022-10-18T19:16:08+00:00

MGTOW sounds stupid until you see things like this.

Then they sound more like they’re ahead of the curve.

Aidernz · 2022-10-18T19:35:39+00:00

I've been a victim of this. I've hired a lawyer to get to the bottom of it. It's been 14 months so far. They take ages :/

mmalakhov · 2022-10-18T17:57:45+00:00

Reminds me of a situation where a Instagram influencer went inside Mens Bathroom with a camera for her online content where she has to face few cuss words from the men inside. And I saw few online woke libs trying to support her by saying Men aren't sexualised so this would not affect them...Men pee outside in open, near bushes and all, if they don't have problem them why are they making it a guss here ..blah..blah. Its the problem with intersectional feminism. Men are opressors and hence opression against opressed can be excused considering the greated scale of things.

Drakethepirate · 2022-10-18T20:40:56+00:00

Please expose them and their hate group. It's not okay to make men afraid of dating with false accusations

TheSilverShade · 2022-10-18T17:43:00+00:00

One more reason to not have any social media. I had a woman do that to me back when I was on Facebook.

Let's just say that it was one of numerous bad experiences that made me go my own way

Martini1 · 2022-10-18T23:56:23+00:00

Report them for false information or harassment or whatever Facebook category fits in a report. First response will be a bot that you appeal if they don't take it down.

I did this to a FB group called "boys are stupid so throw rocks at them" and in a few days, it was taken down. A slow response? A bit. Effective? Yup!

Electrical_Access604 · 2022-10-19T08:24:55+00:00

I've been targeted with that. A girl cropped a meme out of a chat we were having and posted on a University group to "warn" other women of my "dangerous" behaviour. That kind of thing doesn't even help to protect women, it serves only to distil hate.

SecondEldenLord · 2022-10-18T22:40:59+00:00

They done that to that new York City caleb guy who was serial dating girls. Sure, the guy was lying and getting with many girls, but girls are literally doing the same fucking thing with guys.

Noggnna · 2022-10-19T07:33:22+00:00

Who cares what any of them think. My god, have you seen the kind of shit they say?

Watch she hulk at least far enough to see what keeps your typical white professional woman “angry all the time.” These aren’t people worth your time.

AbysmalDescent · 2022-10-19T15:16:03+00:00

The ironic side of this is that women would rather create mass stalking apps to publicly shame, attack or control men, simply because they can't be bothered to put a basic minimal effort to just find and date decent men. Instead of just exercising basic initiative and accountability in the men they choose to date, they would rather just run to sites like this, possibly breaking who knows how many laws or basic human rights violations. If you're really worried that the guy you're dating is cheating, then don't date him. It's that simple. Just goes to show that women would rather fight for degenerate or psychotic men than just pick the good or available ones.

Forcetobereckonedwit · 2022-10-19T00:09:11+00:00

I would hate to be in my 20s now...

Either-Rain4148 · 2022-10-18T22:48:08+00:00

Just checked , more than 30+ groups. There's a groups for almost all major cities all across United States , with some having more than 25k+ members. There are groups for many big cities outside of the US too , like Dubai and London.

But i think exposing them would only be giving them more publicity. Facebook rarely takes down anti-men or misandrist content.

SadPatient28 · 2022-10-19T01:33:49+00:00

is there a sympathetic woman you know... who can infiltrate it? might be a cool documentary if you can infiltrate it? and expose it.

iWillSmokeYou · 2022-10-19T15:09:21+00:00

I know, my wife is in one just because I wanted her to, so I could see what they post. It can be only one woman who has a bad experience, maybe the man didn’t catch feelings for her, and she tells everyone that he’s a rapist or violent.

Frozen1100 · 2022-10-18T20:14:51+00:00

If this is the UK. I would suggest reporting the groups as its a hate crime

terisayles · 2022-10-19T02:57:35+00:00

Ugh, toxic femininity at its best...

dedicatedtochange11 · 2022-10-18T19:57:19+00:00

No because:

I don't have FB.
I don't share photos of myself

Social media is for bitches.

So leave it to them and don't be a bitch.

AzLibDem · 2022-10-18T20:25:19+00:00

I have always that these should be covered under the same laws as revenge porn.

IceCorrect · 2022-10-18T22:53:21+00:00

I dont get it, women love to have men other women want. Women usualy tend to date multiple men at same time and no men can have problem with this.

Successful-Map-7265 · 2022-10-18T18:36:16+00:00

Women are children

KingRemoji · 2022-10-19T01:13:49+00:00

It’s getting closer and closer to men being vilified just for DATING women!!

Just dating is a “sex crime” now

Sihu94 · 2022-10-18T20:35:22+00:00

This is actually incredibly daunting news, what the fuck is even the point of intimacy anymore if I have to worry about constant defamation holy fuck. Am I to die alone? This is ridiculous.

rabel111 · 2022-10-18T23:04:09+00:00

Creepy lecherous women posting disgusting statements about men they have met. Sexual harassment at a systemic level that goes unchallenged.

itsthehof · 2022-10-18T21:26:51+00:00

I believe it. When women want to express their extreme disdain, instead of resorting to violence like men do, they resort to ruining rep and spreading lies with word of mouth. This applies to the work place. Guys will want to fight, chicks run for the front office. Typically.

I'd love a follow up to this. What kinda groups? I got a fake fb chick account 🤣 I'm bored and down

shazamishod · 2022-10-19T10:04:25+00:00

gentlemen mass report them

SephoraBerry · 2022-10-19T15:11:50+00:00

Side note: Don’t Be Afraid of all of us because a group of bad apples at the same time😖. Like I don’t know if women are better at spotting red flags than men but for goodness sake I swear red flags are the EASIEST to spot in women. But I’m always hearing from men how “but she was so nice” “bro, I didn’t know”. And I can take just one look at her and have one conversation with her and be like…how in the flying hell did u not see that??! Avoidable most of the time. Get a good best friend that’s a girl to help keep y’all away from the witches. Don’t let outward appearance fool you ✨🥹. Sorry to the ones got duped 😖

johnnyfingers · 2022-10-18T23:00:51+00:00

There's a Facebook group here of a nearby town of mom's that is so full of hate and gossip about the people in that town it actually made the radio of the big city I'm in for its noteriety of how bad they actually are.

MrRetrdO · 2022-10-19T05:55:19+00:00

I gave up FB a while ago. Wish I knew about this, even though I never posted pics of me. I do have an Alt FB, but again, no pics of me on it. Might have to check these out.

crystalmerchant · 2022-10-19T06:02:37+00:00

I did not know this but it is yet another reason to not be on social media. In addition to all the very clear health and well-being concerns

SomeRandomHonestGuy · 2022-10-19T08:39:32+00:00

Spits in fascist disgust ... Did you read their rules? "No screen shooting or going to the media" LOL ... They sound like a cult

Absolutely horrid ... Disgusting ... The rhetoric that's probably spewed on there , private "suPpOrT"<Insert group here> groups like that ... Are exactly the problem,

Any one specific group should never be limiting large groups of people out of the group based on, any one specific thing, creed, genetic born traits or

specific values ... It's how you make a echo chamber of repeated thinking , how very naive

Unusual_Elevator_253 · 2022-10-18T20:43:44+00:00

They definitely have this for women. There are sites dedicated to guys posting girls nudes and talking shit about them. There subsections for certain areas too

It’s fucked no matter who does it

2022-10-18T20:21:42+00:00

Glad I’m not in the states anymore and I deleted Facebook and all social media besides YouTube and Reddit a long time ago

DocRocksPhDont · 2022-10-19T15:21:36+00:00

Sorry, but have you seen r/whereareallthegoodmen

It has devolved from what it was supposed to be to guys just posting people's dating profiles and talking shit about them, especially if they are overweight or single parents. Men and women both do this. This isn't a men's rights issues. It's a people are the worst issue.

upsidedownbackwards · 2022-10-18T21:03:08+00:00

Because guys have better shit to do.

xcheshirecatxx · 2022-10-19T05:06:57+00:00

I'm in one, but we post proof. It's to protect ourselves from assholes. I wish I was in before my ex fucked up my life Men should do the same in their own, telling each other which ones are crazy

As long as there's proof

traveller1976 · 2022-10-19T01:46:10+00:00

This is alarming. Given most women nowadays are spreading for the same set of chads and Tyrones, all the more reason for innocent men to filter out the crazy skanks before you waste your time, money and sperm. The sad thing is the news media has prejudged men as deserving severe punishment without proof. The best defense is not to play with crazy bitches.

bionicmook · 2022-10-19T04:16:46+00:00

I can imagine if the roles were reversed because I’ve seen this happen to both men and women. Ever heard of those sites where men post revenge porn?

pumpkinsinmay · 2022-10-18T18:08:51+00:00

I joined one of these groups on my troll account about a month ago and they were literally talking about how it’s okay to drug and have sex with men (rape) and were talking about men they’ve done this too and even sending pictures of the men. When I told them that’s creepy they immediately banned me.

I don’t think it’s safe to date as a man anymore you’ll just be raped. I think im gonna accept a new doctrine of all women are rapists in my daily life from now on and i advise any young men reading this too do the same

LilFunyunz · 2022-10-19T08:02:31+00:00

Lol the roles are reversed, there are groups of men that post women online too...their group is still up.

People are shitty. That's just life

Eric-Ridenour · 2022-10-18T21:43:06+00:00

Yes I know, and honestly, I don't care as far as I am personally concerned, but I am sure it bothers people.

cominginside · 2022-10-18T21:48:07+00:00

I've already signed up so let me know if you need any information from the south Florida point of view

raytaylor · 2022-10-19T04:26:13+00:00

We have had groups like this on facebook even back in high school. Groups named "Hawkes Bay Hotties" where we discuss and rate the local girls.
It does go both ways.
But its wrong when its lying.

KingEroh · 2022-10-19T11:42:53+00:00

My wife just join exclusively for the drama of the group. Either those men date 20 women at a time or the women on there are lying their ass off. Some of the comments are definitely far fetched.

2022-10-19T12:56:20+00:00

that is fucked up, but tbf anyone can post your photo anywhere on the internet anonymously, it's scary.

remirenegade · 2022-10-19T13:26:56+00:00

Serious question, are you new to the internet? This is nothing new.

Trosso · 2022-10-18T21:56:12+00:00

The same type of groups exist for women. There porn and nudes of women traded everywhere.

AChromaticHeavn · 2022-10-19T00:36:19+00:00

There's at least one version for guys. https://www.facebook.com/groups/820878702467960/

Are we dating the same girl - DC / DMV

ashmed20 · 2022-10-19T10:33:22+00:00

When it comes to things like this, ask yourself questions like;

“why does such a thing exist in the first place?”

Answer: https://amp.cnn.com/cnn/2022/07/18/tech/online-whisper-networks-dating-safety/index.html

Other articles: https://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-9254723/Woman-31-reveals-detailed-spreadsheet-documented-date-went-on.html

Black Pill time, open wide…

19th April 2012: “Meet the man who uses a spreadsheet to rate and slate his online dates”

https://www.cosmopolitan.com/uk/love-sex/relationships/a15738/meet-the-man-who-uses-a-spreadsheet-to-rate-and-slate-his-online-dates/

https://abcnews.go.com/amp/US/york-mans-meticulous-dating-spreadsheet-viral/story?id=16172700

batescommamaster · 2022-10-19T14:53:52+00:00

What are women supposed to do about serial abusers with that irresistible charm that in the past could have gotten away with just about anything?

Why would you assume that these forums only contain false accusations?

Maybe we live in different worlds but I only know one lady to either lie or misidentify a rape case... and plenty of men that admit to doing "whatever it takes" to get in the sack with someone. "Worry about the consequences in the morning" they would say.

If you are a good dude, you should be happy that women have lists like these. If you are overly upset then I'd have to guess your not a good dude.

I got some sympathy to some men whom maybe used to have questionable behaviors but then fixed them up. It would suck to have something you learned from going against you, but I think that's better then the alternate.

lilmspothead · 2022-10-19T10:54:10+00:00

Hell hath no fury like womenscorned. You're asking the wrong questions. What did YOUR HOMIE DO? from my point of veiw (a womens perspective) a women doesnt go hard ata man for nothing. Your boys lying to u or u are lying to yourself.

RatDontPanic · 2022-10-18T22:00:16+00:00

Let’s do it for women

Jarboner69 · 2022-10-19T00:01:08+00:00

It is? People do this all the time on Facebook to anyone they don’t like lmao

excess_inquisitivity · 2022-10-18T19:51:07+00:00

Yep. And there ain't a damn thing you can do about it.

So be on your best behavior at all fucking times.

blade_imaginato1 · 2022-10-18T21:55:10+00:00

Man wtf?

(Even though I'm not a man anymore, I sexually identify as a woman now.)

peakok115 · 2022-10-18T19:44:02+00:00

Is anyone else here to have a good laugh? Idk this whole sub is kinda funny if you think about it. Like I don't mean to be rude, but I thought I would have to actually scroll to find something generic but it's actually every post that's like that. Quite literally the third post down talks about the lil custody thing (to be clear: yes I do actively seek to upset people like y'all. It is borderline therapeutic for me)

alwaysrightusually · 2022-10-19T01:58:30+00:00

So? Maybe they shouldn’t do shitty things? I mean I see your side but jfc, if you do shitty stuff and people wanna discuss it, then pay that price. Tf

SadPatient28 · 2022-10-19T01:30:24+00:00

yes ive been deeply concerned about this. i've had women tell me they read bad things about me. ive googled my number. nothing comes up. its terrifying. i'm sure NONE of these women i've ever met.

i'm sure its some kind of hate based off a dating profile or something. but what can we do?

thatscucktastic · 2022-10-19T03:22:11+00:00

Oh, 23k in a city of ~million is pretty small. Does anybody really have time to keep track of all the guys?

mariof135 · 2022-10-19T03:27:19+00:00

A youtuber states that in South Korea women will post a photo of their dates on whatsapp groups just to check if he dated anyone.

YesiAMhighrn · 2022-10-19T03:58:40+00:00

TheDirty.com for today's local Cosmo column hopeful.

hazard1nc · 2022-10-19T06:42:25+00:00

The news groups don't care, they are for it. Anything they can do to sow seeds of destruction and deceit

crz8956 · 2022-10-19T09:02:36+00:00

Somebody still uses Facebook? Meh.

2022-10-19T10:10:42+00:00

We all need to go and join groups like "Are We Dating the Same Girl?" which copies the exact text from the gynocentric group listed by OP.

So far the facebook overlords are ignoring it.. just wait until alot of guys join it!

2022-10-19T10:52:25+00:00

Free publicity as long as you're not ashamed of anything you do in private. Not all women will be using that group to judge, only some losers will.

Others will be using it out of curiosity because they have their own desires and interests that they are too socially nervous to engage.

Being a bit of an outcast is a good thing because if you're strong/stable, many women who are afraid to be themselves will see you as a person who isn't bound by fear or weak social structures.

Ultimately such a person is a better prospective mate or life companion as they are capable of sticking to their own principles and values and behaving more authentically, not afraid of being shamed for who they are.

The-beat-man · 2022-10-19T12:21:31+00:00

Report them to facebook

Catch-the-Rabbit · 2022-10-19T12:56:21+00:00

Tickles along the line of revenge porn, but not as intense or abusive

lemons7472 · 2022-10-19T13:59:56+00:00

Not quite the same, but when I was a junior at school last year, there was a peer in one of my classes who went through something similar. A group of girls in my class basically kept bullying this one dude by bringing up over and over that he go his GF pregnant. He denied that it was true, and denied that he even had a GF, but they kept making fun and gossiping over it anyways. Regardless of if it’s true or not, it’s none of their damn business anyways, they just wanted something to keep bringing up against him for no reason. I notice that in the middle of the school year I never saw the dude ever again. Maybe the bullying got to him, and he decided to homeschool. All those girls ever did was gossip and talk shit about others, ask weird questions, and brought up the personal private business of others and shit that didn’t need to be brought up. Even did it to me a bit in some instances, but not anywhere to the same level as what I previously mentioned. I probably should’ve checked up on that guy with all the crap those girls put on him.

CaptianToasty · 2022-10-19T14:48:23+00:00

I don’t think it’s for gossip bud. I think it’s for safety!

TheeBattleMedic · 2022-10-19T15:01:47+00:00

My fiancée joined a engaged/ married group where she thought it’d be cute. Eventually she realized they were super toxic. Mind you my fiancée is a feminist but she doesn’t agree with the man hating side, she also knows women aren’t innocent. She’s pretty good overall I’ve been with her for years she thinks girls that go clubbing, hoe around and dress even with some cleavage showing are dumb and showing too much. She prefers modesty, I’ve known her since 9th grade she’s always been like that, even elementary school friends told me she’s always been like that and I was her first and only bf.

They were shocked she was even interested in me but she views me as a chad(I’d say I’m a decent 7-8 but she sees me as a 10) and wants me to herself. Overall she hated the group and when she told members to communicate with they’re husbands rather than just disrespecting and distancing themselves from them. If I recall it was that the guy had a son or daughter and the mother in law didn’t like them and wanted them out. And as the father wouldn’t do that, so she made him sleep on the couch and stop intimacy. She told them Intimacy is important to a relationship, stop making him sleep on a couch and speak to him. ( she thinks women that make their partners sleep on the couche or worse out of the house are asking for problems in the marriage) and they told her she’s just a white girl that no one asked her opinion (she’s Hispanic but could pass as white or even Jewish. Strangely she’s part Japanese )

but yeah she didn’t like the disrespect, belittling and lack of accountability that the women had. So she left the group. I’m happy she did cause I’ve heard how bad those groups can be. I’m also happy she doesn’t having clubbing friends, I would tell her if I didn’t like her friends cause I’ve heard how bad of a influence some friends can be. The type to encourage clubbing which usually leads to cheating

SephoraBerry · 2022-10-19T15:05:24+00:00

Kinda sad that if the roles were reversed it would 10x more “awful” and get more attention. Maybe because guys are so much quicker to hand over nudes without really caring and women are much more emotional with it for some reason? I don’t see the big deal for one so I understand how the guys’ exploitation isn’t the same because most men don’t really care that much as compared to the women where it would be seen as “taking advantage of”. I don’t really get it. It should be a personal thing whether u care about ur nudes being private or not. Some guys care and some don’t some women care and some don’t. And 90% when the girls spread photos it’s to support their fake stories that can escalate. From what I know most guys spread girls’ nudes to get money or to take revenge.

veedub447 · 2022-10-19T16:33:55+00:00

I was put on one of those pages when I was in College. My dating life skyrocketed after I was slandered. go figure.

throwawaygoodvibess · 2022-10-19T18:11:16+00:00

Can we start the hoefax groups so we know who’s a hoe and past details before any potential commitment

That would be greatly beneficial to men, and would have positive societal effects down the line (disincentivizing/discouraging loose morals/loose sexuality/promiscuity/hedonism/etc etc)

_BlueShark87 · 2022-10-30T01:59:38+00:00

Uh okay? It’s Facebook what’d you expect. There are much worse groups out there so ofc they won’t care about this.

Glass_Property_8143 · 2022-11-03T07:55:59+00:00

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Glass_Property_8143 · 2022-11-03T07:57:07+00:00

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Selizabeast · 2023-01-05T05:09:49+00:00

Stats from my city's group 20 most recent posts- 12 women asking about any red flags before a first date, no red flags, date is a green light. 4 neutral responses, "went on a couple dates, not really but nothing bad to say, go for it" 4 🚩🚩🚩🚩 responses from multiple women who had negative experiences with the men posted. Very similar experiences reported in which the man was sexually aggressive, exhibited stalking behavior, and/or were physicall, sexuall, or verbally abusive.

Not quite the cesspool of made up attacks on innocent men who are just "awkward".

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