As many already know, I'm a passport bro in Asia. I recently committed to someone. She's wonderful, stunningly beautiful, but divulged today that she's pregnant by her ex. The pregnancy is too far along for her to have cheated. She's broke, so I offered to pay for an abortion if she wanted but she said no, she wants to keep it. I have no desire to pay hospital bills for another man's child, nor do I want to deal with months of no sex, let alone be responsible for the mouth to feed, so I gentlely told her to return to her parent's home. We had breakup sex, said final farewells, and deleted each other from our contacts and I gave her money for bus fare (there's no other mode of transportation available). She's facing a rough life since her parents are subsistence farmers living in a one-room shack.

Am I the asshole?