How to respond to Girls saying "I miss you" or "I wish you were here"

dublinclontarf · 2012-12-30T07:27:57+00:00

Say this: "Do something about it." I'll usually throw a :) in at the end (if it is a text) depending on the girl so it doesn't come off too strong. Women are so accustomed to the typical "I miss you too" line. You'll be surprised how fast you can spike a girl's interest with the line above. If it's a serious relationship or you've known her for a while then "I miss you too" is fine but definitely use the first line if it's a girl you've only gone on a few dates with/don't know well yet. Her saying, "I miss you" can be a test if you've only known the girl for a short period of time. Saying "I miss you too" early on in a relationship can be seen as coming across as needy and taking things a bit too fast. Again, calibration is your best friend so do what you think is right depending on the woman you are talking to.

Edit: Another plus about this line is that if you're lucky she will initiate the next meetup after saying this but don't bet on it.

eggboard · 2012-12-30T13:49:37+00:00

"We're just two lost souls Swimming in a fish bowl, Year after year, Running over the same old ground. "

I'll show myself out.

ProfessorMcHugeBalls · 2012-12-30T11:11:35+00:00

"What would you do if I were there?"

AveofSpades · 2012-12-30T07:49:45+00:00

"I know."

yougottawanna · 2012-12-30T21:24:52+00:00

"Aw, you're sweet! Let's get together soon."

TroubleInTurtleTown · 2012-12-30T13:33:59+00:00

I usually say what I miss about them. Like missing their soft lips or the way her smile makes me smile.

Bullshit like that ;)

lamartine · 2012-12-30T13:18:39+00:00

Usually I respond with: "Well I am not surprised when I think about last time you were here and we did xyz." xyz can be anything, most likely something sexual. Often I simply write her to call me later in the evening and when she does, I tell her something along the lines of: "you wrote that you miss me, well think about this; I sit behind you... and now I describe a sexual situation which starts nice and soft and gets more sexual and at some point the girl stops me and then I laugh and tell her that I know she likes hearing this. Then the topic already changed from missing me to sex.

And I liked the short answer I read here: "I'd miss me too!"

By the way: A better question would be: How do I tell her that I miss her? This one is much harder to answer.

GirTheRobot · 2012-12-31T07:36:31+00:00

Just take a hint from Bender

"Shut up baby I know it"

munging_molly · 2012-12-30T10:25:19+00:00

I'd miss me too ;-)

karmapopsicle · 2012-12-30T06:27:08+00:00

No need to overthink it. Just be honest.

2012-12-30T12:47:39+00:00

I'm seeing a lot of over-thinking....

CJ090 · 2012-12-31T04:11:07+00:00

Listen, unless that is your girlfriend, DO NOT respond in a way saying the feeling is mutual. Ive learned the hard way that until you are physically penetrating a girl, the game is still on. Until you are balls deep you still have to play it cool 100% of the time otherwise a girl will try to "control" you. Play it off. Say something like, "Aww thats so cute, you're such a groupie ;)" This will probably generate a laugh and keep her on her toes letting her know that SHE hasn't won YOU yet.

playfulpenis · 2012-12-30T08:17:31+00:00

If she's being sweet to you, be sweet to her back. We only neg/tease women that are acting bitchy/arrogant and difficult. Just tell her you miss her too, and throw in a happy face. Or hint at something amazing you'll do together in the near future to show you miss her. She's the one who initiated the comment anyway.

When we reward people for good behavior they will repeat it.

2012-12-30T15:00:26+00:00

I would see that as an opening to make plans, especially if I had some emotions in the equation. You don't necessarily have to come off as a chest thumper if that isn't you. Sometimes the alpha move is just being in control and straight up about what's up with you. Sounds like a girl saying that stuff is looking for some validation. Which way you play that is up to where you are in the scheme of things. All theory with negging aside there are many times when kicking out some positive validation is the right course.

phuketawl · 2012-12-30T16:13:47+00:00

Something like "Can't wait to give you something more to miss" might be kind of cute in the right context.

Untraced · 2012-12-30T06:25:39+00:00

You could try replying with "I miss you too" ... If you actually do.

everythings-awkward · 2012-12-30T09:16:29+00:00

Just tell her you miss her... Some girls like to be appreciated and not have to fight for every compliment... When I tell my girl I miss her.. Its because I do.

NahDudeFkThat · 2012-12-30T16:14:23+00:00

"Good shit b. What are you makin me for dinner tonight"

gerusz · 2012-12-30T19:32:22+00:00

Showing up at her place usually does the trick.

iasthealpha · 2012-12-31T02:39:08+00:00

Tell me that again.

zappingyou · 2012-12-30T13:27:25+00:00

just say, let's go get some ice-cream or something if you do (;

ZakieChan · 2012-12-30T18:00:35+00:00

"Prove it." Or, "yeah, I have that effect on girls."

aareyes12 · 2012-12-30T17:15:20+00:00

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jtMv6V7ZvmE&feature=youtube_gdata_player

12_bald_turkeys · 2012-12-30T17:39:45+00:00

So here's a question for those of you who are better at this than me. Once you've responded with something other than "I miss you too" and you get the inevitable "don't you miss me too?", how do you respond to that?

I'm getting over a bad case of niceguy-itis and tend to end up with clingy women who want to be acknowledged way too much.

2012-12-30T18:42:37+00:00

You don't have to respond directly. Just say, "We need to hang out again soon."

solarbang · 2012-12-30T13:26:25+00:00

Tell her "I Know" Conveys confidence without weakness and breaks the frame of her test.

Slutmiko · 2012-12-30T11:24:22+00:00

"I miss me too."

2012-12-30T21:13:40+00:00

My favorite, a friend of a friend got a text from his ex girlfriend that said nothing but, "I miss you." He thought about it for a second and responded, "I'd miss me too, I'm awesome haha."

No promises on how it works, I used it on some girl and never heard from her again (she's an attention whore, so it's probably more that).

2012-12-30T07:37:27+00:00

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Paramorgue · 2012-12-30T12:12:34+00:00

One that works a lot for me is: "haha, I'll take that as a compliment ;)"

Title	How to respond to Girls saying "I miss you" or "I wish you were here"
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Date	December 30, 2012 6:21 AM UTC (13 years ago)
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