I (20M) will quit seduction. Here’s why:

Have you ever heard of the “everybody has something they are good and bad at”? Many find themselves struggling with math while some others are good at it. Some are really good with sports and others aren’t. Well game/seduction is something Im not good at all.

I have been in this subreddit for almost 2 years trying to find an answer or a way to get good at it and it hasn’t helped me in a single way. Have watched videos, and even read books. None of that worked. I eventually understood that theory does not work so I tried the only thing that would “work” which is taking action. Not even taking action worked for me. Always got rejected and never had a girl interested in me.

You guys may be thinking “ohh this guy has such poor confidence” although reality is I like my personality and what I offer to people. What may be true is the simple fact that my good traits aren’t sexy or attractive to women. I mean Im also short and skinny so my physique never helped.

What Im trying to say is that if you feel you are getting nowhere with the seduction game then you should probably just stop. Don’t let it consume you and fall for the same mistake as I did. Invest in yourselves and study something for a greater good. Women are not the prize. You will eventually feel happier whenever lust is not present in your life no more.