1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.

Alextryingforgrate · 2021-02-21T17:31:07+00:00

Still need those anomalies to get to 100.

MetronTheCollector · 2021-02-21T19:22:51+00:00

Great post! I completely agree that experience is the difference between guys who become good at this and guys who never improve.

You mentioned that one of the things 100 girls told you is less is more. Can you please explain what do you mean by that? Do you mean as in running less 'game' and not trying so hard, or something else?

nordicdatingmentor · 2021-02-21T18:16:51+00:00

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DrumsKing · 2021-02-21T21:55:44+00:00

Sounds about right. I've probably hit 100 in my lifetime. And after 100...I still do my own thing. lol I guess it works. idk

If I think back to the first 10, its:

Don't be so handsy

Don't get jealous over petty stuff

Take 'no' for an answer (as in, NO I don't want to see Terminator 3)

MihaiRau · 2021-02-21T21:30:34+00:00

Even 100 girls is a small sample size in the big picture of things, in analyzing the success of your cold approach. It takes closer to 1,000-5,000 to evaluate your sucess.

antonthecad · 2021-02-21T21:04:42+00:00

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NiNj4_C0W5L4Pr · 2021-02-21T17:48:43+00:00

Took me 6 to your 100. Perhaps spend more time thinking, studying and improving before rushing headlong into innumerable women without a plan? What if #37 was the woman of your dreams, but you weren't self-actualized at that point? My point is that by #7 i was at the top of mastering myself, relationships and sexuality. Quality over quantity. It will save you time, money and effort in the long run. It all depends on what you are after. Do you want to plow through women or find a good one to have a LTR? In either case it pays to learn. "The unexamined life isn't worth living." -Socrates.

No-Emotion-7053 · 2021-02-21T20:37:16+00:00

How do you not talk as much on dates?

youKnowImRightBitch · 2021-02-21T20:49:40+00:00

cringe

Pringles__ · 2021-02-21T21:18:02+00:00

Cringey post. So you go through 100 girls to realize what seduction is about? Good for you mate but I cba, seriously I don't have the time or the energy for that.

Instead, I just approach life how I want to approach it: by caring about my needs first. I'm the priority of my life. I'll do and say whatever I want, by respecting others of course. I want to ask someone out? I'll do it. I want to ask a girl's number? I'll do it. That's how I want to approach life.

Now, this isn't perfect. I make mistakes, I may come up as arrogant, idiotic, annoying, boring... But that's what I am, that's what defines me and I want people to embrace the whole me, not just the part of me when I'm in top form.

If a girl is not interested in me, because of something I said/did during a date then I'll respect that and it'll end there, period.

I know that I'm not as good as some men out here, but I know for a fact that I'm better than most men out here.

I don't need a girl to tell me what are my strengths or my weaknesses. I am me, if she is not interested in me for whatever reason, then I'll accept that, period.

gino_rai · 2021-02-21T21:17:56+00:00

Can you expand more on the “I am not like other guys” and “Don’t talk much on dates” part. Also, “the less is more part”. I think your on point overall though.

Throwaway689023 · 2021-02-21T23:04:41+00:00

I know this is not related to the purpose of this topic but reading a statement such as "what 100 girls think of you is your reality," is the sort of mindset that makes a lot of women conceited and hyper self-important because this approach implies that they have a great deal of indirect mental power over you.

2021-02-22T03:16:30+00:00

That's some poetic, hard hitting wisdom man. Another way to get this sample size: look at successful guys's around you, and their 100 girls. Give you a better clue as to what it might be.

MisterShogunate · 2021-02-22T07:58:30+00:00

This 100 percent. I've approached hundreds of girls and have gotten laid regularly and you literally come to a point where you see the matrix.

There is no point in obsessing over one girl who has minimal investment if you can just go for the next one who will like you for who you are.

Theoretically you can score a 10 while being a 1, but the probability of that is very low which is why improving yourself all the time is the best thing you can do as a guy while maintaining your approach volume.

Background_Cobbler_4 · 2021-02-21T21:15:54+00:00

U have no idea how much this helped me. Thanks!

Plebe-Uchiha · 2021-02-21T21:16:23+00:00

Respect. Definitely needed this. [+]

BearzBeatz · 2021-02-22T00:03:39+00:00

This sub has great advice but posts like this are unbelievably cringy

regulatorDonCarl · 2021-02-21T22:03:29+00:00

Haha dude idk why I even follow this page. I just act like me, and keep trying to better myself. I figured out that if I want companionship, i guess I have to talk to girls lmao no game involved

LongConfection6928 · 2021-02-22T18:40:21+00:00

This man shares the wisdom of the gods

PhotosyntheticHuman · 2021-02-21T21:25:54+00:00

So on a rating site I'm 4.9/10 out of 298 chats. I guess that's a pretty solid reflection of how attractive/unattractive I am to most women?

Sultmaker_9000 · 2021-02-21T22:19:25+00:00

All good, apart from listening to women telling you what's wrong. I find it very hard to believe they gave you that list of 5, because that is exactly what you should be doing, women are oblivious to what you 'should' be doing.

okletsg0 · 2021-02-21T23:01:01+00:00

Golden rules Anton. I actually found your other thread when you replied to my thread earlier today. I’m getting laid on first date and so on, but when I send text message next day that I had great time 4/5 don’t wanna meet up again because they said “I feel we’re different as person” or they ghost.

I don’t exactly know why since these girls are not honest and don’t tell you exactly.

I have figured out that I need to practice more on talk less, I don’t usually talk so much on dates, but sometimes she ask me things or it happen I tell a story or something like that, so I think I need to be more mysterious and also smile way less.

Sometimes I think it’s better to talk very very less or not at all. Because it damage more than it seems.

Sometimes I reveal little to much information about how I think and my opinion. Not in negative way but more in a spiritual way.

I guess I’m like that because I don’t have any friends or someone I can talk to. It’s not excuse or I feel sorry for myself. I choose this by myself since I consider myself like a sigma male or lone wolf, I wanna go on my own way and focus on myself instead leaning on other. And I don’t need validation or approval from other. But sometimes I have to much information that I want to share and talk with new people I meet.

Ur_X · 2021-02-22T01:07:52+00:00

It took me about 61 women to understand what I was doing wrong. So yeah keep failing until you don’t

StereoFood · 2021-02-22T01:36:37+00:00

What is the “I’m not like other guys” thing. Do we have to think or say that? I think that’s like saying you’re unique and more special than others but it’s not good to boast or brag so what’s the solution here?

Icr711 · 2021-02-22T02:15:37+00:00

That’s a tight list of what 100 girls told you. Good on you for seeing that, them for saying it.

DaHost1 · 2021-02-22T02:27:43+00:00

As Long as you remember they are people too and not a trophy, and whathever you learn you apply by becoming instead of just faking to get laid.

lovesickandroid · 2021-02-22T03:06:39+00:00

just 100 to go for you!

weegee · 2021-02-22T03:10:02+00:00

Quality vs Quantity

alexplex86 · 2021-02-22T04:13:10+00:00

What do you mean with "Where my strengths lie"?

rinzler0110 · 2021-02-22T05:53:37+00:00

What does less is more mean?

BatsmenTerminator · 2021-02-22T09:26:28+00:00

Guys that have gone on dates with 100 girls. I'm really curious, we're they all 7/10 types? I feel like I could get 100 but I would need to lower my standards a bit. If someone can tell me honestly it would be appreciated

assortedchaos · 2021-02-22T10:23:16+00:00

Do you have no job?!!! How on earth do you find time to go on dates with 100 women!!

Title	1 girl is a anomaly. 10 girls is a trend. 100 girls is your reality.
Author	antonthecad
Upvotes	818
Comments	81
Date	February 21, 2021 3:42 PM UTC (5 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
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