Thank you, Google

Mission_Ad_716 · 2022-11-27T08:02:04+00:00

I've tried doing my best at being calm, respectful and listening to what my ex had to say while she screamed her ass off at me. Doesn't matter whether I argue back, leave the conversation, listen to her quietly, it always was a problem to her and she would get hostile for every single thing I did. I ran out of options. Felt like I was playing Dark Souls sometimes.

But then I realized it's not my job to always act in a certain way just so I can calm someone down anymore. It's their problem with their behavior and how they deal with their emotions.

glock3299 · 2022-11-27T06:58:16+00:00

So someone is abusing you and you should be submissive and kiss their ass? Jesus everywhere you look there is nothing but misandry.

tonando · 2022-11-27T12:56:21+00:00

What to do, if your girlfriend stabs you?

Make sure, she has a firm grip on the knife, so she doesn't slip an hurt herself
Don't move, or she might miss you and fall
Ask her, how her day was
Comfort her, while the police is beating you up
Clean the knife and also the dishes, because emancipation

Blaz3Raven · 2022-11-27T06:56:21+00:00

Google is known for being sexist towards men, i wouldnt be surprised

JoK3Rcon · 2022-11-27T06:57:59+00:00

Wow. Google is a biased scumbag.

dark_abyss94 · 2022-11-27T08:22:54+00:00

Just like how they put up a doodle for women's day but not for men's day

AndyBrown65 · 2022-11-27T07:47:03+00:00

Misandry in action

2020bowman · 2022-11-27T07:58:40+00:00

Fuck you, Google

Martinecko30 · 2022-11-27T09:25:19+00:00

So TL;DR: If my wife yells, I should change. If I yell, I should change. Thx google

0mnica · 2022-11-27T09:29:13+00:00

r/degoogle

buficek7_CZ · 2022-11-27T10:54:28+00:00

I put this in my presentation about gender in school. Our feminist teacher really didn't expect it.

Nerdy_Girl444 · 2022-11-27T10:29:55+00:00

When she shouts, you choose your method how to teach her her place and to erase this insufferable entitlement of hers.

A woman should never shout at her man, unless they are distance apart searching for each other and he can't hear her. Women are supposed to respect their men. Men know respect, they don't need to be told twice.

If you are getting tense, you'll be less able to relax, remind her that she should mind her tone and be careful how she talks to you.

A woman should always track her tone of voice when talking to her man, so she avoids accidental notes of tone that may sound rude. If she is emotional, she must avoid irritability towards him. Also talking back to the man is off limits and such disrespect.

Yeah right "assess all aspects to her words", they are already assessed. Results: Blatant disrespect, Super talking back, unthinkable rude tone of voice.

I am ashamed as a woman that there are women with such blatant attitude against their men.

No, take action and don't tolerate rudeness and disrespect.
It's not your responsibility to extinguish her "rage". It's her responsibility to be careful how she talks to you and behave herself.
You've already shown her you know your responsibilities. Her ungrateful ass is the one irresponsible. Such a shame.

What the fuck is wrong with Google? Why so man hating? What are those disgraceful double standards?

P.S. BTW a man doesn't need to yell at all to assert his dominance. Pity that Google couldn't figure that out.

psy_cole · 2022-11-27T07:21:18+00:00

Bonobology.com? Is the site about chimps or what?

ZekalMacabre · 2022-11-27T16:38:20+00:00

Talk about a double standard. Not at all surprising from Google.

Big_Chocolate_420 · 2022-11-27T11:25:20+00:00

so in both cases the man is hold accountable and responsible

the woman can act like a child

2022-11-27T09:09:56+00:00

I mean i like the fact that nr 1 basicly just tells you to be better than your wife.

I don't like to see that nr 2 just tells women, leave him i he disagrees.

BelCantoTenor · 2022-11-27T11:09:20+00:00

Yup. It’s all brainwashed bullshit. Women are allowed to be abusive because they have feelings and are incapable of being abusers. Men are incapable of being victimized or traumatized by women. Bullshit.

BurnDownTheMission68 · 2022-11-27T16:16:46+00:00

Not a goddamn thing funny about this

want-to-say-this · 2022-11-27T12:56:06+00:00

This is almost an exact explanation of how my wife views our anger.

If I am made it’s because of something negative about me. I’m mean or bad temper or I just want to bully everyone.

If she is mad it’s because of something I did and because she didn’t like it it’s wrong and I should correct my behavior and keep her happy.

chrisdidwht · 2022-11-27T07:14:09+00:00

Now google when husband yells at me

Inside-Common-8301 · 2022-11-27T13:53:26+00:00

Ahh… yes… tone policing aimed towards men who actually did nothing wrong to their girlfriends/wives/spouses

MononMysticBuddha · 2022-11-27T15:24:51+00:00

I do not miss being married.

insidemyvoice · 2022-11-27T19:28:25+00:00

Google is obviously not married.

pappo4ever · 2022-11-27T19:57:38+00:00

When your girl start arguing for any reason, or things that happened 2 years ago, the problem is usually the new hot guy that sent a DM to her.

KyloRen7766 · 2022-11-27T23:22:02+00:00

I had a GF that started yelling like crazy when angry, I just left the house to go and drink a beer with some and told her before leaving "I'm not gonna tolerate anyone yelling at me, you're not my mother, if you can't calm down and talk like a normal person I'm not talking to you"

Nobody will respect you unless you ask for it or just leave people or places where you are not treated how you deserve to be treated.

I left her after some months given the fact that she kept repeating the same behaviour, I gave her many chances but it kept happening so it was better that we continue on different paths far from each other.

As you can imagine I was a bad man because God forbids a man that decides to brake up with a women, that man is the offspring of Satan and should bw forbidden from inhabiting earth inmediately.

Only a women can end up a relationship with a man, then it's ok and acceptable.

So to my fellow men, don't take shit from any woman, there's no excuse for verbal agression, you can find another woman in no time that is respectfull and considerate to you as long as you are the same to her.

That is the definition of a healthy relationship, caring for each other and respecting each other, not taking shit just because you're a man and that is something bad so you have to take it and remain silent.

Fuck that!

KamalHasa · 2022-11-27T08:48:08+00:00

For the love of Google, they are not responsible for what's written on a website. But what astonished me was that, their algorithm chose to show this for "People also ask" thing for both the genders.

I love Google and am always thankful for such an awesome service on the Internet. This is just an algo thing. It has several ranking factors, including how people search, perceive, and like content they have indexed. But still Google can definitely look into stuff like this and improve further.

P.S: And if you observe closely, the questions are a little different and not the same.

Ok_East7175 · 2022-11-27T09:37:32+00:00

How do you respond when your husband yells at you?

Below mentioned are some of the best ways that you can follow when your husband yells at you. Stay calm. ... Look at the possible options to deal with the situation. ... Analyze the situation. ... Don't just agree with everything he says. ... Try to calm him down

hottake_toothache · 2022-11-27T15:18:01+00:00

LMAO. That's the hierarchy, right there.

Ownedby4Labs · 2022-11-27T17:30:37+00:00

There are only 2 steps needed.
Step 1. Get rid of the wife.
Step 2. Enjoy the peace and quiet.

aerial_coitus · 2022-11-27T18:08:52+00:00

Proof positive that society hates men pure and simple. Better to avoid relationships altogether gentlemen.

shaka_alpaca · 2022-11-28T06:40:41+00:00

Fuck that. Nothing wrong with standing up for yourself and demanding respect.

ruifaf · 2022-11-27T08:28:46+00:00

that's wrong. we all know when a woman is yelling the best thing to do is to tell her "calm down you sound like crazy" then she'll be reasonable and shush

FutbolIntellect · 2022-11-27T08:03:52+00:00

Lmao. How is it Googles fault what bonobology says in this article. I literally just Googled the husband yelling thing and first few posts were all about " trying to calm the situation and etc " Had to scroll down a lot to find this bonobology thing. The same goes for wife yelling thing, in both Google searches most of the top posts are about handling the situation in a calm manner

Yet you're nitpicking here to push some silly narrative. Yall doing the same as those radical feminists by unecessqrily playing the victim

Gunthersalvus · 2022-11-27T10:25:40+00:00

Oh wow. Double standard much?

anothergoodbook · 2022-11-27T12:39:00+00:00

When I search “my husband yells at me” the first option is a domestic violence help page. I searched”my wife yells at me” and no such thing pops up.

PrudentTemperature72 · 2022-11-27T10:20:31+00:00

I feel so bad for us man, we're treated so unfairly

SnooPets2522 · 2022-11-27T12:11:08+00:00

That's not surprising. When you type "my husband yells at me" they provide the links to shelters

guitarb26 · 2022-11-27T12:30:41+00:00

To be fair, they’re different questions. One begins with ‘what to do…’ & the other asks ‘what does it mean…’

Although, I’d imagine the response you would get from asking Google what to do if your husband yells at you would probably be to call the police. Or, just literally fucking murder him, since the chances of you actually being held accountable for/suffering the consequences of your actions are practically zero.

NotBaron · 2022-11-27T13:06:33+00:00

All big companies are sexists now, but when it's towards men, no one bats an eye

xsajax · 2022-11-27T14:21:24+00:00

Wow, fucking disgusting

paracog · 2022-11-27T15:01:54+00:00

I did that search for husband yelling and the link for the Domestic Violence Network was the top one.

KamalHasa · 2022-11-27T10:32:53+00:00

Info about "People also ask" feature from Google.

Anyways, I just want to say that, yelling sucks. No matter who does it. We didn't evolve for millions of years to act like an unintelligent beings.

Qantourisc · 2022-11-27T12:28:42+00:00

In googles defensive: are these articles hand picked ?

As this reminds me of a AI bot that was trained from internet sources and turned out to be racist or something.

TheBlueGhost21 · 2022-11-27T09:28:25+00:00

Look at what the google search engine changes to on international mens day compared to international womens day.

Sr_Nunes · 2022-11-27T10:12:52+00:00

That's why I use any other searching-engines..

Foogle, Disney, Netflix, Holywood cinema - in general, Gilette (nd the whole group), and many many others that I can't remember now .. All out of my life.

jofido · 2022-11-27T10:44:31+00:00

Discrimination on the basis of sex, ik case to banta hai

SpiceOteric · 2022-11-27T12:00:42+00:00

Googled the opposite and the first thing is a domestic violence helpline 💀😆

Mailingriver_ · 2022-11-27T12:50:43+00:00

normal2131213123 · 2023-09-28T11:54:38+00:00

My best advice:

Tell her to shut up
Ignore her
Ghost her until she starts apologizing
Divorce if nothing goes the right way
Go Counselling

DoctorQuacks87 · 2024-01-30T16:11:36+00:00

Yelling and emotional and verbal abuse are two different things

cag_an0 · 2022-11-27T11:23:45+00:00

Those are AI generated search results based on people's search. The problem is our society, stop acting like accusing Google.

cjgager · 2022-11-27T22:30:55+00:00

for some reason google takes you to two different list of questions which the OP didn't look through. it is listing what does it MEAN when your husband is yelling at you. if you dropped down what do you DO when your husband yells at you the suggestions are about the same as the husbands

ColonelVirus · 2022-11-27T23:37:34+00:00

Aren't these just things based on searches?

BookofBryce · 2022-11-27T23:41:43+00:00

Funny. When I Google that phrase, your results are second and this link is first.

https://www.quora.com/How-do-I-deal-with-a-wife-who-yells-at-me-often-considering-the-fact-that-Im-a-quiet-person

hoods_breath · 2022-11-27T16:59:59+00:00

Not my first result. Interesting.

Prestigious-Cut-168 · 2022-11-27T08:04:04+00:00

Now do a search replacing wife with husband

"You don't have to take his abuse" "draw the line"

Lianides · 2022-11-27T09:50:08+00:00

Seriously, you are comparing answers to two different questions. Not saying the same question would give more reasonable answers, but as it stands you are comparing apples to oranges and getting upset because they are different

HorrorFan1191 · 2022-11-27T14:10:50+00:00

To be fair, the results were pulled from different sources, but I’m not sure if that makes it any better.

randomjack420 · 2022-11-27T14:31:17+00:00

Did you ask Duck Duck Go?

bakedpotato486 · 2022-11-27T14:35:09+00:00

This is Google's summary of Mindsetopia's article. Sure, I have a healthy disdain for Google too, but let's be real here.

Ledbreader · 2022-11-27T15:27:54+00:00

I use bing lemme try it rq

cyruszane · 2022-11-27T16:55:28+00:00

I know we are having fun with this and good; however, I will mention this is clearly abuse. I know there is the often misconception that women don't abuse, this is really it here. This is one of the many ways women will abuse not just men but each other.

The thing is we have, as a society, come to accept this as not only ok but just the way they are. Kind of a "let girls be girls" thing.

If she screams at you, yells, belittles you, makes fun of you or your friends, calls you out on things you didn't do, ect ect. gas lighting everything that is fun that goes along with it.
Its not ok

because after that, and I know this from experience, comes the lies and the trying to get you in trouble, ruining your life for kicks. Manipulation, possession as she isolates you from family and friends. Keep in mind these are the tactics of the abuser it starts with simple yelling and making you feel small, or knowing you are not good neough. little jabs, turn into big jabs , turn in to a pure bully attack.

for them its mental, and emotional.. not saying they won't hit or throw things at you, they will all abusers' do.

This is what abusers do, and this picture is showing you how to be a victim so if you are reading this or what I have said and think.. hey my person does this. Walk away, cut off all contact.

Oppai_Dragon6996 · 2022-11-27T17:04:03+00:00

Me drinking some coffee ☕️ and reassuring myself to never get married.

Dr_RxRedpill · 2022-11-27T17:25:09+00:00

Share this with any man who even entertains notion of getting married. Their bank account will thank you!

https://youtu.be/J14uAT0KzME

Nipplemantid · 2022-11-27T17:27:01+00:00

When women yell at me i just tell them to calm down
it works 120% of the time they just become cool as a cucumber
it's like some sort of paralysis trick they just chill right out you should all try it

blackdahlialady · 2022-11-27T17:46:39+00:00

That's just crazy

_BlueShark87 · 2022-11-27T17:53:46+00:00

It’s google, what’s you expect?

ThrowAway29307845034 · 2022-11-27T18:05:08+00:00

Woman yells? Well then that prole-male better change to suite her!

Man yells? He must be a violent rapist. Call the cops and have him thrown out of his own house.

xxTheMagicBulleT · 2022-11-27T18:11:19+00:00

I dont talk or listen to people yelling at me ever. If you can't talk normal to me, dont talk to me. And what does talking wail angry and yelling non-stop really do. It's not like you can have a good conversation and fix any issues or something like that. So when im angry, i refuse to talk about anything. And if people yell and not talk normally to me, i refuse to even act like there there. Cause the talk is utterly pointless. But the post does show how heavily biased people are in who is more deserving of respect and understanding. What is disgusting to me

GridIronGambit · 2022-11-27T18:11:48+00:00

Someone shouting at me and I try to calm MYSELF down.

Dietrich_Badger · 2022-11-27T19:02:25+00:00

So basically, women are hysterical children, and need to be treated as such, always, all the time.

Now I understand women, finally.

Rhythm_Flunky · 2022-11-27T19:46:42+00:00

klouted_pollo · 2022-11-27T19:48:23+00:00

Try looking up

“My boyfriend is hitting me” vs “My gf is hitting me”

Your in for a treat

Metatron-X · 2022-11-27T20:35:35+00:00

https://youtu.be/GD8TKkwd6AE

LowlyLizzieBCG · 2022-11-27T21:22:32+00:00

“Show her you know your responsibilities”

Wow.

Mrky859 · 2022-11-27T22:07:21+00:00

Those are Simp Answers... You look her in the eyes and with a firm tone ask her who TF she think she talking to you are an adult and you shall be spoken to like one if she can't speak to you like an adult then go away

Different-Ad-6946 · 2022-11-27T22:21:38+00:00

Wow they all think we’re assholes with anger issues wow I would bet you 2 million that that was written by a girl abusing divorce rights

moshpitengineer · 2022-11-27T22:33:01+00:00

Just love subtle sexism

newnamebee · 2022-11-27T22:47:39+00:00

Google reacts to the bias you’ve showed it in your search and activity history. This is a reflection of what you expect to see. They literally teach 4th graders this stuff

ILikeTF2ALotItIsFun · 2022-11-28T01:23:59+00:00

One time I searched this and for husband it said “Domestic Abuse Helpline”

Woozuki · 2022-11-28T02:28:04+00:00

lol, beta simp shit

bevelledo · 2022-11-28T02:36:49+00:00

Reverse Uno!

when husband yells at me

https://imgur.com/a/YZxmaSI

PracticalPlastic4123 · 2022-11-28T05:27:00+00:00

Id listen better if my ears werent bleeding

biolawgeez0620 · 2022-11-28T05:57:24+00:00

Double standards 🙄

Crypt_Ghast · 2022-11-28T07:45:24+00:00

Oh hell will I shout back. I was singer in a Death Metal band - be prepared :)

Lightingmn7 · 2022-12-01T05:03:14+00:00

Oh shut up 💀 I searched up “what do you do if your husband shouts at you?” and the exact same thing comes up.

Cruxito1111 · 2022-12-15T15:13:01+00:00

lmao!!!

I did everything to avoid arguments, i comprised 100%, and even walked away when she was very abusive and yet… she decided she wasn’t happy, then took everything away from me.

yeah, don’t stay in an abusive relationship. Run away! and record everything

Title	Thank you, Google
Author	KamalHasa
Upvotes	2462
Comments	169
Date	November 27, 2022 6:50 AM UTC (3 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/MensRights
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