Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?

ZenoGeno · 2024-03-17T18:55:03+00:00

Bro you're 21 not 60.

notathr0waway1 · 2024-03-17T20:24:58+00:00

Guess what? I'm 49 and still regret not having more sex when I was in my 20s.

Do with this information what you will.

But I'll close with one of my favorite sayings:

The best time to plant a tree was 20 years ago. The second best time is today.

johnnys6guns · 2024-03-17T18:54:34+00:00

Youre 21. Youre still a kid. Youve got a good ways to go before youre a "grown ass man."

Ready_Ad4888 · 2024-03-17T18:54:26+00:00

21 and picking girls man come on you're too old for this!!

AngledLuffa · 2024-03-17T19:48:06+00:00

In my 30s, pulling made me happy. In my 40s, playing with my kids, cuddling with my wife, and making progress with my hip rehab make me happy. You can expect to have your priorities change over time, and everyone's answer is going to be individual.

I don't think there are any wrong answers unless you're out there hurting people or making people uncomfortable

Putting yourself in the "older" category at 21 is something, though...

Advanced-Page8989 · 2024-03-17T19:04:19+00:00

im 45. if that makes u happy.

safestuff987 · 2024-03-17T19:48:44+00:00

31m here, if you're able to attract hot girls despite being "older" then what's not to be happy about?

A lot of dudes who could pull hot girls when they were younger lose their touch when they're older, and all they do is whine about their "glory days"

TheMischievousGoyim · 2024-03-17T19:38:40+00:00

you're 21, not a grown ass man, far from it.

FakeSafeWord · 2024-03-17T20:17:46+00:00

21?

Okay grandpa let's get you to bed.

Strong-Object3482 · 2024-03-17T19:59:24+00:00

21 is still young. Enjoy it while you can. COVID ruined that era for me...

2024-03-17T18:59:07+00:00

Hell yeah .. My teen sex life was active af but when I turned 21 getting women who were sexy af to me in the bed felt good af as well!

Historical-Jump958 · 2024-03-17T19:58:04+00:00

Listen here brother: invest whatever money you have in a small side hustle when possible. Search some simple product you think is important for daily living and try to make your own brand. Something like that. Read the news to be up to date with how the world is moving currently and workout. Find a sport you like and become really good. Focus on smart girls. Take risks and talk to any girl you find hot. And don't give 100% of your free time to only one girl. Thats my advice

icvz6pqik3fur · 2024-03-17T19:48:02+00:00

You’re still very young, as everyone is saying. Your 20s can be the best years of your life. Live it up!

riseupnet · 2024-03-17T19:14:30+00:00

You have an extraordinary gift of making even the best of things seem like a negative. I would work on that instead of worrying about this.

peelinchilis · 2024-03-17T22:01:34+00:00

Bro grown ass men have better shit to worry about than "pulling hot bitches". And if you grow up, hopefully you will too.

RProgrammerMan · 2024-03-17T22:52:44+00:00

Pulling girls in general isn't something to be proud of what matters is forming a healthy relationship. It sounds kinda cool when your twenty but as an adult you realize it isn't that hard to do not does it lead to anything of substance. It's a lot easier to find someone hot than it isn't find someone with chemistry, that's responsible, that's also attractive etc etc.

Shadow__Account · 2024-03-17T20:58:27+00:00

Dude I didn’t have much success with women in my 20’s. My middle thirties I figured shit out and I kind of made up for all that frustration from my teens and 20’s and now I couldn’t give a fuck about hot girls and care more and more about personality. On topic, you can make up for it at a later age yes, especially if you stay emotionally underdeveloped like a lot of men, you can be very excited and pull hot girls when you get older. If it makes you happy is another discussion though.

Tellmesecretsmyguy · 2024-03-17T23:40:07+00:00

Think of it like this bro, as adults you can do way more. Vacations, sex on balconies and island beaches, sex after drunk nights out in the town, or just good dates at expensive places you can’t afford as a teen. most teen sex is sneakily doing it in cars and avoiding parents and so on with inexperienced girls . You didnt miss out on anything bro except bragging rights around the high school.

Frosty_Connection867 · 2024-03-17T23:50:44+00:00

Wth are you talking about dude 😂 don't be sad you couldn't pick up girls when you were a teen it's normal for a lot of guys to not know anything about flirting at that age, you're 21 a YOUNG adult, you literally just became an actual adult a year ago and your talking like your 60 and like you've wasted your life, so many guys live their lives not even getting more than a couple women to sleep with until their old, some guys are luckier but only sleep with a handful of women when they reach 40, and a lot of guys that do learn how to pick up women learn it a lot later in life some learn it in the same time you do like your 20s but a lot also learn it in their 30s or 40s, stop worrying about rhe fact you couldn't get laid years ago bro your a different person now

socialistvacation · 2024-03-17T20:21:35+00:00

The quality of sex you’ll have in your twenties will likely be an improvement upon what you’ve already experienced. The sex I had in my teenage years was great because it was all so novel and new, but the sex later on was way more rewarding and meaningful. I knew myself better, they knew themselves better etc. Pride kind of played a role sure but the game of it became less important by my mid twenties. The way you measure what’s good about it evolves and you better understand why you’re playing the game to begin with.

Another way of saying “I feel bitter that I didn’t have sex and date when I was a teen,” is just “I’m ready to have more sex partners.” Less scarcity, more abundance. Less fear, more love. You have no idea what’s coming next and it’ll probably be way better than what you’ve experienced already.

I’m no stranger to romanticising my past to avoid dealing with my present but I’ve gotten better at noticing when I’m doing it and that helps me do it less. You have way more future than past though so try to focus on what is right in front of you.

Tikn · 2024-03-17T21:38:14+00:00

As a 30 year old man, if I had been 21 getting hot girls... I would've been excited. Nowadays as the 30 year old man I am... I wonder why any woman would be interested in me. I also am suspicious of what they want because they don't... Well... Make it obvious or tell me directly. I'm too old for the game.

Notunnecessarily · 2024-03-17T22:45:14+00:00

Even though I fucked as a teen doesn't mean it was a good experience. Having sex at that young of an age was actually quite miserable. I grew out of that phase and raised my standards. A lot of drama and bullshit happened from it since I was a dumbass kid.

Realdavidlima · 2024-03-17T23:08:51+00:00

Sex at any age is an accomplishment… it’s more impressive though post 40’s

18-30 is when men tend to get the most action

Ruin369 · 2024-03-17T23:29:02+00:00

I had 0 game in most my teen years. Like, didn't even bother speaking/trying with girls.

At 25 I got pretty good at it.

At 27, I met my wife. You are not "old" OP! Your brain isn't even fully developed yet....

2024-03-17T19:17:17+00:00

35 here, you will be impressed about those who ignored you at your age… I don’t regret my slow tempo at 20s🤠

Lance1up · 2024-03-18T01:42:09+00:00

You have at least 25 years to go before you're even anywhere close to "getting older". You can literally do anything you want right now.

NeuroticBoy · 2024-03-18T04:16:11+00:00

Gonna downvote simply because the post was misleading.. 21 year old.. old man.. go home child

spoods420 · 2024-03-18T05:13:31+00:00

WTF are you talking about. When you're my age (43) you'll be happy if your dick can still get hard and you aren't a fat ass with a recording hairline.

You fucking kids need to get your shit together now....because when you get older you either raise kids or spend most days alone af.

SwiftyMcDouchington · 2024-03-18T06:05:44+00:00

As a 35 year old who’s relatively attractive my last gf was 24 (we broke up when I was 33)and it felt awesome that I had enough going for me for me to be able to “pull” a attractive girl that’s younger than me. Yes it’s a slight ego boost I guess and it’s really not that uncommon. The biggest gap I’ve had was 9 years and I was hesitant to pull the trigger on that relationship. So to answer your question I guess yes and no. It’s really just whatever after you’ve been fortunate to experience a multitude of beautiful women and you should be more excited to finally find the one hot girl who’s meant for yourself and vice versa. Idk I’m rambling but my experience is that if you date them with an age gap like that they eventually outgrow you and move away or move on.

You definitely wouldn’t wanna be me which is someone who was so tired of having his heart broken that he’s taken 2yrs off of any type of dating or hooking up etc.

dochachiya · 2024-03-18T06:31:18+00:00

What a weird thing to say.

perpetualomerta · 2024-03-17T20:59:11+00:00

it’s never anything to get excited about. no matter what age you are.

because the same tings that get you excited will eventually either get old to you, get in your way, or get under your skin.

the key is to get used to it. and stay even keeled. never getting too high or too low. regardless of what you are pulling or not pulling.

• the same thing that gets you high, gets you low .. so don’t get high

Banhammer40000 · 2024-03-17T21:08:47+00:00

DM;HS.

Isn’t that what this subreddit is all about?

pre_nerf_infestor · 2024-03-17T22:02:26+00:00

this is the kind of misery that people create for themselves when they have no real problems in their lives

DogecoinArtists · 2024-03-17T22:31:28+00:00

You’re so confused bro

Instacast · 2024-03-17T22:53:44+00:00

Pulling a 30-something is much more of an achievement when you're in your early twenties, than pulling a 40-something when you're in your early thirties.

You're still young - go out and have fun!

ThaGorgias · 2024-03-18T00:15:08+00:00

It's true. Once I hit 30 sex became a drudgery, engaged in only to exercise my arthritic joints and fruitlessly attempt to remind my dementia-ridden mind what pleasure once felt like. However, I'm nothing if not a selfless human, so as you age and are forced to engage in coitus to preserve your relationship with hot girls, feel free to hmu and I'll suffer through the deed in your stead.

GameGodsOfficial · 2024-03-18T00:16:15+00:00

If you call your age or anything near it "older" again.

I'll beat your ass.

With a belt.

cemj86 · 2024-03-18T02:24:55+00:00

Who feels accomplished and proud to have sex. If that's where you put your self worth then you've got bigger problems. Get into a trade, find a hobby, improve your body and mind.

Stop putting looks off women above their character. A woman with just a little bit of game will smell your insecurities and shallowness a mile away and you'll be a victim in the game real fast.

Figure out who you are young man.

areyouhungryforapple · 2024-03-18T03:24:05+00:00

Older age lmfao, you've just started your journey of self improvement friend

AtDaLastMinute · 2024-03-18T03:39:46+00:00

Shit post.

asiandawgshy · 2024-03-18T04:42:25+00:00

It’s meh I would say

Flyingwithsheep · 2024-03-18T05:55:07+00:00

live in the present when you’re older you’ll have your answer

pikecat · 2024-03-18T06:14:21+00:00

I wouldn't even call you a grown ass man yet. You most definitely appreciate hot women at 30 and beyond

Get the idea of feeling old of your mind, how you feel never changes,you just know how to do better.

vegancrossfiter · 2024-03-18T11:12:14+00:00

What the fuck? The absolute best times to have sex are just around the corner my guy, I avoided sex as a teen and Im happy I did that. In your 20s youll have better sex with better women

HarpertFredje · 2024-03-18T12:57:48+00:00

Pulling hot girls is always something to be excited about, unless you're gay

alone_sheep · 2024-03-18T13:48:27+00:00

Lmao. I love when kids think they're old. Takes me back.

igotbabydick · 2024-03-18T15:33:36+00:00

This is dumbest fucking thing ive read in awhile… the only one who thinks that is you, NO ONE ELSE. You’re the story you tell yourself.

Puzzleheaded-Cook116 · 2024-03-18T22:50:37+00:00

Thing about men is we dont age out very quickly, we continue to get older and the women just keep cycling through and staying the same age.

Unikornus · 2024-03-17T20:54:18+00:00

“Pulling?” Is that like a slang to attract a woman?

panzerxiii · 2024-03-17T21:29:10+00:00

Go outside and touch some fucking grass holy shit

TRTGymBro · 2024-03-18T02:28:09+00:00

You are a fucking loser and a virgin. And you are worried if you will get tired of fucking hot girls? Probably not something you will ever have to actually worry about.

Title	Is pulling hot girls at an older age something to be happy/excited about it?
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Date	March 17, 2024 6:40 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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