Sexual intercourse is 'always rape' according to this feminist blogger

IS44 · 2013-12-18T02:06:52+00:00

First, well intercourse is NEVER sex for women. Only men experience rape as sexual and define it as such.

TIL that I do not enjoy sex, and never have.

Who knew a complete moon-bat stranger (and probably a virgin) could know so much about me?

sibqm_lmvm · 2013-12-18T04:51:43+00:00

>whether she thinks she wants it or not

Perfect example of the "women have no agency" line of thinking. They're as bad as their imaginary Patriarchy.

Edit, because I hadn't fully read it...

The logic fail in this is hysterically funny:

The vagina’s primary function isn’t to be penetrated by a penis but to eject a baby for birth.

Hey, lady... how the fuck do you think the baby gets there in the first place??? You can't just magically eject a baby without first being penetrated by a penis! Source: I'm a mother.

imdrinkingteaatwork · 2013-12-18T00:54:25+00:00

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its_all_one_word · 2013-12-18T02:56:25+00:00

As an ex-feminist who used to have PTSD, I believe one of the problems with feminism is that women think sexual assault is a "women's issue" (despite the fact that rape happens to men all the time) and so lots of women who have sexual trauma join the feminism movement. They can't (I couldn't) separate their world view from a more objective view on what it means to "rape" or "objectify" someone. So it just becomes demonization of males.

areyounew · 2013-12-18T08:00:47+00:00

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unexpecteditem · 2013-12-18T01:05:44+00:00

As i recall, Mary Daly thought this. If you try, you can sort of see how it makes sense. Like trying to see those special photographs in 3-D if you squint the right. way I like the place it leaves your mind.

It's like the Wittgenstein duck-rabbit. "Oh yes. I suppose you could see it that way of you wanted to".

Bizarre.

SqueaksBCOD · 2013-12-18T02:20:55+00:00

I really want to hear her opinions on anal sex. And are lesbians allowed to finger eachother? Why would a finger be ok, but not a dick?

Ding_batman · 2013-12-18T02:43:08+00:00

From the comments.

My ex, who is a sociopath, told me years ago that if women understood what men are REALLY doing to women when they put their penises into us, all women would be virgins and never let a man do it. He said that men assume we must be stupid for falling for this trick, and that the sexual revolution was the mockery of the century, because now women were giving to men for free what they used to have to marry us for.

You claim he is a sociopath, yet you can't see he was fucking with you?

Arby01 · 2013-12-18T04:47:20+00:00

My brain hurts.... do people like this exist outside of the internet? Are they allowed to do things? Like speak in public?

Ndvorsky · 2013-12-18T03:59:30+00:00

Ms. Heterocage, what you've just said is one of the most insanely idiotic things I have ever heard. At no point in your rambling, incoherent response were you even close to anything that could be considered a rational thought. Everyone in this room is now dumber for having listened to it. I award you no points, and may God have mercy on your soul. - billy maddison movie

mineown2020 · 2013-12-18T07:01:44+00:00

You know what I find so saddening about this kind of opinion?

That it really taints the reproductive side of it.

If sexual intercourse is always rape, then any baby that results of this is a "Rape Baby". Every son and daughter born on this earth. Think about it.

The mindsets of people like her...I mean...Eugh!

kragshot · 2013-12-18T05:28:48+00:00

I've said it before; don't direct-link to crazy. We don't want to give them the page hits.

Please...in the future, just do a screen-cap of that kind of insanity. It does two things; one denies them the page hits and two, serves as a record in case they backpedal and change their post.

sibqm_lmvm · 2013-12-18T03:54:09+00:00

Wow... I've literally been trained to accept my rape all my life... this is definitely news to me. Here I was thinking that I actually enjoyed sex or something. Clearly I have internalized misogyny and am an advocater of rape.

Everything_Is_Rape · 2013-12-18T17:56:16+00:00

Just to recall a basic fact: Intercourse/PIV is always rape, plain and simple.

I already knew that.

mineown2020 · 2013-12-18T10:23:46+00:00

If the patriarchy are so evil and just use sex to make women suffer then how come a man invented the pill which means women can have sex purely for pleasure without fear of reproduction?

I'm going to guess that author is one of the 10% of women who can't experience intense pleasure or orgasm from penetrative sex. Just because she doesn't, doesn't mean that many women don't.

GrimB0LD · 2013-12-18T00:56:44+00:00

Are you sure that's not satire? Poe's law and all.

PierceHarlan · 2013-12-18T04:58:54+00:00

Another instance of feminist lunacy that is not being challenged by other feminists.

petrmafay · 2013-12-18T05:28:35+00:00

god, reading through the comments left me with mixed feelings. on the one hand i am appalled at the pure stupidity, on the other hand i am glad that neither i, nor anybody i know is like that. i mean "womens bodies are not made for piv" well if you do not completely reject the theory of evolution, which is a very stupid thing to do, you kinda have to admit that womens bodies (and mens for that matter) are exactly made for piv, and not much else.

2013-12-18T17:15:09+00:00

How insane this person is blows my mind. I seriously cannot fathom how someone could believe this bullshit.

Hateblade · 2013-12-18T06:27:05+00:00

Has someone informed her of how procreation works? Or the English language for that matter? Seriously, that was a hard read, and not only because of the logical failacies.

Sasha_ · 2013-12-18T15:54:13+00:00

Love this part:

"If we look at the act in more detail (skip this parag if you can’t take it), PIV is a man mounting on a woman to thrust a large member of himself into her most intimate parts, often forcing her to be entirely naked, banging himself against her with the whole weight of his body and hips, shaking her like he would stuff a corpse, then using her insides as a receptacle for his penile dejection. How is this a normal civilised, respectful way to treat anyone? Sorry for the explicit picture, but this is what it is and it’s absolutely revolting and violating."

Hilarious.

Reminded me of this: http://img136.imageshack.us/img136/3393/millietant3ca.jpg

raptorrage · 2013-12-18T08:08:54+00:00

I was molested by a female, and some feminists don't want to admit that a female can be an abuser.

I have consensual sex with someone I adore that respects my boundaries, is careful not to hurt me, and loves me, and that's rape to her? I feel sorry for her. That's a horrible view.

SRSLovesGawker · 2013-12-18T02:14:40+00:00

Either poe or stuck in the 70s.

bamboobambi · 2013-12-18T12:57:24+00:00

"There are many other ways of becoming pregnant than through penetration of the penis into the vagina. For instance, putting sperm on the vulva is enough to become pregnant. Women, if they wanted to become pregnant, could just ask a man for some sperm and apply it herself. "

seriously WAT?!!

...although imagining a woman actually 'applying' sperm to herself like it's lotion is kinda hilarious

2013-12-18T17:20:16+00:00

I can't read this entire article. I just crack up hysterically at almost every sentence. I can't take it seriously.

Mythandros · 2013-12-18T18:53:13+00:00

Tell you what... How about we do the same as this blogger?

Them being alive is rape to me. They are raping me of potential oxygen by breathing the existing pool of oxygen on this planet, thereby depriving me of precious breaths of air that I might need. Therefore, the existence of this blogger should be qualified as rape.

If they can move the goal posts, I can too.

iMADEthis2post · 2013-12-18T19:33:35+00:00

The blog, all those comments.. And still some people don't see feminism as a hate movement? Also worth noting is these feminists have the most pathetic view of women I have ever seen.

The thing I find most disgusting is the mainstream of feminism just totally ignores these types and allows them to operate in their social spaces spreading hate, even using literature from them and still feminism can't see why we have problems with it?

Currently the only kind of feminist I can stand are the few that not only see these people but actively speak out about them. The fuckwhits that attempt to critisise all of us here that claim never to have seen this kind of shit or dismiss it as only a few and do nothing to criticise them can actually go and fuck themselves too, they are just as bad as the aforementioned scum.

special_mister_k · 2013-12-18T04:26:01+00:00

What did I just read?

gremlina · 2013-12-18T07:40:15+00:00

Ironically, you know her response to attempts to make abortion illegal would be, "Then don't have one."

I just keep thinking: all righty, more sex for me.

germaneuser · 2013-12-18T07:51:27+00:00

Where the hell do these blogs pop up from? I would love to regard this as satire, but the rather straightforward analysis (albeit mentally @&#$ up) and the following comments under the post say otherwise. I would also like to believe this is fringe, but there are actually prominent feminist historical figures who have basically made this exact same argument. It kind of freaks me out to see how someone will rationalize this type of insanity. It gives the notion that 'The road to hell is paved with good intentions.' a whole new sick, twisted, bent. I really did not need to see into the mind of someone so totally screwed up. I really need to shower now...

TheSandmann · 2013-12-18T09:37:06+00:00

While I have never had cockroaches in my home, the longer I spend on the internet the more I understand the premise of turning on the lights and having a horde of bugs run for cover.

In this case the bugs are the crazy and they just sit in open view and act like the rest of the world is insane.

I want to mock and point at these people, but honestly when I think about how sad and lonely these people must be in their lives. All that rage and ignorance, I just flip off the light and leave them there in the alone in the dark.

harryballsagna · 2013-12-18T12:30:18+00:00

I'm so happy these nuts don't want to fuck us. I've never been so thrilled about not getting laid.

Ma99ie · 2013-12-18T17:28:49+00:00

Well, that explains feminist rape statistics.

OpenFlameRecon · 2013-12-18T18:26:54+00:00

TIL reproduction is not necessary for the survival of a species. As such, I recommend we as human beings promptly stop reproducing, immediately.

mrwhibbley · 2013-12-18T20:02:46+00:00

So with her logic, buying clothes is actually the department store stealing from me, even if I freely chose to buy the closes and desired them. And eating is actually starvation and hitting the lottery is financial oppression. What meds is she on and why is the dose not higher?

leiferiksen · 2013-12-18T23:52:42+00:00

Does she realize that by her logic the male of every species of mammal is by definition a rapist? The total--and yet supremely confident--ignorance of biological evolution is truly astounding in this case.

Poisoninthewound · 2013-12-18T09:16:37+00:00

severe mental illness

JacquesCuze · 2013-12-18T01:12:46+00:00

My comment, currently in moderation.

I wish more people were listening to you.

http://i.imgur.com/1sz0aLO.jpg

HTARCADE · 2013-12-18T03:25:35+00:00

She said men insert their large members....gotta respect her for that ha.

Arby01 · 2013-12-18T08:05:39+00:00

Wow, I don't think I have ever read anything so intelluctually, numbingly, stupid before. At least Solanus's manifesto wasn't blatantly idiotic.

mineown2020 · 2013-12-18T17:52:49+00:00

Radical feminism is an oxymoron.

Simultanagnosia · 2013-12-18T18:02:14+00:00

She got the etymology of the word rape wrong, it doesn't come from rapt but during the 17th century the two words could mean the same thing. Rape comes from Latin rapere. Anyway...

I don't see how Personal Identity Verification (PIV) is a violent act. I jest, I assume it means "intercourse" but I really can't tell because she slings acronyms like they are common knowledge.

My girlfriend bangs harder than me, I have to ask her to chill out sometimes.

Its clear the author of this piece has serious issues. Probably men don't respect her because she is such a bitch so when they do sleep with her they just don't give a fuck.

KillJoy575 · 2013-12-18T18:36:08+00:00

Wow, this is.....

....some shit.

pjleo85 · 2013-12-19T07:25:30+00:00

She's a looney toon. She possesses about as much credibility as members of The Westboro Baptist Church. Move on. Nothing to see here.

knifpearty · 2013-12-18T09:13:11+00:00

Bizarre.

Also: could they please post pictures of themselves so i can make up my mind whether i should care or not. :)

Stephen1986UK · 2013-12-31T21:44:28+00:00

This is an SJW and "radfem", noone will take her seriously apart from other whackjob SJWs and radfems. The idea that PIV is always rape is extremely anti-feminist and both misogynistic and misandrist.

billiegoad · 2013-12-18T05:20:04+00:00

This country is fucked. I say men either need to get a pill to neutralize their sex drive or move to another country. Mankind experiences nothing but drama, exercises in futility, and money gone with the wind in dealing with women. And what happened to women not wanted to be treated as sex objects? Do you see the way they dress out at the bars on a saturday night ? Or even in an office setting ? Is jack my ass up high heels and tight skirts necessary in the work place ? And what about all the porn that's out there so much so it's basically free? Please. Treat me like a sex object when your buying me free drinks. It's lunacy.

Title	Sexual intercourse is 'always rape' according to this feminist blogger
Author	dingdong89
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Date	December 18, 2013 12:52 AM UTC (12 years ago)
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