How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?

Kylearean · 2024-08-28T15:40:50+00:00

If you go out with a plan to get laid, you're going to be disappointed often.

If you go out with a plan to meet as many people as possible, have good conversations, go on some small adventures, you're going to have a good time.

hunterpua · 2024-08-28T16:25:36+00:00

If you can smile, laugh, and make others laugh then the issue is not that you can't get even more high energy, it's that you don't know how to have an awesome impression on people on command because you don't know what it is that causes that in the first place.

I've had amazing interactions that went my way when I was sleep deprived, I've had them immediately out of the gym from a hard leg day, like actually hard, not the kind of workout where you feel energised afterwards, the kind where you're actually exhausted, and I've just had great interactions when I was generally more tired/more low energy.

Its a common misconception that you need high energy to have a great interaction with someone.

The reality is whether you're high energy or low energy you have options.

That's because having a great interaction with someone isn't about being boisterous and entertaining people, it's about bonding on commonalities, playfully challenging them, making them enjoy doing things for you, and smoothly sexually escalating, if you're interacting with someone you're attracted to.

You don't need a lot of energy to do any of that.

And if you need a lot of mental energy for that, that just means you don't have a lot of experience, because as you get more experienced, the things you do to charm and arouse women and to have awesome interactions with people in general become second nature and they hardly require any mental energy at all.

So educate yourself on what actually makes great impressions on people and just interact with people and women you're attracted to more.

Chickenbeans__ · 2024-08-28T17:14:50+00:00

Gratitude journal and exercise

halfwayup37 · 2024-08-28T16:02:21+00:00

Can’t stress visualizing enough. Just like an athlete. Close your eyes. Imagine yourself being confident, funny, kind. You get better at it the more you do it.

If you imagine yourself being shy, awkward .. what do you think you’ll portray?

Take a bathroom break midway through the date and refresh the visualization

Tatleman68 · 2024-08-28T22:47:49+00:00

Remembering positive memories from the past bro

TheGentleman557 · 2024-08-28T22:14:25+00:00

Little different here. I can channel my flat feelings into a strange nihilistic outgoing vibe. I tend to hand out compliments in this state really well and the delivery is so nonchalant women tend to respond to it because they mistake unhinged for confidence lol. Also when I hand out compliments when I feel this way they have a strong "i don't wanna fuck I just want to tell you this" vibe and I dunno, think that makes them want to jump my bones more. The fact I don't care? Lmao who knows. Point being sometimes that different energy can open up doors the positive energy cant

Hour_One_9504 · 2024-08-28T15:18:26+00:00

I do 6 shots then go club with the boys. Go to the dance floor and usually woman pull up on me dancing. Then just viibbbeeee

SuperPoop · 2024-08-28T16:39:22+00:00

its a tough thing to do by yourself. talking with friends or chatting with strangers puts me in a better state.

If you are by yourself, I've found good standup comedy, funny tv shows, or stupid youtube videos helps a bit to have a more care-free mindset. Good music can help too

_theMAUCHO_ · 2024-08-29T12:24:25+00:00

Workout before getting ready/showering. Its like having a superpower.

tromphel · 2024-08-29T13:27:42+00:00

Music for me helps at lot. I usually listen to some Korean rap (or k-pop) and that immediately brightens up my mood.

drueberries · 2024-08-30T02:36:49+00:00

Sing!

epimpstyle · 2024-08-28T16:53:45+00:00

I can't get to that high positive energy that makes wonders.

You don't need such a high positive energy just a little above average.

How do you get in the right vibe? How do you go full steam positive energy?

Do some push-ups and jumping jacks, listen to your favorite music (electro or house music), take a cold shower now go out to meet new people.

MouseAware809 · 2024-08-28T17:15:30+00:00

Meditation before I go out. Start off with basic warm up approaches and small talk at start. Then the night just sort of unfolds. It's like an adventure

I might also watch a bit of "Keys to the VIP" on YouTube.

liftingnstuff · 2024-08-28T17:24:35+00:00

Exercise. Warm up during the day by talking/giving compliments to strangers, even without the intention of doing game. If I'm ubering to the venue I'll chat with the uber driver. Sometimes I'll uber a ten minute walk away from the venue and talk to people on the way there.

rzerx · 2024-08-28T19:15:42+00:00

You can pump the energy up by doing affirmations which helps big time. Also try doing the mirror technique where you stand in front of a mirror and say affirmations to yourself. That has helped a lot of people

edjohn88 · 2024-08-28T23:11:45+00:00

Kratom

nunsaymoo · 2024-08-29T00:51:57+00:00

Adderall.

Solomonthewise7 · 2024-08-29T02:24:51+00:00

Takes about 5 minutes

MouseAware809 · 2024-08-29T09:58:39+00:00

The downvotes in this thread is amazing.

MemoryCrafty · 2024-08-31T09:02:43+00:00

Please never ever try to change your feelings or energy levels. Accept them and focus on other people instead. Trying to change your feelings is linked to mental health issues. It will not help you in the long run.

SnooHesitations4922 · 2024-08-28T18:09:47+00:00

You don't. Keep your energy positive yet level without raising your ki; nice and relaxed like you are enjoying a visit to Grandma's house. Pumping up your energy is for the gym or cheering on the home team.

If u lift your energy when dealing with women u create the "try hard" aura that makes their eyes roll because when u do that you are making the impression u are taking the feminine role of being the chaser.

MO_drps_knwldg · 2024-08-28T18:10:34+00:00

A hard workout. Also visualizing positive elements about your life and personality

TonyGTO · 2024-08-28T22:01:13+00:00

I get laid more often when I listen to music and dance before a date.

theasianplayboy · 2024-08-28T15:47:20+00:00

To get in the right vibe before going out, it’s all about finding a ritual that gets you pumped and ready. For me, I watch Victoria’s Secret lip sync videos (something about watching beautiful girls and listening to upbeat music puts me in a good mood), dressing up like I’m going into battle, and be bopping to the rhythm of the music once I’m inside.

It’s about getting into that state where you’re ready to have fun, no matter what. Others, like Captain Dan, might jump on a trampoline or do pushups. Find what works for you, stick to it, and you’ll see the difference.

If you want to dig deeper into handling approach anxiety, check out this video: How Do I Get Rid Of Approach Anxiety?.

Ampboy97 · 2024-08-28T15:56:58+00:00

Drugs and/or alcohol

maxreddit0609 · 2024-08-28T17:57:37+00:00

So I actually do something a bit different.

Instead of looking at the day to pump up my energy before I go out, I approach it as, I’m going out to cold approach, I go do that and warm up by saying hi to random people, giving compliments, or starting random small talk with anyone without any expectations to get my energy up… then after a few of those and when I feel good enough I focus more on actually cold approaching a girl I find attractive

Title	How do you pump your positive energy up before going out?
Author	Hellharicot
Upvotes	71
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Date	August 28, 2024 3:14 PM UTC (1 year ago)
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