Whenever I go on a video of a man doing something nice for a woman like buying her flowers, opening the door for her, or maybe just doing the dishes once or cleaning the house there are these comments on these videos which claim that men doing this to women is just the "bare minimum"

fellas, this is not the "bare minimum", Imagine if I said the bare minimum for a woman is cleaning the house and taking care of the kids, sounds incredibly bigoted right? But why is it not when the gender is reversed? Also this thing about how men have to do the "bare minimum" for women sounds manipulative as hell, making it sound like we have to do everything for women and thats just the norm for them.