If your wife has a “work husband” assume they will eventually hook up

link6981 · 2024-04-29T05:44:08+00:00

It’s important to set firm boundaries with these 304’s from the beginning. We as men sometimes become complacent and “passive” her words not mine just to avoid arguments. I’ll tell you what brother women are never happy

XingTianMain · 2024-04-27T07:18:34+00:00

Can confirm. As a younger guy I’m still trying to figure out how to have kids and hedge against the woman that will ultimately bear them for me lol

Millhouse201 · 2024-04-27T05:36:01+00:00

Definitely… truer words were never spoken

FaithlessnessNo281 · 2024-04-27T03:32:05+00:00

Most women are eventually gonna get railed whether they have a work husband or not. You ever been to a vacation spot and hooked up with a woman on a girls trip? In my experience the married ones were the ones ready to bring back the first guy who looked at them. I realize it’s not ALL women. But it’s absolutely a vast majority of conventionally attractive women.

ramboton · 2024-04-27T03:12:13+00:00

I wish you would tell my work wife/soccer wife this, because I have been trying with no luck......lol

Reflog1791 · 2024-04-26T22:46:35+00:00

Once they get bored they’ll hook up with anything with a pulse. No honor among hoes.

Confirmed when I went through ex wife’s Facebook search history. There was literally a date when our kid was 18 months old she started searching dozens of random dudes from her past and present.

The big winner was this ex con car mechanic. It wasn’t some country music star or anything that would make sense. Just the first dude who gave her the tingles.

Anyway I saw the evidence it could have been any dude in the county and realized, “she belongs to the streets now.”

I got divorced, banged plenty of hoes, and sleep like a baby. Life moves on and gets better.

FigurativeLasso · 2024-04-26T21:41:28+00:00

Same story.

thrownaway41422 · 2024-04-26T20:31:50+00:00

I've been the work husband before. Not a thing ever happened. She even became friends with my wife and they'd trade stories about me. I knew things could possibly get a little too friendly so I always kept very strict borders between work relationships and personal ones because of that. I was also incredibly open about everything with my wife and told her everything we did. I also never talked about any issues I was having with my wife . Unfortunately, my wife thought she'd never ever cheat or anything so she didn't need to keep those barriers. The lies and hiding stuff about how much they were doing outside of work (I don't even know what all it was but if you're lying about it, it isn't good) are the entire reason why she is now my ex-wife.

Long-Review-1861 · 2024-04-26T20:08:17+00:00

Remember even if they speak badly about the guy, he's still on her mind and it's usually to throw you off the trail and to stop enquiring.

One of my exs kept telling me about this "loser" that she felt sorry for, he was revolting to her and she just enjoyed using him and he was so pathetic to keep giving her money.

Turns out almost a year in, i looked through her phone and she had a relationship with this guy even though he was engaged for several years. When she would come back from work she would hop immediately in the shower, she just came back from fucking him.

The guy knew about me and she didn't speak bad about me in the messages to him and she seemed to really like me.

The photos and videos i saw made me never trust a women's words again.

She had a whole other life, she was an incredible liar. I think she was a sociopath or covert narcissist.

Before looking at her phone, it was one of the most seemingly healthy relationships I've ever been in.

Turned out i was being played for a fool and i had no idea.

When i found out, she had the most evil smirk that i had never seen before, a sort of dupers delight. Just a sickening and fucked up situation. You wouldn't believe me unless you had gone through something similar. Insanity all around

Braves_Birds1985 · 2024-04-26T20:03:34+00:00

That’s why I’m single. Was told multiple times it was a “running group” and I should have just went with my gut. Lesson learned and on to being the best dad I can be.

CrazySanta7 · 2024-04-26T19:37:14+00:00

"He's just a friend".

Many women, even married women, have 'friends' and 'followers' as back up plans. Women get hit on non stop, even when married. Some men don't give af. Women are in the workforce more and get hit on there also. If your relationship or marriage is not going well, they have 5 dudes they could have sex with that night. Unfortunately, male validation is currency to most women. Maybe guys would be the same if they had multiple women hitting on them every day, but thats not the case for 99.9% of men.

kublakhan1816 · 2024-04-26T19:25:10+00:00

Sorry brother. I’ve had women call me their work husband and I’m like we are just friends. Don’t use that phrase.

Capable_Luck_2817 · 2024-04-26T19:24:07+00:00

Exactly what happened to me. I never felt threatened by the guy or anything, because he objectively had less going on than I do (and I was a good partner). Ultimately, it made no difference.

RichardCleveland · 2024-04-26T18:42:06+00:00

I hate that shit. It's like you should be able to trust someone dedicated to you to never act on something like that. And when those situations arise we tell ourselves how ridiculous it is even think such a thing... we are insecure of course. And then eventually it eats you up inside, you become obsessive over the entire idea and it drives you insane. So what then? Well you start to try and look for evidence, doing everything you shouldn't in a relationship built on trust. Find something? Maybe... but it doesn't matter if it's real or not as no matter how insignificant it is you connect the dots and BAM your fears are confirmed. So now what? You sit around trying to find the courage, filled with anxiety to approach her. The evidence coming from "spying / snooping etc" and totally "paranoid" driven. If you are wrong... you just broke her trust and cracked the very foundation of your marriage. If you are right? She will deny it and berate you for snooping / spying and tell you that you are WRONG, making you question... everything.

Yet... this entire time she has been fucking her boss.

A tale as old as time.

Title	If your wife has a “work husband” assume they will eventually hook up
Author	cnarsystems
Upvotes	68
Comments	42
Date	April 26, 2024 6:23 PM UTC (2 years ago)
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