Where to look for high income women?

Shox187 · 2024-04-25T00:26:23+00:00

Industry conferences and expos

Khower · 2024-04-25T02:20:13+00:00

When you said you want to build wealth rather than be a charity I felt that to my core

FreeTheMarket · 2024-04-25T01:01:32+00:00

I’m literally drowning in them in NYC. Ivy League educated lawyers one after the other. Doctors, consultants, bankers etc.

And even if they don’t have high income, they come from money. I dated a girl who grew up in an estate outside DC that had its own name (like “Saltburn”) unchanged since before the civil war.

The trick is to get your hinge profile super dialed in. Good quality photos that show the lifestyle you expect to continue in a relationship.

Back home in Florida the best I can do is pull the neighborhood crack head.

For reference I’m Brown, under 6’, and don’t come from money

emirsolinno · 2024-04-25T05:03:33+00:00

Hangout more with other rich dudes, they must have some friends that you would end up meeting.

I don’t do this on purpose to be clear lol, this is how I met before.

CrwdsrcEntrepreneur · 2024-04-25T02:04:18+00:00

Move to NYC. They're everywhere in this city.

mamaboyinStreets · 2024-04-25T02:55:48+00:00

I'm brown and sometimes when i filter by South Asians, almost every Indian girl is in highly lucrative career.

dystopia061 · 2024-04-25T06:08:02+00:00

Private nightclubs/ bars in city

alexmaycovid · 2024-04-25T05:25:12+00:00

To weed out gold diggers you just need to ask them out for a coffee date and don't order anything expensive. Just coffee or tea and maybe some sweets. Don't give them expensive gifts, expensive flowers. At least for a couple of months. But I undestand that you just want to find someone from you league but if you're in the let's say 5% of people with huge income it will be harder than just find a woman who isn't a gold digger but earns much less. Gold diggers don't go to coffee dates

gameofloans24 · 2024-04-25T00:27:49+00:00

gleepgloopgleepgloop · 2024-04-25T01:00:20+00:00

I’m lost at this point. I’m really tired of meeting gold diggers and want to build wealth with someone rather than be a charity over and over. Apps aren’t my strong point as I’m facially ugly and no surgery has been able to fix that.

I'm not sure what is going on there, But if you are disfigured in some way, It's likely to affect your confidence, your personality, and how you interact with people. If you had work done on your face and it's obvious, that's also going to impact who is potentially interested in you.

You make it sound like you're able to meet women and get dates. Are you implying that the only women who have wanted to date you so far are gold diggers? And how do you know they are gold diggers?

5thquad · 2024-04-25T00:45:12+00:00

You don't look for them, they look for you.

AromaticPlant8504 · 2024-04-25T08:02:43+00:00

You have had plastic surgery on your face?

Dragonswim · 2024-04-25T04:44:10+00:00

Hotel bars. Especially during convention season

steppenwolf089 · 2024-04-25T11:59:15+00:00

So you're basically a gold digger with a penis 🤭🤭🤭

Historical_Area7542 · 2024-04-25T18:49:43+00:00

From a high earning female-go to a nice upscale restaurant, sit at the bar alone. In my city, there are lots of them near the courthouse. There are also lots of attorneys offices near the courthouse. A lot of attorneys will go there for lunches and happy hour to unwind. Engage in conversation. That’s one idea. Also consider a private personal trainer that does small group training/classes. The gym I go to, everyone is wealthy. It’s a small group of 4-6 clients so plenty of opportunity to interact. You have to put yourself where they are likely to be. Figure that out for your area and you will be good.

Blackgummyworm · 2024-04-25T03:19:08+00:00

Can you grow facial hair

notaproblem333 · 2024-04-25T10:43:47+00:00

The right answer here is actually quite simple, you meet them while performing expensive activities.

If you’re truly a high income man, then you won’t mind going to expensive parties, or meeting women through expensive hobbies.

burnerrr32431 · 2024-04-25T01:12:15+00:00

Just some ideas, is there an exclusive dating site maybe just for rich people? Are there any alumni events from your college or high school (if that was wealthy)? perhaps social events or clubs with mostly wealthy people? No judgement, but I am curious why another high incomer earner is part of your criteria? I’d love to hear more

Dynamix86 · 2024-04-26T07:50:58+00:00

I’m guessing at after work gatherings in business districts

mister_k1 · 2024-04-25T13:18:21+00:00

Soft guy era has started! Drizzle Drizzle lmao

BrightsideGemini061 · 2024-04-25T13:38:17+00:00

High income woman here. Also looking for fellow high income lady friends. I would love to find another self motivated friend instead of a spoiled housewife friend. So I settle for my broke friends and miss out on tons of classy things and vacations as I never have anyone to join me! The fact that I’m in a small ass town in KY is also not helping the matter 😅 sorry I can’t point you in a direction. I just found the right place to vent bc I can only imagine my friends faces if I were to complain to them about them not being rich lol

perdomwx · 2024-04-25T01:56:21+00:00

Solo travel

tanksforthegold · 2024-04-25T07:15:41+00:00

The bank

Epicvibes777 · 2024-04-25T04:57:39+00:00

Check out drmayaesthetic on instagram.

mileysinn · 2024-04-25T17:39:14+00:00

I can appreciate how frustrating it might be to feel as though the individuals in your social circles are just not the right ones for you. It seems that rather than being solely interested in a person's financial situation, you're searching for true connections based on similar goals and beliefs. Have you thought about looking into new ways to meet people who aren't in your present social circles? Sometimes venturing beyond of our comfort zones results in unexpected and rewarding relationships. And never forget that, despite any perceived flaws, true beauty comes from within. I hope it's easy for you to find someone who accepts you for who you are.

sammielynn13 · 2024-04-25T18:11:02+00:00

Not sure your age but hang around a vet school. My class is 85% women, and we're not all young 20 somethings either. The vet field in general is heavily women dominated right now.

Wild1inMKE · 2024-04-25T19:22:41+00:00

Try to find a charity that high net worth people support and ask if they need volunteers. You can network and find people in that manner. Show them that there is more to you than physical beauty.

ShreddedScientist · 2024-04-26T06:12:30+00:00

What’s considered high income?

Ok_Potential359 · 2024-04-25T00:38:52+00:00

Silicon Valley has a ridiculous amount of high earning women.

wwYY4wn1n6 · 2024-04-25T11:55:58+00:00

if you’re facially ugly and as lacking in charm as your post comes across, why would a high-income woman be interested in you?

TRTGymBro1 · 2024-04-25T02:28:09+00:00

I bet high end escorts and OF girls make more than you.

Gassy-Lassie · 2024-04-25T02:40:10+00:00

Have you tried the NAACP?

AdamPx · 2024-04-27T02:19:05+00:00

Entrepreneurial events

bambaclaaat · 2024-04-25T03:14:39+00:00

Only Fans

Sudden-Conference-65 · 2024-04-25T14:44:34+00:00

High income women want class. Be classy 🤷‍♂️

my_name_isnt_cool · 2024-04-25T03:05:07+00:00

If you won't get on an app because you're 'ugly' what makes you think you'll score better in the real world? I'm not trying to be a jerk, I genuinely think that being on a dating app could help you. Especially since as you said there's not a lot of women in the places you've tried looking, conferences etc. A like-minded woman will see your profile and take a shot if you have interest in common or mainly just express your desire to date someone who makes the same as you. Obvs they're not magic, but completely ruling them out will lower your chances.

HewasBornYesterday · 2024-04-25T10:21:57+00:00

I_never_finish_anyth · 2024-04-25T15:36:09+00:00

High income? Hire a dating coach and a style coach...

V4NC · 2024-04-25T15:59:29+00:00

In expensive gyms

Kobe_curry24 · 2024-04-25T19:53:30+00:00

You start getting money and these women pop up man or just go to high end areas really that simple can’t tell you how many times I have met local woman at the bar rich af buy you drink and all

HerbFarmer415 · 2024-04-25T20:07:08+00:00

Perhaps you might consider getting a job at Whole Foods?

Dresef · 2024-04-25T20:51:45+00:00

Whole foods, Yoga Class, Pilates, social groups that cost money to join.

DrQuincyStorch · 2024-04-26T12:59:35+00:00

If you can tolerate them, lawyers. Especially those who work in corporate and business.

Grand_Okra_2233 · 2024-04-25T03:04:38+00:00

Brothels

lookma24 · 2024-04-25T14:34:38+00:00

I’m lost at this point. I’m really tired of meeting gold diggers and want to build wealth with someone rather than be a charity over and over. Apps aren’t my strong point as I’m facially ugly and no surgery has been able to fix that.

Why are you worried about meeting a class of people, who, based on your self description, would want nothing to do with you, other than to use you for you money like all the other ones?

Tough love here. Adopting the frame of a gold digger is just doing what all these girls have done to you. Hurt people hurt. Its what happens when people refuse to do the work and heal. You gotta break the cycle

Its obvious you are lost, and seeking women on a superficial basis (money), the same superficial basis which you have suffered much rejection in the past won't help, it just perpetuates it.

Seeking women who are *More Likely* to reject you won't fix your wounds. If the gold diggers don't want you, why would a successful and stable woman want you?

Unfortunately that's what we do, we seek things that aren't good for us until we do the work.

I don't know how ugly you are on the outside, but it seems like there is lots of room to beauty up the inside.

SuperPoop · 2024-04-25T14:06:30+00:00

yoga and pilates classes

DragoFlame · 2024-04-25T14:25:24+00:00

If you have to ask, you have no style game or social game. You're in tech so stereotypically that lines up but, how can a tech guy not know how to research and problem solve something so simple?

I say all of this as a software engineer (Black one no less) myself that knows where to find high income women in any developed country given they're always in the same places, careers and doing the same things regardless of race.

I know plenty of ugly guys with physically terrible bodies with high income women so that's not it and a pitiful excuse. Not taking accountability and not trying to improve yourself is the reason you're in the hole going off your posts.

It's mentally weak behavior that is a turn off to anyone that has their stuff together. You sound entitled and also lack the knowledge obvious to anyone ambitious that the things you think would make you a catch don't and are just cherry on top.

You don't sound like someone I as a guy would want to befriend which should explain why women don't want you romantically as that's an even higher bar to clear.

You have to work on yourself because high income people are usually very savy to confidence and social capita. Even behind the screen it's obvious you lack it in spades and just aren't someone an ambitious person of any kind would want around them.

Focus on yourself, step up, stop making excuses, stop whining, see if you can make friends outside your bubble and show yourself as someone that is about it. Otherwise save luck, you're never getting what you want.

Dragon201345 · 2024-04-25T15:25:04+00:00

New Account with one post ever. This must be real guys.

pferden · 2024-04-25T16:20:56+00:00

amralaa1010 · 2024-04-25T17:55:32+00:00

Business department at your company?

United-Development22 · 2024-04-25T21:05:08+00:00

Call me 🥸

CaptainAce954 · 2024-04-25T23:28:49+00:00

Drizzle drizzle 😂

Nullroute127 · 2024-04-25T14:33:35+00:00

Are you sure that income is really a heuristic you want to apply to dating?

Those women in high earning positions tend to be older, more masculine, driven, challenging and demanding of you and your career. They have IME been less fun overall.

Women can only have the power that you give them, and can only be gold diggers if you let them.

There are plenty of women out there who have normal jobs who will appreciate the security of your success, but won't try to take it from you as a sole motivation.

You may be leading with money too often early in your interactions or have a selection bias if you're running into shallow interactions repeatedly.

sweetestmaxx · 2024-04-25T14:34:31+00:00

Best place is nyc tbh. Tons of high earning women in tech.

Title	Where to look for high income women?
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Date	April 25, 2024 12:23 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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