Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men?

leosandlattes · 2024-07-14T13:44:04+00:00

Flair changed from Discussion to Q4M since the question is directed at men.

Could you make a small edit to your post to bring up the AutoModerator?

boom-wham-slam · 2024-07-14T13:54:50+00:00

This makes no sense.

K4matayon · 2024-07-14T13:52:51+00:00

You think bi women don't find tall men attractive?

obviousredflag · 2024-07-14T13:49:53+00:00

Why not tell them to date blind women?

Hatefuleight-36 · 2024-07-14T15:48:12+00:00

Most bi women have similar standards in men as straight women, the premise of this post is already entirely false on its face.

Pegmaster6969696969 · 2024-07-14T14:45:21+00:00

Are you saying that bi and queer women date conventionally unattractive men?

the cute, dorky gaming nerd.

Women who say they're into "dorky gaming nerds" mean something like this

biscuitcatapult · 2024-07-14T14:29:27+00:00

This has the same energy as men telling women who have dating struggles to just start dating uglier men.

fundamentally_comfy · 2024-07-14T18:23:30+00:00

From my experience, these women still want insanely good looking men, like K-Pop idols or anime boys, or just conventionally masculine men.

shockingly_bored · 2024-07-14T17:32:44+00:00

many bi women are less likely to find Chad attractive, and would most probably be more into the cute, dorky gaming nerd.

Why would that possibly be the case. They're still women.

Electric_Death_1349 · 2024-07-14T14:03:19+00:00

Date a dungaree-wearing, blue haired radfem bulldyke? No thanks.

Incarnate24 · 2024-07-14T14:06:06+00:00

What? I’ve FWB bi and queer women & they like the same stuff other women do. I will say they’re more appreciative of having certain feminine aspects, but only secondary to still desiring the primary masculine aspects women universally find attractive

meisterkraus · 2024-07-14T14:23:46+00:00

Me not dating a bi/ queer women has nothing to to do with me but them not wanting to date me.

Cunning_Linguists_ · 2024-07-14T16:28:07+00:00

Men do date bi women, it's women who won't date bi men... lol

Upset_Material_3372 · 2024-07-14T18:06:35+00:00

How does a man date someone who doesn’t like men??

jymssg · 2024-07-14T22:35:14+00:00

How about no

nightcall379 · 2024-07-14T15:20:57+00:00

Unlike most cis straight women, many bi women are less likely to find Chad attractive

"Are you sure about that?"

From what I have observed, bi-women are not that obsessed with how many conventional masculine standards a guy fits.

Attractiveness is not masculinity

thedarkracer · 2024-07-14T14:17:55+00:00

Why do you think bi women will not find chads attractive more than the average ones?

Smut_Police · 2024-07-14T15:18:36+00:00

Because he isn't attracted to them?

Just because you can't have something doesn't mean you stop wanting it or will settle for things that you don't want at all.

Muscletov · 2024-07-14T16:01:24+00:00

I can't think of worse advice if I tried. Even "just be yourself" and "wait for the right girl to come along" is better advice than trying to date women who tend to harbor even more misandry than average ones. Doubly so if you're an unattractive man.

Unable_Evidence_4028 · 2024-07-16T02:13:24+00:00

Most heterosexual guys have no interest in anything but cis women and they would prefer without a doubt a feminine woman, even if we are annoyed to hell and back by them, you cant argue with instinct.

We may fuck "alternative girls" that are still still cisgender but bi/pan but well, it is just for sex for a reason. They are extremely politically and socially active, the exact opposite of what many men would like or want.

I agree that they may be easier, but well, so are fat women, ugly women and old women. And you dont question why we dont go for them right?

Gold_Supermarket1956 · 2024-07-14T15:24:42+00:00

Because bi and queer women are usually obese as fuck and hate men... most bi women like females more over men unless the man fits a very specific checklist

Clear-Poet-9212 · 2024-07-14T14:17:22+00:00

All women are bi or lesbians.

Swordfromthecement · 2024-07-14T14:23:33+00:00

I don’t feel like bi/queer women immediately disqualify me for being short the way that many cis women do; but i still have to meet their other standards.

qwertyuduyu321 · 2024-07-14T14:56:11+00:00

Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men?

make it make sense.

OkProfessional9405 · 2024-07-14T17:40:35+00:00

I went through a phase of trying to date only bisexual women. The main goal being to have a steady stream of threesomes.

All I can say is mo-women mo-problems. The bi/lesbian community is complicated with many land mines to step on and ways of insulting a gender fluid person. You really need to immerse yourself in a way of thinking that is very foreign to most men and quite frankly a bit uncomfortable. There's more than a little misandry in the lesbian community.

After securing the main objective I was ready to move on. The sex part was the easy part. Keeping everyone happy outside of the bedroom was the nearly impossible part. Women can get turned off and want you to pick sides in an instant over the littlest things.

PattayaVagabond · 2024-07-14T17:33:45+00:00

Ur talking about betas. Betas already get laid. The majority of men getting laid are betas. Incels are sigmas/omegas.

Title	Men who are not conventionally attractive, why not date a bi woman/queer women who are into men?
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Date	July 14, 2024 10:51 AM UTC (2 years ago)
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