`Ello. :) Long time lurker, first time poster - from recent demands, I thought seddit could use some female field reports.

(Side note: my seduction style is definitely a natural, and although I have a kick for being dominated by a proper alpha male, while in state I am a genuine alpha female, and most of the challenges stem from my containing myself so as not to come on too intimidating and letting the guys feel like they are doing most of the work)

So, it`s Friday night and I (F24) am going clubbing with my best friend and flatmate (F22) and my ex high school sweetheart, current wingman (M25). Our nights out used to mostly be okay as in, one of us hooking up and the rest having a good time, but nothing too spectacular usually.

However I`ve been reading seduction material like crazy lately and start it off by announcing that I am getting laid tonight. Vocalizing LIKE A BOSS was very good because it got me in state before even getting started, and I later found out it gave my best friend a confidence boost too.

First stop for me was a cup of coffee in a bar with some old friends, where I successfully used this technique on a HG7 (Hot Guy ;) ) and flirted a bit, no close as he was excruciatingly insecure.

But now we're in formation and heading towards a rock club. On the street we cross paths with a 2-set (HG6, HG8) I've seen before on our nights out. I say a very playful 'hello' and walk away while they mumble a hello back and wonder who I am. The beta-ness, it hurts.. :(

We enter said club and meet the 2-set there. I immediately include them in the group and get everybody acquainted. Guys (and girls) - even if you don`t have an opener, just introduce yourselves for bonus confidence points and easy kino. ;) I smile a lot and lightly engage a few people. Not trying to go for the grand entrance and life of the party thing (though I do have the balls for it), because my humble opinion is that it looks more natural for men to do it and a bit forced for women - but feel free to disagree and prove me wrong! ;)

I playfully steal HG8's hat and peacock around, asking him for validation on my outfit and subtly emphasizing my mini skirt. He complies and I IOI but he doesn't escalate my light kino so I punish him by freezing him out and dancing with my friends (with my back to him, I know he's watching but I act like I don't care ;) ), laughing a lot and having a great time without including him. A girl the HG8 knows joins him and I can tell by body language they're not together but share a history, they FF through kino like crazy and next thing you know they're sucking face. No biggie - abundence mentality! I later return the hat and HG8 starts dropping IOIs but I tease and walk away. This girl doesn't take sloppy seconds! - and this is a very good DHV IMHO.

Meanwhile, I continue engaging everybody and having a great time. Minutes later I spot an old high school crush (HG9) making eyes at me from across the dancefloor. I playfully summon him over and he's going on and on about how boring the people he's hanging out with and how awesome our group is. I jump at the opportunity to neg him about being a boring person and make him prove himself to me, all done VERY PLAYFULLY (careful, ladies, male ego is a sensitive beast!) and with some nice kino to boost. I did TONS of push&pull, took nice advantage of the alternate rhythm of the songs played - one slow song I'm dancing really close to him and breathing down his neck, next catchy one I'm going from one person to the next, engaging them all while lightly flirting with everybody - girls included, or even better, girls especially! Ladies, I cannot emphasize how much of a gold mine it is if you flirt with your own gender, men go ga-ga for that shit.

In the meanwhile my flatmate has gathered the courage to hit on a guy she's had her eyes on since we walked in and they`re making out. At this point I am also making out with HG9, and we keep on having an awesome time for at least a couple hours, while I make sure to continue push&pull but still act compliant enough that I am not emasculating and give HG9 the impression he's pulling most of the strings.

Fun fact: while our growing group is being totally awesome, HG8's group is almost dead and he makes no effort to hold back from staring at me all the time. Too bad, HG8, could have been you rocking out with me tonight.

When flatmate invites her guy over and they decide it's time to leave, I don't ask but simply let my HG9 know we better hurry if he wants to split the cab with them to my place. Getting past the awkwardness with a logistics issue while phrasing it like it was the guy's decision to make = win. ;) We leave just as my ex sticks his tongue down the throat of a HB he's been oogling. Score!

Back at my place, I hand HG9 a spare shirt and *I verbally tease but make it a point to emphasize how we won't be having sex tonight because of his whiskey dick. He is genuinely drunk at this point so this is true, BUT the effect of all the teasing is that he caveman throws me on the bed and eats me out like there's no tomorrow while my best friend F-closes in the next room. FUCK YEAH! *

Some pillow talk and a lot of physical teasing later, it's past 6 AM and HG9 decides to head on home. He asks me for my number and I play with him a little bit before giving it to him, to the point where he jokingly begs for it and I am loving it. Just couldn't resist giving him a little DHV attitude for the road.

All in all, an AWESOME night! And all because of my awesome mindset. Ladies, it really is that easy! :)