I just want to give some hope to the men out there with fears of what the future will hold.

I was married for 10 years to my high school sweetheart. I think we both just settled because we thought that was what we were supposed to do. Last year she said she wanted a divorce and obliged. It was tough. I thought we could fight through it but I was wrong. It took me awhile but I found myself again.

Over three months ago I met the woman of my dreams. She’s safe, reassuring, gorgeous, fun, sane interests (hell, we play Fortnite all the time lol). I see the best future with her. She came out of nowhere.

If you’re struggling, just know there is hope out there for a better future. In the meantime, focus on yourself, love yourself, surround yourself with friends and family. Don’t turn your heart to stone. Good luck out there brothers.