I’ve been divorced for about 6 months now , I just recently found out i got transferred to another location at my job, there happens to be this female colleague that I say hi to everyday nothing more than that. Well today another male colleague of mine pulls me over and says hey do u want her number? I was like who? And guess who it was, it was the female colleague, I guess she wanted my number… Long story short we get to texting, she’s asking me a bunch of 21 questions, saying how I was cute and all this, I come to find out she is currently married and is going through a “rough patch” in the marriage and just wants a “ friend”. I ended that real quick but I just come to the realization that what if my ex wife was pulling this same crap while we were going through it. While you gents are going through your life thinking everything is a ok your wife is planning an exit plan.