I was unaware of this for years, but I recently learned that guys in the US military get paid extra when they get married as well as when they have children. It had always rubbed me as suspicious seeing that a lot of military guys rush into engagements and weddings, especially when they are young. I was also told that military men with wives and kids tend to get better free housing and perks versus being single.

Marriage in general (for nonmilitary as well) can be a sweet deal for LVM they may get better tax breaks, discounted insurance, maybe they can get better Healthcare, and the woman having a better credit score /better job/better finances could workout in that LVMs favor. You also definitely need to read up on Common Law states. We all know marriage is a scam for women but I wanted to share this info as well, especially if others were completely unaware of it.

I am grateful for those that have/are serving but that does not mean you need to marry or date them.

Also think about the fact that these guys can put a ring on your finger or get you pregnant and then that they will hardly be home or around! Think about all of the traveling they do and living on bases and being far away from your friends and family. The man gets the extra money and perks and gets to Essentially be an absent father/husband while isolating you from your circle. It seems like the golden deal for a LVM.

Thank you to those women who have served or sacrificed but I just want readers to think about the worst case scenario here where the guy is a LVM and sees this as a sweet deal, not love.

Think twice.