"On Tinder the top 20% of men are competing for the top 78% of women"

huhub · 2019-03-18T10:00:00+00:00

I think "On Tinder 100% women are competing for the top 20% of men" should be more accurate.

Tow1994 · 2019-03-18T06:27:34+00:00

I love how the 80/20 rule comes up in literally every part of life

marlowe101 · 2019-03-18T07:09:58+00:00

Not surprising at all. It's a reflection of hypergamy.

If you want to grow as a man, stop using tinder. Work on your real life game skills. Even if you get rejected by 5 women in 10 min. then that experience alone is better than having 10 matches a week.

nicethingyoucanthave · 2019-03-18T12:08:56+00:00

The author of this tweet has a BS in computer science from Stanford and, as you'd expect of someone with that degree and two X chromosomes, tech companies are falling over themselves for a competent diversity hire. So, she's set for life. She's currently a project manager at GitHub, which is quite an achievement at two years out of school with an undergrad degree - I've personally never met a PM that didn't have a master's degree or at least 10 years experience.

So, this person is intelligent, competent, and has the right identity. She is connected and already influential in the tech community. This is the kind of person who, if you criticize her, your career will be ruined.

...and she's just dropped a red pill on her twenty thousand followers. A red pill which, if a man had revealed it, would have resulted in significant social consequences - I'm serious, if a male employee of github was talking about the 80/20 rule, he'd probably be fired from github for "creating an unsafe environment."

The point I'm getting to is, I'd bet that most of her followers are beta "tech bros" and male feminists. They're primed to white knight if anyone else drops a red pill. I imagine they're confused as hell over how they're supposed to react when she drops one on them. lol

BlindingTwilight · 2019-03-18T05:44:15+00:00

Great to see statistical confirmation of everything we already knew. If you want to get laid on Tinder then you had better be in the top 20%. If you are not in the top 20% you need to consider other tactics. Of course you lift, dress well etc but that will not get every guy into the top 20%. If you are short and you have bad genes then game is your best tool. If your game is very tight then you will be able to get laid with hot women. So how do you game if you are not in the top 20%? Numbers, you approach like a motherfucker. You learn tight game, you improve your status through your social ranking or your lifestyle. Go forth and slay

I_am_Groot69 · 2019-03-18T05:36:48+00:00

I don't use tinder can some one tell me does tinder have pay to win feature?

Like as a male you get matched more if you pay money?

AwakenedSovereign · 2019-03-18T11:02:06+00:00

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2019-03-18T12:20:09+00:00

Top comment in Twitter Thread:

These are just the facts of life

Which one of you shitlords posted that?

jonpe87 · 2019-03-18T13:14:21+00:00

Last week I matched with a girl

(I'm good looking, my new account has 400+ matchs and 99+ people that liked me but I can't see

I can have like 20+ matchs in a new account in the first day

My bio is like this: 31yo, 5,11.. 1 billion matchs and no interesting girls)

Than this pretty FACE girl messages me, I go to see the photos of that pretty face: Fat, a lot of tattoos, even with all that makeup and photoshop she was at best a 5. The first photo had so much alteration that didnt look like her at all. She send me the follow message: Wow, 1 billion of matchs! I have only 16XX ... this 5 whale had 1600+ matchs... I cant even imagine how delusional the standarts of those girls are, they all think they are 10ns.. I wouldn't fuck this girl even if she paid me

mallardcove · 2019-03-18T11:26:43+00:00

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NikolaGeorgiev · 2019-03-18T08:47:53+00:00

I would say it's 20% IRL and 5% in Tinder.

Terdmuffin · 2019-03-18T07:21:33+00:00

Wow it's almost like the whole 80/20 thing has some merit.

TechRedRaider88 · 2019-03-18T15:31:05+00:00

Cuz it reverses when people are in there 30’s & 40’s, this article is great example:

https://www.capebretonpost.com/news/local/speed-dating-event-in-membertou-cancelled-due-to-lack-of-men-283597/

El_Serpiente_Roja · 2019-03-18T14:32:49+00:00

This why you have to hit it hard in real life, nature intended certain advantages for men in reality to offset unhinged hypergamy. This swipe/like/comment picture shit is rigged for women in a big way.

wastedlifez · 2019-03-18T16:53:51+00:00

This is why I deleted my dating apps. It's pointless. Real life is wear it's at people. Wake the fuck up. I get a lot of eye-contact and approach signals when I go out and these girls are gorgeous. I paid for Tinder Gold and got matched with fucking bots. Luckily it was only 1 month. This made me feel like shit but later that day I went out and dressed with style and got noticed by 8 girls who where all pretty. 1 flirted with and was throwing me signals. I know my own fucking value and I don't need Tinder's fucking swipe right validation These fuckers should get sued for manipulating men into paying for there god damn piece of shit app. By the way I have evidence on my phone. Women do not base shit on looks like we do. They base shit of sub communication. Looks and style do play a little role but not that much. We men are visual. That's why Tinder works for us and not Women. Once you been in Game for about a year you will understand this concept and how attraction really works. Sorry if I piss anyone off. This is the fucking truth.

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WhiteGhosts · 2019-03-18T13:34:01+00:00

Do not use Tinder, stop feeding the vapid head cases and shining their egos even further.

Rent a hot escort and get on with your week, that is how you disrupt this game.

TechRedRaider88 · 2019-03-18T12:48:47+00:00

Eh wait 10 years - Then the numbers will have switched

Mangasbzo7 · 2019-03-18T13:34:24+00:00

There was a more rigorous study of this posted on here a few months back. They found 60% of women were fucking the top 20% of men.

Then when you extrapolate that proportion to the wider population it works out as the top 50% of men are fucking all the women, in other words the bottom 50% of men consistently have nothing but their dicks in their hands

PerfectNemesis · 2019-03-18T22:36:37+00:00

Competing? More like taking turns with the top 78% of women.

mallardcove · 2019-03-18T10:36:40+00:00

Online dating is for waste cadets.

I'd rather just speak to a women that seems interesting on the street if I am in the mood lol.

ScribeThoth · 2019-03-18T15:58:02+00:00

A lot of younger men don’t know, but your desirability also peaks at around age 45.

https://www.theatlantic.com/science/archive/2018/08/online-dating-out-of-your-league/567083/

CaptainBW · 2019-03-18T16:35:35+00:00

Tinder is the “attention/validation” real life video game for women. For every 10 matches with chicks you actually wanna fuck, 1-2 will be genuinely easy sluttygirlz. I have mixed feelings about the whole thing. I think every man should try it out at least for the purpose of viewing the current landscape. It’s almost enlightening. They’re pretty much the same entity that’s been copied and pasted over and over in different bodies, and then the hypergamy algorithm runs on top of that. AWALT.

tchower · 2019-03-18T17:31:40+00:00

Looks like woman believe in inequality more than men naturally. Another reason why feminism is stupid. Lol

TechRedRaider88 · 2019-03-18T17:56:40+00:00

Great summary, that’s for that. And yes, essentially the article is a case study that reveals how men chase women when they’re in their 20’s, but when women get into their 30’s or 40’s their SMV drops drastically & they become increasingly desperate; hence way so many women signed up for the older age bracket event

wastedlifez · 2019-03-18T18:46:40+00:00

If you’re a guy and reading this then this is GOOD news for you. It means there’s more reward at the top. You think you want to bust your ass to be top 10% only to have a few women to choose from?

Fuck no, strive to be the best. And any man short of disfiguration can be top 20%. Hit the gym, lift, dress well, find a cool hobby, you’re there. And let me tell you - it’s worth it.

Your competition is weak. Work on yourself and you’ll be glad that women only go for 20% of men

hardly_incognito · 2019-03-18T19:36:41+00:00

I've had moderate success with Tinder, but here's the catch:

Don't give a fuck about Tinder.

It's a dating app. I'd say I have a high SMV (fit, good looks, high paying job) and I get ignored by most of my matches with my first message.

Again, it's the internet. You have to completely detach from it. I do my 5 super likes every other day then forget about it.

If you're a guy looking to get laid. Go lift. Then focus on improving weak aspects of your life, and most importantly - approach. It never gets "easy", I'm no approach guru. But I've had my best experiences with women on the fly, heart pounding, just walking up to them and blabbing some shit.

Tinder has to be something you do on the side, like fucking candy crush. Put some time into getting a handful of good pics, write a simple af bio, then give it no more than 5 mins of your life daily.

PM me and I'll link a highly up-voted guide I got from this subreddit. After you've laid the foundation, if you're working on yourself, living life, etc. Just accumulate some pictures and slowly rotate them in to better fill-out your profile.

whattodotrp · 2019-03-18T21:47:38+00:00

I had checked the replies on the feed and was disappointed to see only one person mentioned hypergamy or 80/20 rule...

2019-03-19T02:38:12+00:00

The top 20% of men on tinder are not competing for anything. They are enjoying the plethora of pussy throwing itself at them. I’m 99% of them are not looking for a relationship out of it so there is no competition at all, they are just passing around a bunch of delusional thots Who think that their ugly asses deserve a 10/10 man with a six-figure salary and a 12 inch cock.

DubbleFUPAwitCheez · 2019-03-19T19:15:13+00:00

A little advice about tinder, even if you are top 20% you're still hamstringing yourself. I don't know if this bitch just rarely used tinder or never got to me or what but I swiped her right on tinder, didn't match, then met her in real life. I of course never mentioned that fact. Anyways, she proceeds to follow me around, text me all the time, cook me dinner and take a ton of abuse from me all with me giving nothing back. I was testing the limits of being an asshole at the time so I never really made an attempt to fuck her but the fact remains, puppy dog in person, too high on a self appointed pedestal to see me on tinder.

valenin · 2019-03-18T09:33:30+00:00

What do the absolute numbers look like? If 20% of men is a smaller absolute number than 78% of women, it’s not those men competing for women as the article frames it.

zatham · 2019-03-18T13:03:48+00:00

Can anyone cite the original source for what she quoted in her tweet? my interest is piqued.

Bazino · 2019-03-18T14:06:11+00:00

Stupid question, but how is this "competing" when they can statistically choose 5 girls EACH without crossing each other?

I'd say that the top 5% of them are competing for the top 25% of women more probably, while 15% are probably okay just pumping 26%-78% day after day.

(Also if men would just adhere to the same standards women have, then the game would become easier for everybody, but that's another topic.)

teveza11 · 2019-03-18T15:43:52+00:00

Women only want the best genes.

Technology has allowed them and those with the very best genes to have access to each other.

The other 80% of men's life quality has drastically reduced as a result.

ArtDeve · 2019-03-18T16:02:00+00:00

Not scientifically valid "study" at all. Sample size of only 27.

I don't think it as extreme as 80/20.. but my only experience with it is in a relatively small town.

illusiveab · 2019-03-18T20:17:57+00:00

Online dating is a massive Nash equilibrium

Psychocist · 2019-03-19T16:27:06+00:00

Will we lament this for the rest of our lives? Who cares?

cafeitalia · 2019-03-20T14:09:52+00:00

On tinder top 20% of men do not compete. They get laid. Every week I can pull a new girl from tinder without much effort.

O--- · 2019-03-18T06:01:48+00:00

these 80% of women that these 20%ers are getting are women who have gotten used and abused by 50+ men already and who have an addiction to drugs/weed. vast majority of them also overweight, with obnoxious tats as well.

why?

because no woman actually worth a damn would stoop so low as to use tinder and give the common folk hope of scoring her, it's offensive. not even to "see whats out there"

they know theyre eggs are expensive, and that sperm is cheap.

theyre getting their Alpha-fix at parties, events, raves, colleges, even out in supermarkets/libraries/coffee shops. because theyre sexy aesthetic will motivate alphas to approach them in person and make shit happen.

in short, delete tinder, go swipe right on hoes IRL. dating apps are just an illusion built to keep the dumb goyim busy. dont be one of them.

AlexDr0ps · 2019-03-18T16:23:32+00:00

For a subreddit obsessed with being 'alpha', threads about dating apps catered entirely towards empowering women and providing them with even more SMP leverage than they already have sure do come up a lot, huh

my_mix_still_sucks · 2019-03-20T16:27:03+00:00

!! BREAKING NEWS !! water is wet!

wastedlifez · 2019-03-23T22:07:00+00:00

The truth is that having an active good sex life with hot girls is completely over for 90% of western men. Why? Cause females are hooking up with the top 5-10% good looking men, that is the truth, and it even continues in the womens 30s and 40s.

I talked to a girl who was 42 yesterday, she had 1700 matches in 3 weeks, she showed me some of them .. YOUNG HOT CHADS.

Women dont hit the wall, that is a red pill myth and its false. Women can continue to get fucked by hot men thruout all their life.

And the vaste majority of us will never ever even come CLOSE to that.

Time to accept the facts and realise that "game" dont exist no more.

You are born hot or not, this is based on ur facial attractiveness. If u dont got that, its over for u, atleast if u live in the west.

Title	"On Tinder the top 20% of men are competing for the top 78% of women"
Author	GoingToMakeItBrahs
Upvotes	605
Comments	224
Date	March 18, 2019 5:21 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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