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They hate confident women because they can’t control us!

AcadiaLeather5071

April 13, 2021
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Title They hate confident women because they can’t control us!
Author

AcadiaLeather5071

Upvotes 2271
Comments 65
Date April 13, 2021 10:55 PM UTC
(5 years ago)
Subreddit Posted in /r/FemaleDatingStrategy
Original Link https://old.reddit.com/r/FemaleDatingStrategy/comments/mqdns1/they_hate_confident_women_because_they_cant/
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[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 510 points511 points512 points 5 years ago (12 children) | Copy Link

"You'll end up single!"

Yep, yep, that's the point!

[–]hakunnamatatamfsFDS Newbie 336 points337 points338 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

"You'll end up single!"

Like if being single, without having to wash the dirty laundry of a guy that can't even give you an orgasm nor wash his hands after peeing, was a death sentence 😂😂😂

[–]InayahDaneenFDS Newbie 53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Lol fr 💯 Or having to serve his family like their personal maid. A lvm co worker brags about his wife serving his parents and washing their clothes etc.

[–]Lemon_bars_addiction 192 points193 points194 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Definition of threatening us with a good time

[–]DontAskTwice-A-RoniFDS Newbie[🍰] 192 points193 points194 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It’s weird that they think being single is an insult when they themselves are single... sounds like they hate the fact that they can’t keep a woman in their lives 🤔

[–]sleutherinoFDS Newbie 132 points133 points134 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That's what it is too, they're projecting their worst fears onto us, using it as a threat/insult. Just shows their own insecurities tbh.

I don't think they realize that women on FDS (or any strong women) aren't afraid to live single, because we don't need a man to be happy. Not sure if they can say reverse to be the same

[–]all_or_nothing_betFDS Apprentice 26 points27 points28 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Right?

[–]bonsaithot 68 points69 points70 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It’s always so fascinating because why do you have such negative associations with being single? I’ve always found being single a blast and my preferred “default” state in the best way possible.

[–]SayNadFDS STRATEGY COACH 8 points9 points10 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep you said it sis. I am always single aside from that one time in high school (and even then it lasted 3 months before I got really bored) and it just seems normal. Like I don't get people who see single people and "pity" us because we don't have a guy like ?? I mean good for you if you are happy and all that but what's so pitiful about being single? I have my friends and family for love and connections and I am pretty busy with my own stuff to care about spending time with another person exclusively - how is that "sad"?

They will be like "Don't worry you will find someone eventually" and I am like "But I don't want to?? WTF??". If I am "destined" to meet someone then let the destiny do its job, I don't need you shoving your "concern" down my throat every single time.

And yep those who do this "concern" thing the most are those who are visibly unhappy with their own marriage. Ugh talk about crab tryna pull you down into the bucket.

[–]i2aminspired 10 points11 points12 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

"You'll end up single!"

Don't threaten me with a good time! 😂

[–]killzrFDS Newbie 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

*dabs pretend tears on beautiful stress free cheeks with wads of cash*

[–]i2aminspired 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

*dabs pretend tears on beautiful stress free cheeks with wads of cash*

*drinks said pretend tears from expensive crystal glass after going on a clothing haul with wads of cash*

[–]miphasgracefulFDS Apprentice 180 points181 points182 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Reminds me of all of the Tiktoks and YouTube videos, teaching LVM how to neg women. Gaslighting 101. Thankfully, there’s enough of us smart enough to see it for what it is (you’re not witty, Adam, you’re just an asshole) and we swerve.👋🏼

[–][deleted] 174 points175 points176 points 5 years ago (5 children) | Copy Link

Or they say "I love confident women"...because they like the challenge of tearing them down.

[–]lucidlotusFDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I firmly believe this is a thing. From your garden-variety LVM to the ZVM narcissists.

[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 16 points17 points18 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

It actually is.. I've had LVM go on about how much they admire strong women in my male dominated industry, feminism etc., call other guys out for being racist.. they love their mothers for being strong and holding high ranking positions in companies.. yet still get threatened when I refuse to hit on them as a "strong woman" AND refer to the women who choose to have ONS with them as bitches, hoes, etc. No longer friends with guys like this.

Actually think some LVM just like "strong" pro active women because they think they'll get chased, "get to be the woman" (which they all get hard over), etc.

[–]Gloomy-Ad3145FDS Newbie 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

He loved my confidence until I called him out then I had to cut the attitude or leave. Of course I left. Then I sent screenshots to the ex he tried cheating on.

[–][deleted] 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You love to see it!

[–]McccyFDS Apprentice 302 points303 points304 points 5 years ago* (6 children) | Copy Link

I was thinking about making a post about this. I was on a random yt video and a girl with a pretty pfp commented something and a girl told her she's pretty and she casualty responded with a thank you.

The following 100+ replies on her comment were guys completely shaming her for aknowloging her beauty. It was so odd to read their comments like. How miserable and incecure must you be, to tell a random woman that she will 'die alone' (?)cause she is 'too vain' 'too confident!' 'Probably on her mirror 24/7' 'no personality!' Only cause she used her selfie as a pfp.

Like damn. They really hate when they see a confident woman without a customer service attitude.

[–]YgirlYBFDS Newbie 129 points130 points131 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

See that's the reaction when the girl/profile picture is conventionally beautiful. If she wasn't, and another girl told her she was pretty, the girls would be accused of "coddling each other". In both cases, the goal is the same - to keep women meek and feeling bad about themselves. And they all feel entitled to pushing their unsolicited opinions everywhere, because they genuinely believe it matters more than any woman's.

[–]nonchalance77 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago* (1 child) | Copy Link

“Customer service attitude “ - I’m totally stealing that if it’s ok with you!!!

[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

When I worked in retail through university the amount of sexual harassment was horrendous even from other employees. People literally felt entitled to ask me where I lived etc. and the branch manager was a self-hating older woman who told me I was "oversensitive."

[–]ShegoGreen 20 points21 points22 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I just got done reading a comment where a pretty women complimented an actress in a movie trailer. Some scrote commented and said something similar to, "yeah but to look like her you have to be way prettier and even she was cheated on (in the movie)." It had 56 likes.

[–]i2aminspired 0 points1 point2 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Is pfp profile pic?

[–]McccyFDS Apprentice 1 point2 points3 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Yep

[–]DontAskTwice-A-RoniFDS Newbie[🍰] 237 points238 points239 points 5 years ago (11 children) | Copy Link

I’ve noticed there’s this trend of ugly men “interviewing” pretty young women and asking them to rate themselves on a scale of 1-10. No matter how pretty the girl, or how low she rates herself, the scrote will go out of his way to dramatically scoff and say “you’re more like a 2 or a 3.”

And other scrotes in the comments will simultaneously say “omg stop getting so offended! It’s jUsT a jOkE,” but also “these h*es aren’t even that cute!”

They LOVE making good-looking women insecure. It’s the only way they’d ever have a shot with her.

[–]Rowbloks 120 points121 points122 points 5 years ago* (4 children) | Copy Link

What? Why do these women even answer such a question? No truly confident HVW should ever rate herself on a scale, ever.

It's a question that is extremely disrespectful because it's objectifying, first of all.

Second of all, none of the numbers you answer will benefit you. Rate yourself low and you look miserable with low self-esteem, rate yourself high and you look conceited. Either way it benefits everyone but you because it gives them a reason to treat you badly while you remain defenseless. You cannot win, so don't play.

The best answer to this is always no answer: telling the guy he's being shockingly inappropriate or just changing the subject/removing yourself from the conversation.

I'm not chastizing you OP, it just pains me to hear that there are girls out there who don't know all this.

[–]PinkBlair99 86 points87 points88 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

I’ll be like, “I’m a 10.” And then I’d wait for the guy to do some more negging shit, and trying to take me down a peg, and acting shocked or whatever, and then I would say, “My rating scale is the only one that matters. And you’re a zero.” And then I would walk away.

[–]IgetUsernameScrapsFDS Newbie 23 points24 points25 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Some of these bastards aren’t even on the scale cause they look like they belong to a different species.

[–]CSardothien_1FDS Newbie 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I’d go one step further and say I’m an 11. And they would be -3

[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

I sadly know a few girls who like to hang out in male dominated environments, do stuff like this and also ask the guys to "rate" them - being a "Cool Girl," making jokes about sex, openly talking about how often they shave down there to get the guys talking etc. Why do they do this?

[–]Nat_at_allFDS Newbie 47 points48 points49 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

That disgusting trend makes my break out in hives. It’s so gross

[–]_queeeen_FDS Newbie 35 points36 points37 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Girl I’d choke on the coffee I paid for on this date. Oh wait... 🤭

[–]ShegoGreen 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

They LOVE making good-looking women insecure. It’s the only way they’d ever have a shot with her.

So Kevin Samuel's business strategy basically

[–][deleted] 11 points12 points13 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

"I'm sorry that you're blind, but I'm beautiful" and leave it at that.

Or, as FDS actually says, block and delete.

[–]i2aminspired 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Sounds like Kevin Samuels. He radiates self hate and projects it onto insecure but beautiful women to make himself feel better.

[–]s_slayerFDS STRATEGY COACH 111 points112 points113 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

You can’t be too successful, get too much attention, make too much money, be too much hotter than them, etc etc. Men are totally insecure, sometimes they even want their partners to gain weight or at least not lose any in case they upgrade, but then they lust after other women too. They are the biggest, most needy and insecure creatures. Look at their subs. Most of them were/are shitty partners and can’t stand that a woman left them, but it’s always her fault or all of womankind’s fault because somehow the gender that is far more violent and disgusting in every way is just oppressed and left without “outlets” for their myriad of issues and wOmEnz r EViL. 🙄

[–]hologothicFDS Newbie 109 points110 points111 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

It really is weird. They can't handle the idea that they might have to actually level themselves up to keep up with us, if we're knocked down and don't realize our own greatness as women the bar for men gets to stay buried in hell.

[–]ShegoGreen 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If you see the real-life picture of the men saying this they look hideous. Either over-weight or severely underweight and ugly.

[–][deleted] 5 years ago (8 children) | Copy Link

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[–]sleutherinoFDS Newbie 158 points159 points160 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

"I want to get brownie points with a compliment, but I don't actually want you to feel too good about yourself, or you might realize you're too good for me"

[–]Rowbloks 74 points75 points76 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Absolute predators.

[–]PartypuppersFDS Apprentice 19 points20 points21 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Do you remember that one post where the LV man was writing to a woman telling her he thought about her and wanted to see her again etc etc. And then finished his message with calling her 'fuckface'?

Yeah same LV energy ✨😂

[–]k_sugarplumFDS Newbie 14 points15 points16 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Exactly! Couldn't have said it better!

[–][deleted] 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

Or if you say yes I am...

"Oh I bet all kinds of guys have said that to get in your pants"

[–]IgetUsernameScrapsFDS Newbie 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (2 children) | Copy Link

Not like them, with their noble intentions. 😄

[–][deleted] 9 points10 points11 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

Lololol, he got real mad when I asked what I was supposed to say, like "Oh goodness sir! Papa forbade mirrors in his home lest I fall victim to vanity!"

[–]IgetUsernameScrapsFDS Newbie 3 points4 points5 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Or did his porn-fried brain expect you to blush like a schoolgirl but drop to your knees and unzip him in gratitude?

[–]MadameDestructionFDS Newbie 154 points155 points156 points 5 years ago* (2 children) | Copy Link

Men want their attention and compliments to be a woman's only source of self worth. But when she doesn't need their opinions and has a healthy self esteem completely on her own, it terrifies men because now they are faced with their own uselessness.

Like they'll tear a confident women down because they have no meaning to woman's life otherwise. So when they give you a compliments it's often done out of the desire to be acknowledged themselves, rather than to uplift the woman receiving the compliment. They want to hear a 'thank you' as a sign of their presence and contribution to your life and self worth. They don't want to hear a 'I know' because that would be like telling them how useless they are since it would mean you know regardless of their existence. Anyways, stay confident queens and keep reminding them LVM of how useless they are!

[–]Rowbloks 59 points60 points61 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

This just goes to show how much value women have. Being able to make someone doubt the worth of their entire existence just by ignoring them a bit is powerful. And it's true power that benefits women, not libfem "empowerment".

Indifference is a powerful weapon, use it. That's the message that young girls should hear the most.

[–][deleted] 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We should reply back to these compliments with can i get 10 dollars🤣 some bull shit to get them to atop with the unwanted attention i hate being gawked at

[–]IHateJobSearching1Throwaway Account 53 points54 points55 points 5 years ago (3 children) | Copy Link

This guy told me once “you’re gonna die alone” because I had standards

[–]DrildoBagurrenFDS Apprentice 24 points25 points26 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

We'll probably die alone whether we marry and settle down or stay single; if we choose the latter, we just get a statistically better chance of a longer and happier life first.

[–][deleted] 15 points16 points17 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

One can dream 😊

[–]ZirniaisuspirgaisFDS Newbie 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

Men live a decade shorter so we're dying alone anyways. Or if we get sick the man leaves and spends retirement savings on a fresh 20 yr old. Either way women die alone in all cases.

[–][deleted] 48 points49 points50 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

men: 'you'll end up single!!!'

me: 'and?'

scrotes so obsessed they have to be the center of everything and everyone.

Apparently the world is still not enough for them

[–]Rowbloks 40 points41 points42 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

LVM drag other people down and lie (gaslight). These are their only ways of not feeling bad about themselves. They're a literal mental health hazard.

In fact, anyone who doesn't react to your confidence with either indiference or encouragement is just bad for your personal growth and mental peace.

[–]PinkBlair99 31 points32 points33 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

My favorite thing is when you assert your right to public, or perceived “male“ space, and they start acting super vulgar and being very sexist and disgusting, and if you say anything about it, you get the old “Well, if you want to be one of the boys you have to be able to handle being one of the boys! Aren’t feminists for equality” Etc. Revolting.

[–]Yogacat4 27 points28 points29 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

The good news is we don’t have to care, lol! That’s part of being successful is rolling with the occasional punches. These tweets have me 😂 lately...

[–]File-OwnFDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (1 child) | Copy Link

I was literally walking happy round my city centre yesterday minding my own business when some random middle aged scrote with his friend shouted out from a car, "WHAT ARE YOU SMILING AT?"

I responded rudely and walked off, only way hes ever going to get a young woman to talk to him lmao.

[–]i2aminspired 4 points5 points6 points 5 years ago* (0 children) | Copy Link

That happened to me a lot in high school. I would be smiling thinking about something and some random chick or dude would say some rude backhanded compliment or make some snarky comment about my skinny no-ass-having body. Now Im in my 30s, that sort of shot rolls off my back and Im always smiling even out in public.

[–]CSardothien_1FDS Newbie 12 points13 points14 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

All cruelty springs from weakness.

[–]SayNadFDS STRATEGY COACH 5 points6 points7 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

But they treat confident, assertive hell even sociopathic narcissistic men like God. So yeah nah f**k you scrote.

[–]favoritesoundFDS Newbie 2 points3 points4 points 5 years ago (0 children) | Copy Link

If by weird you mean toxic as hell and probably sociopathic, yes.

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